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jsully4fun
05-11-2009, 02:51 AM
Recently I was fucking a TS and she came before I did and told me I had to stop because after she came it hurt more to have me inside her. I am not that big so it wasn't a size issue. Just wondering if this is normally the case?

amapornfreak
05-11-2009, 10:50 AM
hmmm that is weird, of course all of us are different, If I cum before my partner I like them to keep moving if they haven't my mind is so flooded I can't even understand what happens...and that feeling of still being taken can almost get me up again...(I have a very short cooldown time)

uberandrew
05-15-2009, 02:38 PM
hm, even when i urethra play and accidently hurt it, its okay when i cum..

amapornfreak
05-20-2009, 12:05 PM
I have a question about uretha play, did it hurt the first time you tried it...cause I wanta try it, but I am sorta scared XD

wannabecut
05-20-2009, 12:31 PM
Recently I was fucking a TS and she came before I did and told me I had to stop because after she came it hurt more to have me inside her. I am not that big so it wasn't a size issue. Just wondering if this is normally the case?

I have the same problem when beeing dildoed. After I come I'm not relaxed enough and it starts to be painful sometimes.:(

Candyboy222
05-20-2009, 01:19 PM
Hi guys, my boy pussy does not hurt after I cum, but some guys are very big or go about their fucking me in such a rough manner or fuck me too long, that I can get irritated inside my boy hole, usually if I am well lubed this does not happen.

My cock does get sensitive many times after I ejaculate and if I don't wait for it to recuperate and try to keep fucking or jacking it hurts. If a guy fucks my mouth or I suck him too hard, my mouth can also hurt, mainly the jaws and also if he sucks my boy clit or balls too hard that can hurt too.

The idea of sex for enjoyment is to to enough of anything to the point of pleasure and stop there before the point of pain, unless you are into SM, which I am not.

jsully4fun
05-21-2009, 06:01 PM
Thanks for the info, especially Candyboy for an insiders perspective. Maybe it is something unique to this particular girl. Hopefully I'll get to try again soon with someone else to compare.

Mel Asher
05-25-2009, 11:54 AM
Recently I was fucking a TS and she came before I did and told me I had to stop because after she came it hurt more to have me inside her. I am not that big so it wasn't a size issue. Just wondering if this is normally the case?

You did not say whether she had had a complete transition, and whether or not you were fucking her anus. Either way, I understand that if the prostate mechanism is still in place, both just before and just after an ejaculation, some individuals experience considerable enlargement in that department, so what provides pleasure initially can later on in the love-making cause a lot of discomfort. It is not always the case, but ( and here's the plus side ) it seems that you have a very passionate lover.

Answer ? Well, see if you can come before she does, and then enjoy the sensation of gradually softening inside her afterwards.

:respect: and good luck.

SluttyShemaleAnna
05-25-2009, 12:29 PM
When I cum first and a guy keeps fucking me, it sometimes feels weird, like the sensations get really intense and I can't keep going. It doesn't hurt, it just becomes really uncomfortable and I just have stop. It happens quite a lot, but not always, the deeper he is fucking me the worse it is, so I think it probably is the prostate that is behind it.

Usually I don't get the guy to give a reach around or anything so I usually don't cum during anal, unless I blow my load from just prostate stimulation, which is pretty rare.

Usually I get the guy to cum first and then either give me a hand job, or I'll do it myself as we kiss or something. If we fuck several times, usually I won't cum till the end.

If I cum while he's fucking my ass n i can't keep going, i'll finish him off with my mouth.

hankhavelock
05-28-2009, 09:01 AM
Recently I was fucking a TS and she came before I did and told me I had to stop because after she came it hurt more to have me inside her. I am not that big so it wasn't a size issue. Just wondering if this is normally the case?

Hahahaha... this is cute :-) It's merely a case of "being a good considerate lover versus being a little ego prick..." She was a little ego-prick here.

Once she ejaculates, her libido drops to minus 400 degrees, and then all she wants is to have nothing to do with sex for a time after. Was she very young?

Obviously, we don't always ejaculate simultaniously, but surely we must also learn to enjoy - in spite of our post-orgasmic fatique - to bring our lover to ejaculation - and indeed to love it too.

Everything else is bad style.

H

hankhavelock
05-28-2009, 09:19 AM
No, let me be a bit more specific here... your ass doesn't change after you ejaculate... but your mood does...

Anyway, I've been bottoming quite a bit over the last two years (you'd be surprised how many "mostly bottom" trans*women go grazy once they have a chance to use their cocks like the women they truly are... ;-)

And not so seldomly she will want me to cum before her, because my ejaculation makes her get even more wild... and when I cum she will fuck me maniacly - fast and deep - and surely that can at times hurt. Usually she'll get her gratification in my ass seconds after I ejaculate, but it can take minutes. And if that's the case, then there's nothing else to do than to quickly get back into the game, wrap legs around her ass and let her fuck till she finally shakes down her orgasm. Nothing else is acceptable.

And it's very sexy, actually...

It takes two to tango!

H

JWKB85
05-28-2009, 05:20 PM
When I cum first and a guy keeps fucking me, it sometimes feels weird, like the sensations get really intense and I can't keep going. It doesn't hurt, it just becomes really uncomfortable and I just have stop. It happens quite a lot, but not always, the deeper he is fucking me the worse it is, so I think it probably is the prostate that is behind it.

Usually I don't get the guy to give a reach around or anything so I usually don't cum during anal, unless I blow my load from just prostate stimulation, which is pretty rare.

Usually I get the guy to cum first and then either give me a hand job, or I'll do it myself as we kiss or something. If we fuck several times, usually I won't cum till the end.

If I cum while he's fucking my ass n i can't keep going, i'll finish him off with my mouth.

wow :turnon: just got really hard thinking about you blowing your load. Very hot.