Some of the fantasies I've read are a simply huge turn on, but throughout any non-fantasy thread runs the clear note of caution. For example, in a moment of passion, sucking off one's T-lover must be a powerful urge. What are the prospects of picking up HIV or Herpes with that ? Another question - what palliatives or chemical preventatives exist to make oral sex safe ? My information is way out of date on this. Fear can be a big
