My friends know. Actually two of them (girl and guy), want to go to Bangkok and take me with them for my first experience. I also want to have a TS lover. It's not only about sex, it's about love too.

I think my closest freind suspects, actually i want her to know, but she said she doesnt like Tgirls. We often look at yaoi together, but i only do it to see the cocks!

I came out as bi when I was 18. I let everybody I know that by Bi I meant that I'd also have sex with shemales. I was so scared and in the end Everybody was like "so". I wish I would've stated who I was when I was younger.

I envy you
 

You seem like you've got what a lot of us men wanted years ago - a pathway to a stable, normal relatioship with a Tgirl you're attracted to and love.

Its too late for me, but I long to see you and your kind prosper.

Lucky bastard :)

No one but people I've met online. I'm married with a child and at least for now, I'd like to keep it that way. I don't really think I'd have a problem with most people knowing, but I know it would pull apart my family. I've hinted to my wife about some of this stuff in the past and even the slightest thing that seems off center to her, just freaks her out.

Oh well, maybe some day I'll reveal myself.

hah! you too eh!

it would fuck up too much in my personal life and those i am involved with wouldnt understand it - so i keep it to myself

Nobody and i will keep it that way. It's my little sex secret and fetish.
I would explain it to the people if 90% of the people wouldn't think trannies are guys which are dressing into woman, but now it doesn't make sense.

No one knows in real life. People are too close minded and judgmental when it comes to male sexuality.

Come to think of it, about every friend I have that's male knows about my fondness for t-girls. The only reason my female friends are unaware is because I'm usually not really one to get down and dirty in conversating with ladies about sex and pornography and stuff like that...but heck, if the subject ever comes up I wouldn't have a problem letting them know. Not that they can sleep better at night knowing what it is I like to jerk off to, and not that it's my life goal to get everything out in the open, still, I don't have a problem admitting it.

The only time I ever had any grief given to me over it was with my exwife...which is odd because she was always a fag-hag and supposedly embraced "alternative lifestyles" with an open mind. However, when it came to me, whenever she got mad at me she'd sometimes say something like "Just go fuck one of your shemales!", which would've been a lot more fun than fucking her I'm sure...still, it was something she tried to use against me. Why? Who knows, but that's the only time anybody has ever said anything negative about it to me.

But quite frankly, unless you're going to go out and hook up with a t-girl and maybe have a lasting relationship, I really don't see the attraction as being something you need to "come out" about with everybody. The only reason my buddies know is because of trash talk about porn or whatever...you know, some of those "What if you picked up a hot chick at some bar, got her home, and she had a dick bigger than your's?" kinds of silly conversations. Like the saying goes: "Nothing is more exciting than your own sexual fantasies, and nothing is more boring than somebody else's." If folks want to keep it to themselves, no harm done I say.

At this point everybody except my co-workers know. I was surprised that I didn't catch much grief,but I think it's cuz my girl is pretty smokin hot and my friends met her before they knew.

Not a single person knows I like ladyboys.

I also love women and the initmacy of being with them, their softness and how they smell, I'm 28 years old, 6'6" tall, got a good job and a gym nut so I do more than ok with women but they don't satisfy me in the sack as much as t-girls do.

No one knows about my interest in T-Girls. Glad to find this forum where others have the same interest.

i was on one of my closest friends laptop and he was logged onto his myspace i opened up the laptop and he was looking at a very cute ladyboy i just plaed it off but i guess he likes them like i do
i never said anything about it but it would be cool to fuck or mess around with a ldayboy with him

Only the trannies ive been with :):coupling:

No - only the trannys I've been with.

nobody. conventional society is still playing the types of forward sexuality. friendly greetings

Where I live now, just my best friend knows. Back when I lived in L.A....everyone knew! lol

sadly no :( i haven't gotten around to telling any of my close friends yet. not sure if i can tell anyone else other then my close friends either

Nobody knows about it, only you her in the forum.

A few friends know.

I have never come right out and said that I like transwomen just as I have never come right out and said that I like GG's. I'm sure my co-workers and friends have an idea as I have brought up trans issues to them. I always talk in respectful manner about transwomen and I always try to present the transwomen's point of view when I talk about trans issues. I also don't hesitate to correct people when they don't refer to transwomen in feminine terms. It's not always easy to correct people and get them to accept what I tell them, but I do persist. I've also found that the more I talk about transwomen the more accepting my friends and co-workers have become.

If anyone ever asks me directy if I like transwomen then my reply will be "yes, I definitely do."

not open to anyone yet... but i think there's a lot of guys out there like ts and keep to themselve.

Yes, the applicable person knows.

Only the forum knows. I have shown a few shemale photos to friends just to see their reaction. Not good! I feel very isolated with my "secret". It would be great to share this interest with a friend but it doesn't appear to be in the cards. :(

Nope, and I think all my friends are narrow minded, so they wouldn't get it

No. Never. In fact I slap myself in the face from time to time just to make sure people don't get the idea I like trans women.

Cats out of the bag now.

The only ones who know are the ones that I am with at the time.

Being with a shemale is TABOO in some circles. Most people arent mature enough to accept shemales. Not talking about guys in drag/CD's, but real life full time shemales. To most liking a shemale is being gay. So immature of people to think that way.

Shemales are so erotic, sensual & a big turn on for me.

my fuckbuddy does cause shes a ts , and some of her freinds know but thats it , its not something im shouting at the top of my lungs and walking in a parade over lol its my business and no one elses....

over a year later than when this thread was started and its still a central topic. A couple of friends know that I like LBs, but I don't think they know i have indulged in it. I make hints to GGs that i date but i would love to have a frank conversation about it with them. i have the same fear that a lot of posts i see here where the GG thinks it means that i cant like them too. as if it has to be GG or LB and not both.

When and how to tell others?
 

For a little more than a month I have been a member of this forum, but my feelings for “tgirls” go back several years. Right now I’m trying to decide the best way to share my interest. I would one day like a long-term relationship or even marriage. But before I can do that, it is important to get “my own head on right” as I said in an earlier post.

After much consideration I am quite sure my own sexual orientation is “straight.” I have always admired beautiful women and for 15 years was married to a very beautiful woman. I have many male friends and have never been sexually attracted to any of them. Also, in college I had friends who were gay but was never attracted to them. Gay porn has never interested me nor do men in “straight” porn. When I look at someone like Kelly Shore, Camila Saenz, or Yeidi Collins, for example, I see a very beautiful and incredibly attractive woman. I consider the fact that they happen to have a penis to not make any difference--it is a part of who they are. I am very confident of my own sexuality and have come to accept these feelings for transwomen as a natural part of who I am.

One thing however, continues to bother me in reading through some of the posts elsewhere on this forum: I gather an underlying sense that a few members believe there is something shameful in being attracted to transwomen. As I said in an earlier post, even the phrase “admirer” troubles me somewhat--it sounds kind of like “loser” or “stalker” or worse. I have included some personal information about myself in my profile because, as I’ve said before, I don’t think “admiring” someone as beautiful as say, Kelly Shore, is anything to be ashamed of--and I sure as hell don’t think I qualify as a “loser” or “stalker.” Yes, that’s really me and I really do teach at a major university. I played football in college and still workout regularly. Among my “toys” are a 2007 Harley “Fatboy” and 2004 Corvette. I’m not sure I qualify as “wealthy” (divorces are costly) but I have a six-figure income and live a very good life. And I’ve never had any problem meeting women or getting dates.

From reading other people’s profiles and what they’ve written, I gather that there are many well educated and successful people on this forum. Seriously, I would be interested in knowing how you deal with your attraction--especially if you have ever dated or had a long-term relationship with a transwoman. Did you ever tell your family? How did it affect your friendships with others or your career? What kinds of problems (if any) did you run into when you went out? We have a “LGBT” organization on campus and I think most of my colleagues and students would be accepting--much as they are concerning gays and lesbians. I have three friends (two male, one female) that I think I could share with. I am waiting for an “icebreaker” such as the Cold Case “prom” episode from a few years ago or the CSI episode that featured Kate Walsh playing a transwoman. There is supposed to be a movie coming out soon starring Nicole Kidman as the “first male-to-female transsexual.” This could lead to friendly conversation which in turn could lead to…

If anyone has any advice or experience on how to tell others, I’d love to hear about it. Thanks! :cool:

yup
 

An ex-gf is the only one I'm completely open with about liking TS. I started well after her and I broke up amicably, and she's my closest friend. We've discussed anal, giving oral (bj only, she's not into other girls) and even comparing largest cock size of partners. Since I was with her in the past, and have no allusions about myself, I knew I was not going to be her pick for largest cock.

I however, had more variety with white, latin, asian and bi-racial, but she still took the win. Can't say I'm too disappointed either.

:coupling:

My only advice is to let her make the first move in telling people. Sometimes my t-gf doesn't want ppl to know and sometimes it is important to tell. Either way it's her thing to tell or not.

nobody else knows.

Maybe more people know then you think
 

I my self am a secret admirer and would love to have what it took to be a very pretty one myself, but I Know that you are setting yourself up for a whole lot of hurt if you go down that road and couldn't pass as a girl on your best day. So having said that, I would stay on this side and just admire them, but if you are around people long enough they are bound to catch on to something of what you are doing and lets face it folks
who is likely to just have suspicions and then say to you, I have picked up on a few things that make me think that you may like transsexuals. Now instead they will just hold their suspicions and talk about you behind your back . I have found that most things I thought I was really hiding from close friends and family were not a secret to them, they pretty much knew all along.

ummm
 

Nope. Only friends on transladyboy, know i like ts.:turnon: I put ts wallpaper on desktop, when buds come over they compliment her, makes me feel good. I try to leave hints:turnon:

One friend of mine knows.

Nope, no one knows.

No, and I think only the craved and loved shemale should know it.

nope, nobody knows i'm a ladyboy lover. The only one who may know is this ts who is attracted to me. I didnt know she was ts, but had already fallen in love with her:inlove:. I come to this website to learn about ts, and how to be a ts lover. I dont know if I could handle it.....anyone finding out. I guess I have to chose between love:heart: and "what people think of me":rolleyes:.

I'm going through this right now. Do I care more about my reputation or my body/mind telling me I like this girl. It breaks my heart thinking about it. I'm so ashamed that I can't bring myself to follow my heart. :broken:

Why hide ??
 

Although I don't broadcast my love of ts and lb's, most all my close friends, and obviously all my ts and lb ones know... As for love though, I think for personal happiness, 1 must hide nothing. Just because society may or does frown on it, is no reason to avoid 1's feelings,,,,,just my opinion of course :)

Quite a few since I work at a GLBT bar part time. I don't advertise the fact, but I won't lie about it either. :cool::cool:

Well, I'm not so strong about it as Hank, but of course the family and friends of my tgirlfriend know that I love her. So... About my friends and family I'm still thinking about a good way to let them know.

Only my sister knows. Some other people might suspect but I doubt that.

Who knows?
 

Not a soul...

Lols Bionca... You so silly. :p

Yes everyone I care about know I like transsexual women. Not to mention the cis men and women too. :p

And honestly I would only date men like the three of you. Because if I'm secure in myself to be open about who I am and who I'm attracted to. Than why shouldn't the person I'm with be too.
And I wish every one thought like you three. Cause you are the allies that the LGBTQA community needs. :respect: :hug:

Well if you became open and active about it. I'm sure you'd find yourself that trans girlfriend your looking for. :p

As I was telling a friend on this site in a chat we were having recently, a colleague at my university surprised me with a question just the other day.

A bit of background. My university was one of the first in the United States to codify, in school rules and statutes, protections for LGBT students, faculty, and staff against discrimination and any sort of hateful behavior, and to establish very stern punishments for violators of those rules. When we did that, a very long time ago, I was the first faculty member to join with the staff member who initiated the campaign.

Last week, an issue came up at school involving a transgender student and a laboratory maintenance worker who called her a hateful name. I sit on the board that investigates these matters, and I went to a meeting to determine what to do. After the meeting, I had lunch with a colleague. He asked me what I had been doing that morning, and I told him.

He looked at me and said, "I've been meaning to ask you this for 10 years. Do you like trannies? Or did you start all that stuff purely out of your commitment to human rights?"

I laughed, and he turned a bit red.

I told him that I would have done it regardless of whether I had an attraction to transsexual women (I corrected him on his use of terms), but that, yes, I happen to have such an attraction.

"Oh," he said.

After lunch, as we were walking back to our offices, he turned to me again and said, "I think I know someone you might like to meet."

He was trying to set me up on a date. :lol: