Could I ever fall in love with a post-op transsexual woman?
 

Hmmm... based on a current posting on post-op transsexuality, I've once again taken a deep look at myself.

I "preach" that a penis is for me not a symbol of masculinity but as much a symbol of female sexuality when placed on a transsexual woman.

On the other hand I also acknowledge the possibility that I am probably bisexual - at least to a degree where my range of attraction does, indeed, include guys - very, very feminine guys, yes, but still guys I would call "he" and not "she". This weakens my former point, obviously.

Add to that, that I have in sadomasochistic set-ups thoroughly enjoyed sexual interaction with quite macho leather-men - and their cocks too.

None the less, I still believe that my point holds water, that a penis can be as feminine as it can be masculine. It's simply a matter of whom it's placed on.

Female pussy can certainly get me going, though admittedly I find it more and more uninteresting - I guess it is fair to say that my attraction to cisgendered women is more an attraction to her femininity as a whole than to her genitalia. When in bed I tend to prefer her dick rather than her pussy.

So what I was thinking was... could I be attracted to a post-up transsexual woman? I'm sure I could, but I have a feeling that I'd in the long run feel that she lacked something... and besides, the medical implications of no libido and no sexual gratification might also have a quite strong influence in my attraction to her sexually.

Could I then be attracted to her as a person? Again, I'm now absolutely certain, that I could - and this leads me to think of the fact that deep down my attraction to trans-women has not as much been to their particular attributes but rather to their mindset. I've before referred to it as this magic "transsexual" mindset that in many ways is highlighting femininity (and in some cases masculinity as well) in a way you simply don't find in a cisgendered woman. Sure, you get a more complex but also a more WHOLE person.

But where do we really separate the physical from the mental?

I don't know if I'll ever know.

Again, I'm rambling...

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To answer the question posed in your thread topic, Hank, yes I could fall in love with a post op transsexual woman. It is the whole person that attracts me and not just the isolated parts. I think what is most attractive to me is her mind and her feelings. Physical parts are nice, but I have to love the whole person. Therefore if I love the whole person then it does not matter to me what the physical parts are and their functioning/non functioning.

I would suggest that there is a bit of bisexuality in every person interested in transwomen. I also like genetic women and so my bisexuality is in my attraction to female attributes. Female attributes for me are not only the physical makeup of a woman, but also the mental makeup such as thought processes and emotions.

So yes I could definitely fall in love with a post op transsexual woman.

Same Same But Different !
 

I too would have to say that I fall in love with the person rather than their individual parts.

I've lost my heart in the past to a trans-gendered woman. Sadly, her ultimate lack of libido and a few other issues, that seem to come as standard with Thai ladies, ultimately led to our demise. Took me a long time to get over her though.

Since then I have dabbled mainly with pre-op ladyboys and very much enjoyed the difference. Once again though, there is huge variance in their libido - so, in my opinion, it's as much down to the individual as any reflection on what changes surgery and hormones can make.

Now to muddy the waters even further, I met the most amazingly responsive post-op ladyboy some days ago. This would suggest that it may also depend on which surgeon did the job and how good they are at retaining nerve sensitivity etc.

This lady - who happens to be a total goddess - and I also seem to have a very good rapport/connection outside the bedroom. To cap all that, everyone who has seen her has asked who my gorgeous new girl is. Even my closest mates here in Samui haven't 'twigged' and they know I have a preference. What fun!

Is that the sound of cupid plucking my heart strings again? Sigh...
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i can't fall in love with a post-op transexual woman because i like the feminine way of a guy. A cock on a woman body. That turns me on so much
I can fall in love with a pre-op transwoman but if she becomes post-op, she will lose her magic.
I am bisexual i like pussies and cocks while in sex. As a relationship i prefer genetic girls. But i can fall in love with a pre-op LB.

Meat The Lovely Paula !
 

Here's a stunner called Paula who I just found on http://www.ladyboypussy.com. I could definitely fall for someone like her!

Oh, and it wasn't a spelling mistake - I would seriously like to "Meat" Paula :turnon:

I'm a post op and ( no libido and no sexual gratification ) is completely wrong, in my case anyway

I am far more sensitive now than I ever was and it's a joy to behold

Seeing as how I don't even like pussy to begin with, no.

You can fall in love with a person from the aspect of love.
 

However, if many men prefer women with a penis rather than genetic women, What you can expect when a tgirl complete the process of genitals change . As someone said in previous posts, She loses her "magic. " I go for both, cocks and pussies, but from what I read in this forum, many guys here want dicks only (I don't mention their nicknames because they're are very recognized here) and if a girl dares to touch their doors, she would receive a kick that would lead her to another street or remote island if a pussy is all has to offer :yes::no:


I'm not trying to disrespect anyone here. A Tgirl, as every person has the right to a happy relationship, whether she is operated or not. Many are great people and deserve to be loved for the person they are. In this case is a difficult search for many of them.
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Thank for link
 

PedroDB I enjoy the beautifull view of this site:)

Yes, I could.

It is the woman that I would love after all, not whether she has a penis or vagina.

The thread title is incorrect
Could I ever fall in love with a post-op transsexual woman?
should read:
Could I ever fall in love with a woman?

Doh...

Indeed, Jodie. I would go one step further: based on some of the responses, I think the question might simply be "Could I ever fall in love?"

yes
 

:turnon:Not into gay men but I could fall in love with Pre-Op tgirl, one thats really hot and passable

You've hit the nail on the head here, if it's about the person, then it should not make any real difference,if it's just about the sex it clearly makes one hell of a difference. After all, sexual chemistry is vital for ANY relationship. If you are attracted to females and femininity, then surely love can succeed with a post op TS ( I use TS purely as a term with no offence meant or implied as I don't know the "rules" on labelling people) as well as pre op.
I'm not into masculine women of any kind, regardless of their mindset, sexually or otherwise. For me a ts woman/woman has to look and behave like a woman, regardless of genitalia.
My only experience with a TS girl was with an escort, she was stunning, beautiful and extremely feminine, you would not know, I was shit scared!! but the fact she had a dick made no difference to my perception of her as a woman, could I have fallen in love? well who knows, after spending only an hour with her, would clearly be foolish to comment, as with any brief encounter with any attractive female. As I don't class myself as gay or bisexual it was her female persona above all that made me feel the attraction, her physical certainly helped, her cock made it all the more exciting of course.
I guess what I am getting at is it all depends on how you look for/meet a new relationship, your never likely to end up marrying an escort of any kind, you may meet a ts woman at work and fall madly in love, penis or not. But to make the object of your emotional desire a post op girl seems to me no different than the desire for a genetic one. If it is the lady dick that flicks your switch then the original question must only be about lust..

just my thoughts on the matter, guess I'm trying to make sense of my own feelings, I'm sure there's a lot more to this !

If she is nice, why not?:hug::hug:

And is the case with most post-op trans women I've spoken to as well.

And to answer the question. Yes, I can fall in love with the person, not their genitalia. Though I do have a strong preference to penis over vagina. But there's always the option of a strap-on. Just not as fun to suck on. :p
And fem doms are hot. :yes: