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hankhavelock
10-04-2007, 10:54 PM
Dear everybody - especially new users

As I keep getting the same question "How do I meet a shemale?" I've decided to go gather practical information in this thread. The information is taken from earlier threads and I hope others will supply additional links and addresses in this same thread to make it a bit easier for people.

Hank

PS: In general it is a FINE idea for new users to browse through earlier postings here before sending private messages. Chances are that your question has already been answered before :-)

hankhavelock
10-04-2007, 11:00 PM
Guys, I found this link to an article which may answer a few of the general questions that seem to repeatedly come up:

http://www.firelily.com/gender/giann...o.love.ts.html

And also:

I found these links to a site that seems to have a load of good information:

http://www.tsgirlfriend.com/

http://www.reneereyes.com/Webdocs/mtbars.html

http://www.reneereyes.com

H

hankhavelock
10-04-2007, 11:02 PM
I've created a Yahoo Group for transgender women and men who are SERIOUSLY looking for long-term-relationships/marriage with each other. It's a non-pornographic group and the mission of the group is NOT for seeking sex-partners (there are many other fora for that).

So if you're seriously looking for a partner maybe it would be an idea to sign up (remember to post a pic of yourself as well as an "I'm here" posting).

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/transgenderrelationships/

I'm a little strict in moderating the postings in order to keep it clean and to make sure all postings stick to the point.

Hank

PS: The actual use of this group follows normal Yahoo Group standard so if in doubt how to upload a picture and all that, please, consult the Help function in Yahoo.

hankhavelock
10-04-2007, 11:16 PM
Here are three links to places for bars/events meeting t-girls for dating:

GoodHandys
Toronto, Canada. The pansexual playground, they label them selves :-)
http://www.goodhandys.com

Trixies Bar
Florida based night club for TG and admirers.
http://www.trixiesbar.com

TG Solena's Yahoo group for match-making
US based
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/solena_chaniago/

May I suggest that you add other bars/events for real-life meetings if you know any such places. Obviously, there are many in Thailand but it is a bit harder to find such places in the West - also it may be an idea to focus on match-making and not really escort-places.

Also found this link - not too updated, though...

http://motherboards.infopop.cc/eve/f...21#75010534521

Try this for UK:

http://www.trans-mission.org/tx/txindex.php

Hank

hankhavelock
10-04-2007, 11:20 PM
Some good places to get in contact (free sites that require you set up a profile to communicate with the other members):

Dragoncastle
Contact forum with many Asian trans-girls
http://www.dragoncastle.net

Face-Pic
Contact forum
http://www.face-pic.com

Gayromeo
Contact forum
http://www.gayromeo.com

Guys4Men
Contact forum primarily for gays but with TG also
http://www.guys4men.com

MeetLadyboy
Contact forum for TG
http://www.meetladyboy.com

TG Solena's Yahoo group for match-making
A group about parties in NYC - US based
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/solena_chaniago/

TGpersonals
Contact forum for TG
http://www.tgpersonals.com

Urnotalone
Contact forum for TG
http://www.urnotalone.com

All these free sites have different interfaces, so spend some time figuring them out. In general getting in touch demands for a little work :-)

Hank

hankhavelock
10-04-2007, 11:23 PM
That's it so far... I think I found all my entries regarding this.

I'll keep putting in new links here as I come by them. And I hope others do the same.

Cheers!

Hank

kelly
10-05-2007, 10:18 AM
The best place in the world to meet beautiful ladyboys is Thailand....bangkok..the NANA plaza on Skhumvit road ....lots of gorgeous ladyboys there.....I would rank it as No 1. easily

The second place...is Manila..in the phillipines.......I have to say...there are some very beautiful ladyboys here..and most are looking for boyfriends/husbands........and they have great personalities.

Brazil.....has a lot of shemales.......but....asia..is best

In london.........go to the "Way out club".....city-east london ...close to the tower bridge.......sat nite..after .11 pm is best.....lots of ladyboys there....and some real beauties.

So go for it guys....believe me.....you wont regret it....

BlueRaven88
10-11-2007, 10:30 AM
that's all well and good but, what about shemales in australia? can never find any sites for them :(

BlueRaven88
10-16-2007, 10:16 PM
Some good places to get in contact (free sites that require you set up a profile to communicate with the other members):

Dragoncastle
Contact forum with many Asian trans-girls
http://www.dragoncastle.net

Face-Pic
Contact forum
http://www.face-pic.com

Gayromeo
Contact forum
http://www.gayromeo.com

Guys4Men
Contact forum primarily for gays but with TG also
http://www.guys4men.com

MeetLadyboy
Contact forum for TG
http://www.meetladyboy.com

TG Solena's Yahoo group for match-making
A group about parties in NYC - US based
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/solena_chaniago/

TGpersonals
Contact forum for TG
http://www.tgpersonals.com

Urnotalone
Contact forum for TG
http://www.urnotalone.com

All these free sites have different interfaces, so spend some time figuring them out. In general getting in touch demands for a little work :-)

Hank

just wanna say a HUGE thanks for telling me about http://www.dragoncastle.net cos i met the love of my life here!! thanks hank you rock!

silverback
10-23-2007, 04:53 PM
that's all well and good but, what about shemales in australia? can never find any sites for them :(


And in New Zealand the pickings are extremely slim too....I wish I was in Thailand, and single :coupling:

gizmo
10-28-2007, 12:30 PM
Just back today from 2 week's in Pattaya
and let me tell you guy's, it's become LB heaven!
There are sooo many new ladyboy bar's opening there
and the LB talent in the ordinary bar's is just amazing!
So anyone looking for the best in LB,s get your ass to
Pattaya! :respect: Gizmo.

SSL
10-28-2007, 01:36 PM
Hey Gizmo, welcome back! I almost began to worry :)

Hope you have a trip report and some nice pictures to back it up?

inadaze
10-28-2007, 01:37 PM
Just back today from 2 week's in Pattaya
and let me tell you guy's, it's become LB heaven!
There are sooo many new ladyboy bar's opening there
and the LB talent in the ordinary bar's is just amazing!
So anyone looking for the best in LB,s get your ass to
Pattaya! :respect: Gizmo.
:respect:
Hey I'd like to hear about your experiences there. I'm sure others would too :yes:
I could ask a lot of questions like were all the ladyboys hookers (if so how much were they) or were some just 'normal' girls ? Were they only of thai nationality ? And did they all practice safe sex and take care of their bodies ? Were there some places to be avoided where they didnt take care of themselves ? Could they speak english or any other languages beside thai ? :coupling:

mobiryder
10-29-2007, 01:54 AM
My first TS was found in a gay.com chatroom... yeah yeah, i know you're not gay, but they technically are, and they congregate here.. Had me a latine shemale from SD...

Then I moved to thailand and you can't walk 100 yards without bumping into one, so that's what I do nowadays :yes:

hankhavelock
11-04-2007, 03:04 PM
Please, let's try to keep this thread clear of postings that have NO new links. Personal experiences are fine and good, but the essence here is to supply links or physical addresses to places.

Thank you!

h

SweetCharmer
11-05-2007, 01:41 PM
Hi hank i was just wondering do you know of any ladyboy bars or and ladyboy friends who live in central london?

mobiryder
11-05-2007, 02:10 PM
Please, let's try to keep this thread clear of postings that have NO new links. Personal experiences are fine and good, but the essence here is to supply links or physical addresses to places.

Thank you!

h

where's your link????? :censored:

EbonyTSLover
11-11-2007, 08:55 PM
try this site if you don't mind paying for little fun with a ladyboy. www.erosguide.com

hankhavelock
11-17-2007, 04:13 AM
Hi hank i was just wondering do you know of any ladyboy bars or and ladyboy friends who live in central london?

No I don't - but I believe Kelly posted one or two links/places further up.

inadaze
11-17-2007, 10:01 AM
What about Amsterdam ? Does anyone know good places to go there ? It occurred to me that its famous for its liberal tolerance and red lights.

kelly
11-24-2007, 10:31 AM
The best place in Australia for ladyboys is The Taxi Club.......just off taylor square in Sydney City..........................lots of pretty ladyboys there,......best time....after 11 pm. Fri Sat nights

Good luck.............and remember.....have fun....................if your not having fun....your doing it wrong!!

Kelly,

BenF
12-08-2007, 04:05 AM
Kelly, Know any places in Brisbane?

Cadian122
12-09-2007, 09:42 AM
Any places in Adelaide? Please don't say Mars Bar, i'm looking for more than a one-nighter.

tartesos
12-09-2007, 09:59 AM
Hello Everyone! I just discover this site and I must congratulations everybody for this fine and helpful site :)
I am planning a trip to Thailand very soon. I went there last year and had the opportunity to be with som LB at Nana Plaza bars.
But this time I´d like to go to Patayya (or other suggestions). My plan, if possible, is to meet a LB and then go for a few days or so to other places/beaches with her.
I understand that will not be for free, but I wonder if this is possible. My intention is to experience the company for longer, but the idea of getting a LB girlfriend is somewhere in the horizon (they are so much prettier!).
Can anyone tell me if I could have any kind of susccess with the LB at the bars? Should I go somewhere else to meet them? Where? ( I have seen the internet places but they seem not practical for me). By the way, is there a list of LB places (bars, discos, etc...) in Thailand/Phillipines? The only place I know is Nana Plaza. I have found lots of lists of gay places, but that´s not what I am looking for.
Thanks a lot!!

Lovenit
12-12-2007, 01:19 PM
Anyone know of any good places to meet girls in the southern California area?

pipileptico
12-26-2007, 11:37 AM
here in peru, there are few know avenues full of peruvian shemales !

rancor169
12-29-2007, 03:28 AM
You wouldn't think so, but myspace...:yes:

Sheik
01-01-2008, 01:36 PM
Bangkok is the best place to find ladyboy :)
go to nana plaza and you wont regret ;)

macp
01-02-2008, 02:20 AM
Anyone know of any good places to meet girls in the southern California area?

Yeah, there are tons in the L.A. area. Either pick up one of the local swingers rags, or check out Club 7969 on certain nights. There are others but they're in sketchy parts of town.

I have yet to check out Tommy Tang's restaurant in Hollywood; evidently the waitresses are Ladyboys (Asian). Don't know if it's still happening.

Needless to say, you should stay away from streetwalker action (been there, done that).

There's also Tijuana but I digress.

Aero
01-05-2008, 06:04 PM
Bangkok is the best place to find ladyboy :)
go to nana plaza and you wont regret ;)

i've heard the same thing! plus they even have their own beauty pageant thing too, and a lot of them are transgendered if i remember correctly.

Arato
01-06-2008, 07:34 AM
Anyone know about shemales in Dallas-Ft Worth Tx.

rollon
01-06-2008, 12:00 PM
going to patong soon, someone heard of ladyboys at this place?

cockring
01-07-2008, 11:04 AM
Just back today from 2 week's in Pattaya
and let me tell you guy's, it's become LB heaven!
There are sooo many new ladyboy bar's opening there
and the LB talent in the ordinary bar's is just amazing!
So anyone looking for the best in LB,s get your ass to
Pattaya! :respect: Gizmo.

have you ever met a shemale in ireland:coupling::coupling:

badbrainsblake
01-13-2008, 01:01 AM
erosguide.com. it will change your life.

BlueRaven88
01-13-2008, 03:27 AM
erosguide.com. it will change your life.

ummm no, it really didn't. that has to be one of the worst sites i have ever come accross. it is hard to navigate, it is coloured dark making what you are doing seem wrong, it is only escorts on there, and it doesn't cater to the entire world, only UK, europe and america. terrible site in my opinion

caligula
01-17-2008, 04:00 PM
Ive been to Trixies(South Florida) many times and its pretty great on Saturday nights. Ive had a couple of them want to hook up outside, but I was in a relationship and chickened out.

A good number there are escorts, but most arent. I do have to say that most of them are CDs though, but some of the CD's are quite lovely and others are in the transition process

Its the only focused place down here I know of, but some of the gay dance clubs of Ft Lauderdale have a lot of shemales hanging out there

str8tvtgtslover
01-20-2008, 11:32 PM
Anyone know of a good place to meet LB/TV/TS/TG in Seattle other than Neighbours night club? Just moved here and would like to meet some beautiful women

pauly007
01-23-2008, 10:39 PM
The best place in Australia for ladyboys is The Taxi Club.......just off taylor square in Sydney City..........................lots of pretty ladyboys there,......best time....after 11 pm. Fri Sat nights

Good luck.............and remember.....have fun....................if your not having fun....your doing it wrong!!

Kelly,

Anyone here been to The Taxi Club?

colonel262
01-26-2008, 01:22 PM
hello there ,

I am new here & I signed here cause i have a hope in my life & i wish to find it here

since i was in begining of my adult time ...
once i saw a lady-boy picture ,
since that time , i sweared to have a lady boy a partner to my life , live with her forever & give her my love to give me her honest emotion

I'm in middle east , It's near to impossible to find a shemale here in my area ,

i wish someone help me to find my match , & be sure that I'll be the honest slave for her ,

thank u

captaindunsel
02-05-2008, 12:59 PM
Hey, great forum! I love this place already.

First of all, since this all has to come from personal experience, let me give you a few places and some advice. First the places:

If you're ever in Houston, Texas, the best place to go is a bar called Cousin's.

Cousin's
817 Fairview St
Houston, TX 77006-2807
Phone: (713) 528-9204

Be warned, it's a pretty seedy place and it's swarming with TS hookers, but there are also some non-pros there because, quite frankly, they have nowhere else to go. Gay men (at least from my experience) don't really get along well with those in the TG community, so the girls tend to flock to Cousin's and EJ's.

EJ's Bar
2517 Ralph St
Houston, TX 77006-2428
Phone: (713) 527-0516

Although you'll find more at Cousin's.

Cousin's has a late night drag show on Saturday and Sunday nights and the ladies are gorgeous. I have dated a number of girls I met in Cousin's and had serious relationships with two. (They didn't work out for a few reasons I shan't go into here.)

For online action, a great place is Date In Asia. The message system says that I don't have 10 messages yet, so I can't post a message with a link in it, but the webaddress is dateinasia dot com.

Although not primarily a TG dating site, I was amazed at the number of ladyboys there, especially in the Philippines. One nice thing about that website is that membership is free for the first 6 months, and I mean TOTALLY free! No credit card required.

I'm still wondering about a place to go in Wisconsin. Maybe Milwaukee, but that's a drive and a half from the little fishing village I live in.

Somchai
02-09-2008, 02:17 PM
Hello Everyone! I just discover this site and I must congratulations everybody for this fine and helpful site :)
I am planning a trip to Thailand very soon. I went there last year and had the opportunity to be with som LB at Nana Plaza bars.
But this time I´d like to go to Patayya (or other suggestions). My plan, if possible, is to meet a LB and then go for a few days or so to other places/beaches with her.
I understand that will not be for free, but I wonder if this is possible. My intention is to experience the company for longer, but the idea of getting a LB girlfriend is somewhere in the horizon (they are so much prettier!).
Can anyone tell me if I could have any kind of susccess with the LB at the bars? Should I go somewhere else to meet them? Where? ( I have seen the internet places but they seem not practical for me). By the way, is there a list of LB places (bars, discos, etc...) in Thailand/Phillipines? The only place I know is Nana Plaza. I have found lots of lists of gay places, but that´s not what I am looking for.
Thanks a lot!!

I live in Pattaya- Thailand and have done for nearly 7 years. Right now Pattaya is a Mecca for ladyboys. Infact there are so many of them chasing after your body that Real Girl lovers are complaining! They are also complaining that its becoming increasingly difficult to tell the difference between Real Girls and LBs, because the LBs are so very convincing.

There is a new website Forum that has a great deal of information about Pattaya and the ladyboy scene there- I am one of the administrators for it.

But I couldnt possibly tell you where it is. :no: :innocent: :yes:

royksopp
02-12-2008, 04:44 PM
the best site is erosguide.com

mra.sexy
02-17-2008, 11:55 AM
thx
I can meet them in the streer at night

mobiryder
02-17-2008, 01:32 PM
is Peanut's in WeHo (Las Angeles) still open? Many moons ago that place was slamming with latina tgirls, all working girls as far as I could tell..:eek:

NiceSLoW
02-17-2008, 07:59 PM
i would like to meet a ladyboy... and know each other.. for a friendship.. and to be in love ... if someone interested..nicebeslow @ hotmail . com

Jay3737
02-21-2008, 10:30 PM
does anybody know where i can meet some ladyboy's in Charleston Sc?

bigcockshemalelover
02-22-2008, 02:17 AM
Anybody know where i can meet LB's or shemales in South Africa

alexbigcock
02-25-2008, 05:57 PM
thanks for the information

ILOVESHEMALECOCK
02-27-2008, 03:19 AM
i look through some ad's for a prostitute once, and saw the name "Lisa,.." which captured my attention.

I called her, made a booking.

I visited her, she was beautiful.

I layed down in her bed.

She sucked me off.

Then i touched her crotch.

And wow,.. i didn't know what a shemale was until that day.

And boy did i love what i had to suck and fuck.. :inlove::inlove:

CHRIME
03-05-2008, 07:18 PM
I am two times in the year in thailand and there I meet many shemale. the most beautiful girls in thailand are shemales.:yes:

St. Araqiel
03-18-2008, 09:38 AM
Neighbours night club
*writes down for future reference*:drool:

miguelx42
03-25-2008, 12:47 AM
anyone know where i ac meet shemale in orlando florida:coupling:

filipina_TS
04-01-2008, 08:32 AM
for anyone here is comming over in cebu city philippines, christy here would love to be your personal sexy naughty tour guide available for fun and pleasure..... anyone who is interested, please fell free to contact me... i can give you my details.....:):)


hugs and kisses,
christy

giancarlo
04-03-2008, 06:17 PM
I also believe that Thailand is the best place to meet sheboys. And very hot ones...

natedog
04-10-2008, 01:12 AM
hi all any body know where i can find ladyboys in Manila ????????:coupling:

BlueRaven88
04-20-2008, 09:20 AM
hi all any body know where i can find ladyboys in Manila ????????:coupling:

ummmmmmmmmm everywhere? seriously dude just hit up Dragoncastle.net or TGPersonals.com and search for LB in philippines (on TGP you can search for city or keywords aswell i believe)

seriously asking where to find a ladyboy in the philippines is like asking where to find a muslim in australia (yeah the fucking cunts are everywhere now:frown:)

DEFENDER
05-08-2008, 07:47 AM
I have met a couple of absolute beauties from the Eros website. OK, I had to pay....but worth every penny!

telepenar
05-08-2008, 09:36 AM
I will be in Manila and Cebu for work/vacation next month. anyone know where a good place to meet a ladyboy in Manila and Cebu?

EnglishMaster
06-01-2008, 12:24 AM
So many people have asked in this thread where would be a good place to find shemales around their towns that I really hope you all can help me as well...

I'm looking for a place where I can meet a nice shemale in Virginia (Richmond or Midlothian, more specifically). To all you guys that have "made it" and tasted first-hand of that sweet love juice, all I can say is "Congratulations - you're living the dream!"

As for myself, I've only ever had a girl introduce me to her friends as her boyfriend (I'd driven 2 hours to meet her after she moved away from where I first met her) at a place called "Club Hush" in Myrtle Beach, SC (incidentally, a great place if you're looking for shemales there - unfortunately, I don't live in SC anymore), before we went back to where she was staying where she got ready for bed and then only SLEPT next to me, nothing more. I felt really hurt, but I feel like maybe it could still work someday. I don't know.

So anyway, please guys... let me know where I might be able to hook up with a nice shemale in Virginia - I'd be eternally grateful! :respect:

Tiffanydoll
06-02-2008, 01:34 PM
in toronto there is a club called Goodhandys and every Thirsday night a night dedicated to Shemales.

Its on church st right in the downtown area buy the eatons center

they have lap dances there where the no touch rule doesnt apply lets just say the first time i got one i was more then surprised and god a mouth full.

EnglishMaster
06-02-2008, 09:25 PM
Makes me wish I lived in Canada! :drool:

But still... any help for Virginia? Anyone? :respect:

mikey r 63
06-10-2008, 04:36 PM
Anybody have any answers in San Diego?:confused:

crazyphone
06-27-2008, 10:24 AM
have you guys tried looking at erosguide for shemales.

ladyboyadmirer
07-02-2008, 07:36 AM
A good address is www.tvchix.com , based in the UK but lots of girls from USA, OZ, Phils etc. Also links to tgirl bars and clubs. Seems Manchester is the in-place. You have to register at TV chix but its free and not the usual hassle and dumb questions. Has a good proximity search too which saves looking at 100's of pages. Just type your country of residence and hey presto. Has chatrooms and an escort services section for those who dont like saying 'thank you' or want to get involved.
Regards LBA

cameo
07-02-2008, 11:25 PM
how do i meet a shemale in NY?:inlove: email me at dr_feelgood420dw@yahoomail.com

Bionca
07-03-2008, 08:46 AM
how do i meet a shemale in NY?:inlove: email me at dr_feelgood420dw@yahoomail.com

Go to NYC spin around a random number of time and open your eyes and toss a dead cat. The who who gets hit is a tranny.. it's that easy.

hankhavelock
07-03-2008, 12:00 PM
Go to NYC spin around a random number of time and open your eyes and toss a dead cat. The who who gets hit is a tranny.. it's that easy.

Nooo, honey... no need for any relics... just TRULY close ur eyes and open them again with a better mindset... that will make it happen! In the end it's all about making a decision with yourself: No more bullshit, no more frustrated nights thinking about what my "fellow man" will think (never had a single one) - just DO it! And then reap the fruits of your decision - and be man enuff to laugh the idiots away... simple... and very easy! Nothing is easier, as I've preached again and again and again... so throw no relics, but DO throw some light on urself as a guy who feels ready for a transsexual girlfriend. And that light should give you an honest view of how ready you are - it's really NOT dangerous! Only a bit... the funky way :-)

marlowe
07-03-2008, 12:19 PM
Go to NYC spin around a random number of time and open your eyes and toss a dead cat. The who who gets hit is a tranny.. it's that easy.

Ouch! :)

um... gotta lengthen this message.....

Bionca
07-03-2008, 06:36 PM
There are just so many Trans women in NY, particularly in the the city. It seriously wouldn't be hard to find one.

sesame
07-04-2008, 09:34 AM
Hank:
In the end it's all about making a decision with yourself: No more bullshit, no more frustrated nights thinking about what my "fellow man" will think (never had a single one) - just DO it! And then reap the fruits of your decision - and be man enuff to laugh the idiots away... simple... and very easy! Nothing is easier
You have said the deepest thing in the easiest way.

I'm inspired. I will use this emotion in a creative way in my life. Thank you, Hank.:respect:

sesame
07-04-2008, 10:06 AM
Hank, you are mutating into a philosopher, :drool:
and you are diving deeper and deeper everyday, my friend. :respect:

jimnaseum
07-13-2008, 11:32 PM
There are lots of good looking prostitutes that walk the street near the convention center in Washington DC, but I'm afraid one will knife me or give me an STD. So I just look.

lolman1103
08-09-2008, 04:29 AM
Id like to thank you for all this adress i went in some of them and i think i am relay going to enjoy it ;)
Thanks

raplover20
08-26-2008, 11:50 AM
I know this one is quite a stretch, but any good places in or around Ohio in the US to meet TS?

viper3250
09-08-2008, 06:13 PM
thank you for the information, it was a big help

Pet Johnson
09-26-2008, 09:51 AM
New to the forum! This place rules :)

hankhavelock
10-03-2008, 03:36 PM
seriously asking where to find a ladyboy in the philippines is like asking where to find a muslim in australia (yeah the fucking cunts are everywhere now:frown:)

Hehe, that's funny :-)

Let me hasten to say, though, that I live in a presumably muslim country and that the majority of my transsexual friends and lovers and partners are muslim. And they are as easy going and democratically geared as the rest of us.

Granted, I'll be among the first to come down hard on muslim fanatics (or christian right-wingers), and I have several times here voiced my displeasure of certain muslim ways regarding the treatment of transsexuals.

And yes, it should be with some concern that we witness the exploding growth of islam especially in the Western world.

Oh I know, this a totally different debate, and a long one as well, but being among muslims I'm perfectly equipped to guarantee you, that they are not all insaniacs with a bomb hiding in their thongs... hmmm... bad choice of words :-) You know what I mean, I hope :-)

Wasalaam!

HankyPanky

hankhavelock
10-03-2008, 03:52 PM
There are just so many Trans women in NY, particularly in the the city. It seriously wouldn't be hard to find one.

I forget if I gave this link before, but here it is:

http://www.myspace.com/transnightlife

It's hosted by a good friend of mine, Solena, an Indonesian transsexual woman now living in NYC, and they have weekly gatherings as I understand it.

H

silkxxx
10-10-2008, 01:03 PM
i was just looking through and wanted to take the opportunity to advertise my site if ever there are people coming in the philippines who might want to date a passable ladyboy/ts my name is silk and my site is www.silk.net.ms

lemari_dela_tfemme
10-25-2008, 10:33 AM
While living in Mexico DF, a freindly place, which was frequented by many local tgirls was: HYSTERIA DISCO (http://www.hysteriadisco.com/)
Regards,
LeMari...

heretostay
10-29-2008, 04:53 PM
I live in Las Vegas, any suggestions?

transdating360.com
11-08-2008, 11:29 AM
Just a quick note to say a new trans-dating website has been set up. Go take a look. You never know right? :coupling: and :inlove: We've got it all!!

bboy4u3
11-13-2008, 02:33 AM
i gotta go to thailand!!!! and fuk some hotties lol :coupling:

Rachel
11-20-2008, 03:45 AM
you can try www.matets.com (http://matets.com)its a shemale dating site:) and its where i always hook up

I joined that site and it seems I am the only TG in New Jersey. No GG women either. I guess I will have lots of male suitors then lol.

DL_NL
11-20-2008, 04:28 PM
Or try http://www.tsmatch.com

curiousmike
11-24-2008, 03:51 PM
does anyone know of anywhere in northern ireland or ireland?

merelypink
12-15-2008, 03:14 PM
craigslist,t bars in your area or matets.com

cr8tive
12-16-2008, 09:01 AM
The best place in the world to meet beautiful ladyboys is Thailand....bangkok..the NANA plaza on Skhumvit road ....lots of gorgeous ladyboys there.....I would rank it as No 1. easily

The second place...is Manila..in the phillipines.......I have to say...there are some very beautiful ladyboys here..and most are looking for boyfriends/husbands........and they have great personalities.

Brazil.....has a lot of shemales.......but....asia..is best

In london.........go to the "Way out club".....city-east london ...close to the tower bridge.......sat nite..after .11 pm is best.....lots of ladyboys there....and some real beauties.

So go for it guys....believe me.....you wont regret it....

Thanks Kelly. I'm in the UK and London is only a short train journey for me :respect:

MarkWeiss
12-29-2008, 06:20 AM
Cool! Are there also many castrated Trannies in Thailand?! I love those empty sacks...:lol:

owen
01-07-2009, 03:06 AM
iow, just act the same way around them that you would around any other girls. got it.

tslover53
01-28-2009, 10:13 PM
A site I found which I use and it's pretty ok. It works for chatting with TS and others that like them www.shemalelovesearch.com is a great site IMO it's a good site and I've hang out with some of them and had a fun time!

Lac79
02-02-2009, 03:55 PM
A site I found which I use and it's pretty ok. It works for chatting with TS and others that like them www.shemalelovesearch.com is a great site IMO it's a good site and I've hang out with some of them and had a fun time!

Thanx for this site!! There are quite a few hotties close to me :D

Opeth
02-09-2009, 12:56 PM
i would like to meet some shemales here in Brazil... but i have only been with a prostitute once.. and wasn't so good

Aaliyah_shemale
02-14-2009, 07:39 PM
[QUOTE
Brazil.....has a lot of shemales.......but....asia..is best
[/QUOTE]

Right,but Brazil has free-travel visa,so all brazilian shemales are in EU.

check also guyz www.ts-dating.com i'm very famous there(ain't braggin ) :kiss:

Aaliyah_shemale
02-14-2009, 07:42 PM
i would like to meet some shemales here in Brazil... but i have only been with a prostitute once.. and wasn't so good

Right,but Brazil has free-travel visa,so all brazilian shemales(the good ones) are in EU.

sorry but few would be able for relationship.

theloverofall
04-03-2009, 06:58 PM
I was wondering if anyone know anything about brazilian ts women??

I just love them!

Again this is such an amazing and fun site! :D

wolf48
04-18-2009, 05:17 PM
hey can anyone tell me where I can find shemale in india.

plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me

godzilla
04-20-2009, 09:42 AM
For those who cant make it all the way to Thailand, Singapore (Orchard Towers) and HKG (Lockhard Rd) can give a good, though expensive, taste of what the real thing looks like...

Sugar Daddy
04-23-2009, 08:59 AM
I agree, its no wonder that the GG's get rattled at the stunning beauty of the Pattaya shemales.

sirscott
04-29-2009, 12:22 PM
Very usefull info , thanks!

flyguy44
05-24-2009, 07:50 AM
www.matets.com worked for me! Thanks to everyone for all of the great help here.

Ryder143
05-28-2009, 05:39 PM
Thanx for the post...

its a valuable subject..

cheers..

SheridynCD
06-02-2009, 08:17 AM
Hi does ant one know of a place in melbourne australia?

sexchannel
06-12-2009, 02:12 AM
You will see a few on adultmatchmaker

Globolin
06-12-2009, 04:23 AM
Try to find some social network sites, look around whatever are your likes and preferences and get in touch. Be patient. Its the very same as with any other personal contact in this world. Then whenever you want to travel to the Philippines or doesnt matter where (maybe UK, no not definitely not Ireland Lol) meet her if you like each other. Dont forget to bring a gift ;) For me it just happened out of the blue and to be honest, in the first instance I really thought its a girl and of course I did not mind about when she told me she is a ladyboy. Nothing more nice could have happend in my life then to meet her. Dont know if I can enter a link here. Better not. Dont wanna get kicked off as I like this site much.

dsr
06-15-2009, 04:16 PM
great post, very informative. it is also interesting to note that many of the ladyboys in asia are well versed in the english language, which, of course, makes it easier for us guys here in the U.S. or other english speaking nations. hope that information is also helpful along with kelly's excellent post.

SheridynCD
06-20-2009, 09:01 AM
You will see a few on adultmatchmaker

Hi thankx will give it a look!

sexchannel
07-01-2009, 12:46 AM
Hi thankx will give it a look!

no probs , all states seem to have some stunners , i think sydney has the best ?:inlove:

sceicco9000
08-05-2009, 07:13 AM
best place in the world to meet beautiful ladyboys is Thailand......:turnon:

spike_40
08-05-2009, 10:22 AM
What great assistance this will help me and I guess others that read and are true to their desires Many thanks

TGKateHerts
08-06-2009, 04:23 AM
thailand is good

TGKateHerts
08-06-2009, 04:26 AM
to meet ladyboys. we western tgirls don't stand much chance against them lol

LadyBoyLive.com
09-06-2009, 08:16 AM
After 12 years in the Live Cam biz.... Im finally turning up a new site for some LB interaction.

DSL
09-12-2009, 02:01 PM
anyone know of any shemale clubs or bars in Massachusetts area?.

wildts81
09-16-2009, 05:57 AM
hello guys,

im may , shemale from jakarta.

iam 29, tall and slim, smooth fair skin, sexy lips and very very very feminim

i'd like to know guys who is mature, macho and TOP guys only.

sorry, im pre op but just consider i dont have "that thing" ok...
and i only like a guys who want to explore my "she" more than my "male" part.

trannydate
09-23-2009, 02:03 PM
I found Tranny Date.com a few weeks ago and it has been good to me so far. I thinks its new so its growing but I like it.

black Stallion
10-05-2009, 03:20 PM
Looking for a tgirl in Idaho somebody please help me out just moved to Idaho from Cali.

PI_Monger
10-15-2009, 06:38 PM
There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

For us lucky enough to live in Asia, the hotspots are Pattaya, Bangkok and Manila. Thailand's famous ladyboy clubs are mostly on Walking Street and Soi 6 in Pattaya; Nana Plaza in Bangkok. Manila now has its first GRO barfine ladyboy bar on P.Burgos St in Makati called the Shampoo Bar. Korea and Japan are opening up more but its very expensive. Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

randolph
10-15-2009, 08:05 PM
There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

For us lucky enough to live in Asia, the hotspots are Pattaya, Bangkok and Manila. Thailand's famous ladyboy clubs are mostly on Walking Street and Soi 6 in Pattaya; Nana Plaza in Bangkok. Manila now has its first GRO barfine ladyboy bar on P.Burgos St in Makati called the Shampoo Bar. Korea and Japan are opening up more but its very expensive. Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

In San Diego there is Lips and the SRO Lounge, lots of TVs and TS. Khloe Hart used to work at Lips. ;) ;):D

aw9725
10-15-2009, 09:46 PM
There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

I'll have to try that. Not sure Indiana's a good place to be--maybe it's time to revise my "Myspace" page! ;)

Maybe a mistake to share personal info--I did it on here in good faith and something happened to make me change my profile info and pictures to something silly. :(

Thanks for the advice--I'd really like to meet someone! :cool:

The Conquistador
10-15-2009, 10:08 PM
In San Diego there is Lips and the SRO Lounge, lots of TVs and TS. Khloe Hart used to work at Lips. ;) ;):D

Randolph! Are you in SD?

randolph
10-15-2009, 10:21 PM
Randolph! Are you in SD?

No, but close. ;):cool:

Some reviews of Lips.
I love it!‎
Rated 5.0 out of 5.0 By Amy H. - insiderpages.com - Nov 17, 2008‎
I had the absolute best time here. The drinks are great, the food is great, the service is great and the show is absolutely hysterical! This is the place that everyone should visit at least one time...with an open mind! ...‎
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Lips is the "Ultimate in Drag Dining",...‎
By BrentS2965 - zagat.com - Aug 1, 2009‎
where the Boys are Men and so are the Girls! This is a place you go with your friends to get away from the world for a couple of hours. Turn off the cellphone, grab a drink and entree named after a famous drag queen, like RuPaul, and enjoy the show! Birthdays, Ladies Night out ...‎
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Frommer's Review‎
Rated 1.5 out of 5.0 By frommers.com - Jul 7, 2009‎
This drag revue supper club has a different show nightly, like Bitchy Bingo on Wednesday and celebrity impersonations on Thursday. Dinner seating is at 7pm Sunday and Tuesday through Thursday; weekends have two dinner seatings (6:30 and ...‎
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Mediocre, but Expensive Food - Okay...show.‎
Rated 2.0 out of 5.0 By Frances C. - insiderpages.com - Dec 19, 2008‎
Food is mediocre and expensive...actually, I didn't even like the food, but I ate it cuz I was so hungry... The service was nice though...I felt that they pressured you to buy drinks. Our waitress didn't really leave our table until we ...‎
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Count me in...‎
Rated 5.0 out of 5.0 By Candyce F. - insiderpages.com - Nov 8, 2008‎
This is a must see! All ages and orientations will LOVE this one. They have great food and a wildly entertaining show. Your in for a surprise if you don't know about it before you get there. It is a drag queen show. ...‎
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JodieTs
10-20-2009, 05:11 AM
Try Eros or craigs list.
for a professional experience, ;)

ChefJayWalker
10-22-2009, 07:58 AM
but where can i meet some?

mrtrebus
12-14-2009, 04:11 PM
What about Escorts in britain, the south east? any tips? Any reviews of particular escorts would be good or sites etc.
thanx

pretty_ladyboy
01-01-2010, 01:23 AM
why is it everyone when talking about shemales always pertaining to sex...???

does anyone here care for shemale to be in serious relationship?

ila
01-01-2010, 08:48 AM
why is it everyone when talking about shemales always pertaining to sex...???

does anyone here care for shemale to be in serious relationship?

You will find many on here that want a serious relationship with a transwoman.

shadows
01-01-2010, 11:32 PM
I agree with ila, there are some of us that would love to find ourselves in a relationship. Whether or not that happens is another thing, but we certainly aren't all here looking for some booty.

MatchlessG9
01-02-2010, 12:25 AM
Came across a very good site
www.vicesisters.com
No need to join anything
Just select a country and then it asks you for a city.
I live in Indonesia and it came up with some very remote towns - Last night I checked a couple of the phone numbers given against the girls - they were real.
So if you live in an area, where you find it difficult to find a ladyboy - try the above site.

virtualflower
01-27-2010, 09:29 AM
Does anyone have recommendations on where to meet working ladyboys in Bali?

alix
05-07-2010, 11:59 PM
ummmmmmmmmm everywhere? seriously dude just hit up Dragoncastle.net or TGPersonals.com and search for LB in philippines (on TGP you can search for city or keywords aswell i believe)

seriously asking where to find a ladyboy in the philippines is like asking where to find a muslim in australia (yeah the fucking cunts are everywhere now:frown:)

please , how ican meet ladyboy in sydney

backstabber89
07-05-2010, 05:13 AM
Mates,there is a wondeful chatroom that i happened to visit n joined.
its name is
www[dot]tsgirlfriend[dot]com
I love it very much. If you love TS from ur heart you can be a member there.You cant chat there for just sex,of one night stand.
there you be banned if you say "s**m**le".
chat friendly...also u have to ask a member in the public chat whether or not he/she IM.never ask for asl also....
being an core TS admirer i love it....since i look for a TSgirlfriend.
all that u should need is to show R.E.S.P.E.C.T

zanna54
07-14-2010, 04:48 PM
in italia the best trans on the word:turnon::turnon:

DocFeelGood
07-30-2010, 09:39 AM
Well guys, in a couple of weeks I am taking a vacation to Thailand and finally I will meet with a friend, she is a ladyboy, I will tell you how it went when I returned

Enoch Root
08-04-2010, 01:31 PM
Where could one find a nice transsexual woman in Puerto Rico?

JodieTs
08-04-2010, 07:31 PM
you can try www.matets.com (http://matets.com)its a shemale dating site:) and its where i always hook up
Yes me too!

JodieTs
08-04-2010, 07:33 PM
I joined that site and it seems I am the only TG in New Jersey. No GG women either. I guess I will have lots of male suitors then lol.
That is truly astonishing!

smc
08-04-2010, 08:31 PM
That is truly astonishing!

My god, Jodie, now that I've seen your new avatar you're the only shemale I ever want to meet!!!!!!! :lol:

Enoch Root
08-17-2010, 08:36 AM
Anybody have any idea where one could meet a nice tgirl in Puerto Rico?

yumyum
09-18-2010, 09:05 AM
in italia the best trans on the word:turnon::turnon:

I went to straight club in Rome the other week and at about 3am, 5 gorgeous t-girls come through the doors. I did a bit of arse pinching but my brother was there so I couldn't get away with any more. Hot girls they were.

Orchard towers in Singapore is one place. There are too many in Thailand to name. Patong was pretty good. Soi Crocodile. I live in London. Lots of places here such as Wayout, Trannyshack. And there are plenty of escorts if you want to pay. I would love a proper relationship.

jigenbakuda
11-02-2010, 12:41 AM
I am getting comfortable enough in my love of transsexual women that I want to go out and start meeting them locally in my town (or maybe take a trip to another close by town...). But I'm not exactly sure how to proceed. I'm not big on paying for a relationship with anyone... But I'd still love to meet and befriend some transsexual ladies out there. But here lies the problem, I have absolutely no idea how to do this. I don't live in new york, las vegas, or LA, so transsexual ladies aren't as bountiful where I live.

But how do I go about discreetly inquiring in my area, about places that transsexual ladies frequent? So I start in gay bars, or should there be a transsexual union in my town or something? How do transsexual ladies in my area know to meet where ever they meet?

Basically I'm just trying to find out, how one finds out about the transsexual activities in their area.

no1000
11-02-2010, 01:10 AM
Gay bars are a good place to start. I would actually try and find out what theme nights they have. They have have a drag or trans night etc. But yeah not a bad place to start looking.

smc
11-02-2010, 06:40 AM
There is a Sticky thread on this topic: "How and where to meet a shemale." Your thread has been merged there. I suggest you look through that thread.

tsfever
11-07-2010, 03:43 AM
If any one is traveling to Sao Paulo Brasil, a Great place to meet a latina TS is at a club called "Love Story" in the "Centro" Neighborhood... you can also try any little bar within a 5 block radius of there.

JodieTs
11-21-2010, 03:52 PM
How do you actually get to meet a transsexual woman?

Most Transsexual women meet partners who know our history.
Maybe they knew us before we transitioned.
Maybe they ?read? us
Maybe through work, where gossip outed us.
Though we mostly meet though trans friendly spaces:
be it a tg forum /chat room,
trans club/bar,
or from a group of friends and friends of friends...where the suitor had the heads-up on our past,
or they used to date a friend of ours who is also a Transsexual woman...
And so on.

My man said the easiest way to date a Transsexual woman, is to interact with us on trans boards.
Post on areas of common interest. Avoid sex topics.
See if you click.
Assess which Transsexual women are slightly deranged
and which are very deranged
(Accept that to a degree we are all bonkers)
And private message anyone you find interesting.
Later, suggest phone / social contact.
If later, things move on to friendship and then romance,cool.
My man wooed me for six months after our first meeting before I relented.


Oh, be prepared to put lots of time and ? or $:
Think flights, hotels, food, car rental
Because of our rarity, you will probably have to put a lot of effort into travel and resulting costs.
My man lives 1400 miles from me,
Yep, he had to go that far just to meet for an afternoon, to see if we would be friends. He combined the trip with some work stuff.

pretty_ladyboy
11-23-2010, 10:27 AM
^
very well said Jodiets... thats the things you must avoid, know, improve, portray, and keep in heart if you want to meet us.

and also the tsdating site i love that site too... too bad admin blocked ts from asia because they are only allowing ts located in US i think.

its very hard to find a guy who can risk everything for you... a guy who can sacrifice things just to be with you... maybe that guy is just a part of fairytale stories :)

Trogdor
12-30-2010, 12:40 AM
How about Michigan? Finding a cutie, or a place to meet cuties over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play. :p

And ALL the dating sites have given me piss-poor results and so-called 'matches'. Dating Sites are made out of epic failure.

JodieTs
12-30-2010, 03:53 AM
How about Michigan? Finding a cutie, or a place to meet cuties over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play. :p

And ALL the dating sites have given me piss-poor results and so-called 'matches'. Dating Sites are made out of epic failure.

Well. the truth is this:
If we look totally like any other woman, you will not know we are Ts
{cuties are only a small % of Ts women}

I never get taken to be anything other than a Day-1 woman,
which makes me totally invisible to potentially interested men.
I'm in a long tern relationship so that fact does not bother me either way. But if I was single I still wouldn't care. I want people to like me for the person I am, not because I have a penis.
A penis is a rubbish reason to date. Sure, its funny when I walk through my lounge, naked, on the wat to my shower, waving my penis up and down, making:woo woo woo noises.
It's even funny the second or third time...:lol:
But after then, you really need a lot more to base a relationship on.

Long term relationships....well a lot of my friends met their partners when they didn't quite look the way they do now. Didn't quite pass. Early days. Still some / a lot of their male past apparent.
Their male partners dated them for who they were not for the external appearance.
Would you date a recent transitioned trans woman if she occasionally had a 5? clock shadow...


Finally, I only know a few trans friends who go on trans dating sites.
They are there to EXCLUSIVELY date other trans....

The rest of us don't need to
or more importantly, don't want to meet a man who we perceive to be fixated about that part of our bodies we loath...

Trogdor
12-31-2010, 03:19 PM
Well. the truth is this:
If we look totally like any other woman, you will not know we are Ts
{cuties are only a small % of Ts women}

I never get taken to be anything other than a Day-1 woman,
which makes me totally invisible to potentially interested men.
I'm in a long tern relationship so that fact does not bother me either way. But if I was single I still wouldn't care. I want people to like me for the person I am, not because I have a penis.
A penis is a rubbish reason to date. Sure, its funny when I walk through my lounge, naked, on the wat to my shower, waving my penis up and down, making:woo woo woo noises.
It's even funny the second or third time...:lol:
But after then, you really need a lot more to base a relationship on.

Long term relationships....well a lot of my friends met their partners when they didn't quite look the way they do now. Didn't quite pass. Early days. Still some / a lot of their male past apparent.
Their male partners dated them for who they were not for the external appearance.
Would you date a recent transitioned trans woman if she occasionally had a 5? clock shadow...


Finally, I only know a few trans friends who go on trans dating sites.
They are there to EXCLUSIVELY date other trans....

The rest of us don't need to
or more importantly, don't want to meet a man who we perceive to be fixated about that part of our bodies we loath...

sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am. :frown:

JodieTs
01-02-2011, 09:55 AM
sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am.
What's in it for your potential Ts date?
{She may be reading this}
You don't even have a face pic up and all you do is moan.
What would you bring to a relationship?

Interact on here and other boards.
Make FRIENDS only.
Remove dating from your mind.
Interact, and only consider more,
if there is a spark between you and hopefully a Ts.
Because you actually like each other
rather than because she is a "cutie" who has a penis.

If it is just the latter, no Ts would ever date you.
That is the reality
I apologise for being so evil and horrible for speaking the totally obvious truth.

JodieTs
01-02-2011, 10:14 AM
Anyway, I met one of my partners off a trans board
based in the UK
He had the mindset of my last post.
We are now together for 2 years and totally in love.
A number of people on this board are now dating as a result of meeting on this very site.
I know nothing about how they started dating,
but I'm sure it was because they interacted, got on, liked each other,
and then dated.
Not coz of a cutie factor with anatomy in bold highlight.

ila
01-02-2011, 10:49 AM
Anyway, I met one of my partners off a trans board
based in the UK
He had the mindset of my last post.
We are now together for 2 years and totally in love.
A number of people on this board are now dating as a result of meeting on this very site.
I know nothing about how they started dating,
but I'm sure it was because they interacted, got on, liked each other,
and then dated.
Not coz of a cutie factor with anatomy in bold highlight.

I would say that interaction is the keyword here; that, and respect go a long way towards establishing a relationship.

I'm pretty sure that haste doesn't help anyone's cause.

JodieTs
01-02-2011, 11:45 AM
That is so true.
My man chatted on a forum for six months,
three months of phone conversations,
a 1400 mile flight for a meal with me and several of my friends,
then three separate weeks just hangin' out, being friends
before I thought about dating him.
{He decided, a fair bit earlier, though...:inlove:}

aw9725
01-02-2011, 01:46 PM
sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am. :frown:

You really need to start by asking yourself what you are looking for in a partner. I can’t speak for everyone but my own list would be something like this:

Physical attraction between us
Caring personality
Similar interests
Sense of humor
Emotional stability

Notice that list does NOT state whether or not my partner should be cis or trans, blonde, brunette, or redhead, how much they weigh, how much money they make, or what they look like. You also need to look at what YOU bring to the relationship. What are your best traits? How would you describe yourself? What do you like to do? What is your job? What are you most proud of doing in your life? What would a potential partner see in you?

Also I don’t know how old you are--it sounds like you had a few bad experiences in high-school. Most of us have. You need to focus on what is ahead of you. Also, as others have said, it takes time to build a real relationship. Unless you are interested only in “one night stands” you can expect to invest a lot of time into finding a true partner. Good luck! ;)

Trogdor
01-02-2011, 02:24 PM
What's in it for your potential Ts date?
{She may be reading this}
You don't even have a face pic up and all you do is moan.
What would you bring to a relationship?

Interact on here and other boards.
Make FRIENDS only.
Remove dating from your mind.
Interact, and only consider more,
if there is a spark between you and hopefully a Ts.
Because you actually like each other
rather than because she is a "cutie" who has a penis.

If it is just the latter, no Ts would ever date you.
That is the reality
I apologise for being so evil and horrible for speaking the totally obvious truth.

You'll get a face shot of me shortly. Most boards I have been on have a "Post what you look like" thread, just looking around for that first.

From my own experiences, once a person is a friends, say bye bye to dating, because every girl I've experienced do NOT date friends, aka, the dreaded 'friends zone'. I have seen people, and been one of them, where if a long time friend of a girl walks up to her and asks her out, she gets weired out, as if her own brother asked her out. I used to think otherwise, but by the time I was 20, I had so many friends who girls and yet no girl friends, it got not only embarrassing, it was down right frustrating.

I want a girl with a good head on her shoulders and so on, but I don't see why wanting to find one who's cute is so bad. You girls wanting someone tall and handsome is not evil, I think.


You really need to start by asking yourself what you are looking for in a partner. I can?t speak for everyone but my own list would be something like this:

Physical attraction between us
Caring personality
Similar interests
Sense of humor
Emotional stability

Of course I am looking for all that in the list. Problem is one particular poster getting upset when she reads I want the girl I meet to be very cute, also. It's like a struck a nerve with her or something. I don't get upset when a girl says she wants someone tall and handsome, or someone who has (insert famous personality's features).


Notice that list does NOT state whether or not my partner should be cis or trans, blonde, brunette, or redhead, how much they weigh, how much money they make, or what they look like. You also need to look at what YOU bring to the relationship. What are your best traits? How would you describe yourself? What do you like to do? What is your job? What are you most proud of doing in your life? What would a potential partner see in you?

Also I don?t know how old you are--it sounds like you had a few bad experiences in high-school. Most of us have. You need to focus on what is ahead of you. Also, as others have said, it takes time to build a real relationship. Unless you are interested only in ?one night stands? you can expect to invest a lot of time into finding a true partner. Good luck! ;)

31, going on 32. Oh yea, I had a rotten time in high school, no high school sweet heart, no senior prom, etc. In fact my first date ever did not come till I was smeggin' 20. Also, many g-girls don't bother waiting to build relationships, they just go and run off with anyone with the "Mr. Bad-Ass" vibe going on....you know the type....that guzzles a lot of alcohol, has skull & snake tattoos on his forearms, wears a lot of bling, does some sort of drugs, has been arrested at least once, and part of some no-name rock band that's never going to take off, and will end up abusing the girl both physically and verbally. Or in the very least o off with some stranger they just met in a club or bar. Least that's how it is like up here in Michigan.

The point is that all I am saying is that I am no longer interested in genetic females anymore, I posted earlier here or on another thread that they simply hurt me too many times and that I've had enough (if you eat something that makes you sick, and/or are allergic to it, you won't keep on eating said food, right? Of course not, you go find something else. Same with jobs, if you're in a job you hate for whatever reason, be it bad pay, the boss treats you like garbage, crappy benefits, etc.....you go try to find a different job, right?)
I don't see what everyone's up in arms about that. And as I also said, ts girls have treated me much better than any genetic female ever has done, I have great conversations, get along well with them, none of them has hurt me, and so on.

I feel I am being reasonable. Though I am sure some folks here want to find a plank for me to walk on.:rolleyes:

ila
01-02-2011, 03:30 PM
You'll get a face shot of me shortly. Most boards I have been on have a "Post what you look like" thread, just looking around for that first...

Scroll up the page from this forum to this subforum "Member Introductions and Pictures"

aw9725
01-02-2011, 07:53 PM
Of course I am looking for all that in the list. Problem is one particular poster getting upset when she reads I want the girl I meet to be very cute, also. It's like a struck a nerve with her or something. I don't get upset when a girl says she wants someone tall and handsome, or someone who has (insert famous personality's features).

31, going on 32. Oh yea, I had a rotten time in high school, no high school sweet heart, no senior prom, etc. In fact my first date ever did not come till I was smeggin' 20. Also, many g-girls don't bother waiting to build relationships, they just go and run off with anyone with the "Mr. Bad-Ass" vibe going on....you know the type....that guzzles a lot of alcohol, has skull & snake tattoos on his forearms, wears a lot of bling, does some sort of drugs, has been arrested at least once, and part of some no-name rock band that's never going to take off, and will end up abusing the girl both physically and verbally. Or in the very least o off with some stranger they just met in a club or bar. Least that's how it is like up here in Michigan.


I sense then that you know exactly what you want and aren?t really looking for any friendly advice or understanding. By the way I was born and raised in Detroit.

Trogdor
01-11-2011, 10:36 PM
I sense then that you know exactly what you want and aren?t really looking for any friendly advice or understanding. By the way I was born and raised in Detroit.

Only advice I want is point me to a place near where I am with nice t-girls and let me take care of the rest. :cool: And you have my sympathy being born and raised in Detroit. :innocent:

smc
01-11-2011, 10:52 PM
Only advice I want is point me to a place near where I am with nice t-girls and let me take care of the rest. :cool: And you have my sympathy being born and raised in Detroit. :innocent:

Any other places people might be born and raised that you wish to denigrate? aw9725 has turned out pretty damn fine, if you ask me.

Trogdor
01-12-2011, 01:23 AM
Any other places people might be born and raised that you wish to denigrate? aw9725 has turned out pretty damn fine, if you ask me.

Naw, my own neck of the woods is fine. ^_^

JodieTs
01-12-2011, 04:55 PM
I want Jodie to do all the planning and legwork
for me.
how to move to New York (http://www.wikihow.com/Move-to-New-York)
how to move to (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100921170748AAwYIEe)
As your superior knowledge places 87% of EVERY SINGLE Ts
in these two locations.

Oh, I know a LOT of other ts women.
What precisely would you bring into

any date
series of dates with same person
relationship

Please keep your reply to one side of A-4 paper,
be concise, include hobbies/ interests, past relationship details,
Job/ career progression
any felony convictions
education
and professional qualifications
picture of your car {you do have a car, yes?}
and aspirations for any relationship.
Will you stay with her and support her financially
when she has SRS & FFS?

Oh, I see you have no face photo.
Please correct this
IMMEDIATELY
on your avatar
or your application will be rejected.

Finally,
in ten words or less complete this sentence:
"A hot cutie pre-op transsexual woman would like to consider dating me because _______________________*



*This last part will be used in the event of a tie-break between you and the other applicants

JodieTs
01-12-2011, 05:07 PM
Lastly Trogdor
I see you are into Dr Who.
Have you clicked on my Avatar link yet?
That is a scene from my all time fav Dr Who episode: "Blink"

Trogdor
01-12-2011, 06:11 PM
Lastly Trogdor
I see you are into Dr Who.
Have you clicked on my Avatar link yet?
That is a scene from my all time fav Dr Who episode: "Blink"

Believe it or not, Blink is one of my least favorite stories.

Pyramids of Mars and The Dead Planet are my favorites.

katieayanami
01-13-2011, 01:03 AM
online!

thats where i find boyfriends

its the safest place i think

sju
01-19-2011, 10:23 AM
Where could one find a nice transsexual woman in Puerto Rico?


Did anyone tell you where?

bohemas
01-22-2011, 05:11 AM
I have met many super nice ladyboys on dateinasia.com too.. it isn't strictly a ladyboy dating site but there are many nice ones there, especially from Indonesia

chrisy76
01-23-2011, 04:59 PM
Hi there, does anyone know where i should look to find a true TS/ladyboy who does not lie? I want to bring one here to visit me in UK for 3 months...i have been fooled by many TS over 3 years losing lots of money, now i don't know what to do :no:

Trogdor
01-23-2011, 08:38 PM
online!

thats where i find boyfriends

its the safest place i think


Could you help a fellow out and mention what sites?:yes:


Odd, I remember when meeting with someone one found online used to be dangerous. :eek:

JodieTs
01-25-2011, 02:01 PM
Hi there, does anyone know where i should look to find a true TS/ladyboy who does not lie? I want to bring one here to visit me in UK for 3 months...i have been fooled by many TS over 3 years losing lots of money, now i don't know what to do :no:

Hiya
This is in answer to both this and your similar PM to me.

As you have found out, most are scams to take your money.
The few trans women {ladyboy is just plain offensive} in SE Asia
who may be prepared to visit you would be unlikely to get into the uk.

Basically UK immigration have severe restriction for non EU visitors.
Even more so where there is a huge income average difference between
the uk and Thailand, or Philippines or Malaysia or wherever.
Basically because of the high risk of people coming over to work.

So UK immigration need proof of both a job/career over there,
one that a person would be highly unlikely to throw away just for a visit to the uk.
Also they need a bank account with substantial savings
and proof of how this person is going to support themselves when over in the uk.

So if you can find a very solvent trans woman,
of independent means and wealth,
then yes they would be able to come over to you.

But this person would possibly travel internationally for business and holidays anyway
so I've no idea why they would want to stay with you for 3 months
What happens to their business and their employees and their company's customer base during this time?

Unless you are looking to "obtain" an impoverished,
maybe-desperate person ripe for you to exploit probably sexually.
{A serious mismatch of power here}

From what I've seen you write here and in PM,
you basically creep me out.
Just look at what you've written.
You want the person as an object for 3 months,
for the price of a plane ticket!

I hope no one trusts their pets or children with you.
shudders

chrisy76
01-27-2011, 07:14 PM
yeah i can see what you mean Jodie...i don't mean it like that. Really looking to date a TS and bring one over so we can have a nice relationship. As i don't have the courage to meet girls i find myself comfortable with asian TS.
I went in blind first 2 years asking webcam TS more fool me as i lost so much money hoping that TS would travel to embassy. Now hoping to find proper one via dating site and an add on OLX. More normality response i have had. But as i found out from an agency last year and you mention the visa requirements are so difficult for them. Can you tell me Jodie what i should do? I don't want others to think the same way you understood me. Thank you

JodieTs
01-28-2011, 08:50 AM
Ok accepting your points on face value
It is still a very unequal relationship
They would only come over to see you in the hope of a better life
{think desperation}
Your reasons are wanting them is for a generic desire
rather than a desire for a specific person
this too is fucked up

Its like me wanting to date chrisy76 coz you live in Manchester
rather than
I want to date chrisy76 who happens to live in Manchester

Now do you see the general problem?

Ok a harsh reality for you
Either way, you will not be able to import a Thai or Philippine Transsexual female, for the reasons in my last post.

Any company or organisation claiming to offer you this service are lying and trying to steal your money.

loing
04-21-2011, 01:58 PM
i love what you've posted Jodie in this thread , its help clarify a few things in my mind..thanks

straightguy4fun
04-24-2011, 08:55 AM
hi, What about Lady boys in Sydney.. I found it really hard.

davideblaine
05-13-2011, 09:35 PM
Hey, great forum! I love this place already.

First of all, since this all has to come from personal experience, let me give you a few places and some advice. First the places:

If you're ever in Houston, Texas, the best place to go is a bar called Cousin's.

Cousin's
817 Fairview St
Houston, TX 77006-2807
Phone: (713) 528-9204

Be warned, it's a pretty seedy place and it's swarming with TS hookers, but there are also some non-pros there because, quite frankly, they have nowhere else to go. Gay men (at least from my experience) don't really get along well with those in the TG community, so the girls tend to flock to Cousin's and EJ's.

EJ's Bar
2517 Ralph St
Houston, TX 77006-2428
Phone: (713) 527-0516

Although you'll find more at Cousin's.

Cousin's has a late night drag show on Saturday and Sunday nights and the ladies are gorgeous. I have dated a number of girls I met in Cousin's and had serious relationships with two. (They didn't work out for a few reasons I shan't go into here.)

For online action, a great place is Date In Asia. The message system says that I don't have 10 messages yet, so I can't post a message with a link in it, but the webaddress is dateinasia dot com.

Although not primarily a TG dating site, I was amazed at the number of ladyboys there, especially in the Philippines. One nice thing about that website is that membership is free for the first 6 months, and I mean TOTALLY free! No credit card required.

I'm still wondering about a place to go in Wisconsin. Maybe Milwaukee, but that's a drive and a half from the little fishing village I live in.

thank you so much. im not that far from houston.

fattes
05-15-2011, 05:04 PM
I want to fined my shemale on the internet but dont know how to start! help me!!!

davideblaine
05-21-2011, 07:58 PM
Hey, great forum! I love this place already.

First of all, since this all has to come from personal experience, let me give you a few places and some advice. First the places:

If you're ever in Houston, Texas, the best place to go is a bar called Cousin's.

Cousin's
817 Fairview St
Houston, TX 77006-2807
Phone: (713) 528-9204

Be warned, it's a pretty seedy place and it's swarming with TS hookers, but there are also some non-pros there because, quite frankly, they have nowhere else to go. Gay men (at least from my experience) don't really get along well with those in the TG community, so the girls tend to flock to Cousin's and EJ's.

EJ's Bar
2517 Ralph St
Houston, TX 77006-2428
Phone: (713) 527-0516

Although you'll find more at Cousin's.

Cousin's has a late night drag show on Saturday and Sunday nights and the ladies are gorgeous. I have dated a number of girls I met in Cousin's and had serious relationships with two. (They didn't work out for a few reasons I shan't go into here.)

For online action, a great place is Date In Asia. The message system says that I don't have 10 messages yet, so I can't post a message with a link in it, but the webaddress is dateinasia dot com.

Although not primarily a TG dating site, I was amazed at the number of ladyboys there, especially in the Philippines. One nice thing about that website is that membership is free for the first 6 months, and I mean TOTALLY free! No credit card required.

I'm still wondering about a place to go in Wisconsin. Maybe Milwaukee, but that's a drive and a half from the little fishing village I live in.

which place is better cousins or ej's?

ila
05-21-2011, 08:53 PM
which place is better cousins or ej's?

It's not likely that you'll get an answer from the OP in your quoted posted as the OP has not been on this site in more than two years. This information is readily available by clicking on the applicable member's username and then clicking on the public profile link.

mr.obsessions
05-22-2011, 03:53 AM
I have had some success at outpersonals.com.

Yes it is a gay hookup site, so if you are still having issues within you weather liking TS makes you gay, you may not feel comfortable using the site, especially when you see to guys kissing on the landing page.

I met 2 Filipino TS's, one in Japan that was just a one time hookup, and another who lived in the Philippines who eventually moved to Japan and we have been together for 4 years.

There are a surprising number of TS on Outpersonals, though a lot of them are pros.
But it worked for me.

davideblaine
05-22-2011, 01:14 PM
ok heres the deal, me and my girl have this desired fantasy, we both agree on this. as of now we are looking for 2 trans partners. hopefully near Houston Texas. For details please PM me. i think it would be an enjoyable exp for all involved.


i want to make it clear that these 2 partners, i hope will become a casual part of the adventures taken by me and my girl.

optimusmike123
10-04-2011, 01:28 PM
essex/uk anyone?

stephanie4life
10-04-2011, 07:53 PM
If you're in louisville, ky you can meet me, ill buy you a coke.

al_wien
10-09-2011, 02:59 AM
some idea where to meet shemales in Vienna, Austria?

master2009
10-30-2011, 04:26 AM
same here.it felt great having a big dick in my hand and squizing it gently until it went hard

Tommekeh
01-08-2012, 08:35 AM
Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

Hi, I'm traveling to Seoul in june and was wondering where to find these ladyboy bars.

Tom

Aussie
02-09-2012, 11:42 AM
hi, soon il be traveling to Bali and want to hook up with a nice hot L/B with a nice cock, where can I find them?
iv been to Phili and there are thousands of them walking the streets,,
I looked on meetladyboy dot kom, but is there another way or place I can find a beautiful Balinese ladyboy with a nice big cock? :)

ross
03-02-2012, 08:30 PM
the following is a social web site there are lots of ladyboys on this site all you need to do is join and its free too

tagged.com

ross
03-02-2012, 08:36 PM
hi, What about Lady boys in Sydney.. I found it really hard.

someone said the taxi club in sydney- no real site specific to australia- the onky ones i have found related to escorts- there is a social website called tagged bit like facebook lots of ladyboys on this site its free to change and you can look at the pics of the people and then click on friend request and send a message to them and start conversing- most are very genuine looking for ltr's

tagged.com

me4ladyboy
03-14-2012, 11:28 PM
finding a ladyboy depends on if you are just looking for a good time or looking for friend and relationship. I have exclusively dated ladyboys for many years now and been in a 3 year relationship with one. But, many ladyboys you meet on line have been lied to by so many guys, they don't trust easily.

Be honest about what you are looking for. If you are looking for sex, be honest about that. Don't play games. Ladyboys are human beings with hopes and dreams just like everyone else. They laugh and they cry. They are not toys to be played with and tossed aside. Many had had difficult times and deal with prejudice and discrimination.

If you treat a ladyboy like a human being and a girlfriend, in return you will find someone with a great heart and soul. She will love you like no genetic girl ever could. But, if you meet one on line, talk about other things besides sex and asking her to get naked on cam. they have all heard that a million times before and, if you like her, that's a sure fire way to scare her off.

If all you want is "fun" and you are in Asia, find a ladyboy bar and bar fine one. Does not matter if you are in Korea, Japan, Thailand or Philippines, there are lady boy bars. But, in Korea and Japan, most are recruited from the Philippines, they are not Japanese.

If you don't ever plan to meet in person, don't lie and tell her you will. If all you want is an on line relationship, be honest about it.

madelineash
04-21-2012, 06:53 PM
I actually met my current girlfriend on the cam website i use. We met each other over 2 years ago and have been happily together since. There's no better feeling than being in love with another tgirl.

NaughtyLittleLover
05-12-2012, 12:56 AM
Im only 18. What are my chances outside the bars?

uniquetslvr
05-24-2012, 02:42 PM
Where can i fi find a lb in Georgia

jbradhall24
08-28-2012, 12:30 PM
Where can i fi find a lb in Georgia
what part of georgia?

Dirtysecrets12
10-20-2012, 05:55 AM
Does anyone know the best place in east London to meet up with ladyboys ?

biwonder9
10-29-2012, 09:00 AM
hey i was wondering if anyone knows where i can find trans/ladyboys looking for relationships in perth Western Australia

aussiepride
11-07-2012, 11:39 PM
hey i was wondering if anyone knows where i can find trans/ladyboys looking for relationships in perth Western Australia

try adultmatchmaker and oasisactive, im in sydney.

amm has a ton of ts, oasis i hear has a lot.
i met 10ts off amm, and am in full time relationship with one now.

if you are looking for a quickie, dont be shocked if they hit you up for coin.

ra002
11-19-2012, 11:03 AM
Any idea about Hungary? Like where to find/meet tranny girls? It really seems like I am living in the wrong region of the world :(

sheXIII
01-15-2013, 09:28 PM
I live in Southeast Georgia and was wondering where I could find some TS girls. Savannah is a cool town but its LGBT scene eludes me.

PraxisAlexis
01-27-2013, 02:46 PM
Hello all ts-lovers:) I just want to share that i had pleasurable experiences dating through webcam on MSN (you wanna meet cyber first obviously ..)

So to find them..i use shemale.nu (was free the first day), only when i travel and so on. but it took a while for me before i actually got out on a date with a T girl abroad.

in Sweden where i live we mainly use qruiser.com, not free aswell, for transsexual dating, however shemale.nu is international, so very good for travel;)

//PraxisAlexis

Sailersam07
02-09-2013, 11:43 PM
I am traveling to NY in 2 weeks, and want to meet a ts. Where is the best place to find them?

TS Carmen Melbourne
02-28-2013, 10:12 PM
Hi does any one know of a place in melbourne australia?

WHat about my place? lol

pureozi
03-20-2013, 12:59 AM
what about adelaide australia? im not having much luck, tried a few free websites like oasis, any other ideas? And im not going to mars bar lol

T0mmy92
06-05-2013, 02:25 AM
Hi Hank, do you know any bars in Adelaide that Tgirls go to?

hankhavelock
06-22-2013, 10:22 PM
Not aware of any bars in Adelaide - but again, check out some of the many links to different dating sites here in this thread.

zoomrolf
07-22-2013, 11:17 AM
One of the little known areas to meet a LB in BKK is on Soi 33 off of Sukhumvit road. This is the area with Japanese bars. The LBs are a bit older and perhaps a bit more for the older set, such as me.

Nazgul
07-23-2013, 03:58 AM
hello guys,

im may , shemale from jakarta.

iam 29, tall and slim, smooth fair skin, sexy lips and very very very feminim

i'd like to know guys who is mature, macho and TOP guys only.

sorry, im pre op but just consider i dont have "that thing" ok...
and i only like a guys who want to explore my "she" more than my "male" part.

try me sweety.. i'll make aal ur fantasies come true....:coupling:

ila
07-23-2013, 07:13 PM
try me sweety.. i'll make aal ur fantasies come true....:coupling:

The person that you are replying to has not been on the site for the past 4 years. I'm pretty sure that you're not going to get an answer from her.

asiandatezone
08-04-2013, 09:02 PM
Best place to meet Ladyboys? I was on vacation in Cagayan De Oro,Philippines recently and met a few sexy Ladyboys. Most of them are not Escorts. One pretty LB stayed with me in my hotel room for a week. I met her online before I took my trip. I think that's your best bet- meet a Ladyboy online first,chat her up,then take the trip to meet her.

john90640
08-16-2013, 09:14 PM
It seems like a lot of the info online is old and out of date for Los Angeles and Southern California.:no:

jigenbakuda
10-04-2013, 08:37 AM
Question about matets.com.

Since you need to pay to use the site are the ladies on her more serious than normal? I once heard somewhere that match.com and the other big dating sites where more successful in creating relationships because the people on there pay, and to pay means you are more serious.

Just wondering if some of the ladies look at it that way and respect the men on there more because of it.

I really do not like the idea of paying for a night of love, and I would like to at least casually date a transgendered lady, but not sure the best way to proceed. This seems like the best way, just wanting to know some ladies opinion on online dating sites like matets.com.

sonic24
10-13-2013, 04:10 PM
Poppy from Sensations is a hottie and very friendly.

all in
03-15-2014, 06:38 PM
Anyone in south Florida has to check out Club Xtra in Hollywood. Beautiful girls and lap dances that satisfiy your wildest dreams. More then a few shemale stars who can't wait to get you behind the curtin.

thekingdude
09-05-2014, 11:57 AM
Anybody in the mpls/st paul know a good place to meet?

Pastorn
09-21-2014, 07:29 PM
Of course there are many ways to meet trans women. I´m gonna list three ways I have met transgender beauties :)

1. Go places trans women are found in great numbers. (Obvious I know) I went to Thailand and Philippines myself. There you WILL find what you are searching for, and I´m not talking prostitution only.

2. Online dating is a great idea. There are numerous sites but many are not serious.
I use this site

www.transgender-date.com

3. The way I prefer finding trans women, may be a little awkward and unexpected to some, is live cam pay sites. I have met some trans beauties that way. Some are there to make money only of course, but some are actually there to search for a "farang" (white western guy) to love them for their true selves.
I just stay in the free chat until I know them a little better and then take it further if I get the feel for them. Signing up is usually free in those sites.
I use this site

http://www.shemaleporncam.com

Good luck and please let me know how you´re doing with the ladies :D

dana295
10-19-2014, 11:27 AM
Anyone know about shemales in Dallas-Ft Worth Tx.

yeah drive to Huston hon ~winks~

irislover
10-25-2014, 05:54 PM
Isn't that an escort service?

escierto
12-23-2014, 08:49 PM
There was a site that used to be really good called person.com (you could also get to it as justcams.tv). It was predominantly used by people from the Philippines and included a lot of TS. I used to see a very pretty girl there all the time and eventually we struck up a relationship. We used to talk on YM and finally she admitted that she was a TS - she was afraid that it would affect how I felt about her. At that point, I knew that genitals were just a physical thing and I told her so. She really revolutionized my thinking about gender and made me a lot more open and receptive. After all the whole time I had been talking to her I related to her as a woman because to me that's what she was. It seemed ridiculous to change my view of her just because I discovered she had a penis instead of a vagina. I still talk to her and we have become quite close.

AlfredSata
04-01-2015, 06:15 PM
As I read about people talking about their significant others on here, Im just curious to know how and where did you meet each other? What was your first date like and who was the "next level" aggressor? You or your SO? Im single, so I dont have any stories to tell, but I would like to read other stories though.

kaze
06-13-2015, 07:56 PM
Great information. My only problem is that even though i do fantasize about meeting up, I do not think I have it in me to go through with the meet.

JamieTS
12-05-2016, 01:13 PM
Look the easiest way to meet shemales face to face is do a google search for trans clubs.

But one word to the wise is don't use the word shemale or tranny or anything that a trans woman may feel belittled by.

OMG we love guys like you and others her that will show us attention and really want to meet us and have a relationship with us but 99 percent of us aren't porn stars. Wuite a bit of us suffer from Gender Identity Dysphoria which will make us really suspicious of you intentions and so on.

If you really want to meet trans women then just treat them like you would a cis woman. Gain our trust. Reassure us because even though we may have some bad ass attitudes we still need that reassurance that you think we are pretty.

Then if she tell you she is trans then just tell her that you don't her you don't care because you still think she is beautiful. And even if it is reassure her that her penis isn't what you are attracted to but rather her beauty and her femininity.

Take her out and show her that you are a confident man that is proud to have her on your arm. I can't speak for everyone else but I love having doors opened for me, my chair pulled out for me and so on. Just be a gentleman. The less you care about what we have between our legs and just appreciate the woman in us the faster you may get what you want.;)

This goes for all you sweet guys that are the best it seems, Just treat her like you would any other woman and be a gentleman to her because most of us are not escorts, prostitutes or porn stars. Most of us are just average women that happen to have a penis.

I kind of hope this helps a little bit for a lot of guys that want to meet a real trans woman outside of the sex industry. Whether it be an escort (guilty), Prostitute (again guilty a long time ago) or some fantasy girl from a porn flick. No all of us look like Bailey, Bruna, Beatrice, Bea, Amy, or anyone else. I personally thing the cutest though is Duda. She may not be the most beautiful but she has a hell of a smile and has a normal body and her hair is so beautiful. Did I say she has a beautiful face?

dibble
12-11-2016, 03:50 PM
joined a few sites before, it was terrible, old hairy men trying to look like women, and the nice looking ones were all escorts. of course its easy in Thailand as there are so many but I live in the UK. seen a few about as I work in a bus station, but how do I get to chat to one when work mates are everywhere all ready to rip the piss, as I see it, its an impossible dream, at least in the UK and in my line of work. And where are they all on here,?? its a great site for guys chatting about their experiences in Thailand etc but don t think I ve seen any transgenders on here.
There s not a lot I don t know about them, their feelings, emotions and who they really are, but where are they lols.????

JamieTS
12-12-2016, 10:28 AM
joined a few sites before, it was terrible, old hairy men trying to look like women, and the nice looking ones were all escorts. of course its easy in Thailand as there are so many but I live in the UK. seen a few about as I work in a bus station, but how do I get to chat to one when work mates are everywhere all ready to rip the piss, as I see it, its an impossible dream, at least in the UK and in my line of work. And where are they all on here,?? its a great site for guys chatting about their experiences in Thailand etc but don t think I ve seen any transgenders on here.
There s not a lot I don t know about them, their feelings, emotions and who they really are, but where are they lols.????

Unfortunately this is the second negative post that I found you posted about trans women. Go to Thailand. I'm sure no great big loss for the girls in the UK. But get ready to pay though. I have been there and actually worked in Korea and visited other trans friendly places in the Orient.

Really dude. You are nothing but a troll I think.

techno883
12-12-2016, 11:12 AM
Look the easiest way to meet shemales face to face is do a google search for trans clubs.

But one word to the wise is don't use the word shemale or tranny or anything that a trans woman may feel belittled by.

OMG we love guys like you and others her that will show us attention and really want to meet us and have a relationship with us but 99 percent of us aren't porn stars. Wuite a bit of us suffer from Gender Identity Dysphoria which will make us really suspicious of you intentions and so on.

If you really want to meet trans women then just treat them like you would a cis woman. Gain our trust. Reassure us because even though we may have some bad ass attitudes we still need that reassurance that you think we are pretty.


Then if she tell you she is trans then just tell her that you don't her you don't care because you still think she is beautiful. And even if it is reassure her that her penis isn't what you are attracted to but rather her beauty and her femininity.

Take her out and show her that you are a confident man that is proud to have her on your arm. I can't speak for everyone else but I love having doors opened for me, my chair pulled out for me and so on. Just be a gentleman. The less you care about what we have between our legs and just appreciate the woman in us the faster you may get what you want.;)

This goes for all you sweet guys that are the best it seems, Just treat her like you would any other woman and be a gentleman to her because most of us are not escorts, prostitutes or porn stars. Most of us are just average women that happen to have a penis.

I kind of hope this helps a little bit for a lot of guys that want to meet a real trans woman outside of the sex industry. Whether it be an escort (guilty), Prostitute (again guilty a long time ago) or some fantasy girl from a porn flick. No all of us look like Bailey, Bruna, Beatrice, Bea, Amy, or anyone else. I personally thing the cutest though is Duda. She may not be the most beautiful but she has a hell of a smile and has a normal body and her hair is so beautiful. Did I say she has a beautiful face?

I've seen Bailey and I think you're talking of Bea Armitage. The others I don't know of. Sorry, I'm just getting to 'know' some of the ladies out here by name. Bea is stunning and reminds me of an actress on 'Blue Bloods' Amy Carlson, only prettier. I will confess that I've never would have guessed the population of TG's, TS', Traps and CD's is as big as it is if it weren't for The Ladyboy Forum. Which led me to search other sites as well. Thank you administrators of Ladyboy and a big thank you to the girls like JamieTS who not only put up with us 'curious' types, but to help us understand and accept the Trans lifestyle. People as yourselves do more than any political action can provide.

Stefanmlc
02-23-2017, 02:14 PM
Myladyboycupid.com is a nice place to meet ladyboys, though the site is not for finding a sex date.

michele4848
07-11-2017, 06:44 PM
Anyone know about shemales in Dallas-Ft Worth Tx.
how about tyler texas. any ladybois pre- op or post-op , seeking LTR

jodarling
11-11-2017, 01:57 AM
Off to Pattaya, Thailand for a week soon. Hoping for my first encounter with a Ladyboy.

Anyone got any recent advice on places to go and perhaps ladies to see?

DudeMan
03-19-2020, 07:02 PM
I've had success on Doublelist.com. It's a replacement for the personals that were on craigslist. There are a lot of trans/CDs in the "gay for straight" section.
Of course, there are a lot of BSers too, but definitely some real girls too. It's pretty anonymous too.