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Hi i a straight male (well so far) but have had an attraction to Transexual ladies for a while now but have never done anything about it , i seem to go through stages where i look at Transexual's online etc and then my interest seems to drop off for a time then comes back again. Was just wanting to know has anyone had anything similiar happen to them at all ?

I have also contacted a lady here in Melbourne where i live and im thinking about seeing her on Monday but im a little nervous etc.

dear Askme:
(don't ask) But tell me you are man enough to recognize that we are first respectable people. Not all TS gurls are porn stars or even escorts so decide first why you are dating and what you expect. Nervous? well we are too.
We don't know if you are Mr. Whimpy or Jack the Ripper ( a historical murderer of prostitutes years ago) . Be the gentlemen that you are and probably you will do fine. There are non-porn web sites that give help about how to date a TS. Try www.Reneereyes.com

I did not mean to offend anyone sorry wrong choice of words in my post, i know TS are respectable people, i realise not all TS girls are not all porn stars etc, what i porbably meant to say is that i had found TS girls online very attractive etc. I am a gentleman of course and wouldnt treat any girl badly.

Very few people ever come on here with the intention to offend. Sometimes people use words for which there is a better choice or phrase things a little awkwardly. If someone does come on here with the intentions to offend others then he or she will very quickly reveal him/herself.

I didn't take offence at your post. Perhaps you could have phrased some things differently, but it's not something for which you should beat up yourself.