Prostate massage
 

Can someone fill me in on this. I'm quite curious?

I guess I should also say pardon the pun.

Ever rubbed the spot between the anus and testicles? That's the P-spot. With the right partner a man can have this stimulated through the anus from the inside. The orgasm is quite intense and sometimes can happen without the penis being touched.

When homophobes say stuff like "I don't see how a guy can take it in the ass" those in the know will snicker at their loss.

I kinda miss the no-hand cumming thing.. oh well.

I have always fantasized about it. but too afraid. and a no hands orgasm sounds kinda cool. can ya tell me how to do that.

Well.. you need to have the prostate stimulated from inside, so either a dildo or a partner with a penis or a strap-on.. fingers won't quite reach I'm afraid (pesky anatomy). It's essentially the same as stimulating the female G-Spot, a consistently building speed and pressure (you know..sex). It won't happen every time, and each person is different, but when it happens :o

Every time it happened to me I was completely surprised when it happened. I was just enjoying some sexy fun and then *BINGO*.. the build up is different and faster than any other way.

I'm kinda alone on this. My partner probably isnt going to want to do any of that for me so i gotta figure something else out.

When you are alone and about to orgasm, press on the spot at the back base of your testicles. That will give you a little understanding. Also, if you can manage it, a little dildo play could help. Personally, I'm not fond of dildoes - I'm pretty small framed, and rubber doesn't have enough "give" to make it as comfortable as the flesh version.

If it was a toy, How big would it have to be. If it feels that good i would like to experience it.

Ahh good question!!

I bet as a guy you will probably try to go for something big - guys really have a thing for the big ones. I would say start small, 5" and thin should be more than enough. You may find this is ideal, you may want to go larger, but unless you are a mutant with a superhumanly long anal cavity, 5 - 6" will be more than enough.

Oh and use lube .. none of that KY crap they sell next to the condoms either. May as well just use spit. This is your bottom, and it will want to resist something going in, you want to make that as easy as you can. Play around with it.. get some porn you like... soon everything will fall into place.

You may want to get one with a suction cup base and squat on it rather than use your hands to direct it. I found in my few times wandering into dildo land that it was a little distracting having to push it in and out.

Nice response. I will definatly take your advice. Any other tips? any other ways to compliment an orgasm?

Well... the human body is wonderfully designed to compliment an orgasm. Interestingly, I found that the places where people are most often ticklish (armpits, sides, feet) are also highly erotic. Rather than light quick touching like a tickle, steady pressing and massage can enhance the pleasure of all types of sex.

Any eay way to see is to find a dowl rod or a broomstick and run the arch of your foot over it during masterbation. It's also something that is easy to explore with a sex-partner and is common for both men and women. I'm also really fond of having my nipples pinched..but only right before I clymax.

You got a lot to say huh? I like that. wow:respect:

Well.. at one point was just as ragngly horney as any of you guys, and I sure dd play around with my sexuality. It probably helped that I briefly identified as a gay man and dove bottom first into exploring my sexuality.

Surely to god you must have an appetite. Erotic?

Absolutely, I love sex. The thing is, with Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) the drive for sex becomes different. Men go from 0 to 60 in a second thanks to testosterone.

For me (I have no idea how it is for others), it's a slow simmer. I'm always kinda turned on, but if nothing happens for days or weeks, I'm good. I don't have that drive to "get off". It's hard to explain, I don't quite understand it, and I lived through it. Sex becomes less about physical sensations and more about mental/emotional stimulation. The physical is still important, but purely physical stimulation isn't enough, or it needs to be done over time.

For example, with my ex.. we would start being sexual as soon as we came home from work or school. Not overtly sexual, but subtly sexual. Rubbing my arm when talking to me, nibbling my neck while I'm cooking dinner, giving him an "accidental" peek at my breast while I bend down, running my foot against his leg while watching TV, placing his hand in the small of my back. By the time we went to bed I couldn't wait (often we didn't even make it to bed).

On the other hand, someone whipping out an erection just isn't so hot for me. I really can't crank it up that fast anymore. I know what to do with it, and pleasuring a partner is pretty hot on its own, but usually I just need a little more to get the motor running.

Do you \ can you masturbate? Since you don't have a partner how do you take care of buisness ?

In the past year, maybe 5 times. I'll finger myself anally or use a shower massage. It isn't the same as having a fella, but it works in a pinch. It just takes a really long time to get to the point of clymax.

Well !!
 

Your describtion is very .. umm... detailed..

With something this important clarity should be a TOP priority

... the last two messages made me think of a guy doing it wrong and entering the large intestine instead of stimulating the prostate. >.<

Very cool tips. And for free. Thanks.

good theme. very educationable and useful. 10x for it

Slow and steady gets the full blast
 

I find your description of slow eroticism quite enchanting and its certainly better than a stupid Fug*! It goes way deeper emotionally. :respect:
It burns like an ember!
And radiates a desirable warmth.
I think it improves a relation too.

HA HA HA. I called a pharmacy once and asked how much their "prostate massager" was. After 10 minutes, the guy came back on and said "What??!!!"

Is it just me or does anyone else have the sudden need to go take a cold shower?
Once again Bionca strikes and reminds everyone how special she is! :D

I happened to me without the penis being touched while anal sex. And i can say that i have never feel an orgasm like that.

I can't explain the pleasure and it was a perfect experience for me.
Normally, i don't like anal sex but if i m horny enough i can do it.

But Orgasm without touching penis feels so different experience and u feel a wonderful pleasure inside of u. You feel the pleasure slowly slowly and when the pleasure is on top you feel like something blow into u and your penis squirt your love juice.

I hope i can live that thing again.

Bionca,if your doing it right does your dick start to tingle?

This thread brought out what most forum members suspected about Bionca. She is knowledgeable in many fields, very sexy,very blunt and knows what she is talking about. But the crack about 'homophobes can't understand how a guy can take it up the ass' (no puns please) I am no homophobe,but I still cannot fathom ANYONE male or female taking it up there. But I will try the massage now that I heard her opinions. Please all of you out there,refrain from the name calling. I know many will be calling me things like 'chicken' or more blunt as in 'chicken shit' but some of us are not as daring or as exposed (vision that play on words,why don't you) to playing 'outside the box. (boy they just keep coming) (and coming). Point is ,please go easy on the 'homophobe'. I remain respectfully yours Ms B. NB

:respect:
"Fingers don't quite reach"
I am a little confused here. My doctor seems to have no trouble reaching and "massaging" my prostate.:confused:

i too agree randolph. my fingers quite easily reach and stimulate it quite a treat... as does my 'g-spot' vibe!
but Bionca's insights and advice was very good reading. Thank you!! :respect::respect:

¡Thank you Bionca!

Actually, I don't get why a natal female would like to get it in there - there is no prostate tp massage for her. Bio-men on the other hand have that handy bit that makes it oh so sweet.

NB - seriously, do the bit about rubbing the base of the testicles. At the very least, press there when you are about to cum and then give me a full report ;)

I have found that you can reach it, but the amount of stimulation is hard to get with fingers if you want a no hands on the cock orgasm. I won't say it can't happen, but IMO it's just easier with other stuff being used. I also tend to squirm alot, so maybe I just wiggle out of reach *shrug*

Yes it does tingle. At least that's as good a description as any for the feeling.

coming without touching
 

I must have an extra prostate at the base of my throat lol! I have cum many times when giving oral. When he cums so do do I.

Interesting thread. Thanks! :yes:

Rachel
 

Rachel my dear
It's become quite clear
that your bliss
is something I would not want to miss!
:inlove::turnon::inlove:

Indeed, I love having my g-spot massaged though. I suppose it must be something quite similar.

There are something that is worth looking into, or up too. :yes: Good posted.

I'm not sure if I have found mine yet. I havent got this tingle that many seem to be mentioning...

In all honesty, I don't!

Mines is a bit tingly:yes:

Finding the spot...
 

Go to a urologist to have your prostate checked. The last time I went to my Dr. due to kidney stones he checked my prostate. God he has some magic fingers. He pressed on it and made me cum instantly. It was thrilling and embarrassing at the same time. But you will know for sure where the spot is after that.:yes:

Dear Rachel,
This is Dr. Randolph, I am doing research on prostate massage. You appear to be an excellent candidate for the study. When would you be available?
;):yes::turnon:

available?
 

Hmmm what are the office hours?;)

massage
 

Office hours are 6 to 9 funday to cumday.:lol:;):inlove:

any videos of this?

cum
 

Dear Rachel,
I wonder if your tonsils have mutated
and that's why you feel elated
when a big one is in place
inside your lovely face
:kiss::hug::inlove:

While stroking your penis try to push your middle finger into your anus as far a you can, the other fingers stretched, and at the same time sort of pull your anus towards your tummy. It helps if you lift your butt a little bit.

Helped me sometimes. :)

Have to say, theres no doubt that stimulating the prostate, and even just the anus, while cumming, is something every guy should experience, the orgasms intensity will take you by surprise.

descriptions and advice in this thread are very good. however i still have a question. though i have experiented with anal play using both toys and fingers, i have not had an orgasm of such elation described. when i use my 6" dildo i produce alot of precum, my cock practically leaks the stuff (which is very fine by me as i prefer taste of precum ;) ) but i do not have a mind bending orgasm or any tinglyness. my question by the way is when touching where the prostate is located (using fingers) does it feel different to the rest of the anus to touch, or must i just rely on when it 'just feels good'? now i might just have another go now gettin horny just thinking bout it