One question that i know that many of us ask ourself
 

Ok here's a question which I'm sure that many of us have ask ourselfs once a while.

What would my life had been if i never found out about trannys? Now don't get me wrong i like shemale, but sometimes after playing with my dildos and thinking that is a shemale dick, i feel bad :no: .

I don't know why i feel like that but happens a lot, and i tell my self that i would never do it again but i keep on doing it.

Now i own 2 dildos, i have half of my hard drive FULL with tranny photos and videos, i was almost discovered about my secret, sometimes i don't even want to see normal porn i get bored, sometimes you get confused gay or not (you know the typical question), after playing with my dildos i ask my self: why did i just did that?

Those are my thoughts, like i said don't get me wrong i still like shemales, but i have my doubts.

What do you guys thinks and what are your doubts ?

i feel sometimes same with you. I say myself "i ll not do it again" bec. i feel so guilty and i say " you are a man, go and fuck with girls" after fucking with a shemale :)
But i like shecocks so much and their femininity way.i can't take myself from them.
So there is nothing to do :innocent:
I love shemales, transvestites, femboys, crossdressers :innocent:
I ll continue loving them forever :yes: :respect:
Thats all !!!

It's a very valid question because it's rooted to some of our deepest brain architecture and social conditioning.

Guilt is a complex and vexing emotion or umbrella term for a set of emotions. It's an affective state that scientists believe sets us apart from other species of the animal kingdom.

For someone aged 18, based on what you said, I sense you're already surprisingly well into the trans phenomenom, which means you'll probably go far with it.

At the moment, though, you're just discovering a larger world. I can remember being 18. It feels like yesterday. I just turned 26. Guess I'm still a baby, then. Maybe an older and more experienced person like Hank should set this matter straight?

Do you ever imagine a proper relationship with a t-girl? How do non-sexual things feel in your imagination? What about sensual things? What, even, about simple things? Do you ever imagine just going to the shops with her, taking a walk in a park, holding her hand, going to the movies, pinching her nose and having fun?

If it's all sex-based, the shame is probably coming in the moment the sexual thrill recedes -- i.e. just after orgasm. It might be conducive to read some testimonies by people who have actually had or are in productive relationships with transgendered people. That might give you a better sense of "normality" from the perspective of people who are most comfortable with themselves.

If you're really uneasy about this feeling and wish you could simply enjoy t-girls without the guilt, you could also try acting out some simple situations, such as those mentioned above, in your head. What's it like? What's it really like? Does it feel weird? Less pleasurable than dating a girl? Something you couldn't be comfortable and love doing? You should definitely probe further, just to find out what other parts of your mind really feel.

Me? I'm loving it, though still on the look-out for a partner. I don't mind if it's girl or t-girl, provided the person is sweet and engaging (and can tolerate my curmudgeony ways ;) ). I'll tell you what helped me: seeing these lovely creatures in my mind's eye as tender and vulnerable, not guys with dicks (which they're not), not girls or some new category (either of which they really are, depending on how each individual sees themselves, but even that is somewhat superfluous), but actual people with sexy, retiring, fun-loving, feminine, take-care-of-me ways. That's a POWERFUL concept for ANY AND EVERY type of fantasy situation, sexual, non-sexual and everything in between.

Read more, talk more, listen more, believe more and ... ENJOY! :cool:

Thanks translover and TheSkronkDonkey for your thoughts.

Now in response to you TheSkronkDonkey,

Yes I'm only 18. I discovered a large world which 6 years ago i had never thought existed and It is really something different which caught my attention.

Hey, I'm an open minded guy so as far of dating, the idea of having a t-girl as a girlfriend, Sure why not? I'm open to it, although i had never thought about it before but i think it would not bother me at all besides at the end they are girls only with something extra.

Plus you only live once why not enjoy it:yes:

Now, I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND TO DEATH, almost 4 years now (Never thought it could happen :lol:) but I'm just looking for the experience not a relationship, i want to try something new in life, since we all get bored from time to time from the typical routine.

But spite of how i see them, that i know i want with a t-girls and that i have clear in my mind that i like them because of their INCREDIBLE BEAUTINESS (Suzanny Petrovyck kicks my girlfriend ass :lol:) , i feel bad sometimes DON'T KNOW WHY? :no:

I like them, and i have no doubts on my sexual orientation, but after playing with a dildo or :coupling: or watching videos sometimes i feel bad :turnoff: .

That is what keeps me thinking "why do i feel like this?" "Am i doing something wrong to my self?" , I don't want it to be like this all the time, that why i ask my self "what if i had never discovered trannys?".

I know what you are thinking (or i guess), why those silly questions for something that could be momentarily ? I don't know.

At the end, those are my doubts and thoughts, which I'm sure there are not the same for everyone but it leeds all of us to THE QUESTION.

What would my life be if i had never discovered trannys?

More simple? Joyless? Complicated? Boring? Who knows ?!

if you never discovered trannies i beleive your desire would have been manifested some other way. Maybe you would have had eventually asked whatever girl you are with that you want her to wear a strap-on or something like that.

the guilt you feel probably comes from this idea that anal penetration is emasculating you, this can only be overcome by realizing that this belief offers no absolute logical evidence.

Sometimes people, especially men, associate anal penetration with dominance, like the classic story of being made someone bitch in jail by being ass raped. Being a "fag" makes you less as a person. All these ideas are saturated in the mainstream image of masculinity.

So all you have to do is say that's a bunch of bullshit and realize you are even more of a man because you are honest with yourself and you know anal penetration feels good, and its damn sexy if a bomb ass tgirl is givin' it to you.

I mean really when you think about it what is there to feel guilty about?

The funny thins ocinteeni is that the desirer of something new lets say got more intense when i discovered trannys, before yes i had the typical toughts of wild things you know a 3 some or more in bed but just girls nothing more than that. Now that i know about shemale, i look also on girls using strap ons.

Curious do you mention that anal makes think men that we are less a person if we do it , the first year i had that tought in my mind EVERY SINGLE DAY :( but now I'm over it. There's nothing wrong about it I LIKE IT.

My problem is that even though I enjoy it , sometimes after i cum i feel bad like i said don't know why. guilty like if i was doing something wrong. I don;t feel less of a man because I do it, I'm not cheating, I'm just pleasuring my self but yet i feel bad sometimes after doing it and really don't know why