Why are TS ladies rude?
 

Now from experance they all lack manners.

please dont flame me just yet.

i have only spoken to around 10-12 online... chatrooms and MSN that i have got from dating sites. now they ask me for pictures and my msn right away so i believe im off to a good start. however wen talking they always seem rude, lack manners and aren't very polite.

maybe im too demanding of some common decency :confused: however i dont get treated like this by genetic girls. is it because there are soo many men after them? or is it because when some mention sex i as them to slow down (yes some seem to just want sex)

just wondering what other men have found. and what the comments of ladies on here are.

Some of the nicest people that I've ever met are transwomen on this site.

There could be a lot of variables. The first thing, it's good that you call them TS ladies instead of ladyboys, shemales, etc. Usually saying one of those words will you get on the blacklist, lol.

I used to frequent a TS dating chatroom. A lot felt as though the men were stupid, only wanting one thing, merely things to toy with online, etc. and didn't take the whole online dating thing seriously. My real life friend is like this, and she's a tgirl too. She'll first ask for a picture right off the bat, and if she doesn't like it, she moves on. Shallow, huh? She feels she's above the men who try to talk to her.

There were a couple escorts in the chat room too, and distance didn't matter, but they got men to pay for trips, phone calls, etc. Most of them were pretty crazy in the head, and if you disagreed with anything they said, they'd go on a total tangent the whole night, calling their johns-in-waiting and actually talk about the chat room on the phone with them while the webcam was running. I wouldn't waste my time on any of them if I were you. If you're wanting more than just sex talk (or hearing their money woes), which it sounds like you do, avoid them.

Tgirls have had it rough. It's no excuse, but we don't take bullshit very lightly, and that's what a lot of men online only have to offer. The rude ones are by no means representative of all of us. Everyone has their bad days.

Oh, and if it makes any difference - I met my current love interest in a chatroom online. No surprise, we fought a lot before cuz he wasn't putting up with my dismissive attitude (I wasn't really putting faith in the whole online love thing at the time). Needless to say his persistance grew on me and we're pretty much in love now.

thanks hun. all valid stuff you say. not that the picture puts them off. they usually get quite keen. its the "you free now" or call me for phone sex" at that point i explain i want more than just sex.

seems like the only place to meet is online tho.. hohum.

this site yeh. i said dating sites

mmmmm
 

well,the best thing is not to pissed them off,then they are really nice

I chated with some girls at imlive.com and they are all nice and polite to me. I handle them as real women and i think thats the point that counts.

Bingo give this man a cigar, As a pre opt that's what i want, To be treated like a real woman not a curio or sextoy, On those date sites that is how and what a lot of the men want and you may have just had the bad luck and picked some who are jaded, Hang in there Jennifer

I don't have much experience at meeting TS ladies, primarily because there are so few, if any, where I live. Though I did have an opportunity in Boston a few years back.

I have to say, even that chance meeting was pleasant.

Like the rest of of, they are human too. We all have our off days. Just perhaps, the one you met was having an off day.

Why would we be rude? Well I hope it's not ALL the time.
Let's see, we change because we have to for survival and in doing so we loose most of our friends,(so narrow minded you know) and it's not enough that they leave us, they have to continually harrass us also. I've been kicked out of my family, lost a few jobs because of it, kicked out of the local stores a few times, thrown off a balcony, broke two ribs, had my car destroyed, rocks thrown through my windows. Got thrown out of a bar because I kicked a guy in the nuts for feeling my crotch and telling the whole world. Been spit on and punched.
And now you are surprised that my generally good disposition sometimes goes :p:p:p:p:p:p

Hmmm... you must be chatting with others than I normally meet online... ;-) Have you considered language-problems if you are primarily chatting with ladies from else where?

Transsexuals are certainly no more rude than any one (except maybe the funky Melissa character here at this forum ;-).

Take it in your strive, mano!

Peace!

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Now THAT'S my girl! MMMWWWAAA!:respect:

very stronger girl. u got my respect that you go on to be a tgirl :respect:

Well sometimes ya meet people who are well just rude, thats a part of life.
Also when your talking to someone through just text such as online in an msn conversation or an e-mail, its often the case that you might say something and the other person could take it the wrong way.
Its like if i said, " your so ugly hahaha" , and you got that in an email you might take it as an insult, but if i was just speaking to you in person then you would know i was only joking.

Language is a big issue when speakng to someone online, there is also the language barrier, maybe your or the other persons english isnt perfect.
And in fairness most people who talk online are usually just living out a fantasy that they dont plan on living in real life, or else they are simply looking to get off or arrange a sex meet.

You cant just paint all people with the one colour, it depends. Also alot of these ladies dont have it that easy, they are going through chages adjusting to a new life style, so its understandable that they could be "moody", but as any man should know, all women are moody and emotional hahahaha.
So it shouldnt be any surprise to you. I think its best that you just try and be friendly, and if your only after sex or whatever, than be up front with them. If simply just want to chat, then go for that, tell them up front and be honest.

people are people and most are pretty much hung on themselves bo. thats just how it goes, but im glad cuz thats how i make money! sales is all about making someone think they are the best thing since shecock. hahahahah get ppl talking bout themselves and ur in for atleast 20min, cuz really you are selling yourself to get a chance to develope a relationship

Why are TS ladies rude?
 

In my experience, I've never talked to a rude shemale. I've talked to many online and they were pretty much all very nice. And the one I met and had fun with in real life, earlier this year, was one of the sweetest people I've ever met...naughty but with a lovely sweet personality!:drool:

I've found that if you are open and honest and not rude yourself, people will be nice to you...that even goes with the anonymity of the internet.

Rude T women?
 

I am a T woman living in the midwest United States. I do not consider myself rude. but have run into some rude people on the internet. I have been chatting with "admirers" over the last several years. Please dont take this the wrong way, but dont let your dick do all your thinking. A lot of the time a friendly chat on an IM turns into cybersex for the guy, telling me what he is going to do to me, in graphic detail. Save the sex talk for the bedroom. I am not into cyber. Dont try to blow smoke.
Now dont get me wrong, I can be a slut in the bedroom, but I expect to be treated as a Lady in public. If you set a date with a T woman, show up, on time, and treat her like an angel in public and she will be a devil in the bedroom. You would be amazed how many times I have had a guy set a date and then stand me up.