Long Distance Relationships
 

Does anyone have any experience in having a Long Distance Relationship with a shemale? If so, did it work out?

most of my relationships are long distance relationship.. yes it is so hard to keep it, but i believe it came back to the persons itself. most of my friends started their relationship by long distance first, some not working but many with happy ending. so i have faith, it could get work if you honest and loyal about it, even it's in the same area if you not loyal, it just won't work, from my experienced.. i hope it will work for me this time, i'm currently in serious relationship with american living in east coast..
good luck for you..

fifi

Well said, and I totally agree. There's no question that long distance relationships have problems that are unique unto themselves. That there will be things that could very easily (and very quickly) bust you up as a couple...

...But at the same time, to maintain a long distance relationship, there are ALSO things that a couple will have to do that will ultimately ACCELERATE and EXPOSE the truth about each other. So, in other ways, you'll find out much, much quicker how much tolerance you have for certain things and you'll decide much, much quicker if you really are THAT interested in the other person and if you're willing to put in the time and dedication to make it all work out over time.

I've had two very serious relationships that started out as long distance affairs. One didn't work out, but the jury is still out on the second. However, in both cases, I can genuinely say that the distance didn't matter and the other person truly held my heart. And I can also genuinely say that there wasn't a day when both of our intentions to at least TRY and make it work out wasn't sincere.

So, I agree -- like any relationship, it's ultimately going to come back to the people themselves and what their REAL feelings are what their REAL sense of commitment is going to be. And the way I see it...at a time when divorce rates are over 50% and people call it quits so easily now...I'd rather find out sooner than later JUST how committed my partner was going to be towards making things work.

Oh, and by the way, good luck with your East Coast guy, FiFi!

thank you... and good luck to you too...

Not impossible but unheard of
 

I've seen this topic discussed dozens of times both in forums and in reality. The people that say it can work are usually the forum well wishers that have no experience whatsoever but are maybe hoping to also find someone. The people who say it doesn't work usually have had such relationships that have failed. The facts speak for themselves.
I can tell you that if you pick up a 'working girl' (bar or street worker) she will not be loyal merely because of her financial situation. Most girls have to support their families as well as themselves. So unless you are willing to send a girl a decent monthly allowance, forget it.
The girls that have their own businesses or well paid jobs will be loyal but I don't know one girl that wants to leave her country for one simple reason: they have a luxurious lifestyle in their homeland and are not willing to give it up and become just another foreigner in Europe, North America, Oz etc.
My advice is, ask yourself these questions.
Would this girl want you as her boyfriend if she lived in your country with the same living standards and idolized by scores of men? Are you willing to support her and her family until she can join you and find employment?
If she's rich or shall we say well situated, can you keep her in the style that she's accustomed to if she considered migrating?
I've personally had three such relationships and failed because twice I was not willing to move to Thailand or refused to finance a large family in the Philippines, all capable of working, to keep them in booze and cigarettes.
I sincerely hope you are all successful but you will be the first that I know. Good luck. Regards