What sort of relationship do you want with a ladyboy? - Your Votes!!!

[tlover]

What sort of relationship are you looking for with a ladyboy/shemale.
Are you in it for the fantasy or sexual fun or something much more serious.
Maybe you are now in a full time relationship with a tgirl or are thinking of one, mabey your preparing to leave your partner for one.
Please vote and tell us what you want or have now and why, it'll be interesting to find out how many of us are in it for something serious.


1. No relationship i just like the porn, the pictures, movies and the fantasy.
2. I'm looking for friendship with a tgirl to shear my fantasize over the net or phone etc
3. I want occasional casual sex with a tgirl then go back home to my partner.
4. I want a full time serious relationship, a tgirlfriend.
5. I want full commitment and to marry a tgirl.
6. I'm not sure what i want yet, its all new to me.

[danaik42]

i actualy want get married to one bt as soon as i do that i would not be able to introduse her to my parents if she is going to say she is transexual coz my mom will go crazy

[BlueRaven88]

i said Marriage. im past the point of no return so i couldnt be happy with a normal girl and i already have a t-girlfriend in the philippines who i will marry one day. as for introducing her to my family, there's no drama really. my brother-in-law's brother is gay, and my mum has already said that she will love her kids no matter what they do or how they are. only reason i havent told anyone yet is cos i need the money and accommodation before i bring my goddess to live with me :D its only a matter of time

[Second Day]

Casual sex would be nice. LB's can really turn me on, but I love the company of women (read my gf) too much to get serious in a relationship.

[eliogabalo]

This poll is very interesting and i forecast it will destroy many prejudices. A lot of people think that ladyboys ( and shemale lovers) are only interested in sex and fun, and don't like serious relationships. I'm sure this opinion is fully wrong. They thought the same things also about the homosexuals; and now the homosexuals fight in all the world for the right to marriage and civil unions. :yes:. I think that fidelity and complicity are more dffused among the "deviants" than among the eterosexual couples. And i'll tell you the ground. The daily fight against scepticism and prejudices is cementing our relationships, and the new generations become more and more open-minded. I'll tell more: the crisis of the heterosexual family is the most important event under the sky and i'm sure it's irreversible. But people always will need love, and will look for love in many different ways. Moreover, many shemale-lovers are more romantic than hetero, and dream about a strong, serious relationship. Someone dreams the marriage, and i dream too ... :inlove:

[BlueRaven88]

well said elio :respect: thats why i like the shemales. theyre more romantic, passionate and fiery than GG's.

personally, ive never seen shemales as a sex object, or of some kind of random thing/fetish that i need to fulfill. hell, in america and probably alot of other countries, transsexuals hate being called shemales because it is a term created by the porn industry. they even make sarcastic jokes when you call them 'trannies' saying that they arent a car part (transmission).

ill admit, my first exposure to them WAS pornography, but i took it upon myself to educate myself and learn everything i could about these fascinating, exotic, beautiful 'creatures'. i love shemales :D

[EbonyTSLover]

I said Full time TGirlfriend.We're still dating and if this relationship leads to marriage so be it.

[padeligne]

i am married with a shemale, and very happy. it is nice to live in belgium...

[tslove]

T Girl Friend or MARRIGE

With a lot of sex

[tlover]

My own vote was for casual sex, i like girls very much and don't think i would ever be in a serious relationship with a tgirl, I'm just looking for a bit of fun, i don't think there's anything wrong in that.
However as ive never actually been with a tgirl yet you never know and as the saying goes - never say never.;)

[TXguy4ever]

my vote was casual sex, but its more of a fantasy of mine to have sex with a tgirl one day...but I would never cheat on my wife...bit of a pickle huh?

[tlover]

I feel a bit the same myself, i would never want to hurt my gf, but i think what she don't know wont hurt her.
Iam no angel:innocent:

[inadaze]

In which countries can you legally marry a trans/Ladyboy ? is it possible got the passport to say female also ?

[BlueRaven88]

hmmmm i dont know ALL the countries, but i believe it is legal to marry men/shemales/other women (if your lesbian) in Spain, Belgium and Canada. there are probably alot more but thats just off the top of my head, but hey you can have the marriage and honeymoon in the same place hahaha :D

no idea on the passport

[Lestat]

I'd love to have a Tgirlfriend...

[eliogabalo]

In which countries can you legally marry a trans/Ladyboy ? is it possible got the passport to say female also ?

England, Spain, Holland, Belgium, Canada and all the countries in which homosexual mariage is legal, obviously. But you have to ask the embassies of these countries for informations about the passport, the citizenship and all the details ... :)

[inadaze]

I was thinking in some countries maybe Holland might be liberal and allow a change of gender on the passport. Im not sure. As for what type of relationship I am seeking, I think it finds you. I think my life will have the best meaning within a relationship. My open mindedness brought me here so for now if life is fun then I wont complain.

[Dells]

At this point in time I'd mainly be interested in casual sex/friendship relationship.

[Shemlover]

Well for now it's mostly a sexual thing, and would prefer a girl for a relationship. But if I met a shemale whom I really like as a person, I'd definately be up for a serious relationship with them. That is, if I feel brave enough to tell my friends/family about my attraction to shemales. But if I'm convinced that she's more than just a sexual fantasy to me, I'd be ready for it.

[mobiryder]

i can tell you from talking to hundreds of trannies, that the number one gripe they have is that they are only used as sex toys, and will never find true love.

I beg to differ. I had a TS girlfriend for 9 months and I loved her with all my heart. She ended up breaking up with me because she found out I fucked some whores in Pattaya... So what? I'm just another asshole I guess.

[devilcat]

I was looking through all the pictures on different websites,just casually thinking wow!some of the shemales are so beautiful.then i saw Amy.i immediately thought i'd love to marry Amy.she is so unique.:yes:

[hotfortrannies420]

i would marry a tgirl and want to

[Rick_]

I would like to have a tranny as a girlfriend :inlove:

[inadaze]

I would like to have a tranny as a girlfriend :inlove:

do you think she will integrate into your existing life or would you create a new life together ?

[Studio Audience]

i'd like to just have some fun. :p

[mykel73]

marrige for me

[SweetCharmer]

i posted full time tgf coz i wanna find the right tgirl then spend a lot oftime to see if she's the right one then marriage

[BenF]

I like both generic girls and ladyboys. But sadly I could never marry a ladyboy. At best it would be a mistress, casual sex or a hidden GF.
For me Its family issues plus I want to have kids of my own.
I can fall intimately in love with a ladyboy but it could never reach its potential. :no:

[Rick_]

do you think she will integrate into your existing life or would you create a new life together ?
What do you mean a new life?

[inadaze]

What do you mean a new life?

Well from homophobic remarks some of my other male friends have made at times I think if or when I get a tranny girlfriend , I will have to let go of them as part of my social network especially because I will have to face the issue and challenge it. The topic hasnt come up a lot, maybe once in 5 years. Its difficult to let go of an otherwise good friend based on a remark he may not have meant but thats my dillemma anyway. Hope you understand what I meant now.

[jimudon]

Unlike others I have NO use for a so-genetic girl. To me they are boring and unappealing. I do love shemales or femboys. I do want to estiablish a long term relationship with a tgirl.

[big dummy]

Just suck me and fuck me, thanks!

[twistedone]

As I see it, you can't have sex with anyone unless you have some kind of relationship with them beforehand. So for me, a nice, casual, D/s relationship is cool with me. ;)

[BlueRaven88]

i can tell you from talking to hundreds of trannies, that the number one gripe they have is that they are only used as sex toys, and will never find true love.

I beg to differ. I had a TS girlfriend for 9 months and I loved her with all my heart. She ended up breaking up with me because she found out I fucked some whores in Pattaya... So what? I'm just another asshole I guess.

:O WHAT THE HELL MAN!?!?! i'd kill for just ONE TS girlfriend that i loved and loved me back, and your screwin around with whores in pattaya while having a perfectly good shemale lover waiting for you at home? for SHAME!!
:confused::(:frown::censored:

[knight]

I would like a full time TGirlfriend and maybe marrige

[kiesster]

i wanna spend every day with the right tgirl

[parisb]

no. 3 sounds like my kind of thing perhaps with a relationship later

[TSloverboid]

I'm already married, but if I had met the right Twoman.... I was always too worried in the past of what others would think of me. So in the past she would have had to have been 100% passable. Right now it's just a fantasy coming true for me and it needs to be casual sex (paid or unpaid). I prefer paid right now so as not to lead someone or atleast "pay" for the guilt I feel.

[Mirabeau915]

I agree with Ebony TS Lover, I opted for full time TGirlfriend for purposes of the poll, but I would not be averse to marriage in the long term if we are suitably compatible and motivated.

I was married once and I liked it very much. I am in a dead-end relationship currently as in no marriage future (although you know those Genetic Girls and their ever-changing minds), we don't live together anymore and it is almost like a friends with benefits plus emotional attachment. If someone else wants to become interested in me (and vice-versa 'natch) and would like to marry (presuming once again compatibility), I'd marry them. It if were a T-that Girl would just make it a bonus.

[BrandonCGS]

Casual Sex :) Dont really want a relationship though

[ila]

If I ever met a shemale/ladyboy/tgirl that is the love of my life then I would want to marry her.

[warblade]

I would love to have a stady relationship with a ladyboy, but there is the problem that I don't think my familly orfriends would accepted and probably would make thing really difficult

[russellwu]

Depends for me, really. I'd rather have casual sex, but if she's amazingly beautiful, sexy, smart and caring, i wouldn't mind going further.

[vibesfan]

When I lived in San Francisco I met and had a romantic relationship with a beautiful Philippine LB. She was in the city for her srs,I found her to be not only very sexy but also more feminine than many gg's around, she was also much happier to be a woman and was very willing to please sexually,with less appearent conflict . I saw her through her surgery and we lived together for several weeks afteward ,while she recovered. She left San Francsico and returned to Hawaii where she had been living. She returned to the city several times after that and would always contact me and we would get together and make love. This was in the early to late 70's.and is the root of my love of she-males and especially asians.

[redfish1]

I'm totally friends with a couple.

I'm also call for a adult encounter with 3 or 4.

It just depends on what you want. It's just like another friend, you may want to sleep with her or maybe just say hi at work.

[Kuranyi]

I cudnt imagine a real relationship with a ts somehow.But the sex with them is the best.And a hard cock isnt too bad sometimes;-)

[Panty Cock]

Yeah, I could not imagine a real relationship other than slaping our panty cocks together.

[wendals]

Just casual sex for me

[Hankstar3]

I'd have to say friendship because Tgirls are not just sex objects though I find them sexy and think about pleasuring them alot. Of course friendship with benefits is my ideal; not that I wouldn't engage in purely sexual relations though...I mean...I am a guy and well... sexual relations with no strings is like fantasy no. 1.:)

[St. Araqiel]

Having not had a sexual or romantic relationship yet, I'm gonna say casual sex and/or friendship for the time being.

[Michael1]

Marriage. I love Shemales and i want to marry one. End Of Story.

[gflex]

casual sex. i like just the feeling of great sex with a ts lady. any long term romantic relationships.

[vwf pervert]

Im married already so that is no option... I love my wife but she knows my feelings about tgirls and for some or other reason doesnt feel threatened by it, so casual sex and friendship would be great.... any SA Tgirls???;)

[Bionca]

This is a little disheartening, particularly on a site devoted to men who "admire" women like me. Firstly, I am a "real woman" - gender and biological sex are not the same. Secondly, the reason so often cited for not having an actual relationship with a Tgal has been in essence fear of what others might say. Relegating me to a curiosity or fetish, no consideration of my (our) feelings or needs.

Although I pass all day every day (even without makeup), I am 100% honest about my surgical status when the issue arises. To expect me to lie about a huge chunk of my life isn't exactly fair - imagine going through life never mentioning anything that happened in your first 20 years.

My transition, and those of my friends have shown courage, tenacity, character, strength and compassion that I rarely see in other communities of people. I'd like to be loved and admired for those qualities rather than whats going on in my crotch.

[vwf pervert]

This is a little disheartening, particularly on a site devoted to men who "admire" women like me. Firstly, I am a "real woman" - gender and biological sex are not the same. Secondly, the reason so often cited for not having an actual relationship with a Tgal has been in essence fear of what others might say. Relegating me to a curiosity or fetish, no consideration of my (our) feelings or needs.

Although I pass all day every day (even without makeup), I am 100% honest about my surgical status when the issue arises. To expect me to lie about a huge chunk of my life isn't exactly fair - imagine going through life never mentioning anything that happened in your first 20 years.

My transition, and those of my friends have shown courage, tenacity, character, strength and compassion that I rarely see in other communities of people. I'd like to be loved and admired for those qualities rather than whats going on in my crotch.

I do see your point and am sorry if I have offended you in any way... I do realise by what you are saying that it is really hard for you, without us guys looking at you as a sex object.... As you have read though I am married so a relationship with a women such as youself would simply not work.... It is still however a fantasy of mine( feelings or no feelings involved)

Again as I said I would not only enjoy casual sex but friendship as well, to get to know more about the beauty of a Tgirl....:hug:

[Bionca]

vwf -

I almost specifically left out the married guys. Having a sexual fantasy is normal and healthy, marriage may just limit one's ability to live the fantasy. So married guys who can't get into a romantic "date" relationship I understand.

I'm troubled by guys who wouldn't date us for fear of what ther friends/family may say. Also guys who made statements to the effect of "I like shemales and real women" - both of these statements tell me that some of you don't see me as a woman, and you are afraid that someone will call you out for being gay. Being a "dirty secret" can be hot, but being a "dirty secret" all day every day - come on.

I don't feel ashamed in who I am, I sure as hell don't want a guy who is ashamed of me.

**comments not directed at any particula poster**

[russellwu]

I understand it's (incredibly) unfair to you, but you have to understand that it isn't *us* that shy away from potential serious relationships; rather, it's society that forces us. Our lives, jobs and platonic relationships are held hostage here... and it's very difficult to ignore the fact. By that same account, I (and hopefully, others) have tremendous respect for those who choose to risk everything for love and identity.

So I hope you don't feel offended when some of us say that we would never date a tgirl (unless he—or she, in rare cases—is extremely rude about it). We may lack courage, but for some of us, respect is there.

[belfagar]

I don't think i want a relationship. I believe its purely sexual for me.

[Bionca]

I understand it's (incredibly) unfair to you, but you have to understand that it isn't *us* that shy away from potential serious relationships; rather, it's society that forces us. Our lives, jobs and platonic relationships are held hostage here... and it's very difficult to ignore the fact. By that same account, I (and hopefully, others) have tremendous respect for those who choose to risk everything for love and identity.

So I hope you don't feel offended when some of us say that we would never date a tgirl (unless heâ€"or she, in rare casesâ€"is extremely rude about it). We may lack courage, but for some of us, respect is there.


Thank you for the honesty, I be honest in return. Please understand that I'm not trying to be mean here at all - and I DO intimately understand the issues around dating a transwoman.

The thing is, I think I have more balls than most guys. I took a hard look at my life when I was 17, I realized the root of my severe depression was that as I was going through puberty EVERYTHING was happening all wrong. When I finally figure out what was happening I couldn't wait to do something about it.

During the course of my first awkward years I lost every friend I had, my parents disowned me (thankfully my brothers are better), I haven't seen any of my extended family in at least 5 years. I'm finding it VERY hard to get a new job because my documentation seems to contradict (birh certificate will say "Male" even if I have the operation).

The thing is, I'm actually lucky. I have a degree, I wasn't forced into subsistance prostitution in order to pay for my life and surgeries. I pass very very well, that gives me a leg up over transwomen who don't or can't. I can go almost anyplace and not be seen as TG (unless someone looks REALLY hard).

Society may be the problem, but not challenging the attitudes of society won't help anything. I don't want to focus too much on the crap that has happened, because in all my life has been great, with some hiccups. I'm just .. amused that there seems to be so much appreciation of how gals like I look, with little consideration of what we had to do to get there and how we feel and think.

[raojai70]

a very open relationship or serial girlfriends works better then long-term i think.

[Hot Rod]

casual sex would be great, but i've never been one for meaningless casual sex. I have to be friends with the person first, then move into some type of relationship, then sex. Have to have some type of connection with the person.

[hankhavelock]

I understand it's (incredibly) unfair to you, but you have to understand that it isn't *us* that shy away from potential serious relationships; rather, it's society that forces us....

That's a lame excuse... and a scary load of c***. No, I ain't flaming you at all here, I'm merely opposing your immediate acceptance of the standards of the moral majority - they ain't moral at ALL!

As long as you deny yourself and sacrifice your true being on the altar of less intelligent peoples' morale, then you basicly fuck yourself... in a bad way.

FUCK what society says! FUCK what ya mutha and ya sista and ya brutha have to say. SCREW conformity!

Be a man and prove them wrong, for crying out loud. Cuz indeed they are.

How hard can it be?

Peace!

H

[Pedro DB]

Been married once already - don't want to go through another break-up like that again. Have the family already too. So I voted "Steady Girlfriend".

That's what I have had for 8 months here in Samui. Sadly, that came to an end back in May.

Living in such a liberal environment with such an abundance of new ladies arriving almost daily, there is a temptation just to try and f**k as many of them as possible. Post break-up, I did just that for a month or so but it just 'did my head in'.

So after a month or so of almost enforced celibacy, I am now looking forward to finding a new long term partner and the intimacy and feelings that can really only result from such a relationship.
:yes:

[trannycrazy]

I would one day like to get married to a gorgeous shemale, I know that one day it's gonna happen.

[bobbsie]

hmmmm i dont know ALL the countries, but i believe it is legal to marry men/shemales/other women (if your lesbian) in Spain, Belgium and Canada. there are probably alot more but thats just off the top of my head, but hey you can have the marriage and honeymoon in the same place hahaha :D

no idea on the passport

I am a little embarrassed how far Australia has fallen behind on some key human rights issues. Australia should really be one of those countires..

[british_boy]

Casual sex would be nice. LB's can really turn me on, but I love the company of women (read my gf) too much to get serious in a relationship.

I actually find this quite insulting. You obviously see t-girls as kinky sex objects rather than as women. My t-girlfriend (who I plan to marry next year) is as feminine, lovely, pretty, and kind as any of my g-girlfriends of the past. Perhaps more so.

Get over your prejudices, man!

[crisean]

a full blown relationship that could lead to marriage..no doubt

[DollyCd]

I also would love to have a stady relationship with a ladyboy :hug::turnon::coupling::heart:

[troyhorny39j]

fuck yea shemales are hot

[tslover586]

i love my wife more that anything. and we do have an open relationship. so anything i do is a hit it and quit kinda deal. its not that i wouldnt be friends in private or public with a tgirl, because i would. as a matter of fact i have several gay friends and im not ashamed of them. but as far as this post is concerned i am married, and my eternal love can only go to my wife.

now if for some reason me and my wife didnt work out. in all honesty i would just be a slut. i would give up on love completly. im not using the old id be ashamed, or society wouldnt accept it bull crap cop out. im just being honest!

[rockabilly]

I would like a ltr that could lead to marriage.

[The_Void]

Same as with any girl. As in - I dunno, it depends on the girl. I could marry a t-girl. I could marry a g-girl. I could marry a guy. It's really not much of a factor for me.

[aw9725]

Full-time girlfriend leading to marriage.

[franalexes]

If I ever met a shemale/ladyboy/tgirl that is the love of my life then I would want to marry her.

Dear diary: Must make appointment, beauty shop, travel agency.:rolleyes:

[ila]

Dear diary: Must make appointment, beauty shop, travel agency.:rolleyes:

Note to self: Check airline schedules.

[snyperx777]

i vote 3 if it turns into a relationship its perfectly fine with me

[avrilfuck]

I voted casuale sex, because I can vote two things, but friendship is also OK for me.
The problem is that friendship seems difficult, or so I believe.

[british_boy]

I voted casuale sex, because I can vote two things, but friendship is also OK for me.
The problem is that friendship seems difficult, or so I believe.

A. Why only casual sex?
B. Why would friendship be difficult?
C. Doesn't sex + friendship = a relationship?

[PI_Monger]

I voted full time girlfriend but I would marry a ladyboy for sure if the right one came along. In fact, I hope to someday when I'm living in the Philippines full time. If all goes well and I can retire early as planned, it should be within two years. <fingers crossed>

[YoungNCurious]

Casual sex first, friendship second.

[novicetgirllover]

Bionica: I am one of those guys that would date and eventually marry a girl like you. However, after joining several dating websites and getting no replies, then going to clubs yet getting no attention off the girls who are my 'type' (the ones who are similar to genetic girls I used to date) i'm close to giving up trying. I'm a young (31), good looking (yes i'm being arrogant) guy, so lord knows why I get nowhere. I think you girls tend to shoot yourselves in the foot. Maybe its out of disgust for men that like transwomen (girls wanting a straight guy who dosen't know), or maybe they just don't trust me and think i'm after sex and will break their heart.

Anyway I might have found someone in the Phillipines, though i'm worried she might really want an older guy.

[Bionca]

Bionica: I am one of those guys that would date and eventually marry a girl like you. However, after joining several dating websites and getting no replies, then going to clubs yet getting no attention off the girls who are my 'type' (the ones who are similar to genetic girls I used to date) i'm close to giving up trying. I'm a young (31), good looking (yes i'm being arrogant) guy, so lord knows why I get nowhere. I think you girls tend to shoot yourselves in the foot. Maybe its out of disgust for men that like transwomen (girls wanting a straight guy who dosen't know), or maybe they just don't trust me and think i'm after sex and will break their heart.

Anyway I might have found someone in the Phillipines, though i'm worried she might really want an older guy.

I can't answer for most trans women, but from my observation guys have an uphill battle when it comes to trans women.

It's a combination of some messed up self-image issues with TGs (I think lots of trans women overlook really good guys because they aren't HAWT or whatever). Almost like having a stud validates them as attractive women. On the other hand, getting stood up 10 times in a row buy guys who couldn't wait to actually get a chance with a "girl like you" doesn't make one receptive to #11.

Online dating sites devoted to trans women will absolutely make for some pretty jaded gals. Been there - even I got some messages in my first month. I narrowed the suitors down and met with a few. The results of those meetings has been an almost complete shift in how I handle men. Frankly, I don't much trust them (when I used to give gals hell for not giving guys chances). Once again, it an issue of being dogged out by 100 guys doesn't predispose you well to #101.

My advice is to try to engage trans women as people with interests and hobbies. Find out a gals likes and dislikes from her site profile and open up with that. "I hear you like <thing>, so do I. Have you ever heard of <related thing>?" will get you farther with most gals than "yer cute" (in my case, I was pretty over empty compliments and single sentence contact from guys quickly). Tell her WHY you think the two of you would be a good match. Let her know something about you.

It isn't hard exactly. You just have to assume that she's been contacted by some pretty shady characters using any and every angle to get her. You need to assume that if she decided to end the contact, those same guys used what they knew would be most insulting to get a last "dig" at her. dating while trans is a minefield, and you don't get through it without being burned.

I feel for the genuine guys who seriously want to date trans women. The cruddy part is, those were the guys I THOUGHT I was dating - they all said similar stuff. It becomes very hard to sort through the REAL guys who really want to date a trans woman, and the guys who know that they need to pretend to be REAL men who want to date trans women to get any play at all.

[novicetgirllover]

I can't answer for most trans women, but from my observation guys have an uphill battle when it comes to trans women.

It's a combination of some messed up self-image issues with TGs (I think lots of trans women overlook really good guys because they aren't HAWT or whatever). Almost like having a stud validates them as attractive women. On the other hand, getting stood up 10 times in a row buy guys who couldn't wait to actually get a chance with a "girl like you" doesn't make one receptive to #11.

Online dating sites devoted to trans women will absolutely make for some pretty jaded gals. Been there - even I got some messages in my first month. I narrowed the suitors down and met with a few. The results of those meetings has been an almost complete shift in how I handle men. Frankly, I don't much trust them (when I used to give gals hell for not giving guys chances). Once again, it an issue of being dogged out by 100 guys doesn't predispose you well to #101.

My advice is to try to engage trans women as people with interests and hobbies. Find out a gals likes and dislikes from her site profile and open up with that. "I hear you like <thing>, so do I. Have you ever heard of <related thing>?" will get you farther with most gals than "yer cute" (in my case, I was pretty over empty compliments and single sentence contact from guys quickly). Tell her WHY you think the two of you would be a good match. Let her know something about you.

It isn't hard exactly. You just have to assume that she's been contacted by some pretty shady characters using any and every angle to get her. You need to assume that if she decided to end the contact, those same guys used what they knew would be most insulting to get a last "dig" at her. dating while trans is a minefield, and you don't get through it without being burned.

I feel for the genuine guys who seriously want to date trans women. The cruddy part is, those were the guys I THOUGHT I was dating - they all said similar stuff. It becomes very hard to sort through the REAL guys who really want to date a trans woman, and the guys who know that they need to pretend to be REAL men who want to date trans women to get any play at all.

Thanks I really appresiate that. It makes alot of sense and I don't just put 'hi sexy' in the mails I send. It still makes no difference.

[nadiecomoyo]

A fulltime Ts girlfriend , i think can to work, live together, care for her she care for me, i´ll like ,yes, i´ll like it.

[Lycanthropunk]

I voted marriage. Tgirls are WAY more than just a sexual thing for me- i can honestly see me settle down and spend my life with a beautiful Tgirl.

[Steve.Dark]

I put full time girlfriend, seems like it would be a much better time than just sex, you know having fun with eachother and etc

[JuniorJakes]

I said 'not sure' as I am married. Ladyboys fascinate me, I don't know what I would do if I ever met one. Some of them are so beautiful.

[randolph]

Hummm, What is casuale sex? Is it some form of exotic Italian porn sex? Just wondering. :lol:

[CortoriaCUM]

Since I'm already married and love my wife and son dearly, I voted "casual sex".

That said, had I met a tgirl that "struck a chord" before meeting my wife, I wouldn't have had any qualms in dating and maybe even marrying (if she's into marriage. You don't find that a lot anymore, these days) a tgirl. That would really have been a dream come true.

However, none of that came to pass. I'm just happy I know some tgirls in Belgium and I've had the opportunity to live out that side of my sexuality with some of those special girls.

[calgaryshyguy34]

I would love to have a real fulltime relationship with a ts. Perhaps even fall in love and ponder the thought of marriage. We can do that in Canada. I'm so totally down with that!

[Alanz]

Yao and I are looking for a full time relationship with a shemale/ladyboy To live as a threesome!! I can"t wait :turnon::turnon::turnon:

[pearcewr81]

well, im pretty new to this whole thing. i said not sure yet, but i really want to learn more about relationships with ladyboys

[NickNickNick]

I voted Marriage. I want a full time commitment with a tgirl. To be able to wake up with my tgirlfriend laying there next to me and see her every day would be heaven for me.

[spike_40]

Full time leading to marriage
always with :respect:

[ila]

Full time leading to marriage
always with :respect:

Good for you. :respect: I am looking for exactly the same thing.

[no1000]

I'm open to a fulltime girlfriend and marriage if love is involved. :heart:
I don't know why this is a poll. I mean wouldn't anyone? love is love no matter the person.

[pretty_ladyboy]

its really unhappy to see the result that majority of guys here just want to have a casual sex with us :(

[smc]

its really unhappy to see the result that majority of guys here just want to have a casual sex with us :(

Decades and decades of research into human sexuality suggest that "guys" in the majority "just want to have casual sex" with most of their partners, irrespective of gender. Monogamy, according to the research, seems to run counter to the male instinct, although "serial monogamy" seems to work as a substitute.

I take no position on this research. I am simply pointing it out.

[mysteryorchid]

Possibly include "be slave to a shemale option"

[no1000]

Possibly include "be slave to a shemale option"

hahaha the OP forgot one

[noodle]

Like some of the other guys I am married. But I voted full time girl friend because Ideally my wife and I would both love a tgirl. I?ve finally let my wife into my fantasy world (why not take all of me, as the song says). I was surprised to find out my wife gets just as turned on as me by watching my shemale porn with me.

[king D]

id love to be in a relationship with a hot ts girl

[sosed]

This is very interesting question. One think is sure. I like girls and I'm not interested in males. Talking about girls, i would like to say, that I like both genetic girls and Tgirls, so the answer is actually for both, when we are talking about long term relationship or marriage. It is not, what she have between her legs, but about our personalities, how we are compatible that we could live together and what we feel to each other. She will be my girl, I will live with her, not others.

[no1000]

This is very interesting question. One think is sure. I like girls and I'm not interested in males. Talking about girls, i would like to say, that I like both genetic girls and Tgirls, so the answer is actually for both, when we are talking about long term relationship or marriage. It is not, what she have between her legs, but about our personalities, how we are compatible that we could live together and what we feel to each other. She will be my girl, I will live with her, not others.

+1 I like your way of thinking.

[JodieTs]

Well my boyfriend wants to marry me
My girlfriend also wants to marry me {civil partnership}
I just want to play Call of Duty: Black Ops callofduty (http://www.callofduty.com/hub)! :lol: >>>This video is brill.


Hummm.....I think I've got trouble brewing! :yes:

[shadows]

Well my boyfriend wants to marry me
My girlfriend also wants to marry me {civil partnership}
I just want to play Call of Duty: Black Ops callofduty (http://www.callofduty.com/hub)! :lol: >>>This video is brill.


Hummm.....I think I've got trouble brewing! :yes:

I heard that this fellow made a Youtube video where he walked through the entire first level of Black Ops on the hardest difficulty without taking a hit, or even firing a shot! The AI basically completed the level for him! While the game looks fantastic I prefer games where there is more interactivity.;)

Sorry for the OT, Jodie. I just figured I'd try to take your mind off the potential upcoming trouble that is a' brewing.;):lol:

[Smoothie]

Sex is for fun, marriage is sex for life.
I vote for marriage.

[ThirdEyeGirl]

This is a little disheartening, particularly on a site devoted to men who "admire" women like me. Firstly, I am a "real woman" - gender and biological sex are not the same. Secondly, the reason so often cited for not having an actual relationship with a Tgal has been in essence fear of what others might say. Relegating me to a curiosity or fetish, no consideration of my (our) feelings or needs.

Although I pass all day every day (even without makeup), I am 100% honest about my surgical status when the issue arises. To expect me to lie about a huge chunk of my life isn't exactly fair - imagine going through life never mentioning anything that happened in your first 20 years.

My transition, and those of my friends have shown courage, tenacity, character, strength and compassion that I rarely see in other communities of people. I'd like to be loved and admired for those qualities rather than whats going on in my crotch.

Couldn't of said it better myself Bionca. :respect:

I can't answer for most trans women, but from my observation guys have an uphill battle when it comes to trans women.

It's a combination of some messed up self-image issues with TGs (I think lots of trans women overlook really good guys because they aren't HAWT or whatever). Almost like having a stud validates them as attractive women. On the other hand, getting stood up 10 times in a row buy guys who couldn't wait to actually get a chance with a "girl like you" doesn't make one receptive to #11.

Online dating sites devoted to trans women will absolutely make for some pretty jaded gals. Been there - even I got some messages in my first month. I narrowed the suitors down and met with a few. The results of those meetings has been an almost complete shift in how I handle men. Frankly, I don't much trust them (when I used to give gals hell for not giving guys chances). Once again, it an issue of being dogged out by 100 guys doesn't predispose you well to #101.

My advice is to try to engage trans women as people with interests and hobbies. Find out a gals likes and dislikes from her site profile and open up with that. "I hear you like <thing>, so do I. Have you ever heard of <related thing>?" will get you farther with most gals than "yer cute" (in my case, I was pretty over empty compliments and single sentence contact from guys quickly). Tell her WHY you think the two of you would be a good match. Let her know something about you.

It isn't hard exactly. You just have to assume that she's been contacted by some pretty shady characters using any and every angle to get her. You need to assume that if she decided to end the contact, those same guys used what they knew would be most insulting to get a last "dig" at her. dating while trans is a minefield, and you don't get through it without being burned.

I feel for the genuine guys who seriously want to date trans women. The cruddy part is, those were the guys I THOUGHT I was dating - they all said similar stuff. It becomes very hard to sort through the REAL guys who really want to date a trans woman, and the guys who know that they need to pretend to be REAL men who want to date trans women to get any play at all.

Yes I totally agree with this as well. I get hit on by guys on these sites all the time. And usually don't even pay attention to the messages that are just saying how sexy I am.

But as for the poll. I voted on marriage. Because I would marry a girl like myself, she would be my ideal partner. But I am pan-sexual (basically bi), so I would also be open to marrying cis-gendered men or women.

[Relic119]

I want something serious maybe even marriage

[Hourglass]

Steady, committed relationship would be my choice. I've never been one for flings; No offense to those who enjoy that lifestyle, it's just not for me. I'm a bit of a (hopeless) romantic, so having one person to be with would be ideal.

As for marriage...I don't know. I'm a little afraid of marriage. Not the commitment part, but because almost all my friends have been married - and divorced - at least once and I've seen firsthand how it's changed them. They're...not happy. They used to be. Not anymore.

[StellaDixxie]

the majority that chose casual sex strike me as cowards.

[Guly_French]

Bascally, full-time girlfriend. I chose marriage though, as I want to show that no matter what her past is, the one I will truly and deeply love deserves that I dedicate my life to her, and to us. But also because it is a way for me to point out that it is awfully wrong that marrying a girl is forbidden or allowed based on what hangs (or hangs not) between her legs...

I can understand what Bionca wrote. I'd like to add it's hard for men who just want to have a nice chat to begin with but are not given the chance because they are not HAWT. But I guess that on this as on anything else, things are never a given, you have to go get it.

The other thing is that of course talking about common interests is the key. But let's be honnest, someday, if things get as far as being more than friends, or you picture to go there, you'll have to talk about sex. And trust me, I have seen girls being frigthened to talk about it so much they ran away calling me pervert, though they wanted to try a relationship with me too. (And no, I was no longer 17 at that time).

Sorry for the messed up post, I have a nice headache this morning that prevents me from writing something... better tought out

Oh, and if one of you like to talk about computer sciences, computer networks sciences, fantasy and SF universes or the Cthulhu Mythos, mp me. :) Got a lot of work but I drop by every morning. I'll definitely answer.

[mabedzaqueen]

the majority that chose casual sex strike me as cowards.

Hi Stella! First, let me explain why ?the majority that chose casual sex? do not strike me as cowards... I believe it takes balls for someone who's been in a LTR (married or not) for a number of years to put it all in jeopardy just to make a dream (or fantasy) come true, knowing from the start how unbearable the outcome may be; Also, i can't see someone ready to risk his health for a few hours of intense pleasure (or a life-changing experience?) as a ?coward?...

Second, if it's not too personal, could you please tell us the reason why they're cowards in your eyes?? For me, well i voted ?not sure? as it is very much how i feel after 19 years of marriage, a divorce, two encounters with money-hungry MILFs (first one Disappointing, second one Disastrous), the 'discovery' that i was not-so-straight-after-all and, for good measure, a rapidly growing taste towards young femboys:blush: Now i guess i'll just see what the future brings...
______
Dennis.

[Translover Jonny]

I would go for full time marriage, I have been married before to an "ordinary" girl and now i have tried that and no more! Ladyboys are my passion in life now and i can?t even imagine me going back to "ordinary" girls again. You know once you got a taste of it ;-).
I only date ladyboys now and i definitely hope to find my future wife some day. The problem is that many beautiful ladyboy wants to make the surgery and become full time women as fast as possible, i understand that but the problem for me is to find a sweet and good looking ladyboy that won?t do the surgery and become at post-op ladyboy. The one i would like to marry and spend my life with should stay pre-op, I just love them the way they are.

[aussiepride]

i chose marriage because i am effectively already married to a ts.
in the near future i willm get a ring and a civil ceremony (as close to same sex marriage in aus as u can get).

[Dhobi]

I would love a long term relationship that led to marriage - but I am an old guy and so see that as an impossible dream now. :inlove:

[testbed]

If I met the right girl then I would want to get married to her.

[parr]

It would depend on the individual. I was never too partial to "one night stands".:inlove:

[curiousguy]

something casual with no strings,id want to pre arrange a time and have her call me when she wants some action.

[aussiepride]

something casual with no strings,id want to pre arrange a time and have her call me when she wants some action.

i had that for 2 mnths, every tuesday at 3.30 lol. she was best sex i ever had with a ts too. happy memories.

[dan]

I would love a long term relationship that led to marriage - but I am an old guy and so see that as an impossible dream now. :inlove:


You have seen the entire world, Dhobi, sailorman, you have seen exotic beauties and extravagant wonders, weird animals, unexplored islands, tormented seas, every type of humans and cultures. Who knows, my friend ? Everything is possible...

[svartekaptenen]

the majority that chose casual sex strike me as cowards.
I disagree a marriage is a serious commitment that one should not enter
without giving it serious thought and contemplation.

[ThirdEyeGirl]

I disagree a marriage is a serious commitment that one should not enter
without giving it serious thought and contemplation.

Very true. But if we re-ask the question with cis (non trans) women. Would the same people who said only casual sex with trans girls, also say casual sex with cis girls? If the answer is yes, than not a big deal. But if the answer is no, than they are in fact cowards in my opinion.

[lancslad]

I voted Full Time Girlfriend

Though I am married. If I wasn't then I would have no problems being in a relationship and have no problems with people knowing I am seeing a ladyboy.

If you are happy then it shouldn't matter who you are with, be they girl/boy/ladyboy.

For me not it's not likey to happen unless I have complete breakdown of my relationship.

Would I like to have casual sex with a ladyboy? Of course, they are extremely attractive and beautiful

[dan]

Very true. But if we re-ask the question with cis (non trans) women. Would the same people who said only casual sex with trans girls, also say casual sex with cis girls? If the answer is yes, than not a big deal. But if the answer is no, than they are in fact cowards in my opinion.

Scintillating point. It would mean that someone fancies t-ladies as fantasies or as pure objects of perversion, but totaly disreagard both their personalities and their feelings as persons.

[ila]

Scintillating point. It would mean that someone fancies t-ladies as fantasies or as pure objects of perversion, but totaly disreagard both their personalities and their feelings as persons.

The part that I put in bold (although taken out of context) would applies to more than just those looking for sex with transwomen. A look through online adds will show that regardless of whether people are looking for homo or hetero sex that a common theme is NSA (no strings attached).

[ThirdEyeGirl]

The part that I put in bold (although taken out of context) would applies to more than just those looking for sex with transwomen. A look through online adds will show that regardless of whether people are looking for homo or hetero sex that a common theme is NSA (no strings attached).

And NSA means, in my book, No Satisfaction Allowed. :p haha
Because emotional pleasure goes hand in hand with physical pleasure for me. ;)

[ila]

And NSA means, in my book, No Satisfaction Allowed. :p haha
Because emotional pleasure goes hand in hand with physical pleasure for me. ;)

I love your definition of NSA. :lol:

[ThirdEyeGirl]

I love your definition of NSA. :lol:

And I just came up with that on the fly. ;) hehe

[dan]

The part that I put in bold (although taken out of context) would applies to more than just those looking for sex with transwomen. A look through online adds will show that regardless of whether people are looking for homo or hetero sex that a common theme is NSA (no strings attached).


Yes indeed, ila, we see that all over personnal ads and pages after pages. We live in a pretty cold world, and the fact that we all meet here on this forum might be either a demonstration of that or an escape from it -i'm not the first "genius" to point that one out... But in this precise case, as expressed by ThirdEyeGirl, it would mean that someone would care for a relationship with a gg, but show total disdain for the feelings of a t-woman in a potential affair, which would seem utterly contemptuous and disgusting. I don't understand how anyone can envision any person like that. They in such case would might as well use a doll or a dildo (or what is it, a "fleshlight" ? is that how it's called ? -anyways...) I'm always puzzled by such demeanor and/or frame of mind...

[sissyffm]

i want my lady to marry me :heart:

[curiousguy221]

hopefully a romantic relationship with the possibility of marriage. sex may be fine and good for some people but i think i could only really do it with someone who i trust and care for so i should at least be friends with whoever i end up doing it with i think.

[Hieralias]

I voted Casual sex, but I'm open to a discrete relationship

[ian_love2]

I'm looking for just super hot sex, I'm turned away from relationships at Tue moment thanks to my ex.

[reynardthefox]

I went for Full Time Tgirlfriend. I would have gone for marriage, but that is a horrible deal for men/breadwinners, at least in the West. I wouldn't marry a gg either.

[LarryP]

I'm currently in a relationship with a TGirl (pre-op). We have been seeing each other for over 6months. Things are going well--pretty much a typical developing relationship as we continue to get to know one another. She's very passable and lives her life completely as a woman. we've discussed moving in together, but not marriage. WE'll see how this plays out. We love each other, what can I say. Life is good.

[zoomrolf]

As a frequent travelor to Asia, I have seen many a happy guy married to a delightful ladyboy. To a man, they say they dote on him and he is so please to return the doting. No one raises an eye in Thailand should you have a beautiful ladyboy on your arm. Not so in the Philippines although there are so many nice ladyboys in Angeles and Manila. Now if you have someone so passable, such as Amy ( Emma ) on tap, no one anywhere in the world would be the wiser. Of course Emma, will cost you a pretty penny to spend time with.

[besorted]

I'm head over (high) heels in love with a wonderful Philippines LB, recently back from visiting her, I'm married, scared to ask for a divorce but know i can't live without my beautiful pinay. Help! Has anyone successfully got there asian girl friend to the UK, if so please share how you managed it!

[angela671]

I'm one of those "jaded" girls. When you constantly get stared or leered at all day, molested by sexist co-workers, hit on by immature "boys" at your fav afterwork bar or groped on your way to the bathroom, have dates fall apart on you, pestered on fb for "add-mes", have to deal with penis pics as a FIRST MSG by new guys (btw wth is up with that? if i had a dick that was shrinkly, short, warty, hairy, bent, had acne, covered in yellow or green goo, looking black and diseased, had tattoos of chewie on it or just plain freaky, i'd seriously consider another way of getting a girls attention. Even being built like a porn star only gets a quick comment before being deleted and unfriended!). Be original, actually care about the girl HERSELF and be a gentleman. TRUST ME, you'll stand out from the other 99% of the guys. Bianca is right, continually wading through the filth doesnt make it easy to find a serious relationship. Having a guy wade though all that muck, deal comfortably with the tg issues and steal her heart is rare to find (I would so treat THAT MAN like a king!). And I do feel bad for the "real guys". It's overwhelmingly stacked against you. Don't give up though. If you are genuine, your girl is waiting somewhere out there for you!!

Yeah, I would like something serious. Most girls would as well i think.

[smc]

I'm one of those "jaded" girls. When you constantly get stared or leered at all day, molested by sexist co-workers, hit on by immature "boys" at your fav afterwork bar or groped on your way to the bathroom, have dates fall apart on you, pestered on fb for "add-mes", have to deal with penis pics as a FIRST MSG by new guys (btw wth is up with that? if i had a dick that was shrinkly, short, warty, hairy, bent, had acne, covered in yellow or green goo, looking black and diseased, had tattoos of chewie on it or just plain freaky, i'd seriously consider another way of getting a girls attention. Even being built like a porn star only gets a quick comment before being deleted and unfriended!). Be original, actually care about the girl HERSELF and be a gentleman. TRUST ME, you'll stand out from the other 99% of the guys. Bianca is right, continually wading through the filth doesnt make it easy to find a serious relationship. Having a guy wade though all that muck, deal comfortably with the tg issues and steal her heart is rare to find (I would so treat THAT MAN like a king!). And I do feel bad for the "real guys". It's overwhelmingly stacked against you. Don't give up though. If you are genuine, your girl is waiting somewhere out there for you!!

Yeah, I would like something serious. Most girls would as well i think.

Wow, what truth: the way it's stacked against the real guys, because of the behavior of all the assholes who think only with their dicks. :respect:

It's enough to make one wish he wasn't a man!

[mabedzaqueen]

And I do feel bad for the "real guys". I would like something serious. Most girls would as well i think.

Hi Angela and welcome to the forum! After having carefully read your interesting post, i can only conclude that if someone gave you the opportunity to jump in a spaceship and fly the hell out of this gross, filthy, obnoxious world, you'd do it in a heartbeat, no??

Normally, i try to avoid giving gratuitous advice 'cause it makes me feel like an old fart, but when i see people getting disappointed when they notice that the world they live in is not up to their standards, it just screams to me they haven't (yet) understood that ?reality? and ?perfection? will never walk hand-in-hand:no: Look Angela, as i read your post i could almost smell your frustration and (believe it or not) i see your point: over the years i have met quite a few perfectionists and i didn't get a happy-person "vibe" from any of 'em... Lots of people have tried to make this world a better place and how many have succeeded? :confused:

Afterthought: you know what? I'm ready to bet even those you label as "real guys" do have some sort of black cloud following them (from a distance so you may not see it on the first few dates).

______
Dennis.

[angela671]

lolol I didn't realize I was giving the impression i wanted perfect. Everyone has baggage and I can deal with that. No one is perfect. And frankly I don't want perfect. I'd settle for just being happy.

I think you missed the point though.
My "reality" as you put it, goes something like this: Guy1 hey baby, youve got sweet lips, i'd love to put.... Guy2 Your gorgeous, you wanna get out of here and f***? Guy3 Hey, i knew you from before as a guy, since you changed you must get f***ed alot. Guy4 Thats a cute ass, I'd love to f*** it! Guy5 (co-worker) I've had fantasies bout a girl like you..you wanna f*** after work? but dont tell my wife. Guy6 Your a tranny right? You wanna fwb? Guy7 Gawd i would so do your ass. C'mon i'll make it worth your while.(money) Guy8 blahblahf**kblah
I could go on and on and on. After awhile, you overload and simply get jaded. You blank, but you smile and move on.And that's just what i call the "little boys"!
And then there are the "straight" guys you date, who want a tgirlfriend but are afraid of being seen in public with one. You don't meet their friends, coworkers or family. He takes you to late night movies, picnics at secluded beaches, long drives to nowhere or grocery shopping but you have to stay in the car. You never go anywhere together that might be "too public". You end up feeling like a 2nd class girlfriend.

I'm grounded and as down to earth as you can possibly get. I don't expect perfect. And I certainly don't expect a knight in shining armor to scoop me up and save me. But it would be nice to be seen as more than a sex object. To know that i mean more than that to someone. To be with one, who doesn't care if others see if we hold hands. And isn't afraid of what others might think. Maybe i'm asking for too much..maybe that's perfection? If it is, then i guess, beam me up.

now if oyu dont mind, i have a box of tissues calling me again...

[smc]

... But it would be nice to be seen as more than a sex object. To know that i mean more than that to someone. To be with one, who doesn't care if others see if we hold hands. And isn't afraid of what others might think. Maybe i'm asking for too much..maybe that's perfection? If it is, then i guess, beam me up. ...

Don't despair completely. There really are guys out there who are decent. I look at a lot of porn in large part to "get out of my system" the shit you describe above. And I don't see escorts. The transwomen with whom I've had relationships are a graduate student I met in a non-bar, non-sex situation and who I spent a long time having mostly "academic"-related discussions with before even kissing, a woman I met on the local subway and had a discussion with when the train broke down (later going out for coffee three times before even holding hands), and a friend who I invited to Boston as a getaway from some family problems, made not a single "move" on, and who -- after a few days -- fell asleep in my arms after a long discussion about life's toils and troubles and then woke up to kiss me and make love (something she said she'd never done before).

I mention this only to show that there are decent guys. I've met others. True, most men are dogs and they think primarily with their dicks, but some manage to overcome that ... even if only fleetingly.

[angela671]

oh and top of all that..she still has to deal with her own tg issues as well.
Spending way more time shopping than a gg would. (Because nothing fits!) Spending more money than a gg would..seamstress, hormones, counselor, doctor, voice training, ffs etc. Trying to find a job. Trying to find a job with insurance that'll cover you. Keeping your job. Being hassled by cops because your sex on id doesn't match how you present. Coming out issues. Losing friends. Losing family. and on and on and on. Self doubt. Questioning whether dealing with all that, is really worth it.

So yeah, your tgirl already has alot on her mind BEFORE you even approach her. Tending to jackasses is NOT the highlight of her day.

I'm actually starting to get a little steamed here. You can keep your "gratuitous advice". I have enough on my plate, thank you!

[a9127]

I guess I might be one of the “good guys.” I don’t know. You’ll have to ask around and read some of my older posts and decide for yourself. I left because of my dissatisfaction with the number of insulting, ignorant (often ungendering), and just plain stupid posts that were tolerated (newcomers responding to 5 year old threads without checking for example). And the number of people who fall for “merelypink” never ceases to amaze me. Until my account was closed I had over 1000 posts as “aw9725.” Tried to come back and found I couldn’t “re activate” my account so here I am under a different name.

My desire when I joined TLB way back in 2009 was originally to learn more and also meet a transwoman for a long term relationship and marriage. I am active in the LGBT community and have many gay and lesbian friends. Over the years I have developed friendships with both M2F and F2M transsexuals but have never been in a relationship. I consider myself “straight” but as you know human sexuality is so much more complicated than that. I related a story here about a possible “missed opportunity” from when I was in college. I’m sure you can find it if you are interested.

Somewhere along the way I met a very beautiful and wonderful ciswoman who shares my interest in LGBT issues and we were married in March 2011. I have remained active here on and off primarily due to friends like ila, smc, Fran, Bionca, Dauls, shadows (where did he go anyway?), the conquistador, and many others.

To anyone who is new here and looking for friends, here’s hoping you will stay. :cool:

[smc]

... I'm actually starting to get a little steamed here. You can keep your "gratuitous advice". I have enough on my plate, thank you!

It would appear that angela671 and I were posting at the same time, so I wanted to make sure that the "gratuitous advice" to which she is responding is actually above my post, which is immediately above hers.

[Jon Boehner]

to a real girly girl would be the best.

[NoNameXIV]

casual sex all the way, i am in my early 20ies to young for marriage and i have never meet a girl i would want to have a relationship with.
I love the fact i can do what i want when i want, never have to apologize or explain myself, got complete FREEDOM and i don't think ill be giving that up just yet :innocent:

[joe1987]

Since I decided to man up and let everyone in my family know that I'm attracted to transgendered women and not so much to genetic women, I'd like to eventually get married one day and maybe start a family with her.

I realised I deserve to be happy and I don't want to be one of those guys that ends up getting married to a genetic woman, has kids and then decides to sneak off to wherever and have an affair with a TG and possibly ruin their marriage because they were living a lie. I wouldn't be able to live like that.

It would be unfair to me and to the woman I truly want to be with. So it's out in the open now and I'm happy to say that I can now think about having a future with the woman of my dreams, wherever she may be!

WAHOO!

[toon198122]

Serious tgirlfriend for me I'm in a relationship right now and wouldn't have it any other way at the moment but if I ws still single I'd go to marriage

[Globe009]

I have been in a very serious relationship with a ladyboy from Toronto. We met online and we have been together ever since. I lost my "t-girl" virginity to her and she lost her's own virginity to me. I could not ask for a better friend, lover, soul mate...I was married for over 20 years to a genetic woman which did not end well...I have had a ladyboy fetish for so long so when I left my ex I decided to give dating a transexual a try! I have NO regrets!

[will91]

I'm starting a relationship with a TS girl just right now, we have been dating and having sex and we like each other, so we'd like to start something more than sex. And she's damn HOT! 23 yo (i'm 22), 6'1'' tall and leggy, 7.5 inches penis, really good breast and she's a redhead :P. She's also sweet and lovely, which counts even more than aspect in having a relationship, she loves to sleep embraced with me (and i love feeling her night erections lol)

[tiesjief]

I'm putting full-time girlfriend because I'm not really into marriage. It's not that I'm really waiting for a GG or anything, because I'm done with them anyway. I'm just not into marriage. Aside from all the regular dating stuff, I do want a girl that loves her penis as much as I do :inlove: so I think it's non-op only for me.

[a994]

If she's the right woman, I could see myself marrying her.

I too would prefer a fully functional non-op who likes her penis and enjoys using it, but post-op is a good option, as would be a GG.

[bwanadik]

Have to say friendship because I am just starting down this path. But, it is possible I could go all the way. Have to wait and see.

[eternalflame]

LTR or marriage with a shemale, preferably a very pretty one with long silky dark hair and a big shecock.

[lordscott]

Fellow members including OP who asked this question sorry i can't vote on this question i don't know what to vote for but however i will say this please bear with me first we'll start as full time with my relationship with her of a transgender girl/transgender woman and hopefully leading up to marriage if we're still together that is then we'll go from there and yes hopefully she's open to adoption so we can have kids and we start our own family and like i said just now if we're still together that is :).

And don't worry like i mention earlier and i will gladly say it again I'll defend my girlfriend/my wife if i did have someone,I'll defend people who i love and I'll defend people who i care about and i would never ever leave her and our kids when and if we have kids because I'm not such a douchebag and I'm not such a jerk and assholes and other bad men they're known for :).

[Niko1977]

Like most people here, full-time t-gf and maybe marriage if it works out, no different than being in a relationship with a woman.

But if we want kids, then there may be a problem. Then again, if a woman cannot bear kids for certain reasons, then there would be the same problem, wouldn't it?

[Joost]

I'd love to have a 'normal' relationship with her, with lots of sex of course. I've dated genetic girls over the years, topping them all the time. I have some catching up to do when it comes to bottoming, so I'd love to experience a lot with that.

Aside from that, I'm single now, live alone in my little apartment. Would love to have some company here, preferably a sweet pretty tgirl. Lie on the couch together with her in the evening watching tv, hot steamy sex afterwards.

[a9127]

My feelings haven't changed since I posted this (http://forum.transladyboy.com/showpost.php?p=110823&postcount=73) as "aw9725" five years ago. But since getting married (for the second time) in 2011, I have limited my activity on here to strictly on-line friendships. ;)

[omni]

Marriage.

Oh man, what I'd give to by happily married to one.

[DavidJones1985]

Nothing intimate. I think only for sex :p

[T.S.Severe]

Viewing this question from a very limited perspective, I would probably be happier with a 24/7 crossdressing male (passable, please!) rather than a m2f TS simply because once the transition is physically complete, she's not a shemale or ladyboy anymore - fantasy concepts, at best, but concepts which nevertheless appeal strongly to my fantasies.

Now, if I could find a pre-op TS who is bisexual and doesn't plan or even desire to undergo SRS, and she has a great sense of humor, likes dogs, can play Radar Love on the drums, and doesn't even own an iPhone...It could be love!

[sorcisto]

I can't give a proper answer, it totally depends on the girl in question.

I've been married before and I'm not keen to get married again but with the right person I would walk down the aisle once more, girl or ladyboy

[lmc]

A ts girlfriend would be perfect