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tlover 10-18-2007 03:26 PM

What sort of relationship do you want with a ladyboy? - Your Votes!!!
 
What sort of relationship are you looking for with a ladyboy/shemale.
Are you in it for the fantasy or sexual fun or something much more serious.
Maybe you are now in a full time relationship with a tgirl or are thinking of one, mabey your preparing to leave your partner for one.
Please vote and tell us what you want or have now and why, it'll be interesting to find out how many of us are in it for something serious.


1. No relationship i just like the porn, the pictures, movies and the fantasy.
2. I'm looking for friendship with a tgirl to shear my fantasize over the net or phone etc
3. I want occasional casual sex with a tgirl then go back home to my partner.
4. I want a full time serious relationship, a tgirlfriend.
5. I want full commitment and to marry a tgirl.
6. I'm not sure what i want yet, its all new to me.

danaik42 10-18-2007 10:50 PM

i actualy want get married to one bt as soon as i do that i would not be able to introduse her to my parents if she is going to say she is transexual coz my mom will go crazy

BlueRaven88 10-18-2007 10:55 PM

i said Marriage. im past the point of no return so i couldnt be happy with a normal girl and i already have a t-girlfriend in the philippines who i will marry one day. as for introducing her to my family, there's no drama really. my brother-in-law's brother is gay, and my mum has already said that she will love her kids no matter what they do or how they are. only reason i havent told anyone yet is cos i need the money and accommodation before i bring my goddess to live with me :D its only a matter of time

Second Day 10-19-2007 10:31 AM

Casual sex would be nice. LB's can really turn me on, but I love the company of women (read my gf) too much to get serious in a relationship.

eliogabalo 10-19-2007 11:15 AM

This poll is very interesting and i forecast it will destroy many prejudices. A lot of people think that ladyboys ( and shemale lovers) are only interested in sex and fun, and don't like serious relationships. I'm sure this opinion is fully wrong. They thought the same things also about the homosexuals; and now the homosexuals fight in all the world for the right to marriage and civil unions. :yes:. I think that fidelity and complicity are more dffused among the "deviants" than among the eterosexual couples. And i'll tell you the ground. The daily fight against scepticism and prejudices is cementing our relationships, and the new generations become more and more open-minded. I'll tell more: the crisis of the heterosexual family is the most important event under the sky and i'm sure it's irreversible. But people always will need love, and will look for love in many different ways. Moreover, many shemale-lovers are more romantic than hetero, and dream about a strong, serious relationship. Someone dreams the marriage, and i dream too ... :inlove:

BlueRaven88 10-19-2007 11:21 AM

well said elio :respect: thats why i like the shemales. theyre more romantic, passionate and fiery than GG's.

personally, ive never seen shemales as a sex object, or of some kind of random thing/fetish that i need to fulfill. hell, in america and probably alot of other countries, transsexuals hate being called shemales because it is a term created by the porn industry. they even make sarcastic jokes when you call them 'trannies' saying that they arent a car part (transmission).

ill admit, my first exposure to them WAS pornography, but i took it upon myself to educate myself and learn everything i could about these fascinating, exotic, beautiful 'creatures'. i love shemales :D

EbonyTSLover 10-19-2007 02:41 PM

I said Full time TGirlfriend.We're still dating and if this relationship leads to marriage so be it.

padeligne 10-20-2007 01:02 AM

i am married with a shemale, and very happy. it is nice to live in belgium...

tslove 10-20-2007 04:15 AM

T Girl Friend or MARRIGE

With a lot of sex

tlover 10-20-2007 09:47 AM

My own vote was for casual sex, i like girls very much and don't think i would ever be in a serious relationship with a tgirl, I'm just looking for a bit of fun, i don't think there's anything wrong in that.
However as ive never actually been with a tgirl yet you never know and as the saying goes - never say never.;)

TXguy4ever 10-20-2007 10:10 AM

my vote was casual sex, but its more of a fantasy of mine to have sex with a tgirl one day...but I would never cheat on my wife...bit of a pickle huh?

tlover 10-20-2007 04:26 PM

I feel a bit the same myself, i would never want to hurt my gf, but i think what she don't know wont hurt her.
Iam no angel:innocent:

inadaze 10-21-2007 08:50 PM

In which countries can you legally marry a trans/Ladyboy ? is it possible got the passport to say female also ?

BlueRaven88 10-22-2007 02:51 AM

hmmmm i dont know ALL the countries, but i believe it is legal to marry men/shemales/other women (if your lesbian) in Spain, Belgium and Canada. there are probably alot more but thats just off the top of my head, but hey you can have the marriage and honeymoon in the same place hahaha :D

no idea on the passport

Lestat 10-22-2007 04:55 AM

I'd love to have a Tgirlfriend...

eliogabalo 10-22-2007 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by inadaze (Post 6338)
In which countries can you legally marry a trans/Ladyboy ? is it possible got the passport to say female also ?

England, Spain, Holland, Belgium, Canada and all the countries in which homosexual mariage is legal, obviously. But you have to ask the embassies of these countries for informations about the passport, the citizenship and all the details ... :)

inadaze 10-22-2007 07:00 PM

I was thinking in some countries maybe Holland might be liberal and allow a change of gender on the passport. Im not sure. As for what type of relationship I am seeking, I think it finds you. I think my life will have the best meaning within a relationship. My open mindedness brought me here so for now if life is fun then I wont complain.

Dells 10-23-2007 11:24 PM

At this point in time I'd mainly be interested in casual sex/friendship relationship.

Shemlover 10-25-2007 06:30 AM

Well for now it's mostly a sexual thing, and would prefer a girl for a relationship. But if I met a shemale whom I really like as a person, I'd definately be up for a serious relationship with them. That is, if I feel brave enough to tell my friends/family about my attraction to shemales. But if I'm convinced that she's more than just a sexual fantasy to me, I'd be ready for it.

mobiryder 10-29-2007 07:24 AM

i can tell you from talking to hundreds of trannies, that the number one gripe they have is that they are only used as sex toys, and will never find true love.

I beg to differ. I had a TS girlfriend for 9 months and I loved her with all my heart. She ended up breaking up with me because she found out I fucked some whores in Pattaya... So what? I'm just another asshole I guess.

devilcat 11-26-2007 10:19 AM

I was looking through all the pictures on different websites,just casually thinking wow!some of the shemales are so beautiful.then i saw Amy.i immediately thought i'd love to marry Amy.she is so unique.:yes:

hotfortrannies420 11-26-2007 08:00 PM

i would marry a tgirl and want to

Rick_ 11-26-2007 08:09 PM

I would like to have a tranny as a girlfriend :inlove:

inadaze 11-26-2007 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RichardReyes12@yahoo.com (Post 8542)
I would like to have a tranny as a girlfriend :inlove:

do you think she will integrate into your existing life or would you create a new life together ?

Studio Audience 11-27-2007 01:03 AM

i'd like to just have some fun. :p

mykel73 11-27-2007 01:51 AM

marrige for me

SweetCharmer 11-27-2007 06:25 AM

i posted full time tgf coz i wanna find the right tgirl then spend a lot oftime to see if she's the right one then marriage

BenF 11-27-2007 07:57 AM

I like both generic girls and ladyboys. But sadly I could never marry a ladyboy. At best it would be a mistress, casual sex or a hidden GF.
For me Its family issues plus I want to have kids of my own.
I can fall intimately in love with a ladyboy but it could never reach its potential. :no:

Rick_ 11-27-2007 10:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by inadaze (Post 8544)
do you think she will integrate into your existing life or would you create a new life together ?

What do you mean a new life?

inadaze 11-27-2007 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RichardReyes12@yahoo.com (Post 8600)
What do you mean a new life?

Well from homophobic remarks some of my other male friends have made at times I think if or when I get a tranny girlfriend , I will have to let go of them as part of my social network especially because I will have to face the issue and challenge it. The topic hasnt come up a lot, maybe once in 5 years. Its difficult to let go of an otherwise good friend based on a remark he may not have meant but thats my dillemma anyway. Hope you understand what I meant now.

jimudon 12-01-2007 02:31 PM

Steady tgirlfriend maybe marriage
 
Unlike others I have NO use for a so-genetic girl. To me they are boring and unappealing. I do love shemales or femboys. I do want to estiablish a long term relationship with a tgirl.

big dummy 12-01-2007 04:48 PM

Just suck me and fuck me, thanks!

twistedone 12-08-2007 05:21 PM

As I see it, you can't have sex with anyone unless you have some kind of relationship with them beforehand. So for me, a nice, casual, D/s relationship is cool with me. ;)

BlueRaven88 12-08-2007 05:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mobiryder (Post 6798)
i can tell you from talking to hundreds of trannies, that the number one gripe they have is that they are only used as sex toys, and will never find true love.

I beg to differ. I had a TS girlfriend for 9 months and I loved her with all my heart. She ended up breaking up with me because she found out I fucked some whores in Pattaya... So what? I'm just another asshole I guess.

:O WHAT THE HELL MAN!?!?! i'd kill for just ONE TS girlfriend that i loved and loved me back, and your screwin around with whores in pattaya while having a perfectly good shemale lover waiting for you at home? for SHAME!!
:confused::(:frown::censored:

knight 12-17-2007 05:06 PM

I would like a full time TGirlfriend and maybe marrige

kiesster 12-21-2007 03:18 AM

i wanna spend every day with the right tgirl

parisb 12-26-2007 09:41 PM

no. 3 sounds like my kind of thing perhaps with a relationship later

TSloverboid 12-30-2007 05:46 PM

I'm already married, but if I had met the right Twoman.... I was always too worried in the past of what others would think of me. So in the past she would have had to have been 100% passable. Right now it's just a fantasy coming true for me and it needs to be casual sex (paid or unpaid). I prefer paid right now so as not to lead someone or atleast "pay" for the guilt I feel.

Mirabeau915 12-31-2007 07:28 AM

I agree with Ebony TS Lover, I opted for full time TGirlfriend for purposes of the poll, but I would not be averse to marriage in the long term if we are suitably compatible and motivated.

I was married once and I liked it very much. I am in a dead-end relationship currently as in no marriage future (although you know those Genetic Girls and their ever-changing minds), we don't live together anymore and it is almost like a friends with benefits plus emotional attachment. If someone else wants to become interested in me (and vice-versa 'natch) and would like to marry (presuming once again compatibility), I'd marry them. It if were a T-that Girl would just make it a bonus.

BrandonCGS 01-01-2008 12:27 AM

Casual Sex :) Dont really want a relationship though

ila 01-28-2008 07:19 PM

If I ever met a shemale/ladyboy/tgirl that is the love of my life then I would want to marry her.

warblade 04-18-2008 07:08 PM

I would love to have a stady relationship with a ladyboy, but there is the problem that I don't think my familly orfriends would accepted and probably would make thing really difficult

russellwu 05-12-2008 12:37 PM

Depends for me, really. I'd rather have casual sex, but if she's amazingly beautiful, sexy, smart and caring, i wouldn't mind going further.

vibesfan 05-12-2008 02:28 PM

When I lived in San Francisco I met and had a romantic relationship with a beautiful Philippine LB. She was in the city for her srs,I found her to be not only very sexy but also more feminine than many gg's around, she was also much happier to be a woman and was very willing to please sexually,with less appearent conflict . I saw her through her surgery and we lived together for several weeks afteward ,while she recovered. She left San Francsico and returned to Hawaii where she had been living. She returned to the city several times after that and would always contact me and we would get together and make love. This was in the early to late 70's.and is the root of my love of she-males and especially asians.

redfish1 05-16-2008 12:10 PM

I'm totally friends with a couple.

I'm also call for a adult encounter with 3 or 4.

It just depends on what you want. It's just like another friend, you may want to sleep with her or maybe just say hi at work.

Kuranyi 05-17-2008 05:34 AM

I cudnt imagine a real relationship with a ts somehow.But the sex with them is the best.And a hard cock isnt too bad sometimes;-)

Panty Cock 05-17-2008 03:18 PM

Yeah, I could not imagine a real relationship other than slaping our panty cocks together.

wendals 05-20-2008 10:25 AM

Just casual sex for me

Hankstar3 05-20-2008 02:42 PM

Hmmmmm...
 
I'd have to say friendship because Tgirls are not just sex objects though I find them sexy and think about pleasuring them alot. Of course friendship with benefits is my ideal; not that I wouldn't engage in purely sexual relations though...I mean...I am a guy and well... sexual relations with no strings is like fantasy no. 1.:)

St. Araqiel 05-20-2008 11:06 PM

Having not had a sexual or romantic relationship yet, I'm gonna say casual sex and/or friendship for the time being.


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