Do many T-Girls Try Harder To Be Beautiful?

[kilgoretrout]

Ever notice how many of the pictures you see of t-girls are smokin hot? I know, they are photos and they were done professionally, but even the ones I have encountered in public go way out of their way to be drop dead gorgeous. I am not talking about the few in town who go so far overboard that they would make Cher look conservative, but many of the rest.

No real question - just an observation.

[randolph]

Probably the large amounts of estrogen their are taking helps. I heard they take as much as a pregnant female is producing. Pregnant girls are often gorgeous. :inlove:

[GeForce]

I truly believe that TGirls know "how to be a woman" more than a GG. I love that! Perhaps it's because they just LOVE who they are and not ashamed or embarrassed to "show it off". Usually GG's who love to "show it off" are c*nts or all stuck up and shitty. Because of that I think I would repect TGirls even more than GGs. Does that make sense?

[liesjeversteven]

I truly believe that TGirls know "how to be a woman" more than a GG. I love that! Perhaps it's because they just LOVE who they are and not ashamed or embarrassed to "show it off". Usually GG's who love to "show it off" are c*nts or all stuck up and shitty. Because of that I think I would repect TGirls even more than GGs. Does that make sense?

no :-) ....................

[miss_kandy]

hmmm...interesting!

perhaps it's just simply that gurls just wanna be gurls!
the love of being feminine and sexy :innocent:

just my 2 cents worth...;)

[Bionca]

When I look at a woman with a trans* past, I see depth, character and strength. I look upon determination and honesty in the face of adversity. I see a wounded history and a complicated life-experience. I see a woman who has built herself, her life and her soul from the scraps of another who had to die so she could exist. I see a beauty that Transcends what a video can catch or a photo can convey.

The fact that she has survived her own personal hell and lived to tell the tale makes her lovely beyond measure. The person who can capture the honest love of a trans*woman has a treasure that should be cherished, but is most often discarded.

[Rachel]

:)How come the girl in the mirror always looks better then the girl in the camera? lol. Or maybe I'm the reflection and the girl I see in the mirror is in the real world?

[franalexes]

The fact that she has survived her own personal hell and lived to tell the tale makes her lovely beyond measure. The person who can capture the honest love of a trans*woman has a treasure that should be cherished, but is most often discarded.


self reflection here?

[sesame]

When I look at a woman with a trans* past, I see depth, character and strength. I look upon determination and honesty in the face of adversity. I see a wounded history and a complicated life-experience. I see a woman who has built herself, her life and her soul from the scraps of another who had to die so she could exist. I see a beauty that Transcends what a video can catch or a photo can convey.

The fact that she has survived her own personal hell and lived to tell the tale makes her lovely beyond measure. The person who can capture the honest love of a trans*woman has a treasure that should be cherished, but is most often discarded.

Courage beyond measure~ Is Bionca's greatest treasure.

[Bionca]

self reflection here?

A little personal, but from my friends - a very common observation.

[ila]

The fact that she has survived her own personal hell and lived to tell the tale makes her lovely beyond measure. The person who can capture the honest love of a trans*woman has a treasure that should be cherished, but is most often discarded.

Bionca, you are beautiful beyond words both inwardly and outwardly. If I could capture your love I would cherish it and you forever. I would never discard or betray you.

[hankhavelock]

When I look at a woman with a trans* past, I see depth, character and strength. I look upon determination and honesty in the face of adversity. I see a wounded history and a complicated life-experience. I see a woman who has built herself, her life and her soul from the scraps of another who had to die so she could exist. I see a beauty that Transcends what a video can catch or a photo can convey.

The fact that she has survived her own personal hell and lived to tell the tale makes her lovely beyond measure. The person who can capture the honest love of a trans*woman has a treasure that should be cherished, but is most often discarded.

Wonderfully put, Mizzy B, and the whole reason explained!

Trans women are women because they CHOOSE to be - in spite of biological gender and all the hazzle - and that makes trans women ultimatively feminine and women by my definition at least.

That makes transsexuality the most wonderful and honest way of TRULY having the guts to be who you are...

Respect, respect, respect!

H

[hankhavelock]

I've been pondering a bit more about this thread, and yes, many trans women try harder than cisgendered women. And usually their efforts bear fruit in the sense that they develop a unique kind of femininity that is so beautiful and endearing.

That said I would like to change focus a little bit. Because it's not always about "trying harder" but rather seizing the moment. It's actually when she is NOT necessarily trying so hard with make up, dresses and so on that she really and truly is most adorable... and vulnerable. When she lets what ever masculinity she has flow freely among her feminine features. When the full specter of what transsexuality really is becomes apparent in a relaxed and safe situation. When she can let her guards down because here she is not threatened...

THAT is when her feminine beauty shines the most, I think. And that is simply so amazingly adorable! When you wake up in the morning and look at her sleeping peacefully and content. No make up, no fancy dresses, maybe even the treacherous morning stubble... you lean over and kiss her softly, she mumbles, opens her eyes and take you in her arms... THAT is when you truly appreciate the treasure that you have...

So do trans women try harder? Maybe, but maybe they don't really have to...

H