confused in vegas...
 

I am new to this forum and must pose a questions. I am a straight male who is attracted to ladyboys/shemales and would like some opinions on why I am. I really like transgenders and I know I am not gay. I once tried to meet a ladyboy/shemale on a personals forum, but backed out... I have not been in a relationship with a women for over seven years and self gradification is the only sex I have had. Can you all help me??? I thank you in advance of your comments. DWB :rolleyes:

Hi DWB ..

Welcome to the Forum ....

Why do you like T-Girls ? .. you might just as well ask yourself why you like Ice cream, Baseball or any one of a thousand other things ...

I presume you like them simply because you do .. IMHO, there's no need for further analysis ... ;)

As for dating Trans women .. there are plenty of places in "real life" or on the net to begin your search .. This Forum has a "Dating" section .. why not enter your details, together with the type of Girl you'd like to meet .. and see what happens ?? ..

I've never been to Las Vegas .. but I have a feeling that there are likely to be more than a couple of T-Girls in your Town ... :yes:

Good luck in your quest .. & enjoy your stay here .. :respect:

tranny escorts
 

A good place to look around is www.eros.com. Lots of shemales in the big cities. Be prepared to pay for play. I personally have not tried it.
"caution is the better part of valor":rolleyes:

Why are you attracted to Trans*women? Only you can answer. A good point to start would be to ask... "Does this question need an answer?"

Why did you back out on meeting a Trans*lady?

What does it mean to you that you like Trans*women?

confused
 

i think it doesnt matter if u are attracted to shemale and dont know why.
no-one is going to label you or your sexuality, only you can or can not do that.
so enjoy your sexuality. and do not label or judge others who may have a different orientation to you

what is most important
 

The most important thing about all this is that you must find a way to accept yourself for who you are. In the end, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks about you. I urge you to embrace the attraction you have, don't seek to over-analyze yourself, and endeavor to live a life in which everything (safe) is worth trying at least once, whether it's an exotic dish at a restaurant made from ingredients you think you won't like to an exotic relationship with someone who doesn't fit the conventional definition of whatever.

It is a difficult, but necessary, path for us all.

welcome to the club of 'the confused' You've already had some help from two of the finest this forum has to offer. Take a tip from this newbie, I felt the same way two months ago. I'm much more at ease with my 'doubts'' But your not having any female contact in such a long time would lead me to rethink my places to go to hang out for a good time. I might suggest going to a gay AA to find out if your destiny is a disco. And please don't take that as an insult. I'm just aware of a good friend who fought his identity only to find so much time wasted. Aside from that, a wise gal from this site flat out told me who and what I was attracted to, and that the 'extra' appendage was merely a bone-us(I added the last verbage). I still am uncomfortable with bona fide men nude or being pictured with shemales. The two gals who replied earlier, Bionca has a blog site attached to her posts and I read it from time to time. It is disturbing to see the hurt and fear transgenders have to live among. So let the 'straight' guys out here do our part and educate the rest out there. Franalexes, way cool, she'll come across (could be a right cross if you try to BS her) with some great observations and matter of fact advice. Gay or straight, good luck to you. Meanwhile, while your decide-ing, enjoy the ride. Your here because like all of us,you find trangenders a beautiful sight to indulge in. lastly, If I dream of rolling in bed,stroking, fondleing or even sucking HER cock, I still won't consider myself gay. Just happy with a woman with a very long external clitoris.

This is very Sexy yes.

im in vegas and used eros last night, AMAZING, going back for more tonight!

a theory as to why they're so sexy
 

I have a theory about why we find ts's so sexy, and why "confused" is attracted to them even though he finds it puzzling... I believe it is because ts's have demonstrated unequivocally and dramatically that they are absolutely one hundred per cent committed to the concept of being "female" -- and it's more exciting when we can see they didn't start out female, because that proves how determined they are to be the best woman they can possibly be... You won't see these beauties slouching around with no makeup and ratty jeans -- they want to be as PRETTY as they can be, and we love it!

I hate to answer your question with a question but......Which came first, the chicken or the egg?

God granted me a little time on earth, why should I waste it wondering why I like shemales. I do, simple as that, I accept it, and enjoy it.

I read this with my hair up, no makeup on wearing sweat pants....
:cool:

brava!
 

Thank you, Bionca, for deflating the objectification put forth by boygirltoygirl, and for doing it with such aplomb. :respect:

And I am sure you still looked beautiful, Bionca! ;) :hug:

And the truth is she was only half-focused on it, because she was REALLY engrossed in her latest comics!
After all, a geek girl has to have her priorities! :p