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daywalker267
10-09-2009, 10:09 AM
has anyone here ever cheated on a gf to have sex with a shemale/ladyboy/tgirl? was it worth it? did you feel guilty? how did you cope with that guilt? how did it feel to finally fulfil the fantasy? does anyone regularly cheat on their partner to do it?

being in a relationship and obsessed with tgirls and never having been with one sometimes i get curious. never cheated myself but i wonder how those who have feel?
tslust
10-09-2009, 02:45 PM
Just my opinion

I don't really care for married guys who try to get "some" on the side. It would be different if they were in an open relationship and their wife was okay with it, but this usually isn't the case.
Jenae LaTorque
10-09-2009, 02:54 PM
It is pretty plain and simple to me. If you have an exclusive relationship and you "cheat", then you damn well are guilty. You have broken a trust and are guilty of that.
humbolt77
04-24-2012, 05:48 AM
has anyone here ever cheated on a gf to have sex with a shemale/ladyboy/tgirl? was it worth it? did you feel guilty? how did you cope with that guilt? how did it feel to finally fulfil the fantasy? does anyone regularly cheat on their partner to do it?

being in a relationship and obsessed with tgirls and never having been with one sometimes i get curious. never cheated myself but i wonder how those who have feel?

Cheating is cheating, whichever way anyone looks at it, Im not condoning or condemming anyone if they have, I felt guilty as hell when I was withaTS escort, it really spoiled my time. I tried to have the... "Oh well i'm her now, I may as well enjoy it..." mindset, but that didnt quite work for me.

Interestingly though, part of me kind of felt less bad about it, as I was with a TG not a GG, as if my partner would somehow let me off for that small fact.....YEAH RIGHT!!

Anyone else felt that???:yes:
tslust
04-24-2012, 12:35 PM
Interestingly though, part of me kind of felt less bad about it, as I was with a TG not a GG, as if my partner would somehow let me off for that small fact.....YEAH RIGHT!!

Anyone else felt that???:yes:

So, are you saying that GGs are better?
humbolt77
04-25-2012, 03:26 AM
No I'm not saying either is better, just saying that maybe I was trying to feel less guilty but failing miserably. We have all heard of the scenario where a guy gets caught by his wife, but it was with another guy. Wife is devastated, but finds it somehow less painful than if he had cheated with another woman....
Like I said, cheating is cheating whichever way you cut it
franalexes
04-25-2012, 06:54 AM
I have had some dates, only to learn later the guy was married. I realized also the date was for the "novelty" of being with a sexy gurl and not an affection of the heart. The way to his heart may be through his stomack, but the way to his head is a quick knee lift to his crotch!