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SluttyShemaleAnna 03-02-2009 05:59 AM

Men: Are you Submissive or Dominant?
 
I'm just curious what the numbers are.

merelypink 03-02-2009 10:24 AM

my experience most men who like shemales are submissive!!! i would say 2 to 1

Naked Freedom 06-06-2009 06:21 AM

i like being both.....variety.....
being ordered is fun at times and ordering is equally fun
so i dont have any option for voting... u should add another option indicating both

Topcat72 06-06-2009 12:05 PM

Both i think

randolph 06-06-2009 12:16 PM

Submissive?
 
Well, I intend my bum to remain virginal, however, I can imagine my self kneeling before a well built shapely tranny with a fine big hard tranny cock and worshiping it until she is fully satisfied. Of course, my reward would be a mouthful of delicious tranny cum. :drool::turnon::yes:

CuriousMattUK 06-06-2009 03:25 PM

Never had a ladyboy experience but would definitely be submissive :turnon:

lacey_maxie 06-06-2009 03:48 PM

My feminine.....
 
My feminine side is completely submissive....:coupling:

rockabilly 06-06-2009 04:15 PM

For the right girl i'd be submissive but honestly i wanna top.

frodek 06-06-2009 05:20 PM

I'm mainly dominant, but enjoy playing the submissive part sometimes as well.

twistedone 06-07-2009 01:25 AM

Good call. So far us subs out rank everyone else. :eek:

Quote:

Originally Posted by merelypink (Post 69515)
my experience most men who like shemales are submissive!!! i would say 2 to 1


MistressStevie 06-07-2009 01:26 AM

Lots of submissives is good
 
Lots of Submissives is good. Keeps the other side busy. So many subs, so little time. -mS

twistedone 06-07-2009 01:28 AM

I see your from the Pacific Northwest. So am I.

Hmmmmm.....this may move me up on the call list. LOL

Quote:

Originally Posted by MistressStevie (Post 88048)
Lots of Submissives is good. Keeps the other side busy. So many subs, so little time. -mS


silios777 06-07-2009 01:21 PM

I am submissive :turnoff:

wannabecut 06-07-2009 01:52 PM

Dominant for all girls, submissive for the circumcised ones only. :rolleyes:

tslust 06-07-2009 02:32 PM

I'm definitely a submissive.

tslust 06-07-2009 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 87981)
For the right girl i'd be submissive but honestly i wanna top.

I'd let you top me any time you want.;):D:kiss:

rockabilly 06-07-2009 03:16 PM

Where and When ;)

tim4lb 06-08-2009 05:57 AM

More submissive
 
I don't like being told what to do and I also don't like ordering someone, but I certainly like a ladyboy to take control and lead the action. Not into being dominated as much as following. Hope that makes sense. ;) Sexually I am versatile although I slightly prefer bottom.

charlietwobeans 06-08-2009 11:53 AM

I am *totally* dominant....
 
...until some beauty tells me otherwise, then I instantly comply :D

alice 06-08-2009 09:26 PM

Always a submissive: Being dressed as a lady and sucking a cock like a lady would or taking a cock in my butt makes me feel so feminine.:yes::turnon::turnon::turnon:

kenzojoe 06-08-2009 09:47 PM

iM SUB...VERY SUB..

hankhavelock 06-09-2009 09:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by merelypink (Post 69515)
my experience most men who like shemales are submissive!!! i would say 2 to 1

This is interesting, and I'm sure you're spot on.

That's probably finding the true roots of the act of penetration - being penetrated is not being gay per se, it is, however, being submissive. Even female dogs will emulate the male dogs' mating movements when trying to show dominance.

I'm definitely a sexual submissive in sadomaschochistic terms - as well as a latex fetischist and bla bla bla...

And I guess that my addiction to being thoroughly screwed by a girl (literally) is part of this.

Now, I do have other motivations than this - for example one has always been to make her get rid of her latent "dick-shyness", because I believe she blossoms more as a human being, when she learns to separate her sexual activities from her gender identification (and so far, I've been right). But yes, once I learned to take female cock up my ass, I found a whole new meaning - and that may absolutely have something to do with my tendency to submission.

H

sherbet1774 06-09-2009 09:15 AM

I like being both personally, You need to make a both option for this pole.

Jenna_spears 06-09-2009 05:43 PM

im both, best of both worlds!! xxx:coupling:

jon69bro 06-12-2009 03:32 PM

Submissive
 
I enjoy total surrender & pleasing my partner.

maskedmichael 06-13-2009 11:49 AM

Who can resist a shemale in thighboots and full Domme outfit?

nalypa 06-14-2009 07:19 AM

I think so.

franalexes 06-14-2009 07:46 AM

I'm redhead. I'm submissive if I can have my own way and you do as I tell you.:cool:

whydoesitalwaysrainonme 06-14-2009 11:01 AM

dominant
 
i'd say i'm dominant, i'd rather be the one actually doing the shagging rather than having it done to me.

Eklipse 06-14-2009 01:40 PM

All i think about is getting ram hard in the ass by a huge cock mmmmmm. I Wish:(

thedrift 06-17-2009 06:37 PM

think i'd enjoy both, with the right lady tho

sexchannel 06-17-2009 10:49 PM

i would have voted in between if that option was there

Hankstar3 06-18-2009 12:03 AM

I like being the doer...
 
So to speak, but if the mood is right and the planets are in alignment there's may be a chance that I allow things to be the other way around.

Hieronymus 06-19-2009 02:18 AM

I'm somewhat selfish...which pretty much makes me dominant.

bigguy101 06-28-2009 01:01 AM

i am both :D

ThrashMedal 06-28-2009 03:22 PM

I'd say Dominant.

tslust 06-28-2009 10:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eklipse (Post 89510)
All i think about is getting ram hard in the ass by a huge cock mmmmmm.

Ya me too.:turnon::turnon:

rockabilly 06-28-2009 10:49 PM

Well i got my cock ready , wheres your sexy ass at? ;)

tslust 06-28-2009 11:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 91873)
Well i got my cock ready , wheres your sexy ass at? ;)

I'm right here and all lubed up for you baby:kiss:.
:kiss::turnon::coupling::inlove::heart:

rockabilly 06-28-2009 11:58 PM

Then lay on your back and put your legs on my shoulders ... good girl now relax ... Ooohh yeah baby i'm easing in ... oooh nice and tight ... now kiss me. :coupling:

tslust 06-29-2009 12:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 91880)
Then lay on your back and put your legs on my shoulders ... good girl now relax ... Ooohh yeah baby i'm easing in ... oooh nice and tight ... now kiss me. :coupling:

mmmmm Ya baby:kiss:, our lips meet and your tongue slips into my mouth. You push your :drool:cock:drool: deeper into my tight ass.
:kiss::turnon::turnon:

rockabilly 06-29-2009 12:47 AM

Now my cock is buried in your quivering hole i kiss you gently on your neck and lightly pinch your nipples. I slowly withdraw until only my bulging head remains inside then i thrust forward halfway as you gasp and clench tightly on my throbbing member. I rotate my hips and push deeper as you start digging your nails into my back ...

tslust 06-29-2009 01:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 91892)
Now my cock is buried in your quivering hole i kiss you gently on your neck and lightly pinch your nipples. I slowly withdraw until only my bulging head remains inside then i thrust forward halfway as you gasp and clench tightly on my throbbing member. I rotate my hips and push deeper as you start digging your nails into my back ...

Our eyes lock together as you slowly pump your big, hard :drool:cock:drool: in and out of my ass. You reach down and wrap your hand around my cock and begin to stroke in rhythm with your :drool:cock:drool:. You kiss me again as I rock my hips to meet your thrusts.

rockabilly 06-29-2009 01:24 AM

Our bodies are moving in unison. My cock is sliding in and out of your loosend ass. Your eyes roll back w/ ecstacy w/ each loving stroke. Your cock twitching in my hand is oozing pre-cum ... soon i'm gonna pop. I stare into your lust filled eyes and whisper ... " I'm gonna cum baby ... " my voice trails off as i unload spurt after spurt of hot sticky cum deep in your ass ...

tslust 06-29-2009 01:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 91905)
Our bodies are moving in unison. My cock is sliding in and out of your loosend ass. Your eyes roll back w/ ecstacy w/ each loving stroke. Your cock twitching in my hand is oozing pre-cum ... soon i'm gonna pop. I stare into your lust filled eyes and whisper ... " I'm gonna cum baby ... " my voice trails off as i unload spurt after spurt of hot sticky cum deep in your ass ...

You hold your :drool:cock:drool: inside me for a moment, before sliping it out. I look into your eyes and say, "I'm close baby. I wanna cum in your mouth." You slide down and take my cock into your mouth. I shut my eyes in extacy as you run your tongue over my head while you finger my well fucked ass. Then, before I know it, I shoot my cum in your mouth. I pull you back up to me for a deep kiss.
:kiss::turnon::coupling::inlove::heart:

tslust 06-29-2009 01:42 AM

6 Attachment(s)
Hey baby:kiss:, I hope you enjoy.
:kiss::turnon::coupling::inlove::heart:

rockabilly 06-29-2009 01:48 AM

We kiss and you taste your cum as you use your tongue and force it down my throat. I snuggle up close behind you and kiss you goodnight and we drift off to sleep both satisfied and exhausted. :kiss:

That was fucking fantastic baby , goodnight and thanks to all those watching who let us continue uninterrupted. Post your comments please , and baby we gotta get together real soon. :inlove: :coupling: ;) Bye

tslust 06-29-2009 10:58 AM

Thanks baby:kiss:, that was soo much fun.:yes::innocent:
:kiss::turnon::coupling::inlove::heart:

rockabilly 06-29-2009 11:23 AM

Your welcome baby, I love those pics. :turnon: i'm waiting for you to visit me. :inlove: Then we can have more fun :coupling: :kiss:

Panty Bulge Fan 07-09-2009 12:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 91962)
Your welcome baby, I love those pics. :turnon: i'm waiting for you to visit me. :inlove: Then we can have more fun :coupling: :kiss:

Rockabilly I love tslust too! Isn't she so much fun.

rockabilly 07-09-2009 06:30 PM

Yeah Tslust is amazing!

tslust 07-09-2009 07:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 93381)
Yeah Tslust is amazing!

Thank's baby:kiss::hug: You're the best.:kiss:
:kiss::turnon::coupling::inlove::heart:

Panty Bulge Fan 07-09-2009 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 93381)
Yeah Tslust is amazing!

Yeah she is a stellar person. Fun and smart. Sexy and shy. Perfect.

Panty Bulge Fan 07-09-2009 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tslust (Post 93384)
Thank's baby:kiss::hug: You're the best.:kiss:
:kiss::turnon::coupling::inlove::heart:

You two are cute.

rockabilly 07-09-2009 07:35 PM

Oh yeah we fit together perfectly , especially in one area ... we both love posting.

Panty Bulge Fan 07-10-2009 03:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 93394)
Oh yeah we fit together perfectly , especially in one area ... we both love posting.

Posting is fun especially with tslust.

rockabilly 07-10-2009 03:49 AM

Yeah she loves to post, Lusty can post all night. ;)

Panty Bulge Fan 07-10-2009 06:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 93475)
Yeah she loves to post, Lusty can post all night. ;)

I know right. And they are meaningful and fun conversations. She says some of the best stuff. And it is awesome because the posting can go well into the night.

I love talking to her too.

Panty Bulge Fan 07-10-2009 06:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 93475)
Yeah she loves to post, Lusty can post all night. ;)

Somehow this submissive thread has turned into us praising tslust! :turnon::respect:

I am currently watching Rogue Adventures #31. It begins with Aerial playing with 2 dudes. Right now she is fucking ramming the hell out of some dude who is laying on the floor with his legs spread in the air. Oh she smacked his ass, pulled out and she tells him to suck her shecock. The other guy yells out "Suck that fucking cock." Aerial is sitting on the ground with her massive cock being sucked on, and her head is turned the other direction as she is getting mouth fucked by the other guy.

I really like nasty 3somes. So I guess what I am asking is, do you 2 have room for 1 more?

tslust 07-10-2009 02:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Panty Bulge Fan (Post 93490)
Somehow this submissive thread has turned into us praising tslust! :turnon::respect:

I am currently watching Rogue Adventures #31. It begins with Aerial playing with 2 dudes. Right now she is fucking ramming the hell out of some dude who is laying on the floor with his legs spread in the air. Oh she smacked his ass, pulled out and she tells him to suck her shecock. The other guy yells out "Suck that fucking cock." Aerial is sitting on the ground with her massive cock being sucked on, and her head is turned the other direction as she is getting mouth fucked by the other guy.

I really like nasty 3somes. So I guess what I am asking is, do you 2 have room for 1 more?

Si, you want to double team me?;):D:turnon:

rockabilly 07-10-2009 02:33 PM

Not really my scene since i prefer to focus on pleasing her ... but it's her call. As i said i want to please her.

ila 07-10-2009 03:22 PM

This thread is about being submissive or dominant. If you want to post about a topic other than this then post in the appropriate thread.

Panty Bulge Fan 07-10-2009 06:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tslust (Post 93546)
Si, you want to double team me?;):D:turnon:

Do you think you could handle riding me, with your cock flapping around, and sucking on rock's cock?

Panty Bulge Fan 07-10-2009 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 93549)
Not really my scene since i prefer to focus on pleasing her ... but it's her call. As i said i want to please her.

I feel you, but I like a wild time. I thought you could handle it, me cheering tslust on as she sucks your cock? Oh fuck.

Panty Bulge Fan 07-10-2009 09:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ila (Post 93553)
This thread is about being submissive or dominant. If you want to post about a topic other than this then post in the appropriate thread.

I will submit to that! :innocent:

9yneGuy 07-10-2009 10:25 PM

I'm submissive. I would want to play the submissive role in the bedroom while my transexual partner plays the dominant role since to me there's nothing hotter than a t-girl who uses her cock to be dominant, just controlling the sex.

Hung Tung 07-28-2009 11:50 AM

Some of it depends on the tgirl I guess. I did vote submissive but I'm sure if a found a very fem asian petite ladyboy I would enjoy dominating her. Of course if I did make that find I would have a repeat visit where I would want her to dominate me.

aries 07-28-2009 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockabilly (Post 93475)
Yeah she loves to post, Lusty can post all night. ;)

You two really rock....... and it's exciting!! :turnon::turnon:

Ila, if you move them to a different thread, let us know where to go, as they are as hot as I have experienced in my LB's bedroom, without penetration!!
:coupling::respect:

A.

harrypeirce 07-29-2009 08:06 AM

I am very much a dominant and always will be, no part of me wants to submit!! Haha scary!!!!

spike_40 07-29-2009 09:04 AM

Dom
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by SluttyShemaleAnna (Post 69473)
I'm just curious what the numbers are.

Dom all the way want to know more ask me

jdawg 07-30-2009 04:10 AM

I'm pretty surprised that the poll went the way it did. I would've thought that more guys would be dominant than not. Oh well.



I'm dominant in bed for the most part. I will give oral, but will want to control the rest of the action. Really that's the way I am throughout the rest of my life too. I love to make decisions.

bruce1ee 07-31-2009 08:26 AM

little more submissive, just cant be too big :)

smx123 07-31-2009 11:59 AM

I'm definitely a submissive. To be penetratet by a beautiful girl is what I love :yes:

Collant 08-05-2009 01:09 AM

I'm very submisive with old person, i french we say, "je suis une lope":drool:

I love suck old dick and receive mass of cum in my face

timhaas 09-04-2009 11:14 AM

Dominant, no doubt! I can't think about being submissive with a beautiful feminine ladyboy - what for? It all depends on whether u like to fuck or being fucked, I suppose.

johndowe 09-06-2009 04:38 PM

Hi there.

I think i'm dominant because i didn't do everything she told me to.

JohnDowe.

johndowe 09-06-2009 04:47 PM

Hi there.

I was maried.

We would get into arguments, i let her win, make up sex, Yay!

Then we got into more serious arguments, i won.

Next day my lunch was SOOOO SALTY...

Then she got into the habbit of starting arguements just to try to win, which i was wise to and always won, after a while of this bs she gave up and left, if she hadn't left i would have kicked her out.

Got divorced, very glad to be rid of her, why did i get maried in the first place?

I wish i had a good ansewer.

JohnDowe.

sxian 09-07-2009 04:51 AM

i'm a dominant male who dream a submissive shemale

jedthejew 09-07-2009 09:31 PM

I'm just gonna go with "open".

Michael27ky 08-01-2010 02:55 PM

I chose submissive but I consider myself a versatile bottom. I am happy as the top or bottom or both. I generally let her decide. I have only had sex with one before and we both bottomed for eachother and 69ed.

Mel Asher 08-01-2010 03:18 PM

Topsy Turvy sex
 
OTE=Naked Freedom;87847]i like being both.....variety.....
being ordered is fun at times and ordering is equally fun
so i dont have any option for voting... u should add another option indicating both[/QUOTE]

Got to say I'm of a like mind to this.
I assume we are talking about the sexual role here - not about the Domestic Role ( which can be quite different )

On the Heterosexual side I prefer to be Dominant, although if I get bored I play things the other way round.

Shemale sex or Gay - more likely to opt for Submissive. Might depend on what my partner wanted and also on how much I cared.

At the end of the day it would probably depend on who won the wrestling match - winner gets to choose !

Happy :turnon::turnon:

no1000 08-01-2010 10:46 PM

Both equally.

elexis666 08-02-2010 05:13 PM

Definitely submissive. My love of shemales stems from my interest in femdom and women with strapons.

aw9725 08-03-2010 12:32 AM

Dominant. Whatd?ya expect? ;)

FlacoPro 08-03-2010 06:41 PM

I'm really submissive. And I've got a big butt too lol, I've had random girls smack my butt lol. But I need a nice T-girl to take this virgin big booty :turnon:

tin 08-06-2010 08:21 AM

i seem to be with the majority of the "either way" crowd . . . am not sure i mind it either way, i guess i go with whatever the other wants =]

Jason035 12-05-2010 11:42 PM

Dominant
 
I am dominant, I love nothing more than a petite little minx of a tgurl mewing for my hardness, begging me to split her ass and gag her on my cock...

paulmal32 12-06-2010 06:28 PM

I am dominant in and out of the bedroom.

I was actually thinking earlier about a scenario I'd love to live out. We are finally alone and ready to get down to business. She has this belief that she is the dominant one, obviously we don't know each other that well. She tries bossing me around and I grab her by the dick, pull her in close, kiss her deep. I pull my lips away from hers and she looks at me in awe. She has never had a man control her this way. She just knows she is not going to win this and she is liking this new feeling. I know this to be true as I reach around her and grab her ass. Her dick, still in my hand, begins to grow. I walk into her and she backs up and lays on the bed. I push her leg up and bring myself up to enter her. Her dick never escapes my hand. I enter her slowly and she moans as she takes me in. I begin to thrust into her and stroke her rock hard cock to my rhythm. She is letting herself just relax as I work her. I kiss her tits, her neck and I just let my mouth wander on her smooth skin. I push in deep, deep into her warm ass and I cum inside of her. She lays back and is enjoying the feeling of my juices in her. I pull out and she suddenly feels me pull away. She looks up with eyes that are filled with sadness as she beliefs our passion is over. She looks down her firm body and sees me sinking between her legs. In exchange of glances she knows she is getting her reward for being such a good slut. I tongue her ass as the cum runs out. I continue to stroke her and she is losing control. She starts screaming with ecstasy. I put my fingers in her ass, press her prostate and tightly wrap my lips around her cock. I finger her as I work her shaft in my mouth. In my mouth she can feel me tongue the head of her dick. She can't control it anymore. She has totally submitted and asks if she can come! I don't say a word and I just continue to work her cock with my mouth. My fingers press inside of her and she can't help but to spray her warm jizz in my mouth. I swallow her load and she is paralyzed with pleasure. We shower and we don't say much. But from this moment on she knows that she belongs to me and I am hers.

Artudor 12-07-2010 05:20 AM

It all depends on my mood.... I like both. I think variety is the key!

stockbridge 12-26-2010 05:51 AM

From my extremely limited experience as much as I am a submissive lover of T-Girls I think most T-Girls are submissive also. Does this seem true to others?

geeyer 12-26-2010 03:11 PM

i have been both, cant say i prefer one more than the other... Was once totally dominated by a t-girl and loved it, was treated like a total slut, spat on, gagged, slapped and fucked really hard. Most of it on front a huge mirror. She came all over my face and licked it all up. One of my fave t-girl experiences.

I also once shared a t-girls and female, i was in total control the whole time. Did everything possible, fucked them in every hole. They sucked my cock for about half a hour, then we sucked and fucked each other in every possible position, finally we DP'ed the girl and both came on her face. My favourite tgirl experience and i hope to do i again with them real soon!

tslover 12-27-2010 04:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Artudor (Post 167301)
It all depends on my mood.... I like both. I think variety is the key!

same with me...

pxmartin69 01-28-2011 12:25 PM

I am submissive. I tend to be dominant with my girl

franalexes 01-28-2011 12:35 PM

You know very well I let my partner have the last word. It's " yes dear."

smc 01-28-2011 12:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pxmartin69 (Post 173186)
I am submissive. I tend to be dominant with my girl

Which is it? Are you submissive and say you're dominant with your girl as part of your submission to her? Or are you dominant with your girl but submissive in all other ways? Or what? It's just so confusing. :confused:

randolph 01-28-2011 01:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by franalexes (Post 173187)
You know very well I let my partner have the last word. It's " yes dear."

Fran, you make my day. LOL! :lol:

randolph 01-28-2011 01:23 PM

buysexual?
 
If you pay a shemale $500 for the privilege of sucking her cock, are you submissive or just a sucker?

GCharles 01-28-2011 01:25 PM

Mostly submissive i would say, maybe 60/40 % of the time I'd rather be submissive?

Seraph 02-03-2011 01:20 PM

I am definitely submissive... :turnon:

jesse_slut 02-05-2011 01:12 AM

very submissive


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