Melissa Pink |
06-04-2012 09:28 AM |
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Originally Posted by StellaDixxie
(Post 215305)
Ok here's my thing... I identify as more of a bi-androgynous-transsexual. I'm attracted to women, transsexuals, and very attractive shaven gay men and enjoy life more as a woman. I'm bottom-verse so although I love women, most can't give me what I need. Am I just unusual or is it somewhat common to be bisexual or bi-curious as a transsexual? I'm not on hormones yet but I'm ready to start them. I just don't know how I should do it. Dianne35 seems promising and I dont have full health insurance, just limited coverage.
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Hi Stella Dixxie,
I don't think that your feelings are unusual at all. I consider myself quite bi-sexual and androgynous. I've happily been in transition for nearly five years. Prior to my transition I struggled with my sexuality. I had several bisexual encounters that I enjoyed very much during the moment, but always felt guilty about them after they were over. Melissa feels no such guilt and enjoys all of the aspects of being a bisexual transgendered woman. :) I will admit that I still stand when I pee unless I'm in the ladies room out in public :drool:
I began dating about four months after beginning my transition and have dated men and other t-girls. I don't believe any of the men that I've dated could be labeled gay. The men that I'm physically attracted to are slim to muscular and cannot have much body hair, but have a masculine demeanor.
I have many gay male friends but I'm not aware of any of them that are attracted to me sexually. Last year I was in New Orleans at a gay club in the French Quarter called Oz. I ran into an old flame that I dated briefly about ten years earlier. Eric was happy to see me but I think that he was a little taken back about my transition. He was happy for me but I could clearly tell he wasn't attracted to me physically now that I'm clearly more female than male and living as a woman.
I'm attracted to genetic females but haven't had the opportunity to date or have sex with a GG but would if I found a willing partner ;) Sexually, emotionally, psyschologically I'm a happy bisexual female. I'm working on the physical part. I've been on HRT for several years but there are no plans for SRS in my future but I would like to get a few other cosmetic procedures when the time is right.
Everyone is different and I suggest that you do what makes you happy so long as it's not self destructive or harmful to anyone else. Some transgenders are attracted only to men, others are attracted only to women and girls like you and me are more open minded. I wish you all the best as you continue your transgender journey!
What do you other ladies think? I'd be curious as to what some of you guys think of this topic.
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