Off to Thailand

[transjen]

In a few hours i'll be heading off to Thailand, And wed is the big day i'll be bringing a lap top so i'll be posting updates but don't expect to many at first as after my surgery i'll be hoped up onpain killers, So wish me luck!! :hug: Jennifer

[Scoot]

goood luck bbe :)

[Amy]

Best wishes to you Jen!:respect:

[cham]

Good Luck Jen, keep us posted!

Cham

[CreativeMind]

Good luck, Jen! Travel safe!
Everyone's best wishes and prayers are aimed right at with you!

[fatbloke]

:(really wish u would'nt do it jen,but all the best anyway:respect:

[alice]

In a few hours i'll be heading off to Thailand, And wed is the big day i'll be bringing a lap top so i'll be posting updates but don't expect to many at first as after my surgery i'll be hoped up onpain killers, So wish me luck!! :hug: Jennifer
Jennifer best wishes. I know two ladies that have gone through the srs and are so happy now, i hope in a few months that you will be as happy as they are.:respect::hug:

[tlover]

Good luck Jen, hope everything goes smoothly to plan and your dream is fulfilled.
New year, new life! all the best.:)

[ila]

Best wishes Jennifer.

[billyanus]

dang, good luck, hope everything works out for you.

[transjen]

get me outta here!!! Ok i feel better know, I hate planes and i hate flying even worse, But here i am up in the air damn i hate flying other then that everything is a ok

[CuriousJim]

Best of luck to you! But planes aren't that bad. It's actually one of the safest forms of transport, and statisically, you have a higher chance of dying because of driving than flying :)

[franalexes]

the only thing most hate about flying is moving through the air in an aluminum can.:innocent:( think about that)

[CreativeMind]

the only thing most hate about flying is moving through the air in an aluminum can. :innocent: ( think about that)

LOL whenever I think about major things like planes, trains, etc, I always think of the line from the movie ARMAGEDDON, when they're being strapped down in the Space Shuttle right before take-off:

Rockhound (played by Steve Buscemi): You know we're sitting on four million pounds of fuel, one nuclear weapon and a thing that has 270,000 moving parts, all built by the lowest bidder. Makes you feel good, doesn't it?

[Bionca]

Jen!! Best of luck. Take care! If you don't mind, I'm curious who you are seeing for the surgery. I have a couple of gals looking for FFS who can't afford Dr Osterhaus. So, if you found the Dr and the facilities to be good I'd like to have a more affordable place to recommend.

Remember.. the key to recovery is to rest that part of the body... ;):respect:

[randolph]

Jen!! Best of luck. Take care! If you don't mind, I'm curious who you are seeing for the surgery. I have a couple of gals looking for FFS who can't afford Dr Osterhaus. So, if you found the Dr and the facilities to be good I'd like to have a more affordable place to recommend.

Remember.. the key to recovery is to rest that part of the body... ;):respect:

I can understand breast enhancement, but cock removal! I don't understand that! I am a man and my cock is my most precious possession, removing it would be equivalent to dying. :turnoff:
I enjoy feeling my inner female urges but I am not about to discard my masculinity.:turnon:
I do hope Jen is doing the right thing for her, its her decision.:respect:

[Bionca]

I can understand breast enhancement, but cock removal! I don't understand that! I am a man and my cock is my most precious possession, removing it would be equivalent to dying. :turnoff:
I enjoy feeling my inner female urges but I am not about to discard my masculinity.:turnon:
I do hope Jen is doing the right thing for her, its her decision.:respect:

Well.. I'm NOT a man - regardless of my history. While I am pretty neutral about having a penis - some gals need to alter their genitalia to match the internal mind-map of their own body.

It is also practical in a day-to-day existence. You see, in most states you can't get your legal documents changed until you have a vagina. It makes it hard to work when the Office of Homeland Security mails your company to tell them something is amiss and you may be either a fraud or a terrorist.

Expressing "inner female urges" is swell.. I guess.. I don't have those. I just have my feelings and urges. Since I identify as trans*female, that makes those urges "female". You know my "female" urges to cuddle with a lover, hold a new-born baby, shoot zombies in a video game, change the oil in a car. Every feeling and urge is neither male nor female... transitioning is about matching one's body with their internal understanding of that body. If that understanding includes a vagina then that's what she needs to do.

As "sexy" as Shemales are and as much as the world as recently turned bodies like mine into a fetish. The reality is, transition for so many of us is a matter of life or death. The need to transition can't be fully understood by those who don't feel the need.

[CuriousJim]

randolph, some 'men' feel that they simply are not supposed to be born that way. They believe that they were supposed to female, and in some cases, hormonal and genetic imbalances agree that is the case.

Gender reassignment is something which a person decides to do overnight, in fact it takes a long process and people that serious about having a sex change would not be too bothered about losing their penis.

[Amy]

Well said, Bionca.

[randolph]

I didn't mean to challenge what somebody else wants to do with their body.
The mind is in control but it can change over time as it learns new information.
Tantra was my transformation. Becoming aware of the sexual duality within, gave me a whole new view of maleness and femaleness. I now enjoy looking at lovely females and transexuals without feeling frustrated that I cant have sex with every one I see. I enjoy their beauty and their humanity.:hug::respect:

[Arctic]

transitioning is about matching one's body with their internal understanding of that body
Exactly :)

Very well said

[Talvenada]

JENN:

Here's hoping that your new sex toy gives you the rewards of pleasure after months of healing.


Piece,


TAL

[timshield]

hehe have fun mate lucky bastard

i wonder what do u guys tell youre friends when ure off to tailand haha

yea man thai ''chicks'' are hot!

aw nevermind goodluck jennifer

[ila]

hehe have fun mate lucky bastard

i wonder what do u guys tell youre friends when ure off to tailand haha

yea man thai ''chicks'' are hot!

aw nevermind goodluck jennifer

I'm not sure what you're reading in this thread, but Jennifer's first post clearly indicates that she is going to Thailand for surgery. Subsequent posts by others indicate the type of surgery. So just how much fun do you think Jennifer is going to have?

[franalexes]

Jennifer is going to have the equivalent of a hit by a Mack Truck,,,,,,in the crotch!:eek:

[orion]

I wish Jennifer all the luck & success in the world in her endeavours ..

My former partner (Annabel) had SRS on the National Health Service here in UK .. I know what she went through & I'm just glad I don't have to face the same surgery ... :respect:

May her surgery bring her happiness & fulfilment ..

Bye for now,

Orion ..

[transjen]

It's offical I'M A WOMAN!!!!!!!! :yes: Jennifer

[fatbloke]

:)Really hope it brings you the happiness you want.I don't envy the pain you will be going thru.I think you are a exceptionaly brave young lady:yes::respect:

[orion]

Congratulations Jen (same name as my TS Girlfriend by the way) ... ;)

Was your surgery performed by the great Dr Suporn by any chance ?

My Girl feels she needs a little FFS (Facial Feminisation Surgery) .. she looked at Dr Suporn's website .. but then discovered she could get it done a little cheaper and a lot closer to home (UK) .. in Antwerp, Belgium .. personally, I think she looks fabulous as she is .. but if it will make her feel more comfortable .. then she has my total love & support ..

Take care .. Get well soon,

Bye for now,

Orion ..

[ila]

It's offical I'M A WOMAN!!!!!!!! :yes: Jennifer

Congratulations Jennifer. I am very happy for you. I hope the surgery went well, that there were no complications, and that you are recovering okay.

PS I always considered you to be a woman even before your surgery.

[Amy]

It's offical I'M A WOMAN!!!!!!!! :yes: Jennifer

In that regard, Jen, nothing has changed ;)

[transjen]

UPDARE; The surgery went well and i'm confined to my bed recovering, The pain isn't so bad now but yes when i first awoke it hurt like a :censored:, I still haven;t got a good look at the new me all i can see is bandages and a cath tube, When the nurse changed my dressing i tried to take a look but she blocked my view and told me i didn't want a look yet i told yes i did but she told me best to wait a few more days, This is hard to explain but for the first time in my life i feel whole and at piece with myself :yes: Jennifer

[transjen]

Congratulations Jen (same name as my TS Girlfriend by the way) ... ;)

Was your surgery performed by the great Dr Suporn by any chance ?

My Girl feels she needs a little FFS (Facial Feminisation Surgery) .. she looked at Dr Suporn's website .. but then discovered she could get it done a little cheaper and a lot closer to home (UK) .. in Antwerp, Belgium .. personally, I think she looks fabulous as she is .. but if it will make her feel more comfortable .. then she has my total love & support ..

Take care .. Get well soon,

Bye for now,

Orion .. No i didn't pick DR SUPON because at the time he was booked up so i picked DR instead, Tell you girlfriend to base her choice on results and not so much on price :yes: Jennifer

[ila]

Hi Jen. Is your new avatar to celebrate/reflect the new you?

[transjen]

Hi Jen. Is your new avatar to celebrate/reflect the new you? It sure is :yes: Jennifer

[Bionca]

So glad you are doing well. Your nurse was right, you don't need to see it just yet. Think about it.. it's swolen and brused and probably a bit of a fright to see. When I had my first round of FFS I took a bit of a look and cried for a couple days - I thought I had been mangled. Even after it healed I was still so sure I looked like a monster. It's weird the tricks the mind combined with self-image can play on folks.

Anyway... So so so so so glad for you - time to relearn how to spell your name in the snow ;)

[transjen]

Anyway... So so so so so glad for you - time to relearn how to spell your name in the snow ;) Thanks i'm feeling better each day, And the days of writing my name in the snow are over as i'm now a full time sitter :yes: Jennifer

[CreativeMind]

Thanks i'm feeling better each day, And the days of writing my name in the snow are over as i'm now a full time sitter :yes: Jennifer

Congratulations, Jen! We all send our love and best wishes!
I'm sure you have an enormous smile on your face right now, and I hope you have a speedy recovery!

All the supportive hugs and kisses from everyone here go out to you!

[transjen]

Thanks everyone for all your well wishes, Today i was allowed to get outta bed a walk around a bit and damn it hurts down there when i move around and still no good look yet :no: Jennifer

[orion]

Hi Jen ...

Glad to hear that you're feeling better ..

I've recently (within the last 18 months) undergone major surgery (had both knees replaced) .. so I can identify, to a certain extent with how you must be feeling ..

I appreciate your advice re the FFS surgeon (whose name I can't remember) .. but my Girlfriend has seen his results & is quite impressed .. She has another consultation in London's Harley Street in the next month or so .. at which I'm going to be present to support her ..

Take it easy .. make the most of being waited on .. :yes:

[Amy]

All I can say is....wow.

[transjen]

Today i got my first look even thou it's still swollen and a little black and blue, It was a wonderfull site, I look down and no more penis but a slit instead a dream come true for me but it will take some getting use to seeing a twat down there :innocent: Jennifer

[transjen]

The good news is today the cath tube was removed and all the packing gauze was removed yuck that was nasty fyi the gauze was inside my vagina. So when i had to go to the bathroom for the first time i sat down and it dawned on me that i had no idea how my new vagina works after awhile nature took over and i started to pee sofar everything is working but i feel they should have gave me a owners manual :yes: Jennifer

[Bionca]

LOL - I hadn't actually thought about the first tinkle...

[billyanus]

glad to hear everything is going well. i wish you a speedy recovery.

[transjen]

I'm up and around and feeling a whole lot better still a little sore down below and my friend who came with me thinks i'm a prev as i tend to check myself in the mirror as i love how i look down there she caught me a few times and once caught me rubbing my hand agianst it, Going to the bathroom is a little messie as i still tend to pee all over myself :eek: by the Doc assures me once the swelling goes away i'll be fine at least it does go straight up as i heard of a few post-op girls had that problem, And yes i started dialition with the stents or dildos which is what they are but they call em stents for some silly reason and as i was asked the answer is NO i have no regrets and i'm glad i had the surgery :yes: Jennifer

[Justme123456]

Wow, just read this thread and I think it takes a lot of courage to do this kind of surgery, but it sounds like you made the right choice.

Maybe a stupid question, but is it true after this operation, you still might be able to have an orgasm?

Good luck with your recovery!

[ila]

I'm up and around and feeling a whole lot better still a little sore down below and my friend who came with me thinks i'm a prev as i tend to check myself in the mirror as i love how i look down there she caught me a few times and once caught me rubbing my hand agianst it,

I'm glad to hear that you are feeling better. I think it's quite understandable that you tend to check yourself out. You now have what you have always wanted and knew you should have had from birth, so I think it's natural that you want to see what you look like now.

i was asked the answer is NO i have no regrets and i'm glad i had the surgery :yes: Jennifer

You go girl.:respect:

[transjen]

Wow, just read this thread and I think it takes a lot of courage to do this kind of surgery, but it sounds like you made the right choice.

Maybe a stupid question, but is it true after this operation, you still might be able to have an orgasm?

Good luck with your recovery! The doc assures me that i should be able to have multi orgasms just like any other Ggirl, But it'll be some time before i will be able to find out for myself, I know my boyfriend will be eager to help me findout :innocent: Jennifer

[transjen]

I'm glad to hear that you are feeling better. I think it's quite understandable that you tend to check yourself out. You now have what you have always wanted and knew you should have had from birth, so I think it's natural that you want to see what you look like now.



You go girl.:respect: Thanks, It's truely amazing when i look down or place my hand down there, For the first time in my life i feel like i fit into my body, Sorry i guess that makes no sense let me put it this way i now look like i was susposed to look like down there and it feels like i've always had a vagina, Hope that makes more sense :D Jennifer

[Soontobe]

That must be an amazing feeling - to feel at home in your body after so long. Hope you enjoy the new you!

[transjen]

Just left Thailand and i'm heading home, Did i mention i hate flying :yes: Jennifer

[ila]

Just left Thailand and i'm heading home, Did i mention i hate flying :yes: Jennifer

Yes, you did mention something about hating to fly. I take it that you are recovering quite well now. I'm sure your bf will be happy to see come home.:)

[CuriousJim]

Does your passport say you're female Jen? Just curious =s

I know getting your details changed in America can be a pain.

And would you say you're female rather than m2f tgirl now? Sorry, I'm nitpicking!

Hope you're well. x

[smc]

You are brave and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

[transjen]

Does your passport say you're female Jen? Just curious =s

I know getting your details changed in America can be a pain.

And would you say you're female rather than m2f tgirl now? Sorry, I'm nitpicking!

Hope you're well. x To answer your first question no my passport lists me as male as the goverment sees things in a very narrow view basicly if you have a penis you're a guy and if you have a vagina you're a girl, And when i get back home and rest up a little i'll take my paperwork from the doc and start getting everything changed to read female wonder if i'll have to pull down my panties to prove i'm a girl? Don't laught some of these people can be very dense and changing m2f Tgirl to female i'll get around to it as your the second person to point that out :yes: Jennifer

[transjen]

Yes, you did mention something about hating to fly. I take it that you are recovering quite well now. I'm sure your bf will be happy to see come home.:) GAWD i hate airplanes if i was ment to fly i would have been born with wings, I rember George Carlin saying when two airplanes almost collide it's a near miss well bull:censored: it's a near hit, And yes everything went well and no set backs :hug: Jennifer

[CuriousJim]

Again, I wish all the best for you Jen. You definately seem much happier now you've had the operation. I can tell from comparing the smiles in your avatars (I'm pretty good at reading emotions and expressoins).

[transjen]

Again, I wish all the best for you Jen. You definately seem much happier now you've had the operation. I can tell from comparing the smiles in your avatars (I'm pretty good at reading emotions and expressoins). Sorry the girl in the avatar is not me, It'll be sometime before i can use a photo showing the new improved Jennifer but look for it this summer :yes: Jennifer

[silent_orchestra]

Congrats, glad everything went good for you. Best wishes on the healing process.

[rosefrany]

Hi Jen, wish you the best in your recovery... I just read the post, but it would seem that by now you should be doing your first test drives ;)
Best of success for u!

[michelblue]

Good luck with everything! This is a very hard procedure to go through with, and I think you're very brave!

[transjen]

Good luck with everything! This is a very hard procedure to go through with, and I think you're very brave! I wouldn't say i'm brave, if i was then i would have told my parents when i was very young how i felt but i hide it instead, I did what i had to do nothing more :yes: Jennifer

[Leggmann81]

Congratulation on making your transition & best of luck!

[Sugar Daddy]

I wish to congratulate you on being who you are and doing what it takes to make you feel at one with yourself. You have a lot of courage and are an excellent role model for those who may want to follow in your footsteps.