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tlover 01-29-2008 07:15 PM

What label will they give us shemale lovers?
 
Back on the subject of labels:yawn: yes i know its bullshit and most of us hate lables even i said i dont give a stuff about labels but i just had a thought.
Nearly every sexual type has been given a label, gay bi etc.
I would say 80% ish of us here would say we are not gay or bi, we like girls but we also like girls with dicks but were not bi, we could say we love the 3rd sex.
So do we have a label, have they given us one, or if not what will it be, because its bound to happen.
Maybe we should make our own to beat them to it?
Personally id be proud to were it, well on this forum anyway.:)
Have you any ideas for a label (apart from shove it!) after all gays and lesbians are proud to wear theirs why cant we be?
Then again mabey not!:no:

Ogryn1313 01-29-2008 09:45 PM

This is a tough one...
 
Womanizer, cooze hound, gigalo..doesn't apply. Bi? Gay? Fags? Queers? Doesn't seem appropriate. I suppose if some had to base it on sexuality calling us bi is about as accurate as it is. Some might say we are actually full blown gay but like shemales as a kind of means to ease into being gay. I think such is a load of crap.

What would apply?

Hmm...so hard to think of a label. Labels usually have a negative connotation. But it should denote our tastes are decidedly different. You have men, you have women, then you have the best of both worlds...a new gender so to speak.

All I can think of is we are like explorers..or perhaps truly open minded people.

I hate labels. I hate em so much I rip them out of all my shirts!

SSL 01-30-2008 12:50 AM

btw, tlover, your nick at this forum already qualifies for a label!

let us call ourselves tlovers

Arato 01-30-2008 02:40 AM

{Tlover} Sounds good, I like it. Im a tlover im a tlover! :cool:

gizmo 01-30-2008 12:23 PM

Trisexual! Try anything once! :lol: :yes:

rollon 01-30-2008 12:44 PM

I would say I love the 3.d sex. In thailand tgirls are also definied as the third sex.

In my opunion I would define the third sex this way:
1. Tits, no less than b-cup
2. Body like a woman with the right shape
3. Pretty and very feminine
4. And a dick


Im total straiht, only have fetish for feminine girls with sexy underwere and makup..dick?? mabe

tlover 01-30-2008 01:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shemale Sex Lover (Post 13586)
btw, tlover, your nick at this forum already qualifies for a label!

let us call ourselves tlovers

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arato (Post 13590)
{Tlover} Sounds good, I like it. Im a tlover im a tlover! :cool:

I didn't think of that one, mabey that would fit.
Its good that it doesn't sound derogitry - hey you! yer tlover boy(that doesn't bother me.:D
How about I'm a tlover tshirts
I can see the slogans now as we go on our tlover pride march.
Rights for tlovers now! Down with tphobia! - I'm a tshirt lifter - tpride!:D

tlover 01-30-2008 04:20 PM

Allanha Starr interview
 
Just read this from a web site interview with allana starr about what she thinks about guys who like tgirls.
It highlight why labels sometimes can be a good thing.
I think its interesting reading.
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She moved to New York four years ago to work for an agency, and now she works for herself. The men who like transsexuals are a diverse bunch, she says. Almost all are interested in the thing that makes Allanah so special. “A lot of them are submissive,� she says. Some guys are turned on by it, but “they can’t deal with touching it.�


“Are there a lot of guys like that?� I ask.


“Very few,� she says.


The most annoying thing about being a transsexual is that guys always want to dish with her about that annoying topic called What It All Means. “Of course they all think they’re gay. I avoid that conversation. I can’t deal with people who have issues.�


Part of the problem is, there’s no language yet to describe men who are drawn to tranniesâ€"or, as a friend of mine puts it, “transgressives.â€? My own guess is that they fall into four subcategories: closeted gay men who need the T&A so they don’t freak out about the D, bisexual men who can get both needs met at the same time, porn-addicted men who need to keep crossing new boundaries to get aroused, and straight guys who nonetheless have a narcissistic attraction to the penis.

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I think shes probably just described me and a lot of other guys on this forum in the last two sentences.

Hope I'm not breaking any rules SSL but hers the link to the rest of the interview if anyone is interested -
http://nymag.com/nymetro/nightlife/s...edcity/n_9683/

ila 01-30-2008 05:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shemale Sex Lover (Post 13586)
let us call ourselves tlovers

tlovers sounds about right.
I don't think bisexual is accurate for me. I am attracted to shemales because of their femininity. I am not sexually attracted men so that would seem to me to rule out the bisexuality part (unless one considers women to be one sex, shemales another sex, and men still another sex). This also seems to be the majority opinion expressed in this forum.
Of course right now since I don't have a shemale girlfriend I guess I could be labelled: wanting, needing, aching for, desiring, and maybe a few other terms.
After I find the shemale love of my life then I can be labelled: happy, ecstatic, the biggest grin in the world, etc. etc.
OK Tlover I know those aren't the kind of labels you had in mind so tlover would seem to fit best.

tlover 01-30-2008 05:50 PM

ila, hope you find that someone soon good luck, ive been looking for a while myself, although i must admit for me its more of a sexual thing than a relationship.

ila 02-01-2008 07:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tlover (Post 13638)
ila, hope you find that someone soon good luck,

Likewise Tlover. After all there is someone for everyone.


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