revealing luv of transexual to friends and family?
 

I thought I would ask if anyone had experience in revealing to family and friends your attraction to transexuals. I basically have been out with girls my entire life and still feel attracted to them, but I have a strong attraction to transexuals as well. It started with porn, but I've had a few real life encounters and I love it.

I am pretty nevrous about revealing my secret desires to anyone, but does anyone have any stories to share?

Well, really, I would figure that unless your getting really serious with a t-girl, why even mention it? It's something that really only affects you. And also you should take your girlfriends wishes in the matter as well. She may not want you to say anything about it. But there are some things that might force the issue.

But if you want to tell your family, go for it. I'm pretty sure that you already know how they're gonna react.

think long and hard about this!!!

thanks
 

Thanks for the advice, i am thinking very carefully about it and wouldn't do it on a whim. I've kind of revealed to a few few close friends that I have been with trannies but they are pretty discreet about it. I get the feeling if I want to be more open about my desires that it will become more known in my bigger circle of friends and family

I'm reasonably out (i'm bi)- my family dosen't care really, and neither do my friends who know. You need to consider how any tgirl you date would feel if you are too out, and also be aware genetic girls really don't like it so you can forget about dating them. You'll be a gay man in most peoples eyes.

I have told a few friends, and they are fine with it, just depends on the person

yeah, the girls thinking i am gay is a little bit of an issue. I had a short-term relationship with a cd, who later went on to become a TS and it was an issue that she didn't go out with me and my friends. i would go out with her and her friends (mainly gay). But the sex has never been as good as itit was with her. I guess i need to find a middle ground

I have told some of my friends that i like watching transexual porn and i have told some of them that i have a strong desire for sex with a transexual.And they know me as a straight guy. :innocent:
But nobody know i had a lot of sex with them. And nobody know i am bi and had sex with both cd's, boys and men too.
Only one of my cousin who is bi too know that bec. we had sex together several times :rolleyes:
I would like to say my sexual desires to everyone so i can live or date whoever i want. Unfortunately It is impossible for now (i have to live in abroad for that (Europe, USA) )

i don't quite see how this revelation would benefit your relationships in your family. do you talk about sexual conquests with your siblings and parents? if you have that open a family, there's probably no reason to be nervous. still, unless you're planning to elaborate on sucking dick around the holiday table, it may be preferable to confine your social discussions of interest in transsexuals to the anonymous internet. for what it's worth, i had a friend who engaged in an emotional relationship with a TG girl for a few months in college, the fact made its way into the rumor mill but from what i could tell, nobody interpreted it as a comment on his sexuality. surprisingly, the reaction was more benign curiosity than judgment or alienation, at least what i saw of it. having said all this, i can't think of a single reason why it would be logical to disclose to family unless you're in a ltr with a TG who asked you to get it out of the way.