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tlover 01-04-2008 06:56 PM

What is your view on sex with a tgirl prostitute?
 
I find it strange that a lot of guys on this forum have expressed revulsion and are morally outraged at the thought of sex with a shemale who is a prostitute.
Personally as long as its safe sex i cant see the problem, and i belive a large proportion of tgirls are on the game at some point, probably to pay for the very expensive surgeries and treatments to turn them into the fascinating creatures you all love to ogle in this forum.
Lets be realistic most of the famous tgirls we know are or have been on the game, if not they turn to making sex videos setting up web sites, web cams or a bit of everything to make money.
Its all part of the sex industry, its all exploitation, they are exploiting us and we are exploiting them, anyway everybody exploits everybody else in some way so whats the difference.
To put these same girls down for making money from their body's and then to ogle over them i think is hypocritical.
Ive never actually paid for sex but if i had to i would.
I think i will probably end up paying for an experience with a tgirl at some point, as far as i see i get the hopefully enjoyable experience i want and she gets the cash she wants, whats the problem?

gizmo 01-05-2008 04:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tlover (Post 11255)
I find it strange that a lot of guys on this forum have expressed revulsion and are morally outraged at the thought of sex with a shemale who is a prostitute.
Personally as long as its safe sex i cant see the problem, and i belive a large proportion of tgirls are on the game at some point, probably to pay for the very expensive surgeries and treatments to turn them into the fascinating creatures you all love to ogle in this forum.
Lets be realistic most of the famous tgirls we know are or have been on the game, if not they turn to making sex videos setting up web sites, web cams or a bit of everything to make money.
Its all part of the sex industry, its all exploitation, they are exploiting us and we are exploiting them, anyway everybody exploits everybody else in some way so whats the difference.
To put these same girls down for making money from their body's and then to ogle over them i think is hypocritical.
Ive never actually paid for sex but if i had to i would.
I think i will probably end up paying for an experience with a tgirl at some point, as far as i see i get the hopefully enjoyable experience i want and she gets the cash she wants, whats the problem?

I have been with many ladyboy's in thailand who
work in bar's, and have had some great time's with them!
I have paid them for their time, and for their services.
It's different there, it's a job to these girl's, to make money
for their families. We, in the west see it as something nasty
and some are outraged by it, not me.
As Charlie Sheen once said " I dont pay them for sex, I pay them to leave
afterward's" ;) :D

knight 01-05-2008 06:52 AM

As long as its clean and everyone involved is happy I don't see a problem, I will more than likely end up paying for it with a T-girl.

SweetCharmer 01-05-2008 09:34 AM

to me a tgirl prostitute is no different to a woman one expect she would have a lovely big cock between her legs

tezt 01-05-2008 02:46 PM

i just think it's pathetic. i guess some people have to pay for sex.

gunslinger1985 01-06-2008 07:09 PM

I guess I would be tempted, but scared of STD's. It's unfortunate that many of them have to work as prostitutes in order to get the needed procedures.

inadaze 01-06-2008 11:51 PM

As I wrote before on another thread :

I would suggest the real world and its realities are that everyone exploits everyone else sometimes in really clever ways, sometimes in mutually beneficial ways and also in ways most people dont understand ranging from such things as exploitation of animals by meat eaters to exploiting other countries for oil.



Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetCharmer (Post 11284)
to me a tgirl prostitute is no different to a woman one expect she would have a lovely big cock between her legs

As long as you respect their freedom and the choices both women make about their lives I dont see the problem.

Quote:

Originally Posted by tezt (Post 11333)
i just think it's pathetic. i guess some people have to pay for sex.

Is it any more pathetic than jerkin off to porn ? I think we all know and understand the kind of forum we are members of which is full of porn. Whats the difference between being paid to perform in porn videos with someone you just met and being paid to perform just for one client in private ? I would suggest theres not much of a difference. Would it be hypocrisy to be supportive of porn yet judgemental about prostitution ? An interesting question I think.
If I had to condemn prostitutes that means I'd have to condemn women like danielle foxxx and others. I dont want to do that.


Quote:

Originally Posted by gunslinger1985 (Post 11509)
I guess I would be tempted, but scared of STD's.

I have the exact same view. I'm as healthy as the day I was born and am a health freak. I am terrified of something disgusting like a virus latching onto my body. I've had sex every time in my life while in a relationship except for twice in my life and on both cases I knew the girls for a long time beforehand. The problem for me would be to meet and date a T Girl who would respect my situation.

luvasianlb 01-07-2008 01:54 AM

I have paid females for sex, but never a shemale. I plan to go to Thailand some day and I would imagine that I might very well pay a ladyboy prostitute for some fun. As far as tezt's comment above about it being pathetic and "i guess some people have to pay for sex", well, I suppose some people do HAVE to pay for sex, but to suggest that such a thing is pathetic is very narrow-minded and pathetic in itself. Some people for whatever reason are not good at getting romantic- it could be social ineptness, it could be that they are particularly unattractive, whatever. I do not HAVE to pay for sex and I have only done so a few times- in clean, professional settings. The women I have encountered in these massage parlors and legal brothels have been quite good at their jobs, and I do believe that a great many of them fit the "hooker with a heart of gold" archetype.

If you have ever seen the show "Cathouse" on HBO, you would realize that people visit brothels for a variety of reasons- sometimes they just want to have a good time with the surest of sure things, sometimes they are fullfilling a fantasy with a partner and sometimes, they are people who are very lonely and this is a way to eases that. In one episode a widower visited the brothel. He explained to the working girl that he had been alone since his wife died, and as much as sex, he just wanted to be close to someone physically. To characterize that as pathetic just shows your own limitations.

Ogryn1313 01-07-2008 03:15 AM

If...
 
...seems to me a tgirl prostitute would be my best chance of having sex with one.

But I've never been with a hooker...tgirl or otherwise.

Paranoia about catching something is what holds me back. And maybe a little shame.

Plus, with a tgirl I want to do it all. Giving and receiving. With a tgirl hooker I wouldn't know what is advisable or not.

not2old 01-07-2008 12:52 PM

No problem at all for me.
I get what I want, she gets what she wants, it's a win-win.
Fifteen years ago or so, I regularly "dated" a working Asian TS in San Francisco's Tenderloin district. Always a very enjoyable experience for me and I actually liked her as a person. After the first couple of dates, she knew what I liked and how I liked it, and I was happy to contribute to her livelihood.
Having said that, I should note that it always pays to be very cautious with the first approach to a working girl (of either sex) to make sure you're not going to get something you DON'T want.

inadaze 01-15-2008 09:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by not2old (Post 11578)
Fifteen years ago or so, I regularly "dated" a working Asian TS in San Francisco's Tenderloin district.

what did she look like ? and how did you manage in the tenderloin ? on my few trips to san fran, i never felt comfortable in the tenderloin. I know san fran pretty well now but back then I got lost a lot due to the streets being so non linear. Imagine my shock horror when I ended up in tenderloin and couldnt find my way out.
I remember passing a black transvestite there of about 60 years old with no teeth and on crack by all appearances. Needless to say I kept on walking. I was the only white guy for 40 mins of walking. Its never good to be different in a bad area as you immediately stand out. I heard a bullet about a block down from where I was standing. Not a comfortable place at all. No amount of martial arts can prepare you for that place :/

gizmo 01-15-2008 01:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tezt (Post 11333)
i just think it's pathetic. i guess some people have to pay for sex.

This is the stupidest thing I've ever read on any forum!!
So Im guessing you never took a girl out, wined,and dined
her in the hope of having sex afterward's? We all pay for it!
Just some of us pay up front! ;)

pauly007 01-23-2008 10:51 PM

In my opinion it seems a daunting task to find a girl, who is a tv, just in your every, regular day, routine. If I was going to hook up with one, the easiest way to do it would be to go with a pro - I've come close, looked them up in the paper but when it comes to the crunch I couldn't do it.

My ideal scenario would be to meet a really hot, sexy little asian girl, go out and party with her and then take her home to find the whole time she was hiding her sexy lil cock.

p.s. doesn't have to be lil..

tlover 01-24-2008 04:11 AM

:(
Quote:

Originally Posted by pauly007 (Post 12955)
In my opinion it seems a daunting task to find a girl, who is a tv, just in your every, regular day, routine. If I was going to hook up with one, the easiest way to do it would be to go with a pro - I've come close, looked them up in the paper but when it comes to the crunch I couldn't do it.

My ideal scenario would be to meet a really hot, sexy little asian girl, go out and party with her and then take her home to find the whole time she was hiding her sexy lil cock.

p.s. doesn't have to be lil..


I have to agree with that statement totally.
It very difficult to find a tgirl as it is and to find a decent looking one very difficult.
So the easiest way it to search for a "working" girl.
But my fantasy is almost exactly the same as yours pauly, to meet a cute petite girl and take her home then when were getting down to it she unleashes a big fat cock on me, naughty girl.
That would be perfect, the chances of it happening in reality though are virtually nil.
So a working girl is probably where i will go for my experience.

Mandy 01-24-2008 12:02 PM

Hi guys,

Its not as bad as you make it out to be. I think the laws around prostitution in this country are outrageous, and a flagrant violation of separation of church and state.

I specialize in sex, and the experience you have with me will probably be safer, cleaner (as a performer I get tested much more than a girl you would pick up at a bar, and I'm a firm believer in safe sex), and more directly what you are looking for than what you would find with a civilian.

Unless you live in Cuba, or forage for edible nuts, berries, and plants in the woods, you sell yourself for money. Its called capitalism.

If I wasn't a sex worker, that would mean alot less smiles in this world. There is nothing pathetic about compensating me for all the hard work that goes into my time with you. But by all means, have fun prowling the tranny bars, at least you don't have to pay for it.

Meanwhile, for those of you that can get over the hangup, there are many of us that are quality providers, and you can find reviews of us online at
The Erotic Review, and the Shemale Erotic Review.

xoxo
Mandy

gizmo 01-24-2008 12:13 PM

Well said Mandy! :respect:
And nice pics, very cute!

tlover 01-24-2008 02:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mandy (Post 13006)
Hi guys,

Its not as bad as you make it out to be. I think the laws around prostitution in this country are outrageous, and a flagrant violation of separation of church and state.

I specialize in sex, and the experience you have with me will probably be safer, cleaner (as a performer I get tested much more than a girl you would pick up at a bar, and I'm a firm believer in safe sex), and more directly what you are looking for than what you would find with a civilian.

Unless you live in Cuba, or forage for edible nuts, berries, and plants in the woods, you sell yourself for money. Its called capitalism.

If I wasn't a sex worker, that would mean alot less smiles in this world. There is nothing pathetic about compensating me for all the hard work that goes into my time with you. But by all means, have fun prowling the tranny bars, at least you don't have to pay for it.

Meanwhile, for those of you that can get over the hangup, there are many of us that are quality providers, and you can find reviews of us online at
The Erotic Review, and the Shemale Erotic Review.

xoxo
Mandy


That's something i haven't thought of, girls in the sex industry being tested and probably cleaner sex wise to other girls.
Another plus point for going to a working girl.
Although i realize you would have to chose wisely.

franalexes 01-24-2008 03:16 PM

expensive?
 
If you are thinking this is expensive, have you tried marriage?

Mandy 01-24-2008 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tlover (Post 13016)
That's something i haven't thought of, girls in the sex industry being tested and probably cleaner sex wise to other girls.
Another plus point for going to a working girl.
Although i realize you would have to chose wisely.

Yes you would definitely have to choose wisely, but in general a well reviewed provider is much more aware the risks posed to her health by having multiple partners, than the average girl you pick up at a bar, TS or not. Our health is also our bread and butter, so we take good care of it.

theoneandonly 01-31-2008 02:52 AM

If i knew she actually needed the money i would probably just give her the cash. I can't see fucking someone and just giving them money. Maybe im old school but i think some sort of emotion should be behind the sex.

Arato 01-31-2008 06:38 AM

This is the way I might be going to get to be with a shemale, I dont know if my interest in shemales is a fantasy or something more. So I will most likey be going to a shemale escort sometime soon better a escort than someone feelings geting hurt.

twfs21 01-31-2008 08:48 AM

i dont have a prob with it. i have done it a bunch of times. i hope condoms are as safe as safe as they are said to be. thats the one nice thing is sex with a shemale prostitute in essense is pretty safe. safer than sex u would have with anyone else. can anyone say how many times they got a blowjob with a condom on. no one ever does that. but with a prostitute u do.

Jpone 01-31-2008 09:13 AM

I have absolutely no problem paying for sex, I have paid for sex with female pro's in the past and would/ will one day soon pay for sex with a Tgirl, I doubt that I will ever be able to meet a Tgirl any other way, unless I am mistaken then someone please correct me.

Ogryn1313 02-01-2008 06:22 AM

Point of curiosity...
 
On average how much would one expect to spend for a quality experience?

Mandy 02-01-2008 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ogryn1313 (Post 13761)
On average how much would one expect to spend for a quality experience?

It depends on your location, and what you mean by quality. Right now, $250 is a bargain for a quality experience and $300-400 is common.

rollon 02-01-2008 01:36 PM

Prostitute??
 
If I should tak a girl out for dinner in thailand I`d sure paid for dinner and drinks..mabe get her in my hotel an kissing and nothing else...I would give her some money to taxi home..little more money if she woud buy her self an icecream etc...little money for a poor lady..


BUT i never buy sex!!

So whats the difference? Get a date here in norway and free dinner and drinks for this lady and mabe I have lucky to fuck her...after spending 500 NOK for us(US=9 3USD)

mabe, like youre upinion gizmo thanks

how mutch are we willing to pay???

theoneandonly 02-01-2008 04:34 PM

lol i wanna go to denmark, shit's cheap:yes:

Ogryn1313 02-02-2008 05:00 AM

Thanks
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mandy (Post 13767)
It depends on your location, and what you mean by quality. Right now, $250 is a bargain for a quality experience and $300-400 is common.

That much eh? Well, seems reasonable but a bit too much to make it a regular thing.:frown: Hmmph.

I'm very willing to pay for it though since it seems the most expedient and likely way I could have a shot at it (pun intended.) I don't think there are any here in Kentucky though. Definately not in my part.

So that is you on the links? I've seen your pics here and there. Nice!

kijm60 02-13-2008 04:08 AM

Not just with a shemale, but I'm not a big fan of prostitution in general... there just seems to be way too many things that can go terribly wrong. I've flirted with the idea, but fortunately I'm in a loving relationship with a girl that I couldn't possibly do anything that would upset her, even if she would never find out about it.

stephen54 02-13-2008 03:57 PM

I have had lots of meets with pro tgirls and trannies, all very enjoyable. If could afford it would happily pay for a session with a ladyboy.

BiancaLover 06-10-2008 08:43 PM

I'd love to, but the whole thing makes me nervous. Gotta drive to Detroit area, hope its not some kind of sting, etc... :eek:

Bionca 06-10-2008 09:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BiancaLover (Post 26079)
I'd love to, but the whole thing makes me nervous. Gotta drive to Detroit area, hope its not some kind of sting, etc... :eek:

Keep a few things in mind. First, deal with an escort rather than a prostitute. Prostitution is illegal escorting is not. With an escort, you are paying her for her time and companionship NOT for sex. Sex will probably happen with an escort, but it needs to be clear that you are two consenting adults who have agreed to a sexual encounter during your date. A professional escort will lead the date appropriately, but you will need to make the first moves toward anything sexual - you may (after some conversation) bring up a sexual fantasy for example... remember that an escort has WAY more to worry about getting arrested than you would.

Never ever ever ever give her money directly after sex. Aside from being rather rude, it is also admitting that you paid for sex (illegal). Leave it in plain view on a table or nightstand.

Make sure she is clear that you are paying her for her time and that IF you both agree to a sexual encounter, you would be interested. You cannot be arrested for taking a woman out or spending time with her, even if it leads to sex.

You may want to actually take her out once or twice to get comfortable with her and clear up any uneasiness. I'd bet an escort would appreciate some dates that didn't end up in sex. This in turn may make your actual sexual visit worthy of a post here.

Bionca 06-10-2008 09:23 PM

BTW.. I'd never pay for sex with a shemale, I just masterbate with a mirror :p

sesame 06-10-2008 09:58 PM

Quote:

BTW.. I'd never pay for sex with a shemale, I just masterbate with a mirror
:lol:

Quote:

Make sure she is clear that you are paying her for her time and that IF you both agree to a sexual encounter, you would be interested. You cannot be arrested for taking a woman out or spending time with her, even if it leads to sex.
You can be a legal advisor too;)
& A very sly one!

Ayo4Yayo 06-10-2008 09:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bionca (Post 26084)
BTW.. I'd never pay for sex with a shemale, I just masterbate with a mirror :p

I bet you blow your load ALL OVER your mirror like your getting a facial huh you naughty gurl

Bionca 06-10-2008 10:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ayo4Yayo (Post 26090)
I bet you blow your load ALL OVER your mirror like your getting a facial huh you naughty gurl

Nah... I just give myself a facial.. why dirty a perfectly good mirror ;)

Bionca 06-10-2008 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sesame (Post 26088)
:lol:


You can be a legal advisor too;)
& A very sly one!


Just standard escorting rules... I read craigslist a lot, and used to work with ex prostitutes and escorts.

sesame 06-10-2008 10:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by theoneandonly (Post 13671)
Maybe im old school but i think some sort of emotion should be behind the sex.

I also think that way. No love, no sex. Otherwise, everything becomes mechanical.

But if you need instant gratification,
a Ts sex-worker may be of some help.
Also, with the huge cost to create and maintain a perfect Ladyboy figure, with no other means to sustain the cashflow, they have every right to get paid.:frown:
Will anybody out of selfless love for Ladyboys, donate 1000s of $$$ to them, just like that? Here on planet Earth, Everybody is self centered.
All of us justify our means of livelihood, one way or the other. Dont condemn anybody. Its morally wrong.

Bionca 06-10-2008 10:13 PM

I'd also like to say I agree with Mandy in post #15. Every word of it. I'll also take this opportunity to point out that Mandy is my fave t-gal star bar none.

sesame 06-10-2008 10:18 PM

Bionca's Hot confession
 
Quote:

I just give myself a facial
What? Really?
Wow, you lucky, self-sufficient, amazing... deviant!!:drool:

Bionca 06-10-2008 10:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sesame (Post 26094)
I also think that way. No love, no sex. Otherwise, everything becomes mechanical.

But if you need instant gratification,
a Ts sex-worker may be of some help.
Also, with the huge cost to create and maintain a perfect Ladyboy figure, with no other means to sustain the cashflow, they have every right to get paid.:frown:
Will anybody out of selfless love for Ladyboys, donate 1000s of $$$ to them, just like that? Here on planet Earth, Everybody is self centered.
All of us justify our means of livelihood, one way or the other. Dont condemn anybody. Its morally wrong.

Quite true on all counts dear sir.

I'd also like to add that an escort could be the way to go for guys who

1) are only "curious" or aren't sure
2) have a specific fantasy
3) have a primary relationship
4) MUST have a fully functioning cock

I'd also like to add... if anyone DOES feel an altruistic need to throw $1000's to some Tranny, I DO have PayPal.. and a face to pay off.... ;):lol:

Bionca 06-10-2008 10:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sesame (Post 26097)
What? Really?
Wow, you lucky, self-sufficient, amazing... deviant!!:drool:

um... you too can master the self-facial young Padwan. Find a pillow and a wall and a clear space on the floor...

SweetCharmer 06-12-2008 06:36 AM

mmmmm....like the facials you do........dirty little girl you are mmmmmmm
yoda rules:respect::lol:

Bionca 06-12-2008 08:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetCharmer (Post 26229)
mmmmm....like the facials you do........dirty little girl you are mmmmmmm
yoda rules:respect::lol:

Well.. it needs to so *somewhere* :innocent:

LoverofShemales 06-13-2008 02:01 PM

I've never been with a T-girl escort but I think that would be the way to go if I had to and probably worth the money. I actually would prefer just to meet a T-girl under normal circumstances and romance her so that we can give ourselves to each other willingly without money involved.

ghostrider222 06-13-2008 04:11 PM

i dont really care.
 
i personally dont mind having sex with a shemale prostitute. i have actually set up a meeting with one in montreal this july.

gunslinger1985 06-16-2008 05:54 PM

As long as it is safe I don't see any problem with it. It just depends on what type of person you are personally.

CCC 05-11-2012 05:13 AM

Damn one old thread--going with an escort is very smart and efficient. I myself lead an extremely busy life and don't have the time and desire for hanging out here and there i hopes of finding someone-especially a beautiful TS- who I can have sex with and then go about my business without possible luggage. I started with an escort and taught me a lot-moved onto another and learned more- about 4 days and 5 TS (4 ladies and 1 crook--(beautiful,nice cock,tasty cum but a real bim bam thank you sir and out the door-18 minutes-sheesh). Escorts are the only way to. IF you happen to stumble into one who really hit's your fancy and you make a longer term thing-you lucky dog.

samanthacd84 05-18-2012 02:55 AM

For me, I always keep these 2 questions in mind:

1. Would she be doing this job if she had other, legitimate employment opportunities available to her?

2. If she's working, and I've somehow managed to meet her while she's working, would there have been a good chance of us going home together if she had not been working at the time of our initial meeting? Basically, would she have spent time with me for free if it weren't for part 1?

The last thing I would want is for somebody to be unwillingly forced by their socio-economic circumstances to have sex with me. Sex workers who legitimately choose to do the work that they do are fine by me, as are sex workers who actually wouldn't mind having a bit of fun with me if they weren't working (I'm young, not too bad looking, and a little kinky :D ).

mrtrebus 05-18-2012 01:20 PM

I NEED to do it! I don't want love I what raw tgirl fucking with juices flying everywhere!! :coupling:


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