going out

[hurleur]

I have been seeing a shemale for a while now. I pay for the service but the encounter is always very passionate (more than the other paid experiences i have had) and we get on well. I would like to see if i can take this out of the paid service experience but not sure how to do that.

Like suggesting to go for drinks?

what do you guys think; any similar experience?

[JodieTs]

Well I'm on the other side of this so to speak
[Ts Escort]

"In for a fall" is a saying which comes to mind....
You pay us to make you feel the experience really means something. We are sexual actresses, so it will probably never be more than a pay date for you.

Then again, 2 years ago I had an invite for a coffee in a local deli from a client
(we met once professionally, the previous moth, & really clicked big time)
He made it clear he only had 30 minutes for a social coffee.
Well, we met for a coffee or lunch 3 more times,
before he started to book another session with me.
I advised him that I could no longer see him as a client,
as I now viewed him as a friend
and that any further sexual liaison was now "friends with benefits"

We are now really close. & he is now single
but I'm now with my current partner for the last year.
They know about each other & sort of tolerate this.

TBH, I've got the best here, as I like them both a lot.

If he had been single 2 years ago, then we would now be an exclusive item
[relationship wise]

[hurleur]

Thanks Jodie.

So why is she asking for more at the end of the 'session' when we both came? some sexual acting, again?

I see what you mean. this type of relationship can get complicated.

h

[JodieTs]

I do that with a lot of my clients
Its called going that extra mile, which most escorts don't do.
So we stay in your mind as special, & different to the other escorts you may have seen.
It makes you more likely to be a repeat client.

Simples.

[IronCity]

I say if you are interested in a real relationship/dating..... just ask her.At least then you know where you stand, right? The worst she can do is say no and if your still into her it can remain a payed sexual encounter.

[merelypink]

be honest and up front and ask you may be surprised

[smc]

be honest and up front and ask you may be surprised

What kind of surprise would we get if we asked you something, Pink, and got an honest answer?

[Tread]

be honest and up front and ask you may be surprised

What kind of surprise would we get if we asked you something, Pink, and got an honest answer?

Even an answer would be a surprise.

[franalexes]

Even an answer would be a surprise.

:rolleyes:and the music played on,,,,,,,,,,,