You are right Hank. Objectively, any action taken by a woman is a "feminine" act - so working on cars, spitting, cussing, knitting, giggling, shopping are all equally masculine and feminine. In fact I just completed the most feminine act of adjusting my balls in my panties (I really hate when they silp a bit and then you cross your legs and end up pinching them..
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). The actions do (or should) not determine gender, it is the actors who do.
Even so ... topping makes me woosey.. I need to lie down