How "SECRET" is your love of shemales.

[tlover]

pal's post "am i gay" were he worried about other people knowing his secret love of shemales got me thinking, how the rest of us are with it.
Would love to know just how open or secret you all are about your love of shemales.
So a set up this poll.
A bit serious this one.:confused:

1. VERY SECRET. I have never told anyone, partner, family or friends about my love of shemales and i never will.
I'm to scared of the consequences or repercussion's.

2. SECRET FOR NOW. I have told no one yet, but might consider telling someone close in the future.

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

4. NOT A SECRET. Most people know about it and i'm quite happy and open about it.

5. EVERYONE KNOWS. I shout it from the rooftops, i love shemales and i want everybody to know about it.
Hell I'd suck my girls cock in public if i could!.. stuff what the world thinks.

[eliogabalo]

Very interesting poll !!
My love for ladyboys is bordering on worship and adoration and i talk about him with many persons. My mother and my father know i love shemales ( "You're the disgrace of our family!"; "You're a pervert" etc.) I told the truth to my mother 2 years ago, and she reported all to my father ... Very very amusing ... :lol:
I talk about my love for ladyboys with my friends too. It's not a secret.

[guest]

secret for now..

i hope one day i find a ladyboy soul mate, then obviously it won't be a secret at all..

i'm not even sure, maybe i will never find a ladyboy for me and it will always remain "very secret" as it is right now.. no one i know personally knows of this, and i don't plan on telling anyone SOON. maybe when i'm a lot older or something.

i think my mom would not care as she is a very kind hearted person, my dad would definately care because he has always been a "macho" man.. i do believe if i tell him our relationship would never be the same.

but whatever, i love ladyboys and i won't stop until something proves me wrong.

[gizmo]

I came back from Thailand, and told all my friend's!
They dont believe me? So I dont know what you call it?
I dont care, it's my life, and I'm gonna enjoy it! ;)

[tlover]

:respect:Wish i had your courage gizmo.

[guest]

:respect:Wish i had your courage gizmo.
hey tlover what about you?

[tlover]

i'm in the secret for now, hope to find understanding partner one day.
would love to be i dont care who knows but not where i come from, I'd probably be lynched, and I'm a bit of a coward, I'm afraid to say.:(

[guest]

nvm

was gonna ask where you live but then i read it on your thingy

[tlover]

UK north west area.
i work with a lot of macho types.

[ts_lover]

Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

[mykel73]

There are a few people who know.

[markknyc]

Very secret...one of those things.

[tlover]

Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

Why not? TS

[Ogryn1313]

Where I live it is wise to keep such interests secret. Too many rednecks here.

[TranJesus]

i love them and scream it out to the world

[guest]

Where I live it is wise to keep such interests secret. Too many rednecks here.

haha where do you live man?

[Ogryn1313]

I live in Cumberland, Ky. It's right on the border with Tennessee and Virginia. Very rural and close minded about many things. And maddening! Johnson City Tennessee is about 2.5 hours from me and has a bar where gays, crossdressers, straights, and possibly shemales go. I've been there. And there were people from my town there! But I can't get there anymore. My car is too unreliable. It's the kind of trip you need to stay over night for. Same with Knoxville Tn. Seems that part of TN is quite openminded.

[Nalos Surith]

I prefer to keep it private, but I wouldn't, mind a friend in my area with a like minded love for ladyboys.

[darkways]

Personally, I'm not concerned about if anyone knows or not. I used to be, but just developed the attitude of it doesn't matter. Its my life and I have to answer for it not someone else. Now I don't go broadcasting it either. I feel that is a private decision, but if someone finds they just find out.

[hankhavelock]

From the minute I had my first relationship with a transsexual I was totally open about it. It got me some curious questions from time to time but I've basicly only been met with a positive attitude from friends and family.

I'm proud of my girl friend - she's beautiful and sweet - and showing up with her in hand in hand in public is a treat :-) I'm fairly handsome, so surely we get some looks, but that's only amusing. I'd say it's cool :-)

[yobydal]

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it. :yes:

[Distance]

Noone knows but me.

[EbonyTSLover]

SOME KNOW. One or two close friends know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.:cool:

[floydthebarber]

I think it would hurt my wife to know I look at TS Girls. The whole "what's wrong with me?" thing. Which, to be honest, I would understand. As I said before, I'm new to my sexual response to shemales, so I'm figuring it out myself. But for now, it's way too new to share.

[cockntits]

woe is me very secret:(

[tlover]

I think it would hurt my wife to know I look at TS Girls. The whole "what's wrong with me?" thing. Which, to be honest, I would understand. As I said before, I'm new to my sexual response to shemales, so I'm figuring it out myself. But for now, it's way too new to share.

Iam into it more and more now, and i think this happens to all of us tlovers, you will probably find this out, but 3 years on its still a big secret for me.
Like you i think my girlfrend would be very disturbed by it and i would hate to upset her.
Its a difficult dilemma.:(

[padeligne]

everyone that knows me, also knows that i fall for shemales. i am not ashamed of it, on the contrary.

[tgirl virgin]

Only those in other shemale forums.

[cucumber]

Very secret... For now :D

[Second Day]

Very secret.
The thing is I got a gf who I love a lot and I think she would freak out if she knew...

[Imconfused]

I have a question. I recently found out that my boyfriend loves to "wank" off to shemales.
What is it about a shemale that turns you on?

Also one night (awhile ago) we were have sex and I wanted to see how he would react, I rubbed my hand down his ace crack and then started to insert a finger, he didn't stop me. Infact when we were done he said you prob think I am weird for letting you do that to me... I didn't know how to respond. Anyways he took my hand and put it down there for me to insert my finger again. So I did.
I don't have a problem doing that, but my question is....if he likes woman with c@cks does that mean he wants to be with a real shemale, rather then just watching them?
Also for about the last two weeks, he has been "wanking" off to the shemales and has completely ignored me in the sex deptartment. Is there a problem here? Maybe he is thinking he would rather be with a shemale?
someone please humor me

[Excaliborg]

a most likely answer is that he is fascinated by this new fantasy that he is experiencing. it can be a bit overwhelming at times. please try to understand a man's sexuality is every bit as complicated as a woman's.

there is a problem if he continues to ig nore you and refuses to talk about it.

[tlover]

I wouldn't worry too much most of the guys here love females and are not gay.
What turns us on about shemales?
That's quite complex, i think for me its the beautiful femiminity of the female with the fascination of the hard erection and slight masculine side.
I think most men have a bit of a fascination with there cocks and other men's cocks but don't get turned on by the male sex.
So the female form coupled with the cock is irresistible.

I think most men get turned on by the idea or the fantasy but wont admit it.
As for him rather being with a shemale, i think you will have to expect this is just another side of his sexuality, he may want to have sex with a shemale or just fantasize about it, it doesn't mean hes going to leave you for a shemale.
Many men here have wives or girlfriends and just visit shemales now and then, his might just be a fantasy.

How did you find out and how long has his interest been? i think you need to talk to him about it.

I agree with Ex that at first when you discover a new sexual interest or fantasy it can totally consume for a while but this eventually passes and things will probably return to normal eventually, so i wouldn't worry too much just yet, let him indulge for a while until it eases.

What about your fantasies mabey you should talk to him about yours, mabey you could work each others fantasises into the relationship.
Why should he have all the fun.

[georgedemesa]

VERY SECRET im am the only 1 who knows that i love ladyboys

[SweetCharmer]

i' keeping mine to myself for the moment but soon i'll let the world know ;)

[danaik42]

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it. :yes:
no one knows bt i always go to gay bars with my brother and his girl friend and if someone shows intrest in me i do talk to them but i can not live with them coz my brother is there.i think the main problem for is that my parents are catholic and black at the same time.i was also caught cross dressing and she beat me up

[Shemlover]

It's very secret, only I know so far. And at the moment I plan on keeping it that way. I don't think there's anything wrong with liking shemales, but right now I don't see why anyone else needs to know about my sexual fantasies. I have a very wide sexuality anyway, there are so many things that turn me on. I don't think any of my friends/family really want to know about all of that.

[mobiryder]

mmm well i own a tranny blog... and all my friends know about it... and i post true, accurate stories... so everyone knows about it, EXCEPT my family (thank god my mom would have a heart attack)

:rolleyes:

[Imconfused]

Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?

[2WayStreet]

Have talked to a few close friends(Straight guys) about LBs, and all seem bewildered as they say a girl is better.

[ripulinaama]

Nobody knows , and thats ok that way :-)

[orion_pax]

very secret!

One I'll probably take to the grave! (which hopefully will be a very very long time! :) )

[Jpone]

I would rather keep it a secret

[warblade]

I love ladyboys specially they are so sexy but I have to keep it very secret because the rest of the world is not ready for it, I wish I had a friend or somebody who like them much as me

[Dells]

Very secret. I'm in no rush and feel no need to tell anyone about it, and unless I end up meeting and dating one irl things will probably stay that way for me.

[lpegna]

Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?

Hi. Well... This is kinda hard to explain, at least for me right now. But I'll try to make myself clear. If my wife would discover I like to watch shemales, ladyboys, etc. I'd panic myself! Because we always think our woman is going to leave us or something like that if she knows.

We always try to deny because we are not ready to face up the consecuences of the thoughts we have. Lets say, if you tell me you accept me _even_ with my special hobby, anyway I'd try to fix things saying I don't like and that was only a search that went wrong or something. I'm not really ready to handle that. I think I need to be a little bit more mature to accept that my wife is _accepting_ ME, the whole _me_.

Don't know. I'd last for a while before trying to talk to my wife and accept I like to watch, but I really enjoy making love to her.

How do you feel as his woman? You accept him AS IS, but are you afraid him to prefer eventually a shemale? How do you see his behaviour? I see a lot of shemale stuff, but anyway I am completely fullfilled with the relationship with my wife.

This is a kind of hobby. I'd like to have contact with a ladyboy, because I like that they are very femenine, but they have a penis between their legs, but sometimes I feel strange, because I like my wife a lot.

It is just this idea of having a kind of "dual body". It's facinating.

I hope you understand a little bit more my point of view.

Best wishes for you.

[gunslinger1985]

Secret for now. Some-day, I don't know. I have jokingly mentioned it to a friend, but I got a few weird looks. I think a lot of people find shemales at least a little interesting, but won't admit to it. kinda unfortunate.

[knight]

Some people know, my mum knows and some of my friends know and everyone here knows.:lol:

[TSLuva]

Huge secret, I was & still am excited (could hardly sleep the night I first found this site) about finding this forum & finally being able to communicate with others that worship these beauties.

[curiousguy51973]

My admiration of shemales goes beyond secret. I work for the government and it could possibly cost me my career, and I don't wish to test that.
I am married and my wife does not like my viewing porn. But we do occasionally go to sex toy shops to look around and see what we might enjoy. The last time we were there, we saw a "Shemale Love Doll" on the wall. Her response to it has led me to believe that if I play my cards right I may be able to introduce her to my love of shemales someday. At least, here's hoping anyway.

[rancor169]

I have been so afraid of consequences and had so many close calls... I know none of my friends would understand...at least the guys.

[transpounder]

Very secret! Don't know but i think ill never tell it somebody... even not my gf :P

+1 on that same boat for me

[gta]

Huge secret, I was & still am excited (could hardly sleep the night I first found this site) about finding this forum & finally being able to communicate with others that worship these beauties.
This makes 2 of us.

[storm11]

Very secret for now, dont know if I will ever tell anyone.

[inadaze]

My admiration of shemales goes beyond secret. I work for the government and it could possibly cost me my career, and I don't wish to test that.
I am married and my wife does not like my viewing porn. But we do occasionally go to sex toy shops to look around and see what we might enjoy. The last time we were there, we saw a "Shemale Love Doll" on the wall. Her response to it has led me to believe that if I play my cards right I may be able to introduce her to my love of shemales someday. At least, here's hoping anyway.


I thought most western governments were pro gay and transgender and inclusive since they legalised it all ? Or do you work for a non western government ? I think if you work for a western government your job will be secure and you can fuck around all you want. Even the US military has a policy of dont ask dont tell when it comes to gay/gender bending related issues. So they shouldnt ask you and you are under no obligation to tell them.

As for the shemale doll thing. I dont want to burst your bubble cruelly, (to know and live in your own true reality is the first step to dealing with it) but the reality is it could be wishful thinking on your part. But good luck and my best wishes in any case :)


The biggest danger facing anybody is if they post a picture and identifying information and then also post how important secrecy is to them. This could potentially lead to blackmail.
I urge anyone working for the government not to fall into any such trap as this as especially if government secrets are involved as it could get extremely messy for you.

[epj290]

its very secret with me....but i mean in NYC perhaps people are more liberal about things like this than other places in the world...still i love these boards for being able to share the same liking of shemales.

[tshorny]

Nobody knows for me, shame

[rollon]

never been with a shemale before but have the most sexy wet dreams of them, going to thailand this winter and hope for the first time I will meet a very beautyful ladyboy like Amy or Moo to have a romance and try sex with one or more.

some of my friends have a litle clue of why I go to thailand of my own even that I`m completly strait. but in my younger days I was a transvestite but allways fell in love with feminine beautyful ladies..

so mabe I will fell in love with a ladyboy but never think I would share that with my friends, they would right away said I am homo..

so wish me luck in february this year

[Aero]

mine's secret, not going to tell anyone. don't got it in me. lol

[ila]

I have never told anyone of my love of shemales, except for those that have read my posts. A lot of people I know would probably not have much to do with me if they ever found out that I have this great desire to suck shemale cock and be fucked by them. There would also be a lot of suprised people if any knew that I would even want to marry the shemale of my dreams.

[tlover]

Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.:no:

[ila]

Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.:no:


That is too true. There is always the possibility though that things may change in the future. After all look at how the world has changed for gays and lesbians.

[tlover]

That is too true. There is always the possibility though that things may change in the future. After all look at how the world has changed for gays and lesbians.

Your certainly right ive said this myself but thing like this change very slowly, but have you noticed things change more quickly when its given a label talked about and understand better, possibly another good reason for us to have a label?
Back on the hated subject of labels.:no: I'm becoming obsessed!

[ila]

Back on the hated subject of labels.:no: I'm becoming obsessed!

Do I ever know that feeling.:)

[vibesfan]

Very much in the closet, people around here would NOT understand. I could not express my fantasies or preferences to anyone here. I am very happy that this forum exists for me to voice my feelings to others who DO understand.

[belfagar]

Its my secret. Plain and simple, I enjoy it. i would prefer to keep my secret masturbation hobby to myself. I am happily married and enjoy a normal sex life. This "Hobby" is for me and me alone. I just enjoy watching quality shemale movies and masturbating. It's private.

[sexynova]

i just told my best friend about it ...she was very supporting

[troymcclure]

I'm not totally secretive about it... but I don't want to be too out in the open about it because it's not like the girls I've dated want everyone to know that they are ts either...

[trannycrazy]

It's staying a secret for now, but one day i'm going to tell everyone because i intend to have a relationship with a ladyboy, in fact i've no intention of ever settling down with a gg. It would be quite funnythough to have a beautiful 100% passable ladyboy partner and you go to family functions or sunday dinner and nobody has any idea that she's a t-girl and you're a cock sucker.

[just102]

I would love to tell and share this with my partner

but I dont think it would go over to well

[mrtrebus]

Very VERY VERY secret...so secret even I don't know! :lol:

[nmlss]

If people's mind wasn't so closed.... FUCK PREJUDICES!!!

[mrtrebus]

If people's mind wasn't so closed.... FUCK PREJUDICES!!!

True, maybe I should be braver & go public. The only way to challenge prejudices is to be open & honest...?

[Cadian122]

I have told about 2 people I know, and am always worried that they'd say something. I have brought up the subject with a few other people @ work and uni etc, but using my 'mate Alex' who doesn't exist.
This guy I work with, who I'd like to call a mate, that when I brought up 'my mate Alex' and his tranny fetish, his response was so Intolerent (He says if he meets a Tranny he'd kill her), stopped me from planning on 'going out' with the news, really scared me off.
Another thing, I live in Adelaide, South Australia, wich has a small town Atmosphere, someone you know, knows someone else you know, etc, and there are a few people who don't really like me that go to Mars Bar, (The only Gay bar in Adelaide), which makes me kinda scared to go in and try to hook up with a tranny. :(

[hankhavelock]

True, maybe I should be braver & go public. The only way to challenge prejudices is to be open & honest...?

Ain't that the truth! :respect:

[hankhavelock]

I have told about 2 people I know, and am always worried that they'd say something. I have brought up the subject with a few other people @ work and uni etc, but using my 'mate Alex' who doesn't exist.
This guy I work with, who I'd like to call a mate, that when I brought up 'my mate Alex' and his tranny fetish, his response was so Intolerent (He says if he meets a Tranny he'd kill her), stopped me from planning on 'going out' with the news, really scared me off.
Another thing, I live in Adelaide, South Australia, wich has a small town Atmosphere, someone you know, knows someone else you know, etc, and there are a few people who don't really like me that go to Mars Bar, (The only Gay bar in Adelaide), which makes me kinda scared to go in and try to hook up with a tranny. :(

Well, my man, small-town mind-sets are usually exactly that... SMALL! I can relate to your inhibitions and surely you will be met by laughs, stupidity and even hostility. But no matter what, YOU are the one who is RIGHT! The transfobic neanderthals in your community are mental midgets that will only move forward once provoked and forced to do so.

You'd be happier in a more developed urban place, I'm certain. Leave the "macho" shit-diggers to their rural shit-digging and fat, ugly bio-"women".

Best wishes and full support to you, my friend.

H

[lolbats]

very secret infact these are the only forums it alk about them on.

[PEPE1970]

By this moment this is my deep secret...........

[TheSkronkDonkey]

I don't go out of my way to tell people, but a few know.

My brother is one of them. I was actually looking at some t-girls on this very forum while he was in the same room. He looked across to see what I was doing and caught me checking out pictures of a cute ladyboy. He casually remarked that they weren't for him and carried on listening to his music. My brother is like that. Very matter of fact; no more, no less. He couldn't really care what I like or don't like. If only all relationships were like that, eh?

The other is a friend of mine. Well, more like ex-friend at this juncture. I let him go on my PC for a bit the last time he visited. He said he wanted to use the net and check out the football results (etc). Fine, I said. I went out the room for a bit because I'm not a guard dog and I had other things to do. Of course, he couldn't resist going through my favourites while I was gone. Transwomen this, shecocks that. I guess he got a nice surprise. :D The way I found out is when he made several not-so-subtle comments afterward. But really, if he's going to go snooping on someone else's computer, what does he expect? Sad that he had to betray my trust, though. Give people an inch ...

I think I wax and wane on the issue. Sometimes, I'm very uptight and it's my "big secret". Other times, I don't really care and whatever happens is whatever happens. I did subtly hint about my attraction to another friend, but he was quite snide and dismissive. Par for the course, really. Some people are tolerant; most people aren't. It can be a bit of a crapshoot. That said, if you're leaning one way or the other, lean on the person being intolerant -- more often than not, you'll be correct. After, and during, childhood, when you begin to shore up your beliefs, when the insidiousness of social conditioning has invaded almost every crack and crevice of your mind, when you begin to be convinced of what you know being more important than what you don't, difference is an enemy to your being, provoking fear and disgust, and the common way to dispel what one fears and finds disgusting is to mock, demean and destroy it. Sad, really.

[hankhavelock]

I don't go out of my way to tell people, but a few know.

My brother is one of them. I was actually looking at some t-girls on this very forum while he was in the same room. He looked across to see what I was doing and caught me checking out pictures of a cute ladyboy. He casually remarked that they weren't for him and carried on listening to his music. My brother is like that. Very matter of fact; no more, no less. He couldn't really care what I like or don't like. If only all relationships were like that, eh?

The other is a friend of mine. Well, more like ex-friend at this juncture. I let him go on my PC for a bit the last time he visited. He said he wanted to use the net and check out the football results (etc). Fine, I said. I went out the room for a bit because I'm not a guard dog and I had other things to do. Of course, he couldn't resist going through my favourites while I was gone. Transwomen this, shecocks that. I guess he got a nice surprise. :D The way I found out is when he made several not-so-subtle comments afterward. But really, if he's going to go snooping on someone else's computer, what does he expect? Sad that he had to betray my trust, though. Give people an inch ...

I think I wax and wane on the issue. Sometimes, I'm very uptight and it's my "big secret". Other times, I don't really care and whatever happens is whatever happens. I did subtly hint about my attraction to another friend, but he was quite snide and dismissive. Par for the course, really. Some people are tolerant; most people aren't. It can be a bit of a crapshoot. That said, if you're leaning one way or the other, lean on the person being intolerant -- more often than not, you'll be correct. After, and during, childhood, when you begin to shore up your beliefs, when the insidiousness of social conditioning has invaded almost every crack and crevice of your mind, when you begin to be convinced of what you know being more important than what you don't, difference is an enemy to your being, provoking fear and disgust, and the common way to dispel what one fears and finds disgusting is to mock, demean and destroy it. Sad, really.

As I believe I've said numerous times before here on this good forum: WE are RIGHT, and the fascist trans-fobics around us are WRONG! There is no other way.

Maybe we should make a "come out of the closet club" for worried guys... I never were in that closet, but I'd probably be able to come with a few success-stories to ease the minds of the worriers.

My point is that why would we care what some fat idiot with a yiky unsexy cis-wife has to say about our honest atttraction?

Screw them... screw the whispering... instead smile, be proud and hold her hand a bit tighter. Because she feels the same. And she will hold your hand a little bit tighter too, letting you know that she is your's and you two share a very special and beautiful love.

Kiss her in public, adore her, love her, laugh with her... respect her! And be ever thankful that she let you have her.

Because having the love of a gorgeous trans-woman is, indeed, very, very special.

Sorry, if I keep repeating myself :-)

H

[ila]

No one has ever asked me. If someone does ask me then, without hesitation, I will say yes I do love transwomen. It would be nice if my special girl was with me the first time that I am asked. I will be able to show how proud I am of her and how strong my feelings are for her.

[9yneGuy]

I voted for "SECRET FOR NOW".

I've never told anyone and if the wrong person found out I'd be devastated. If my brother found out I'd never be able to look him in the face again (mainly because he's 12 and at that age where he doesn't fully understand the concept of sexual fetishes and personal interests). Maybe when he gets older he'd be more accepting.

I can see myself telling my girlfriend (if and when I get one) and my best friend. My best friend might not accept it, but he won't make a big deal out of it and he won't judge me for it. But as of right now, it's my little secret.

[ladylover]

My girlfriend kind of knows. I think that she would actually understand. We've looked at online porn together several times. She likes it as much as I do. We checked out youporn.com together one night. She suggested that we search for "shemale, or tranny porn". Of course, I was very excited. She was just as turned on as I was. That night, we had incredible sex. But, we have not mentioned that night since then......

I cannot help it. I love tranny's and I love women. They are the same in my book.........

[ladylover]

I voted for "SECRET FOR NOW".

I've never told anyone and if the wrong person found out I'd be devastated. If my brother found out I'd never be able to look him in the face again (mainly because he's 12 and at that age where he doesn't fully understand the concept of sexual fetishes and personal interests). Maybe when he gets older he'd be more accepting.

I can see myself telling my girlfriend (if and when I get one) and my best friend. My best friend might not accept it, but he won't make a big deal out of it and he won't judge me for it. But as of right now, it's my little secret.

Seriously, go ahead and put your situation out there. I'm struggling with the same thing. BUT, I know that my current girlfriend would be cool about it. I;m no cheater, but I think that is all she hopes for.

[9yneGuy]

Seriously, go ahead and put your situation out there. I'm struggling with the same thing. BUT, I know that my current girlfriend would be cool about it. I;m no cheater, but I think that is all she hopes for.

I really think I'd only admit it to my best friend if he admits he likes something that is, how you say, "not of the norm". That way I'd feel more comfortable sharing my "not of the norm" like to him.

There's nothing worse than your sexual preferences being judged by people who have no "not of the norm" likes. And as far as I know my friend is one of those people.

[franalexes]

Isn't it a real shame that over 60% feel we need to keep what is just a sexual desire/preference or leaning very secret.
I think it says a lot about the oppressive nature of the world we live in.:no:

Well then, 60% understand THAT secret.
I wonder if they would understand living it?:no:

[chelsea]

Mines vert secret

i've cheated on the wife several times with a shemale :)

[Mellany]

secret unfortunatly:(

I'm not ashamed of my passion i really don't but Things would be so unnessecry complicated if the world knew

[tim4lb]

I have only told one friend of mine of my interest in ladyboys and I think he figured that it was just a curiosity. I live far from my family and won't tell them although I have shown them pictures of a very feminine, mostly passable ladyboy gf. I won't tell most people I know despite being completely comfortable going in public (dinners, movies, travelling together, beaches, everywhere) with a ladyboy. Part of it is my job and part is that some of my friends are not so open-minded.

[ocinteeni]

I came back from Thailand, and told all my friend's!
They dont believe me? So I dont know what you call it?
I dont care, it's my life, and I'm gonna enjoy it! ;)


thats funny because i would tell me friends how i think trannies are hot and they would laugh cuz they thought i was joking, they eventually realized i was serious. I am totally open with them about it now, I even got one of my friends to come with me to meet kimber james, I think he likes trannies too though, he hasn't admitted it to me but he told me he watched a vid where a tranny did a genetic chick and he said it was alright.

[theantipiste]

Only a few people know, for instance my friend who walked in on me and his femboy friend in the midst of making out... oops.

[trannylover3]

No one knows.

[neeka]

lol....what kind of ques.....*cough* VERY secret.

Be it straight or gay, seems like shemales might have to be the most secret for some people. The secret makes it even more exciting.

I'm straight and shemale bi, I've never found a pure dude attractive, but a dude that's transformed himself into a herself is not half bad...pretty hot.
especially the most convincing ones.

Futanari is also my fav, cause it's 100% female with a dick, no questions asked.

[zetter44]

nobody knows it but me...

[lacey_maxie]

in my case I'm a big admirer of shemales(like most of the guys visiting this forum) and I take any oppprtunity to have a glance or more at the websites with shemales.As far as I'm aware no one knows about my " addiction" and I always try to keep a low profile regarding my interest in shemales.So I want to keep it very secret now and in the future of course:;)

[scubbf]

very veery scret
note: i love them

[01101101]

Secret for now, but only in the sense that no one really asks. I don't actively hide my interest but I don't go around talking about it, either.

[Theblindestpilot]

You know, I'm so happy I've discovered this forum. For years now I've felt like such a freak for having this attraction, trying my absolute hardest to kick the "habbit". Some times successfully for months, but I always end up back where I started like an excited little puppy again.

Knowing that there are so many other men out there with the same taste is comforting to say the least.

Like most it seems I've never told ANYONE about my attraction and I don't intend to, not in the near future at least. Recently I've been wondering whether actually having intercourse with a transexual would finally feed this strange.. desire? Curiosity? Who knows..

Anyway, hi everyone, hopefully I'll be sticking around. :)

[kilgoretrout]

Mine stops here.

[fbnuser]

I voted secret but my wife knows about it. We had a talk about bisexuality and shemales and she understands. She has admitted to me that she is bi. Sje knows about this site and my Tgirl pic collection. She was checking out shemales with me just lastnight. She is the only person in my life who knows of my hidden desire. My family, friends and society in general would outcast me and disown me from the family. They would all hate me. She hides her bi side from her family too. :(

[Shini]

I would have to say that any significant partners in my life have know about my penchant for, particularly, ladyboys. I will ensure that that always remains the case.

I can equally conceive of being with a GG or a TS in a meaningful relationship. I suspect, being geographically challenged TS-wise [Holland], the former, but that won't detract from the underlying appreciation I have for a beautiful ladyboy. If she, a future partner [whatever], doesn't understand that then she won't know or understand me - ergo, a wholly pointless union...

Wow - how horrible to have to live that life. No judgment there, just an inward reflection.

btw - I am sooo happy to have found this place!

Baci,

Shini

[bigjoe]

very secret :(

[BriDog333]

Secret for now...

I'll be moving to Thailand (Bangkok) soon, and I don't intend to keep my passion for ladyboys secret when I'm there...

I'll send pics & vids...

See ya soon,

BriDog333

[aa2239]

Great question, great poll...

I've chosen "secret for now", but I could easily have gone with "very secret"... I'm part of a very heterosexual, stereotypically macho group of friends, who always chase pussy... whilst I still absolutely love pussy, and do join them on a chase every now and then, I've kept my love of TS cock secret, for obvious reasons. But, if my dream scenario ever came true and I fell in love with a gorgeous TS, I wouldn't hesistate to declare my secret obsession to the world, regardless of what friends or family would think. But that's the ONLY circumstances in which I'd come clean.

[frenchie]

1st post here, and telling my story already....

excuse my mistakes, english in not my native language...

I came across shemales on the web by chance...at first I just couldn't believe that there were "she-males", then, while surfing intensively on thumbnail posts (addicted really...and regretabilly) I became increasingly amazed... later when found them with portuguese names I just couldn't belive my eyes...it was the ultimate turn-on.

I reject any form of subjugation, abuse, or exploitation (children, hunger, drug deprivation, poverty) and sometimes you inadvertadly come across transexual content that make you wonder...that promotes transexuality as a bad thing, and also because of that it should be rejected...

apart from the above, androgeny is my thing...it just turns me on, not only sexually, but the whole idea of transgender ...i love it.


Kept it a secret for a long time... I don't consider myself gay (although there is a debate on wether...well technicalities) but having lived most of my life as a self reassured hetero some of You might understand and maybe even sympathise with the journey it has been...
I recently broke with a woman that is very special and that I really cared about... the main reason being that I confessed my fascination with shemales, just couldn't keep pretending anymore.. I'm glad I did it, as it came with a sense of relief...BIG sense of relief. At first she was...well, surprised... we then talked about the implications and in the end she decided she couldn't play along.
..
I have had encounters with shemales, in my age and in my surroundings finding a tranny with whom you feel you can engage emotionally would be something extremely lucky....so most of my encounters were sexual...which is a part of transexualitty I DO like:-) but I wish I could meet someone in the real world and just be happy. Society isn't just ready yet, some of barriers will have to be broken towards acceptance if living with a transgendered, shemale, newhalf, doesn't become a sort of a freak show...at least in my european, democratic, developed yet conservative country

I personally feel that the future will be genderless in the sense that the traditional man/woman division will be played down ... everyone will be happy be with whoever they want to be, and rightly so...

just not right now...

it's probably up to us, T-lovers of today, to help its acceptance a bit more


Excuse the long speech...

All the best

[tgirllovinguy]

Well, I replied "secret for now" but none of the choices are really appropriate for me. I don't care what other people think of me, I am much stronger than that, and I'd like to believe that my family would love and support me no matter who I loved. And it really isn't anyone else's business who I am attracted to.

I have never been with a t-girl, and it's been a long time since I had a girlfriend. I have fantasized about t-girls for more than half my life, and I have long since come to terms with that in my own mind. I do not consider myself "gay," I consider myself to be myself. (I only mention that because it seems to be THE first question every guy asks himself (and the first forum of this kind he finds!) when he realizes his attraction to tgirls. I know I asked myself that question long ago).

I figure I could have sought out a t-girl escort long ago, and many times since, but I have never paid for sex and do not know that I ever will, even if my fantasies never become reality. I find the idea of paying for sex to be depressing, to be honest. It's not a moral question for me as I believe prostitution should be legalized as it's never going to go away anyway, but a combination of my upbringing and my own outlook have thus far precluded me from seeking out an escort.

The fact is, I want to find my soulmate, and I would love that soulmate to be a tgirl. Is this a stupid dream with zero chance of being fulfilled? Perhaps, but if I compromise I will never know. I admit to being pretty stupid as I don't frequent any places that are known to be tgirl "haunts" and I haven't looked on-line for a tgirl girlfriend, but I still fantasize about finding that special girl. And if I did find her, you bet your bottom dollar I wouldn't hide her or be ashamed of her. She'd be ultimately the only thing that mattered, to hell with what anyone else thought.

Well, sorry for the long-windedness. Maybe I am just a hopeless romantic (well, hopeless certainly), but I can no more change that fact than I can change the fact that I think tgirls are the most beautiful girls on the planet, inside and out.

[kevy1818]

I live in Cumberland, Ky. It's right on the border with Tennessee and Virginia. Very rural and close minded about many things. And maddening! Johnson City Tennessee is about 2.5 hours from me and has a bar where gays, crossdressers, straights, and possibly shemales go. I've been there. And there were people from my town there! But I can't get there anymore. My car is too unreliable. It's the kind of trip you need to stay over night for. Same with Knoxville Tn. Seems that part of TN is quite openminded.

i love right were you do in LaFollette TN between cumberland gap/harrogate and knoxville i havent told anyone from around here well besides you now anyways lol

[CortoriaCUM]

Some of my more-open minded friends know. I confided into some woman friends of mine and they were positive about it. One even found it a turn-on.

Choose you audience wisely. It's no use trying to convert bigots. Stick to the people you know and trust.

[ila]

I've never kept it a secret. No one ever asked me and I saw no reason to come out and say anything. Now though after constantly talking to my co-workers and others where I work, about trans issues, they have a good idea. I've gotten an amazing amount of acceptance. Should I one day be lucky enough to have a transwoman as a girlfriend or my wife I'm sure that none of my acquaintances will be surprised.

[indyzzzz]

Its a fantasy, I dont really want it to come true

[Hedonistman]

Wow,,, I never would've thunk it,, lol. Near 2/3rd's reply they seriously shy. It's no secret here that's for sure :)

[fish&chips]

Its a secret.

[randolph]

I've never kept it a secret. No one ever asked me and I saw no reason to come out and say anything. Now though after constantly talking to my co-workers and others where I work, about trans issues, they have a good idea. I've gotten an amazing amount of acceptance. Should I one day be lucky enough to have a transwoman as a girlfriend or my wife I'm sure that none of my acquaintances will be surprised.

You may have heard, Yasmine Lee is giving up escorting and is looking for a husband. It would be hard to find a tgirl nicer than Yasmine.:respect:

[novicetgirllover]

I'm openly bi. On the tgirl front my family knows and accepts it, my gay friends know and also my close friends. I don't want to be too out as if i'm dating a girl in stealth then she isn't going to want to be outed. Thats the only reason though, I have no hangups. Most people don't seem to care, except some g girls won't date a bi man but thats about it.

[RobbyPants]

For now, my wife knows (but we don't talk about it really) and my brother might know (I told him the day he came out to me, but we didn't really talk about it). Other than that, I don't think anyone else knows.

Not even my best friend who I've toyed with telling.

[jdawg]

Its not a secret. If somebody wanted to know all they have to do is ask. However, I don't go around introducing myself as somebody who is bi and likes Trans women. Like I said its something that you can easily find out about me, but not something everybody and their brother knows.

[valentinetabitha]

I've told a few friends, but I'm terrified of telling my wife. I'm not sure how she'd react, but I'm willing to bet it wouldn't be positive. At all.

[1nf1n1te]

Nobody in real life knows.

[noble1337]

secret. i dont see the point in telling anyone....
maybe after i get my first one i will......but well see

[aw9725]

It had been secret, but since publicizing and participating in our local ?Day of Remembrance? last November, most of my friends have figured it out. I showed some pictures of Kelly Shore, Kimber, Yeidi, Camilla Saenz, Hazel Tucker, and a few other models to a couple of my male friends over Christmas--they thought they were all pretty hot (like who wouldn?t?!!). I don?t think it is any big deal actually. Almost all of my friends are in higher education and open minded, several are openly gay, and my family has always supported me no matter what. :cool:

[Alanz]

It"s funny I never thought about telling anyone. Does anyone really need to know that much about me? I live quite an ordinary life with my Thai girlfriend Yao. I guess we are still regarded as a bit of a novelty, It was she who introduced me to the "ladyboy" phenomenon. I"ve never discussed our feelings with friends. Funnily enough Yao"s family accept "ladyboys" as a normal part of Thai society. It transpires she had a 4 year relationship with a "ladyboy" before moving to England! So whilst I wouldn"t volunteer the information, neither would I deny it if I were asked! At the end of the day don"t knock it until you"ve tried it. You never know you just might like it! Secret or not, it"s upto YOU!!

[dolfan72734me]

My first post, yay.
Secret for now, but who knows, right?
I have just recently awakened (if that is what you would call it) to TS women, and lord I am hooked. But, sadly, I live in the S.E. US in redneckville, and there is about zero chance of meeting anyone here.

[m666]

Sex, drugs, my taste of music, ask and you'll get an honest answer, but I'm not running around with a sign around my neck.

Anyone ever caught themselves on giving what according to friends were "wrong" answers? And the most fun part: them trying to find an alternative interpretation of the remark to make it sound right in their skulls. :frown:

[Demonic shemale licker]

It's a secret but i have noticed that more and more guys are curious about them, so things might change.;)

[OkamaWay]

It was very secret, but one time i let some friends rent my room while i was on vacation, and they found some tranny porn i had stashed away on my old PDA.
I was devastated when i first got off the plane and saw the text message, claiming they found the pictures, but I swallowed it down and owned up to the pictures. With a little help from hunter s thompson i gathered myself.
"When the going gets weird the, the weird turn pro"
They were pretty cool with it, and when I got back i was the butt of a couple very inside jokes.
One of them even consoled to me in secret that he too believed shemales to be "hot"

[hellos123]

VERY SECRET. i keep my collection stashed deep inside one of my my documents folder

[rocky_razors]

no one knows i jerk off the shemale porn coz i'm a geniuenly straight bloke no one would ever guess, personally think 60% of straight guys are watching shemale porn, its a phenomena, its the biggest turn on i think most men know that spewcialy porn freaks

[CuriousMattUK]

My love of t-girls is still very much a secret but I keep coming close to telling a close friend. I'm toying with the idea.

[ImAlittleCurious]

This is weird for me too.

And really don't know how to explain myself.

[Fantasex 76]

I'm pretty open about after all I'm 45 years old and been involved in the Transgender community since 1993 so it's not really any big secret.:cool::respect:

[jmad]

It's secret I'm married living a double life, married straight, cock and ladyboy lover. I love cock but I love being treated with respect, until we get rid-of the perverts, it won't happen and that's what's stopping it, along with the molesters, we have to break the connection.:confused::no::confused:

[no1000]

Only 1 person knows(she also likes tgirls, crossdressers and btm boys so I didn't have a hard time coming out to her) besides the 2 tgirls I've been with.

[cherrboi89]

Very, very secret for me. I'm not sure if my friends are into shemales like me and they would view me as a different person for ever. I'm sure one day i will be able to tell girlfriends that I have a like for shemales and maybe if I'm lucky, a threesome with a shemale. Wouldn't that be hot?

[Joost]

It's secret. If I ever have a shemale-girlfriend and we're getting serious, I'll tell everyone, but until then it stays secret.

[Lycanthropunk]

Everyone knows! I don't give a flying f*ck what other people think about me- that's their problem not mine. If people can't accept me for who I am then they're no friends of mine- it's not as if my passions hurt anyone. I absolutely REFUSE to bow down to society's expectations of perceived "normality"- who the hell has the right to tell me what's normal anyway? If everyone was the same we may as well be inbred. I say celebrate whatever makes you unique-be proud of who you are, and anyone who looks down on you are merely weak-minded sheep herded by whatever fashion or religion currently dictates.
So my friends, rise above and be proud! Be a wolf amongst this sheepish society! Viva la revolution! :)

[mabedzaqueen]

...I have no intention to keep this "in my closet" for another decade, shit!! My ex-wife knows (of course) and my 2 sons (both in their mid-20s) probably suspect something, seeing their dad totally single for the last 8 years now, though I don't feel it's necessary I tell them...

Nobody else knows but I'm in the process of searching the "right words" in order to let (at least) my close relatives know about it... Like me, they're all in their early 50s now so I'll definitely have to be careful, you see... Like, makin' the pill as easy to swallow as possible...

[guest]

My current partner knows and is fine with it. We look at tgirl porn together. I'm very lucky :inlove:

[CI_Mahon]

Very Secret. Nobody knows, I'm currently in a very loving relationship with a GG, but I'm aloud my secrets and maybe one day I can fulfil my fantasy.

[footluv777]

secret for me.
but if i ever got involved with a tgirl as a girlfriend then i would tell people. there is just no need to right now.

[LadyboyJerker]

Very secret goes for me. That's cause I don't know If my friends would stay the same or they'll start thinking I'm gay and stuff. Nobody in my real life knows but I think one of my best friends kinda know it already since one time he saw two shemale pictures on my phone that I forgot to delete and a Tranny Cumpilation I forgot to delete from my desktop. I don't know but I want to and don't want to reveal it at the same time... I'm confused myself, I really would love a releationship or just a night with a shemale but I'm more into girls in real life. Shemales are like my fetish thing but starting to love them as hell.

[smc]

A friend just phoned. Just before disconnecting, and knowing that a group of my students are coming over this afternoon for a couple of hours, she said that she hoped one of them would be a really hot shemale who would want to stay after.

I guess she knows my secret!

[Baron Von Bangkok]

I came back from Thailand, and told all my friend's!
They dont believe me? So I dont know what you call it?
I dont care, it's my life, and I'm gonna enjoy it! ;)

I have this same problem. People think i'm joking. :)

[youknow87]

Secret for now, because liking a tgirl is still somehow and more or less a taboo.

But it might change soon since I am in a relationship with a (Thai) tgirl for some months. She will soon move to UK and then it?s just a matter of time she will meet my family and friends. I wanna be open about it in the near future.

[davecess]

None of my friends or family know about my lust for shemales. Having said that, i have been out in public in my home town with a shemale friend in the past. She was pretty convincing but perhaps not 100% so I could have been "outed" quite easily.

If i ever get into a relationship with a shemale then everyone will know - I'll tell them

[The Conquistador]

I just let my friend know about my love for trannies a couple days ago. He doesn't quite get it but he's pretty cool about knowing about my secret desire.

[f1manoz]

None of my family knows about my love for shemales, or my friends. I don't think they would over-react or anything, but it's just not a chance I'm willing to take.

I've always thought that I would tell my family if I were to start dating a t-girl.