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tslust

09-14-2010, 08:26 PM

Everyone, or I should hope most people, knows that having unprotected sex (bareback) is almost like playing Russian roulette.

I chatted with a guy last night and after laying out the "ground rules" (he wanted raw but I insisted on a rubber) of what we wanted to do, we set up a rendezvous with him today after work. Everything was going great. He had a great body and a nice :drool:cock:drool:. After giving him head, he ate and fingered my ass. Then he put a rubber on and fucked my ass. He alternated from slow passionate love making to pounding my ass hard and fast. After several positions and about 30 blissful minutes of his :drool:cock:drool: deep inside my ass, he pulled out and took the condom off.

I expected him to give me a facial, but he slid his cock back inside my ass. I don't think I'll forget that sick grin as he gave me a few more strokes and then shot his cum inside my ass. He withdrew his limp cock, put his cloths back on and walked away. I was in tears, after some time, I got dressed and left.

Now I'm going to have to get tested to see if he "gave" me anything. To anyone who took the time to read this, please respect the wishes of your partner and always be safe.

ila

09-14-2010, 08:39 PM

I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I hope everything turns out alright for you. You have my deepest sympathy for what happened.

I hope you have enough of his personal details so that if he did give you anything that he can be traced and his activities stopped. In some jurisdictions what he did can be classified as sexual assault.

rockabilly

09-14-2010, 09:01 PM

I'm sorry that happened to you , and I hope your tests come back clean.

cham

09-14-2010, 09:35 PM

I'm really sorry this happened and wish you all luck.

Cham

The Conquistador

09-14-2010, 10:09 PM

I'm sorry to hear that! :( Some people are twisted and will pull that kind of shit. I hope nothing bad results from this and that the guy was just being a douchebag. I will be praying for you. :yes:

aw9725

09-14-2010, 11:07 PM

Add me to the list. I am very sorry to hear about what happened. Hope you are OK. Ila is right, this creep could be charged with assault.

tslust

09-15-2010, 12:46 AM

I thank everyone for their sympathy. I talked to the cops after it happened. They told me that they probably wouldn't be able to get the guy on a rape charge, because it was (except for the end) an act of mutual consent. Possible indecent, or even aggrivated, assault. They took my statement and I still had some of his semen on my thong.

To my surprise, they were kind and considerate. Although they weren't exactly accepting; at least I didn't have a desk sergeant tell me that I got what I deserved.

About 1 in every 5 people have some kind of STD. That's only 20%, so I guess that the numbers are on my side. I feel better already, not really.

I guess that life goes on. Talking about it seems to help, kinda.

transjen

09-15-2010, 02:25 AM

Sorry to hear all this went down, :frown: i hope your test come back neg
:hug: Jennifer

smc

09-15-2010, 07:15 AM

Of course, I wish for the best possible test results.

This sort of behavior by men shames me as a man. Just as no means no, so too must the "ground rules" be respected in a sexual encounter.

I am glad, tslust, that (as you write) "talking about it seems to help," even if only "kinda." I also thank you for sharing this with the Forum. If it serves to remind only one other member here of the importance of remembering that "consent" is more than "yes" but has multiple layers, you have done a great service to us all.

tslust

09-16-2010, 07:22 PM

I saw the doctor, today. He took blood and urine samples. The reasults should come back in 7-10 days. The doctor talked to me about the chances of infection. He told me that I probably didn't have anything to worry about. He also said that I should get tested again at two months and once more at six months; because sometimes, if a test is performed soon after exposure, the test might give a false negative.

jackgoff007

09-16-2010, 07:31 PM

So sorry to hear about that ass clown!! what a fu*ckin douchebag!!
good luck i hope the tests come back negative.
im glad to hear everyone is pulling for you.
stay strong!!

GRH

09-16-2010, 09:33 PM

That sucks that you've got to get tested three times. Or I guess you could skip the test at 2 months and just go at 6. But still. That sucks. I'm sorry you encountered such a jackass.

tslust

10-07-2010, 12:04 AM

The Conquistador

10-07-2010, 01:27 AM

That's good to hear! :yes::yes::yes:

I think we are all glad that you are ok.

Lord.Steve

10-07-2010, 01:33 AM

sorry to hear what happened.. And am happy you didn't get anything :heart:

runround04

10-10-2010, 09:29 PM

WTF is wrong with people? What a jerk... Glad to hear your okay

Naked Freedom

10-12-2010, 03:46 PM

First of all, thanks everyone for your thoughts and prayers. The tests came back negative, and I'm not pregnant:lol:.

I think, at least for now, I think I'll do a little more screening process before I let a guy "tap" my ass.
first of all...i am deeply pained on knowing what u had been through...:(
There are all sorts of people there...sigh
Happy to know that all results of the tests were as you hoped them to be :)

rockabilly

10-14-2010, 05:47 PM

I'm glad you're ok , good luck w/ the next tests.

moonvisage

10-17-2010, 02:14 AM

I am so glad everything is ok at present.I have never heard of such an evil occurence before,it must have been horrific for you.I hope the man in question gets arrested.

TheCrystalKing

10-19-2010, 01:06 PM

That was a terrible thing for him to do, and I'm glad you're ok! :)

However, I've always found that condoms are more likely to break when having anal sex... so even if the guy isn't trying to do you wrong, there is that risk :(

paulmal32

11-06-2010, 05:14 PM

What a terrible piece of shit! I'm glad you're OK. I hope this didn't cause any trauma (physical or mental).

alphanumeric

11-08-2010, 07:44 PM

shadows

11-08-2010, 11:54 PM

I too am sorry to hear of this, and this to me is one of the reasons why I think prostitution should be legalized, so stuff like this could be made illegal.

On a side note though, this is a perfect example of someone who thinks that sex providers aren't human and don't deserve the same respect you would show a non commercial sex partner.

So to all girls please be careful out there.

I apologize if I am misinterpreting what you said, alphanumeric, but I don't believe that tslust is a professional in the way that you are describing.

From the sounds of it this was something that occurred on her personal time from a person that she thought she could trust.

tslust

11-09-2010, 07:43 PM

I apologize if I am misinterpreting what you said, alphanumeric, but I don't believe that tslust is a professional in the way that you are describing.

From the sounds of it this was something that occurred on her personal time from a person that she thought she could trust.

Ya, I'm not taht kind of professional. I've thought about it, butt with my luck, my first trick would actually be a cop.:eek::lol:

shadows

11-09-2010, 09:32 PM

Ya, I'm not taht kind of professional. I've thought about it, butt with my luck, my first trick would actually be a cop.:eek::lol:

After seeing you, he would let you off with a warning and then beg you for a kiss.:cool::respect:

Speaking of your original post, how is everything going with you? Did it turn out okay with the latest test? *fingers crossed*

tslust

11-09-2010, 11:28 PM

After seeing you, he would let you off with a warning and then beg you for a kiss.:cool::respect:

Speaking of your original post, how is everything going with you? Did it turn out okay with the latest test? *fingers crossed*

I'll be getting tested Friday. (fingers crossed and holding my breath, at least until I pass out:lol:)

shadows

11-10-2010, 10:41 PM

I'll be getting tested Friday. (fingers crossed and holding my breath, at least until I pass out:lol:)

I'll be sending good vibes and a :hug: your way!:)

kelly96385

11-25-2010, 10:48 AM

i try to be safe but sometimes the urge to do it right now over comes everything else

TgirlReviews

11-25-2010, 11:16 AM

I'll be sending good vibes and a :hug: your way!:)

Yeah the test is not fun to go through. I actually got a clean bill of health recently myself, decided to get everything tested after a trip from asia, though I did keep protected at all time there are still chances... it was insanely stressful waiting for the results... but just for some people to know cause I did hit my doctor up with a lot of questions

Bareback and HIV. For the ass receiving it the chances are higher for infection, harder for the virus to pass up through the penis but easier to transmit into an ass. Though that does not mean you can top all you want, there is still a chance... from what I have read even if you do have unprotected sex the chances for HIV is still quite low usually around 3 to 5% however they can be increased if someone has a cut, sores etc and of course by the frequency, if you are fucking all the time with infected people it is obvious your chances increase..

In any case there are lots of other STDS you can get as well from the Clap, Warts, Herpes and the list goes on, a condom helps but stuff like Warts is skin on skin contact so it always doesnt protect you. Also some people are also not aware that if a person has some STDS the mouth can be infected and transferred from Mouth to Cock...For instance if someone has oral herpes and has an outbreak and blows your unprotected package, guess what you could get genital herpes. and finally some people don't show any signs of having an STD so you can't always go on by what you see.

If you aren't going to wear a condom for blowjobs at least try to inspect the mouth, make sure there isnt any cold sores on lips or gums...though in the midst of passion that might not be on everyones mind.

I am no doctor, but if you plan to dive into unprotected sex make sure you are up on what is safe and what is not...

And finally what that guy did to you was completely insane, he is a complete asshole... if two people agree to bareback then they understand the risks and in my opinion that is ok cause they both consent but to shove it in is just a guy that is a complete dick.

tslust

11-25-2010, 10:11 PM

I'll be sending good vibes and a :hug: your way!:)

BTW my test came back negative. I was going to celebrate;) wuth the halloween guy:drool:, butt he's still out of town.

TgirlReviews

11-25-2010, 10:55 PM

BTW my test came back negative. I was going to celebrate;) wuth the halloween guy:drool:, butt he's still out of town.

Glad to hear it! I was doing back flips in my mind when i got my good news back

ila

11-26-2010, 04:58 PM

BTW my test came back negative. I was going to celebrate;) wuth the halloween guy:drool:, butt he's still out of town.

I'm glad for you. :hug:

smc

11-26-2010, 05:41 PM

BTW my test came back negative.

So very glad to hear this!

Nakonas

11-27-2010, 02:55 AM

BTW my test came back negative.

Glad to read that, tslust!

franalexes

11-29-2010, 06:38 AM

Sharp contrast between what we have in our fantasies and the realities we run up against in life. When they match, there's nothing like it

shadows

11-30-2010, 10:14 PM

BTW my test came back negative. I was going to celebrate;) wuth the halloween guy:drool:, butt he's still out of town.

I am very glad to hear this!:hug:

Lucky halloween guy...:yes:

shadows

11-30-2010, 10:15 PM

Glad to hear it! I was doing back flips in my mind when i got my good news back

I am glad to hear that you received good news as well.:)

boby6

04-14-2011, 01:03 AM

that was just rude of him

ila

04-14-2011, 06:08 PM

that was just rude of him

No, it was not rude. What he did was criminal sexual assault.

QTstuFF

01-03-2012, 05:07 PM

ya im sorry to hear that, plzz let us knw the results soon. & heres a random quick question if anyone wants to answer....even if the guy is clean, y doesnt anyone still like cum in their ass?

ila

01-03-2012, 05:59 PM

BTW my test came back negative. I was going to celebrate;) wuth the halloween guy:drool:, butt he's still out of town.

ya im sorry to hear that, plzz let us knw the results soon. & heres a random quick question if anyone wants to answer....even if the guy is clean, y doesnt anyone still like cum in their ass?

I suppose the post quoted right above yours was too hard to understand so I'll spell it out for you:

T-H-E T-E-S-T R-E-S-U-L-T-S W-E-R-E N-E-G-A-T-I-V-E

shadows

01-04-2012, 02:39 AM

ya im sorry to hear that, plzz let us knw the results soon. & heres a random quick question if anyone wants to answer....even if the guy is clean, y doesnt anyone still like cum in their ass?

I don't know if every case would be the same, but in tslust's case, it was mainly due to his violation of her trust. He knew that she wanted to have safe sex with him, yet he placed his sexual gratification over her health and well-being. He was a scumwad, and I am just thankful that her tests came back negative.

A lot of times it may not be that the person doesn't want "cum in their ass", just that it would not be safe for them to have it done to them. If their partner is someone that they know (a long-term relationship) and trust and they have been given a clean bill of health(full range of testing) then perhaps they would allow it to happen. Again, this may not be the case for everyone.

tslust

01-04-2012, 05:19 PM

I don't know if every case would be the same, but in tslust's case, it was mainly due to his violation of her trust. He knew that she wanted to have safe sex with him, yet he placed his sexual gratification over her health and well-being. He was a scumwad, and I am just thankful that her tests came back negative.

A lot of times it may not be that the person doesn't want "cum in their ass", just that it would not be safe for them to have it done to them. If their partner is someone that they know (a long-term relationship) and trust and they have been given a clean bill of health(full range of testing) then perhaps they would allow it to happen. Again, this may not be the case for everyone.

You hit the nail on the head. Trust is key to consensual sex, especially for the receiving partner (me). I have to be able to trust the guy to play by my rules.

As for receiving creampies; it's a satisfying feeling, a guy's cum oozing out of my ass while I clean his tool or while we kiss.

tslust

01-04-2012, 05:24 PM

Guly_French

02-21-2012, 03:07 AM

I guess this is a good place to tell this :

I don't know if it is the same procedure exists abraod, but here, in France, when you have that kind of "accident" (whether it's a real accident or an act of violence), go to the nearest hospitak within 24 to 72 hours, the sooner the better.

You will get tested and if judged necessary but the doctors in charge, given a treatment which is kinda the same HIV positive people have to take, or at least the least strong of those possible treatments. You have to take it for one month, and it is hard to live (I already had to do it twice, so I know how hard it is).

But if taken well, it significantly raises your chances not to be infected. Today I'm clean, thanks to those.

Wear a rubber. Even for a blowjob. 8% of the newly infected people are infected through oral sex. Because you don't want to have that kind of treatment for the rest of your life, I tell you. And watch for the rubber too. I wear one each time or make my partner wear one, but because it broke twice, I had to go through that treatment twice.

But a rubber is nothing without mutual respect, as your story tells us.

Jenae LaTorque

02-21-2012, 11:56 AM

I am afraid I don't understand something? You sign as "gun packin' tv" ???

Where was the gun? A real gun? Or your willy? If a real gun, I suggest you show it to your future sex partners and let them know you are trained in it's use and are not afraid to use it. Let them know that if they think they need to shoot into you, then it is only just and righteous that you shoot into them.