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wannabecut

05-19-2009, 05:55 AM

A poll as an extension to http://forum.transladyboy.com/showthread.php?t=2704.

The question - for the men in here - just like in the title. Guys, I want you to share your ideas and experience about it. Please tell if your shemale love is or would be tolerated and accepted in your family and in your country.

Girls, it would be great to hear your opinion as well.

anittudi

05-22-2009, 01:10 PM

i am from india . . Traditional people here . . My family will accept as they are very broad minded and both are related to medics . . But i dont think that the society here will accept it and they will stone me till death if i do something like this but not too worry as there are no shemales here in india . . May be if i am lucky i will get a job abroad like singapore then may be i will be able to meet someone who will fall in love with me and we will marry and live happily everafter.

MikeyNice

05-22-2009, 01:17 PM

dudebutt

05-22-2009, 02:15 PM

Its never easy to tell ur parents that u r in love with a TG , no matter what society u live
but what the hell , u love her and shes ur gf , she chose to be with u , so u owe her to tell everyone who shes and that u love her just the way she's
Let them know who is she and how pretty she can be ;)

ARIES666

05-23-2009, 04:54 AM

Firstly I would leave it up to her as to how, when and to whom she wishes them knowing that she is "transgendered". If it were totally up to me...I would not "hide" anything. But it is two people in the relationship....not one!

ila

05-23-2009, 10:06 AM

Your poll really has twol parts to it.

The first question to be answered is "would I introduce my transgirlfriend to my family?"

Yes, I would. Not only would I, but I would want to and I would be very proud to introduce her. I would want her to meet my family, friends, co-workers, and acquaintances. My girlfriend is not my secret to be kept hidden away, but someone that I would be happy and proud to be seen with.

The second question is "would I tell anyone or everyone that she is trans?"

That decision is not mine. I would tell anybody and everybody if she wanted me to. If she wanted to wait and tell people herself then I would respect her decision. If she wanted to wait for a while and have me or her or both of us tell everyone at a later date then I would also respect her decision. I do know that if she is the one that wants to tell people that she is trans that I would want to be right beside her when she does. I would put my arm around her as she tells people, to show her and everyone my feelings for her, that I respect her, and that I will stand by her always.

I also know that I would hold my girlfriend's hand not just when we're alone, but out in the public. I would put my arm around her and I am not afraid to publicly show my affection for her. In short I would be proud of her and happy that she chose me and is with me.

kuroshinzo666

05-25-2009, 02:00 AM

yes that deep and heart moving even to someone like me thats cold and pathalogcal to the rest i understand.
i stoped careing what people thoght a long time ago .when i staed to drink after reading advs and sliced out my left eye.i would not hide the fact that shes ...who she is and to hell with depth percition. i love and care for anoter person and thank a god who sits idle while the world rots and burns that she is willing to respond to a heartless bastard like me
...my familys dead so i ll let her met the only ones that matter to me
if they cant acsept her than to hell with theam and the world

fionahavelock

05-25-2009, 04:30 AM

ladyboyadmirer

05-25-2009, 04:59 AM

I would introduce them after a while if I know I'm in a long term relationship, but I wouldn't make a point to specify details. If they figure it out then they do, but there's no reason to sit there and explain things in detail unless the specific situation calls for it imho.

I agree with Mikey and I think only the guys who have faced such a decision can answer this truthfully. I did not introduce my tgirl to my friends or family, simply because they wouldn't understand.....and they matter too. They will be there for me long after this relationship has finished.

hankhavelock

05-25-2009, 09:08 AM

i'm personally on my past relationship, meet some member of his family..
his sister's and brother's in law.. some of his friends..
it's just great, they even said that they wouldn't think that i was born as a boy if my ex didn't told them..
i was nervous on beginning, but after 15 minutes i feel comfort.. and they can accept me and treated me as a lady..

Well, you ARE a TRUE lady, darling! And nobody should ever be un-proud of walking hand-in-hand with you, sweet heart! Or introducing you! You're lovely, Fiona, and I love you for ever! You are SUCH a wonderful woman and a totally wildly gorgeous MENSCH! You rock, Fiona, and you will remain one of my dearest friends ever! I love you, baby!

H

fuckstudent

07-25-2009, 06:01 PM

no, i think not. i could not be in a relationship with a tranny. it's just a sex fetish for me. still love girls more.

Naked Freedom

07-30-2009, 05:22 PM

i would definitely introduce her but as a girl and not as a t-girl

whydoesitalwaysrainonme

08-01-2009, 03:29 AM

I would introduce her to my family, i wouldn't tell them that she was a ladyboy unless i got asked because there is no poing bringing it up really because it's not that important.

hankhavelock

08-01-2009, 04:10 AM

I would introduce her to my family, i wouldn't tell them that she was a ladyboy unless i got asked because there is no poing bringing it up really because it's not that important.

Except for the fact that I live in Indonesia and my very limited family in Denmark, then yes always. Already did. I always introduce my girl to my surroundings.

How can I have a girlfriend that I keep a secret? Makes no sense.

H