The Problem For T-girl & Her Lover
 

This poll will ask the guys their favorite body part to give pleasure to a t-girl.

What would you touch, kiss, lick, or suck on the most?

There is a HUGH problem that I've never seen addressed here in THIS fashion.

What is it?

The T-Girl who is not pleased w/ what's between her legs.

Most of the dudes are obsessed w/ HARD cock, which is Viagra-induced after treatments. Why are there t-girl erections in those pornos to begin with? I've read male posts obsessed w/ t-girl cock, and not one obsessed about the t-girl's big toe, no?

SS ANNA: I know most of hte guys on here just love to get thier hands on it and lavish attention on the girl cock, but I really don't like a guy doing that. Esspecially sucking it, I mean blowjobs feel good, but I feel uncomfortable with a guy sucking me.
JEN: I was the same way i hated having my cock jerked or sucked, I always hated it guess i always had vigina envy.
AMY: I like a little play, but not focusing on it and certainly not in a masculine way.
GIANNA: i HATE it when anyone even wants to see my cock little lone feel it. so i can't wait to get rid of it just Jen did.
BIONCA: For me the cock is almost as sexual as my big toe.

I pretty much look at them as women. Im not cock obsessed and if she really wants me to play with it she will let me know otherwise its business as usual just a little further back :) I much prefer to kiss and lavish attention on the girly bits and the ego ;)

I'm still going for the cock! I'll get to the rest as well, but her cock is my goal.

i gotta admit to being a boob lover

lol i like it

Good poll, although it was hard to pick just one. I would just add the option of "her whole body" because when you're with someone you end up touching everything... and enjoy every part

Her cock! That's one of the reasons why Transexuals fascinate me! A girl with a cock! :turnon:

Hello friends ;)

there several choices if was selection in breadth :cool:

But increased what he raises HER HARD COCK :yes:

there also and several matters raise but not manage selection

HER TITS
HER FEET
HER TOES
HER ASS
HER THIGHS
HER TOE CLEAVAGE
HER BALLS ==}} A big formation

Any part of the body can be sexual, if you treat it right :p

I voted for tongue but really I like every/any part of a tgirl. except feet. don't like feet on tgirls or ggirls. feet lovers are kinda gross imo

Absolutely!

Here is my observation as far as guys with Trans* women go. For men, generally, the whole of the sexual act is all about what happens to the penis. It is understood that when two guys discuss sex ultimately they are discussing what happened to their penis (perhaps some attention is given to what diversions happened on the way to the penis). When hetero women discuss sex, it's a discussion of what happened to their partner's penis.

It seems logical that being with a Trans* woman who has a penis the sex would ultimately be about her penis as well as the guy's. Why then is it so problematic for so many Trans* women? You will obviously find Trans* who enjoy, or don't mind, having it stimulated. You will also find trans*women who feel (seriously) violated with the act. It goes into the very heart of what makes a Trans* woman a Trans* woman.

I can only give my own personal account, and other gals will likely have different experiences and conclusions. To me, the whole transitioning was not about clothes, make-up, being "treated like a girl", or taking on any sort of role. It was a very real sense that my body was not my own. As I developed sexually as a person, I gravitated to the parts of me that were comfortable. My penis was not one of those parts. For all the trying and performing I have done to please past partners, it is (sensually) pretty dead. It is rather like dating someone who has a foot fetish since I don't share that particular kink. I may let them lick/suck my nicely pedicured toes and go get a polish they like and let them indulge... but really, I'm not getting much out of it. They are licking my big toe.

I can pretend and squeal and moan and even produce some stuff if they are REALLY persistent. However, the whole time I'm wondering when they will actually realize that my WHOLE body is sexual, and many parts are WAY more erotically charged than either my toe or my cock.

So while I'm not pained and I don't feel like the possession of a cock makes me less of a woman, nor do I feel that even catching a glimpse of it is a violation (no to belittle anyone who feels that way). I'm also not running home in the hopes that a guy is gunna want to gobble it down. It is simply one of many parts of my body that can be kissed, licked, fucked, teased, coaxed, rubbed, fondled and enjoyed. But it is also something that is very complicated for me and some days it really is "no man's land".

I think the hard cock:turnon:
But i often find the face is just a sexy, especially expressions

A Prickly Question
 

BIONCA:

Not to put you or anyone on the spot,

but if gay men want masculine men, straight men want feminine women, t-girl admirers are attracted to hard cocks on feminine forms for the most part, and most of the t-girls (not TV's) on this site are conflicted over what's between their legs--albeit in different degrees--

what a does one do w/ limitations on a limited situation to begin with?

I mean this is the corner of the corner!

As difficult as mating is in the best of circumstances, this is sanity threatening!

I do realize that no one probably has a solution,

but the poll was supposed to be secondary to the conversation.

Wouldn't the guy most interested in a t-girl be into her surprise, having no or no more children, and be in the mood for bedroom-type activities.

One answer is your ability to make a man crazy w/ pointed excitement, like your marine not being into your surprise junk.


Piece,


TAL

Tal... that, my sweet, is the burning question isn't it? Sex should be uncomplicated and mutually pleasureable - right? For me (and from what I hear from the GG's) and women in general that isn't always the case.

"Wouldn't the guy most interested in a t-girl be into her surprise, having no or no more children, and be in the mood for bedroom-type activities."

1) Seems to be the case mostly
2) Yes and no.. and children (and guys wanting them) is a whole other topic
3) Yes, but one would hope there would be more happening - but I get your point.

It is clear that for the majority of guys it is the physical stuff that makes us desireable. Guys could have a cock on a man or a woman with a vagina... but in us he gets cock and a woman. As objectifying as that is, and not even getting into how that ultimately hurts Trans* women, it is the cold harsh reality of desire.

Idealistically, I want our strength, determination, and force of will to be what makes us attractive. But, I like a few specific fatures on guys and sometimes I don't care how well he can do math in his head (or whatever). So I can hardly expect guys I date to be less carnal in their motivations that I am myself.

On planet porno all Trannys love having their cock played with, are sexually available to any and all men/women/shemales - then again, this is the place where Ron Jeremy can still get laid easily. In real life, sex is always going to be about negotiation. We agree or comply with what is happening with our bodies. If we do not agree or comply, sex stops or changes focus (anything else becomes messy and illegal and pretty shitty).

I wanted to break this post up ecause It was getting long.

So what to do with sex and the single trans*?

The best thing for a guy who seriously wants to BE with one of us - not pay us for our time - is to understand that our idea of good sex is not always going to be the same as yours. Much like one would expect on any date with any person. I "get" that it's the cock y'all ultimately wanna see, and frankly, it's better that way then having a guy be so freaked by it he doesn't even want accidental contact/visuals with/of it.

My advice to guys is be respectful with what your partner wants/needs sexually. Take her non-verbal cues on how/where to pleasure her body - just like she is doing with you. If cock-play is the end-all of your attraction and you are not willing to pay an escort, politely discuss this beforehand. She'll know (or more likely have confirmed) what you want and will be able to decide if she's willing to go out.

Remember also, for many of us the cock isn't always a huge no-no spot. It's just tiresome when EVERY PART OF MY BODY IS CAPABLE OF PLEASURE .. and my partner wants to focus on that same part the last guy did.. and him before that.. and and and... except that one guy who thought he wanted it, but really didn't, and then freaked out and ran away.

I agree with Bionca. :innocent:

there is no best
 

I'm trying hard to see where Bionca and I sort of blend in our perception of what we are. I do not speak for her ( I know better ) nor are her remarks a copy of my thoughts. Sexuality for me is like a pat of butter on a mound of hot mashed potato. ( See Mr. Bush, there is no E ) It soon is melted into my entire being. The idea that TS is the best of both worlds is such a farce. Female hormones rage war on male body parts. Male parts don't always function 100%. I have soft skin, I have a sweet smile. I like my clothes. I like the attention, most of the time. So many guys have snuck a feel across my ass, I get offers to be a test stand for auto polish. I like the empowerment that females have over guys. It's not the same as that which guys have over gals but I still like it. Sex for me is not a quick jump into the back seat of a Chevy and a "Hey Fran, let's fuck."
But if you begin on Monday and a follow up on Tuesday and then through the week doing thoose little attentive things that brings me to the enjoyment of my own being then perhaps, if that is in your power, you will be justly rewarded. You want a 5 minute sexual experience with me? Go jerk! :censored: At least you will get the size you want.
Now, if you want to dance, I need the romance.
Why Bionca and I are spending time in this forum is an answer we haven't come up with yet, but we did give it thought briefly.
Just because I'm a composite does not make me a sex machine. I may even seem high-strung. It doesn't take much to tick me off but I'm not offended easily.
You have heard it said that you should treat us like females. We are more complicated than that. All the time you are devising skeems to "get us", remember we have the power to think like you do.:eek:
In terms that you guys just never seem to understand, "don't make love to me, make me feel loved."

Fran;)

I really like this snippet. In my current situation I can totally comprehend that.:broken:

I know I get turned on by nibbling the earlobes and the neck .... Gives me CHILLLLS just thinking of it!! Whether I give or take the nibbling ... It's all good :yes:.

More To You
 

Than meets the eye.


FRAN:

Wow! Your posts are mostly short w/ overbite.

I had no idea you could be so articulate. And, of course, the brain is the best organ for ...


Piece,


TAL

Hmmmm... as much as I love big hard shemale cocks, I generally love long sessions of passionate and sensual kissing even more.... so I vote for "Her Tongue".

to review an old topic.
 

The spot behind her knees ... no no the elbow ... the side of her neck , You must pay attention to the whole body ... But if you want a tip , Stimulate her mind.
Yes her mind ... being w/ a girl that you can talk to about anything and enjoy just hanging out w/ is incredible.

Great post...
 

I think Fran and Bionca really did a great service with this post. Well thought out, not accusing anyone, just good solid advice from two people who understand and have been there. Thanks.

Yes, we are initially attracted to Trans women because of what they have between their legs, but what they have between their legs are attached to amazing people who are beautiful in so many ways. Sex is and should be a two way street where both partners give and take and look to please each other in ways that are best for them.

Again, great post.

A gooooood reply michael.:yes:
should be a two way street:hug:
both partners who give & take:respect:
trying to please each other:heart:
Thanks sue b
(short & sweet)

i dont like cock at all im honestly a lil turned off by it
idk why i liuv Tgirls
maybe cuz its like a forbidden fruit in my head
omg i fantasize so much on stuffing my fat cock in a nice smooth butthole
only i want it to be a fem boys butt hole or a tgirls butthole
just typing this makes me extremly hard:turnon::drool:
i would love to fuck my first tgirl without a condom
so hopefully i can get to know someone on a personal level before getting intimate
untill then i'll just fantasize

would luv to suck on a tgirls butthole, just suck on it and slide my tounge in and out really just going to work on a nice boypussy
i love the way that sounds
mmmmmm boypussy

hey
 

nice to know somone gets the idea lol