Why we like shemales

[caligula]

Ive heard a lot of crap about this attraction to shemales being a way for self-deluded gay men to come to terms with their sexuality without admitting to themselves that they're gay

Most actual gay men Ive met aren't into shemales at all so I know there is something way off about this theory. And as transexualism doesn't exist in nature we can't say its necessarily a natural tendency we're born with to have this attraction

So my theory is that the attraction is purely hetero. Most of us like the more feminine features and I see this expressed again and again. Its just that when you put a penis on what looks like a hot woman you feel like you intuitively understand her body better. She feels like you do.

Of course this is all man made, so its kind of a big delusion, but what a glorious delusion it is. God Bless the Twenty-First Century

Anyways thats my theory. Does anyone else have some?

[inadaze]

And as transexualism doesn't exist in nature we can't say its necessarily a natural tendency we're born with to have this attraction




Hmm I never thought about transexualism in nature before. I know that some animals are gay.

I think I agree with the thrust of your argument. Another point is we do it because we have the choice , we are sentient beings and its a higher state of consciousness. Lots of us, myself for example cant go all the way and are not into being with gays no matter how open to it we are. These are limits which are hard wired into us but to put no self imposed limits on who you can love or be with is an advanced higher state of consciousness in my opinion. :respect:

[rollon]

to caligula: mabe you got right

[rollon]

Ive heard a lot of crap about this attraction to shemales being a way for self-deluded gay men to come to terms with their sexuality without admitting to themselves that they're gay

Most actual gay men Ive met aren't into shemales at all so I know there is something way off about this theory. And as transexualism doesn't exist in nature we can't say its necessarily a natural tendency we're born with to have this attraction

So my theory is that the attraction is purely hetero. Most of us like the more feminine features and I see this expressed again and again. Its just that when you put a penis on what looks like a hot woman you feel like you intuitively understand her body better. She feels like you do.

Of course this is all man made, so its kind of a big delusion, but what a glorious delusion it is. God Bless the Twenty-First Century

Anyways thats my theory. Does anyone else have some?




for me is the lingerie show..I allways had an fetish about blonds, stayups, deep red lipstick etc...all my x-girls didnt have that fetish...m abe little..but not what I wanted. when you see ladyboys they work hard to be a lady inkluded clothes, shoes makup and evrythingt..no girls in Norway I`ve meet have that fetish..thats why I turned to ladyboys..that got it ALL.

[Colin3488]

Ive heard a lot of crap about this attraction to shemales being a way for self-deluded gay men to come to terms with their sexuality without admitting to themselves that they're gay

Most actual gay men Ive met aren't into shemales at all so I know there is something way off about this theory. And as transexualism doesn't exist in nature we can't say its necessarily a natural tendency we're born with to have this attraction

So my theory is that the attraction is purely hetero. Most of us like the more feminine features and I see this expressed again and again. Its just that when you put a penis on what looks like a hot woman you feel like you intuitively understand her body better. She feels like you do.

Of course this is all man made, so its kind of a big delusion, but what a glorious delusion it is. God Bless the Twenty-First Century

Anyways thats my theory. Does anyone else have some?
I do not subscribe the “transexualism doesn't exist in nature” argument. I suspect that Transsexuals have always existed. Not so long ago, gay men, transsexuals and cross-dressers probably were categorised into one group.

As modern medicine has identified diseases today from what was considered “Pox” in the Sixteenth Century, technology/research in the Twenty-First Century allows the distinction between gay men, transsexuals and cross-dressers to be made.

I also suspect that men that strongly desired transsexuals would search these relationships. Unfortunately not so, long ago opportunities to explore these desires would have been almost non-existent due to unjust laws defining them as “socially unacceptable”. The result would have been that these relationships would have been “extremely underground”.

For the majority (me included as I only discovered my desires on a chance meeting) the joys of transsexual’s relationships would have been a mystery. The opportunity for “self enlightenment” would have been absent.

I’m not sure whether it is hetro or gay and “quite frankly my dear I don’t give a damn”. All I know is that I like the personalities and appearance of genetic women but I find them sexually unfulfilling and it is very difficult to “cum. On the other hand went I “bed” a shemale, I almost premature ejaculate and definitely “shoot a bigger load”.

[cham]

With shemales, I’ll go with the “best of both worlds� theory. However, the combination of both masculine and feminine, to my mind, creates something more beautiful than men or women. I find shemales / ladyboys to be more beautiful than women, and for me that’s the attraction.

I would not say that I am gay or hetero, but would say that I am attracted to this third sex.

By the by, do read Cal Y Pygia essay, “Shemales: An Appreciation.�

Cham

[TSloverboid]

I have always liked being penetrated anally, but, I don't want it done by a guy. I have asked my wife to stick her finger up my ass she doesn't want to. We have used anal beads but that didn't do it. The thought of a strap on does not appeal to her or me really. So about a month ago I discovered Eros and had my first that I documented my feeling about on this very site. I'm not that much into the cock sucking but do it because it pleases her. Transexuals are NOT guys (gays), they are women stuck with a penis. I wish I had discovered this lifestyle 10 yrs ago before I got married.

[ila]

I like shemales because they are so feminine. The majority are more beautiful than gg's. They also have cocks which for me only increases my attraction. Every time I see a shemale I want to know what her cock feels like (unlike when I see men I have no interest in their cocks).

[rookie2]

The strange thing is, that I dont care about the cocks of men, but I'm just crazy about the shemale cock! Somehow they look feminine and beautiful, and sweet. Shemales also like nice stockings, panties, lace stuff, witch you dont see on regular porn often these days.

[Hankstar3]

And would like to second the fact that an attraction to shemale is not an indication that you're gay, not that I have anything against those who are however I know that my attraction to shemales is more due to the fact that they're feminine in look and actions.

[captaindunsel]

And would like to second the fact that an attraction to shemale is not an indication that you're gay, not that I have anything against those who are however I know that my attraction to shemales is more due to the fact that they're feminine in look and actions.

I have to agree with that. I think genetic females have, for the most part, given up femininity. They don't look like they put any effort into being a woman. When's the last time you saw a woman (outside of a magazine, the net, or a special occassion) wearing stockings and heels? Hell, women don't usually wear dresses, let alone heels.

T-girls go out of their way to dress and act feminine. They have picked up what genetic women have dropped.

[ila]

I have to agree with that. I think genetic females have, for the most part, given up femininity. They don't look like they put any effort into being a woman. When's the last time you saw a woman (outside of a magazine, the net, or a special occassion) wearing stockings and heels? Hell, women don't usually wear dresses, let alone heels.

T-girls go out of their way to dress and act feminine. They have picked up what genetic women have dropped.

I would also have to agree on that.

[stephen54]

I have been told that by several gay guys Iknow, but the thing is I don't get turne on by guys, I like girls and girlie boys and the boys must always be dressed to turn me on, after all a naked trannie is just a guy...........a naked tg or now, thats different

[jgutierrez]

And would like to second the fact that an attraction to shemale is not an indication that you're gay, not that I have anything against those who are however I know that my attraction to shemales is more due to the fact that they're feminine in look and actions.

:respect:

id agree with that too.

[Dreadedflower]

I love them because I've been crossdressing since I was 11-12 and when I learned about shemales at 16, I saw that my dream of being a pretty girl was possible. Seeing a sexy shemale getting fucked makes me horny because I can imagine that I'm the one getting fucked.

[Hankstar3]

I love them because I've been crossdressing since I was 11-12 and when I learned about shemales at 16, I saw that my dream of being a pretty girl was possible. Seeing a sexy shemale getting fucked makes me horny because I can imagine that I'm the one getting fucked.

Now that's a response that I wasn't expecting to read. The hot part for me would involve the doing not receiving, but hey with the right lady no option is total closed.

[GerMat]

For me, and I am hetero - gay porn doesn't turn me on at all -, it has to be a shemale with a unambiguous feminin face. I have to *believe* it's a woman I think. And then seeing a dick plus perhaps wonderful breasts is maybe simply getting the best of both worlds? Also with a shemale you as man can be passive part, should be interesting to explore. Especially if you like your anus when playing with yourself. :-) Or is it the total lack of gymnastic talent why I am visualizing to lick a dick between legs of another person (woman)?

If I had a wish free I clearly would prefer a beautiful ladyboy to an otherwise equally attractive 'normal' woman. I don't know what it is, but it is very addictive. :) So far only in my imagination but who knows ...

I can't imagine a world without shemales anymore. The best about it would be missing!

[giancarlo]

Don't know exactly...there's something kinky in it, I guess...

[neoomegakupo]

For me, I guess it's because I envy parts that I don't have. As a male, I don't have any large body parts, such as penis, chest, hands, feet, except maybe my butt.

Sometimes I look at a guy, but it's not because I like him, but because of parts that he has. I love big breasts, and big nipples. I was lucky enough to be with a naturally big breasted girl. You don't really notice a man's chest or nipples because it's not large to begin with and all males have them.

But you noticed them on a shemale. Whether it's enhanced or not, it's still noticeable. But besides that it's also the shaved legs, and facial hair. I hate hair except on top of a person's head.

[ila]

I hate hair except on top of a person's head.

Yes, the only place for hair.:respect:

[TRK]

Attraction towards shemales is not at all gayish. Its what they call it as gay curious. After all its the feminine features of a shemale that we are attracted towards and not the masculine features....So enjoy watching shemales and happy jerking.....

[Bionca]

Transsexualism does actually occur in nature. There are various species of fish and reptiles that we know will change sex depending on environmental factors.

Also, it seems a primary focus of men who are attracted to gals like me to first question and then go to great length to deny being gay. My first thought is.. does it matter?

Then I realize that having someone else chose something as important as ones identity stinks. It doesn't matter if that is relating to gender or sexual orientation. Being incorrectly classified and treated differently because of that mistake hurts, is dangerous, and is generally confusing.

From my perspective, and I'd wager that of any trans* person, is that I have already sorted that stuff out. I have already heard it, seen it, ran from it and finally embraced it. It's like a Physist helping their young child struggle with addition, it's hard to remember this being difficult.

If fear of being mis-labeled as gay for liking a trans* woman is THAT big of a deal, then you may want to think long and hard about how real your attraction is. Think about how real your fantasy of meeting and being with a TG really is. If you really couldn't handle being called "fag" if someone clocks your girlie, perhaps this is best left to the realm of porn/fantasy. You see, I hate being braver than the men I date.