How and where to meet a shemale
 

Dear everybody - especially new users

As I keep getting the same question "How do I meet a shemale?" I've decided to go gather practical information in this thread. The information is taken from earlier threads and I hope others will supply additional links and addresses in this same thread to make it a bit easier for people.

Hank

PS: In general it is a FINE idea for new users to browse through earlier postings here before sending private messages. Chances are that your question has already been answered before :-)

Beginners' Guide to Dating a T-girl...
 

Guys, I found this link to an article which may answer a few of the general questions that seem to repeatedly come up:

http://www.firelily.com/gender/giann...o.love.ts.html

And also:

I found these links to a site that seems to have a load of good information:

http://www.tsgirlfriend.com/

http://www.reneereyes.com/Webdocs/mtbars.html

http://www.reneereyes.com

H

My Yahoo Group for Transgender Relationships
 

I've created a Yahoo Group for transgender women and men who are SERIOUSLY looking for long-term-relationships/marriage with each other. It's a non-pornographic group and the mission of the group is NOT for seeking sex-partners (there are many other fora for that).

So if you're seriously looking for a partner maybe it would be an idea to sign up (remember to post a pic of yourself as well as an "I'm here" posting).

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/transgenderrelationships/

I'm a little strict in moderating the postings in order to keep it clean and to make sure all postings stick to the point.

Hank

PS: The actual use of this group follows normal Yahoo Group standard so if in doubt how to upload a picture and all that, please, consult the Help function in Yahoo.

Bars/event for meeting T-girls
 

Here are three links to places for bars/events meeting t-girls for dating:

GoodHandys
Toronto, Canada. The pansexual playground, they label them selves :-)
http://www.goodhandys.com

Trixies Bar
Florida based night club for TG and admirers.
http://www.trixiesbar.com

TG Solena's Yahoo group for match-making
US based
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/solena_chaniago/

May I suggest that you add other bars/events for real-life meetings if you know any such places. Obviously, there are many in Thailand but it is a bit harder to find such places in the West - also it may be an idea to focus on match-making and not really escort-places.

Also found this link - not too updated, though...

http://motherboards.infopop.cc/eve/f...21#75010534521

Try this for UK:

http://www.trans-mission.org/tx/txindex.php

Hank

Dating sites
 

Some good places to get in contact (free sites that require you set up a profile to communicate with the other members):

Dragoncastle
Contact forum with many Asian trans-girls
http://www.dragoncastle.net

Face-Pic
Contact forum
http://www.face-pic.com

Gayromeo
Contact forum
http://www.gayromeo.com

Guys4Men
Contact forum primarily for gays but with TG also
http://www.guys4men.com

MeetLadyboy
Contact forum for TG
http://www.meetladyboy.com

TG Solena's Yahoo group for match-making
A group about parties in NYC - US based
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/solena_chaniago/

TGpersonals
Contact forum for TG
http://www.tgpersonals.com

Urnotalone
Contact forum for TG
http://www.urnotalone.com

All these free sites have different interfaces, so spend some time figuring them out. In general getting in touch demands for a little work :-)

Hank

That's it so far... I think I found all my entries regarding this.

I'll keep putting in new links here as I come by them. And I hope others do the same.

Cheers!

Hank

best place to meet ladyboys
 

The best place in the world to meet beautiful ladyboys is Thailand....bangkok..the NANA plaza on Skhumvit road ....lots of gorgeous ladyboys there.....I would rank it as No 1. easily

The second place...is Manila..in the phillipines.......I have to say...there are some very beautiful ladyboys here..and most are looking for boyfriends/husbands........and they have great personalities.

Brazil.....has a lot of shemales.......but....asia..is best

In london.........go to the "Way out club".....city-east london ...close to the tower bridge.......sat nite..after .11 pm is best.....lots of ladyboys there....and some real beauties.

So go for it guys....believe me.....you wont regret it....

that's all well and good but, what about shemales in australia? can never find any sites for them :(

just wanna say a HUGE thanks for telling me about http://www.dragoncastle.net cos i met the love of my life here!! thanks hank you rock!

And in New Zealand the pickings are extremely slim too....I wish I was in Thailand, and single :coupling:

Just back today from 2 week's in Pattaya
and let me tell you guy's, it's become LB heaven!
There are sooo many new ladyboy bar's opening there
and the LB talent in the ordinary bar's is just amazing!
So anyone looking for the best in LB,s get your ass to
Pattaya! :respect: Gizmo.

Hey Gizmo, welcome back! I almost began to worry :)

Hope you have a trip report and some nice pictures to back it up?

:respect:
Hey I'd like to hear about your experiences there. I'm sure others would too :yes:
I could ask a lot of questions like were all the ladyboys hookers (if so how much were they) or were some just 'normal' girls ? Were they only of thai nationality ? And did they all practice safe sex and take care of their bodies ? Were there some places to be avoided where they didnt take care of themselves ? Could they speak english or any other languages beside thai ? :coupling:

My first TS was found in a gay.com chatroom... yeah yeah, i know you're not gay, but they technically are, and they congregate here.. Had me a latine shemale from SD...

Then I moved to thailand and you can't walk 100 yards without bumping into one, so that's what I do nowadays :yes:

Please, let's try to keep this thread clear of postings that have NO new links. Personal experiences are fine and good, but the essence here is to supply links or physical addresses to places.

Thank you!

h

Hi hank i was just wondering do you know of any ladyboy bars or and ladyboy friends who live in central london?

where's your link????? :censored:

try this site if you don't mind paying for little fun with a ladyboy. www.erosguide.com

No I don't - but I believe Kelly posted one or two links/places further up.

What about Amsterdam ? Does anyone know good places to go there ? It occurred to me that its famous for its liberal tolerance and red lights.

australian ladyboys
 

The best place in Australia for ladyboys is The Taxi Club.......just off taylor square in Sydney City..........................lots of pretty ladyboys there,......best time....after 11 pm. Fri Sat nights

Good luck.............and remember.....have fun....................if your not having fun....your doing it wrong!!

Kelly,

Kelly, Know any places in Brisbane?

Any places in Adelaide? Please don't say Mars Bar, i'm looking for more than a one-nighter.

Thailand
 

Hello Everyone! I just discover this site and I must congratulations everybody for this fine and helpful site :)
I am planning a trip to Thailand very soon. I went there last year and had the opportunity to be with som LB at Nana Plaza bars.
But this time I´d like to go to Patayya (or other suggestions). My plan, if possible, is to meet a LB and then go for a few days or so to other places/beaches with her.
I understand that will not be for free, but I wonder if this is possible. My intention is to experience the company for longer, but the idea of getting a LB girlfriend is somewhere in the horizon (they are so much prettier!).
Can anyone tell me if I could have any kind of susccess with the LB at the bars? Should I go somewhere else to meet them? Where? ( I have seen the internet places but they seem not practical for me). By the way, is there a list of LB places (bars, discos, etc...) in Thailand/Phillipines? The only place I know is Nana Plaza. I have found lots of lists of gay places, but that´s not what I am looking for.
Thanks a lot!!

Anyone know of any good places to meet girls in the southern California area?

here in peru, there are few know avenues full of peruvian shemales !

You wouldn't think so, but myspace...:yes:

Bangkok is the best place to find ladyboy :)
go to nana plaza and you wont regret ;)

Yeah, there are tons in the L.A. area. Either pick up one of the local swingers rags, or check out Club 7969 on certain nights. There are others but they're in sketchy parts of town.

I have yet to check out Tommy Tang's restaurant in Hollywood; evidently the waitresses are Ladyboys (Asian). Don't know if it's still happening.

Needless to say, you should stay away from streetwalker action (been there, done that).

There's also Tijuana but I digress.

i've heard the same thing! plus they even have their own beauty pageant thing too, and a lot of them are transgendered if i remember correctly.

Anyone know about shemales in Dallas-Ft Worth Tx.

Patong
 

going to patong soon, someone heard of ladyboys at this place?

have you ever met a shemale in ireland:coupling::coupling:

meeting a ts
 

erosguide.com. it will change your life.

ummm no, it really didn't. that has to be one of the worst sites i have ever come accross. it is hard to navigate, it is coloured dark making what you are doing seem wrong, it is only escorts on there, and it doesn't cater to the entire world, only UK, europe and america. terrible site in my opinion

Ive been to Trixies(South Florida) many times and its pretty great on Saturday nights. Ive had a couple of them want to hook up outside, but I was in a relationship and chickened out.

A good number there are escorts, but most arent. I do have to say that most of them are CDs though, but some of the CD's are quite lovely and others are in the transition process

Its the only focused place down here I know of, but some of the gay dance clubs of Ft Lauderdale have a lot of shemales hanging out there

Anyone know of a good place to meet LB/TV/TS/TG in Seattle other than Neighbours night club? Just moved here and would like to meet some beautiful women

Anyone here been to The Taxi Club?

hello there
 

hello there ,

I am new here & I signed here cause i have a hope in my life & i wish to find it here

since i was in begining of my adult time ...
once i saw a lady-boy picture ,
since that time , i sweared to have a lady boy a partner to my life , live with her forever & give her my love to give me her honest emotion

I'm in middle east , It's near to impossible to find a shemale here in my area ,

i wish someone help me to find my match , & be sure that I'll be the honest slave for her ,

thank u

Places To Meet the Ladies
 

Hey, great forum! I love this place already.

First of all, since this all has to come from personal experience, let me give you a few places and some advice. First the places:

If you're ever in Houston, Texas, the best place to go is a bar called Cousin's.

Cousin's
817 Fairview St
Houston, TX 77006-2807
Phone: (713) 528-9204

Be warned, it's a pretty seedy place and it's swarming with TS hookers, but there are also some non-pros there because, quite frankly, they have nowhere else to go. Gay men (at least from my experience) don't really get along well with those in the TG community, so the girls tend to flock to Cousin's and EJ's.

EJ's Bar
2517 Ralph St
Houston, TX 77006-2428
Phone: (713) 527-0516

Although you'll find more at Cousin's.

Cousin's has a late night drag show on Saturday and Sunday nights and the ladies are gorgeous. I have dated a number of girls I met in Cousin's and had serious relationships with two. (They didn't work out for a few reasons I shan't go into here.)

For online action, a great place is Date In Asia. The message system says that I don't have 10 messages yet, so I can't post a message with a link in it, but the webaddress is dateinasia dot com.

Although not primarily a TG dating site, I was amazed at the number of ladyboys there, especially in the Philippines. One nice thing about that website is that membership is free for the first 6 months, and I mean TOTALLY free! No credit card required.

I'm still wondering about a place to go in Wisconsin. Maybe Milwaukee, but that's a drive and a half from the little fishing village I live in.

I live in Pattaya- Thailand and have done for nearly 7 years. Right now Pattaya is a Mecca for ladyboys. Infact there are so many of them chasing after your body that Real Girl lovers are complaining! They are also complaining that its becoming increasingly difficult to tell the difference between Real Girls and LBs, because the LBs are so very convincing.

There is a new website Forum that has a great deal of information about Pattaya and the ladyboy scene there- I am one of the administrators for it.

But I couldnt possibly tell you where it is. :no: :innocent: :yes:

the best site is erosguide.com

my post
 

is Peanut's in WeHo (Las Angeles) still open? Many moons ago that place was slamming with latina tgirls, all working girls as far as I could tell..:eek:

i would like to meet a ladyboy... and know each other.. for a friendship.. and to be in love ... if someone interested..nicebeslow @ hotmail . com

does anybody know where i can meet some ladyboy's in Charleston Sc?

Anybody know where i can meet LB's or shemales in South Africa

thanks for the information

i look through some ad's for a prostitute once, and saw the name "Lisa,.." which captured my attention.

I called her, made a booking.

I visited her, she was beautiful.

I layed down in her bed.

She sucked me off.

Then i touched her crotch.

And wow,.. i didn't know what a shemale was until that day.

And boy did i love what i had to suck and fuck.. :inlove::inlove:

I am two times in the year in thailand and there I meet many shemale. the most beautiful girls in thailand are shemales.:yes:

*writes down for future reference*:drool:

first timer in orlando
 

anyone know where i ac meet shemale in orlando florida:coupling:

for anyone here is comming over in cebu city philippines, christy here would love to be your personal sexy naughty tour guide available for fun and pleasure..... anyone who is interested, please fell free to contact me... i can give you my details.....:):)


hugs and kisses,
christy

I also believe that Thailand is the best place to meet sheboys. And very hot ones...

Need Help
 

hi all any body know where i can find ladyboys in Manila ????????:coupling:

ummmmmmmmmm everywhere? seriously dude just hit up Dragoncastle.net or TGPersonals.com and search for LB in philippines (on TGP you can search for city or keywords aswell i believe)

seriously asking where to find a ladyboy in the philippines is like asking where to find a muslim in australia (yeah the fucking cunts are everywhere now:frown:)

I have met a couple of absolute beauties from the Eros website. OK, I had to pay....but worth every penny!

makati (manila) and cebu
 

I will be in Manila and Cebu for work/vacation next month. anyone know where a good place to meet a ladyboy in Manila and Cebu?

Sincerely hoping this thread isn't dead...
 

So many people have asked in this thread where would be a good place to find shemales around their towns that I really hope you all can help me as well...

I'm looking for a place where I can meet a nice shemale in Virginia (Richmond or Midlothian, more specifically). To all you guys that have "made it" and tasted first-hand of that sweet love juice, all I can say is "Congratulations - you're living the dream!"

As for myself, I've only ever had a girl introduce me to her friends as her boyfriend (I'd driven 2 hours to meet her after she moved away from where I first met her) at a place called "Club Hush" in Myrtle Beach, SC (incidentally, a great place if you're looking for shemales there - unfortunately, I don't live in SC anymore), before we went back to where she was staying where she got ready for bed and then only SLEPT next to me, nothing more. I felt really hurt, but I feel like maybe it could still work someday. I don't know.

So anyway, please guys... let me know where I might be able to hook up with a nice shemale in Virginia - I'd be eternally grateful! :respect:

in toronto there is a club called Goodhandys and every Thirsday night a night dedicated to Shemales.

Its on church st right in the downtown area buy the eatons center

they have lap dances there where the no touch rule doesnt apply lets just say the first time i got one i was more then surprised and god a mouth full.

Makes me wish I lived in Canada! :drool:

But still... any help for Virginia? Anyone? :respect:

San Diego Lady Boy hOTSPOTS
 

Anybody have any answers in San Diego?:confused:

have you guys tried looking at erosguide for shemales.

addresses
 

A good address is www.tvchix.com , based in the UK but lots of girls from USA, OZ, Phils etc. Also links to tgirl bars and clubs. Seems Manchester is the in-place. You have to register at TV chix but its free and not the usual hassle and dumb questions. Has a good proximity search too which saves looking at 100's of pages. Just type your country of residence and hey presto. Has chatrooms and an escort services section for those who dont like saying 'thank you' or want to get involved.
Regards LBA

how do i meet a shemale in NY?:inlove: email me at dr_feelgood420dw@yahoomail.com

Go to NYC spin around a random number of time and open your eyes and toss a dead cat. The who who gets hit is a tranny.. it's that easy.

Nooo, honey... no need for any relics... just TRULY close ur eyes and open them again with a better mindset... that will make it happen! In the end it's all about making a decision with yourself: No more bullshit, no more frustrated nights thinking about what my "fellow man" will think (never had a single one) - just DO it! And then reap the fruits of your decision - and be man enuff to laugh the idiots away... simple... and very easy! Nothing is easier, as I've preached again and again and again... so throw no relics, but DO throw some light on urself as a guy who feels ready for a transsexual girlfriend. And that light should give you an honest view of how ready you are - it's really NOT dangerous! Only a bit... the funky way :-)

Ouch! :)

um... gotta lengthen this message.....

There are just so many Trans women in NY, particularly in the the city. It seriously wouldn't be hard to find one.

Hank:
You have said the deepest thing in the easiest way.

I'm inspired. I will use this emotion in a creative way in my life. Thank you, Hank.:respect:

Hank is Aristotle's younger brother!
 

Hank, you are mutating into a philosopher, :drool:
and you are diving deeper and deeper everyday, my friend. :respect:

ascared
 

There are lots of good looking prostitutes that walk the street near the convention center in Washington DC, but I'm afraid one will knife me or give me an STD. So I just look.

Id like to thank you for all this adress i went in some of them and i think i am relay going to enjoy it ;)
Thanks

TS in Ohio
 

I know this one is quite a stretch, but any good places in or around Ohio in the US to meet TS?

thank you for the information, it was a big help

New to the forum! This place rules :)

Hehe, that's funny :-)

Let me hasten to say, though, that I live in a presumably muslim country and that the majority of my transsexual friends and lovers and partners are muslim. And they are as easy going and democratically geared as the rest of us.

Granted, I'll be among the first to come down hard on muslim fanatics (or christian right-wingers), and I have several times here voiced my displeasure of certain muslim ways regarding the treatment of transsexuals.

And yes, it should be with some concern that we witness the exploding growth of islam especially in the Western world.

Oh I know, this a totally different debate, and a long one as well, but being among muslims I'm perfectly equipped to guarantee you, that they are not all insaniacs with a bomb hiding in their thongs... hmmm... bad choice of words :-) You know what I mean, I hope :-)

Wasalaam!

HankyPanky

I forget if I gave this link before, but here it is:

http://www.myspace.com/transnightlife

It's hosted by a good friend of mine, Solena, an Indonesian transsexual woman now living in NYC, and they have weekly gatherings as I understand it.

H

hi there
 

i was just looking through and wanted to take the opportunity to advertise my site if ever there are people coming in the philippines who might want to date a passable ladyboy/ts my name is silk and my site is www.silk.net.ms

While living in Mexico DF, a freindly place, which was frequented by many local tgirls was: HYSTERIA DISCO (http://www.hysteriadisco.com/)
Regards,
LeMari...

I live in Las Vegas, any suggestions?

hey fellas
 

Just a quick note to say a new trans-dating website has been set up. Go take a look. You never know right? :coupling: and :inlove: We've got it all!!

i gotta go to thailand!!!! and fuk some hotties lol :coupling:

mateTS
 

I joined that site and it seems I am the only TG in New Jersey. No GG women either. I guess I will have lots of male suitors then lol.

Or try http://www.tsmatch.com

northern ireland
 

does anyone know of anywhere in northern ireland or ireland?

craigslist,t bars in your area or matets.com

Thanks Kelly. I'm in the UK and London is only a short train journey for me :respect:

Cool! Are there also many castrated Trannies in Thailand?! I love those empty sacks...:lol:

iow, just act the same way around them that you would around any other girls. got it.

A site I found which I use and it's pretty ok. It works for chatting with TS and others that like them www.shemalelovesearch.com is a great site IMO it's a good site and I've hang out with some of them and had a fun time!

Thanx for this site!! There are quite a few hotties close to me :D

i would like to meet some shemales here in Brazil... but i have only been with a prostitute once.. and wasn't so good

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Right,but Brazil has free-travel visa,so all brazilian shemales are in EU.

check also guyz www.ts-dating.com i'm very famous there(ain't braggin ) :kiss:

Right,but Brazil has free-travel visa,so all brazilian shemales(the good ones) are in EU.

sorry but few would be able for relationship.

I was wondering if anyone know anything about brazilian ts women??

I just love them!

Again this is such an amazing and fun site! :D

hey can anyone tell me where I can find shemale in india.

plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me

add S'pore & HKG on the list
 

For those who cant make it all the way to Thailand, Singapore (Orchard Towers) and HKG (Lockhard Rd) can give a good, though expensive, taste of what the real thing looks like...

I agree, its no wonder that the GG's get rattled at the stunning beauty of the Pattaya shemales.

Very usefull info , thanks!