Is anal sex pleasurable?

[sesame]

This is a question that is bugging me. Does the ladyboy at the receiving end really get any pleasure from anal sex? Is it physical pleasure or mental satisfaction?:confused:

[Bionca]

as long as the prostate is there, anal should feel good. At least it does for me!!! Though it hurts a little at first because I'm kinda thin and it doesn't go in very easily...

[sesame]

Perfectly Reasonable Answer.:respect:

Erogenous effects: Bionca is setting all dicks in this planet on fire.;)

[sesame]

I think the nature of the anal sphincter is to remain closed shut by default. So, it may need some gentle coaxing to open up, loosen up a little? Anal massage ;)
Then perhaps it wont hurt anymore if a man and a Tgirl does this :coupling:
But nowadays anal sex is being tried by everyone. like:
Man + woman
man + man
man + Tgirl
Tgirl + Tgirl
;)
The concept is pretty old too. More than a 1000 years.
Vatsayana's Kamasutra, Koka Shastra:
"Payu Maithuna" = Anal Congress

[sesame]

When partners are having anal sex, does the cock actually massage the prostate gland?

[sesame]

Is he getting pleasure? Sure.
Is she enjoying it too? Who knows?

[sesame]

She looks quite blissful.;)

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

Oh my, what a strange question! I love a big hard dick up my ass. When it comes to anal, please and pain come together, I love it when my ass ends up sore and hurting, when I scream (and I scream a LOT!), it is in both pain and pleasure together.

[Bionca]

When partners are having anal sex, does the cock actually massage the prostate gland?

If the one doing the screwing does it right.. indeed it does.

[CuriousJim]

Sesame, why are you asking and answering your own questions?

[sesame]

Sesame, why are you asking and answering your own questions?
:lol:
So that I can hear all your opinions and go for Presidency;)
But if you so prefer, I can play dumbass too:D

[lippypunk]

If the driller is on point, the drillee may, mid-penetration, cum all over the place in a state of quivering bliss.

[Bionca]

If the driller is on point, the drillee may, mid-penetration, cum all over the place in a state of quivering bliss.

Exactly... when I feel my legs tense up and my back arch I know it's only seconds until I'm quivering and holding my partner as close as I can to keep the pressure deep and on target.

[2WayStreet]

I do not mind a TS going up my arse hole, but not a man without tits and makes up and feminine attributes

[BlueRaven88]

Pleasure and Pain.

while i am yet to experience sex with a shemale, i have put things up there (small at first, like my finger or a pen, but then moved up to larger stuff, like rexona deoderant cans covered in cling wrap with a bit of vaseline on it) and even though it hurts a bit, it hurts soooo good.

the most intense orgasm i'd ever had was when i put the can up there and fucked my ass with it, then i wanked off after taking it out. because it had massaged the prostate it was a very intense load.

sorry if this was T.M.I, but hoped it helped your question, and maybe turn some ladyboys on :P

[sesame]

Damn! What a day! Most of the time my buddies have been absent to this forum. (Though some of 'em dont like to be called as "buddy" ;) ) What are they doing now, sucking thumb?
I wonder if this place was undergoing some server prob, I had to fight for hours to login!

[hankhavelock]

As most things good it takes a little practice and getting used to ;-) Then you start out slow - VERY slow and with lots of lubricant. The good news is, that your transsexual sex-partner knows this as well as every one, so she'll anticipate the fact that you don't just lie down, spread your legs and are open for a massive 8"... :-)

Some people have a more flexible rectum than others. You'll find out.

Another thing is that you may feel and enormous "need" to go take a shit... well, DO that before you get fucked, and then clean your rectum with water. The best thing is if you can make an enema (do it carefully) to make sure that you're completely empty. This will put you more at ease.

This is not something you should put pressure on - basicly, your ass has to get used to it. So take all the needed time and enjoy the ride :-)

Peace!

[sesame]

And here comes Hank, the man of the hour!
God said, "Let there be Hank",
And Lo! there was Hank! :D
Thank you for the valuable info, man.

[Htowner]

Pain and pleasure for me. Need lots of lubrication, but the thought of a beautiful shemale having sex with me helps to ease the pain.

[toysoldier]

I have never had sex with a ladyboy. but I have dreamed of it. But I did a person use a dildo on me, it felt soooooo good. I mean I was in bliss. then when it stopped, they took my dick in their mouth it was like instant eruption. LOL:turnon:

[Bionca]

As most things good it takes a little practice and getting used to ;-) Then you start out slow - VERY slow and with lots of lubricant. The good news is, that your transsexual sex-partner knows this as well as every one, so she'll anticipate the fact that you don't just lie down, spread your legs and are open for a massive 8"... :-)

Some people have a more flexible rectum than others. You'll find out.

Another thing is that you may feel and enormous "need" to go take a shit... well, DO that before you get fucked, and then clean your rectum with water. The best thing is if you can make an enema (do it carefully) to make sure that you're completely empty. This will put you more at ease.

This is not something you should put pressure on - basicly, your ass has to get used to it. So take all the needed time and enjoy the ride :-)

Peace!


Yay Hank!! :respect:

I can't stress your last point about taking time to get used to it enough. The natural reaction is to clench up and push out. It is very important to remember this for the first time tops and bottoms. Do the initial penetration in slow easy stages. Tip first and wait, then ease in slowly and wait ...

It should also be noted that a little preparation goes a long long way. Fingers, tongue and toys are very useful and should be used liberally. Lube is also a must as well as condoms - seriously, it's not hot or sexy but lots of you guys are seeing escorts so play smart and safe.

[hankhavelock]

Yay Hank!! :respect:

I can't stress your last point about taking time to get used to it enough. The natural reaction is to clench up and push out. It is very important to remember this for the first time tops and bottoms. Do the initial penetration in slow easy stages. Tip first and wait, then ease in slowly and wait ...

It should also be noted that a little preparation goes a long long way. Fingers, tongue and toys are very useful and should be used liberally. Lube is also a must as well as condoms - seriously, it's not hot or sexy but lots of you guys are seeing escorts so play smart and safe.

Thanks Bionca :-) I used to say that I may be open-minded but in a tight-assed way... ;-)

Seriously, as you I just have a tight rectum, and it takes LOTS of time to get used to being anally fucked. In the beginning it was no fun at all, and I kept wondering why I really wanted to do this. But I persisted and with a little help from my good transsexual friends I've finally got to a point where the physical pleasure (not just the emotional pleasure) is now part of it.

And whether we're transsexual women or guys we share the same pain :-) And pleasure, for that matter.

I'll never forget the first time my sweet Mel wanted to fuck me... Mel has a sizable cock and I remembering thinking "OMG this is never gonna work HELP HELP HELP!" But it DID work! Because Mel took it easy! And shared a few good hints ;-)

Using condoms is obviously a must - but make sure to add extra amounts of lube as a condom enlarges friction and minimizes the natural flexibility of the cock in your ass.

So do lube up, guys and girls!

Peace!

H

[sesame]

In the beginning it was no fun at all, and I kept wondering why I really wanted to do this...
... I'll never forget the first time my sweet Mel wanted to fuck me... Mel has a sizable cock and I remembering thinking "OMG this is never gonna work HELP HELP HELP!" But it DID work! Because Mel took it easy!
Hank, you are an honest man. :)
Thank you for sharing your feelings with us.

[translover]

Anal sex :coupling:

I want to tell u about something i felt while anal sex in the last few weeks.
I don't really like anal sex (recieving) but if i m really horny i can't stand and sit on a cock :drool:. Last week, i made a group sex with a t-girl and a boy. First T-girl wanted to fuck me and i let her to fuck, everytime it hurts when first push so i dont like anal sex. After that the boy said i want to fuck too. But his dick was too big for me. But i let him to fuck me bec my ass was relaxed by the T-girl.

I sat on him and start up and down, after 2 or 3 min. i felt a pleasure and orgasm feelings. i feel like something blow in me :innocent:. i felt really fucking pleasure :rolleyes: that i have never feel. and my cock :turnon: blowed without touching or masturbate, i didn't touch it :eek:. i feel the prostate orgasm or pleasure.
That was really good and interesting experience for me.
Is there anyone experience like that ???

[GRH]

As most things good it takes a little practice and getting used to ;-) Then you start out slow - VERY slow and with lots of lubricant. The good news is, that your transsexual sex-partner knows this as well as every one, so she'll anticipate the fact that you don't just lie down, spread your legs and are open for a massive 8"... :-)

Some people have a more flexible rectum than others. You'll find out.

Another thing is that you may feel and enormous "need" to go take a shit... well, DO that before you get fucked, and then clean your rectum with water. The best thing is if you can make an enema (do it carefully) to make sure that you're completely empty. This will put you more at ease.

This is not something you should put pressure on - basicly, your ass has to get used to it. So take all the needed time and enjoy the ride :-)

Peace!


Quoted for truth. By nature, the anus seems to be an "out" hole, but with some preparation, going in can be VERY pleasurable. I will say that in my experience, going in the first time is sometimes painful, but if I have penetration followed by quick withdrawal, for whatever reason it seems that the second penetration is perfectly easy. I don't know why this is, but it seems like the sphincter relaxes after the first attempt and is quite willing to accept anything on a second try.

[hankhavelock]

Yep GRH, it's like that! Last nite a very horny friend of mine smsed me at 1am and announced she's be over... I was already sound asleep and quickly fell asleep again after her sms. None the less, she came over an hour later and started lubing me up (mind you I was half asleep). "Don't lube my buttocks but my hole and your dick, dear" I mumbled... she didn't say a word and a second later YANKED her sizable penis up my unprepared and poorly lubricated ass...

NOW, THAT HURT! And I got so f****** angry and was suddenly FULLY awake! And that was the end of any sexual encounter with me for THAT night. I didn't even wanna look at her...

POINT: Don't just walk into a guy's bedroom and stick your penis up his unprepared rectum :-)

Grrr!

:-)

[marlowe]

Yep GRH, it's like that! Last nite a very horny friend of mine smsed me at 1am and announced she's be over... I was already sound asleep and quickly fell asleep again after her sms. None the less, she came over an hour later and started lubing me up (mind you I was half asleep). "Don't lube my buttocks but my hole and your dick, dear" I mumbled... she didn't say a word and a second later YANKED her sizable penis up my unprepared and poorly lubricated ass...

NOW, THAT HURT! And I got so f****** angry and was suddenly FULLY awake! And that was the end of any sexual encounter with me for THAT night. I didn't even wanna look at her...

POINT: Don't just walk into a guy's bedroom and stick your penis up his unprepared rectum :-)

Grrr!

:-)

Wow... that sucks.... very inconsiderate :(, I think you should have words with your friend! If this behaviour persists you could perhaps lock your door or, with the motto 'be prepared', you could always lube up every night before going to sleep just incase. ;)

[hankhavelock]

Wow... that sucks.... very inconsiderate :(, I think you should have words with your friend! If this behaviour persists you could perhaps lock your door or, with the motto 'be prepared', you could always lube up every night before going to sleep just incase. ;)

"Lock my door" and "lube up in advance"... you're joy-killer...:drool:

[marlowe]

"Lock my door" and "lube up in advance"... you're joy-killer...:drool:

Ok... it's your arse. But don't say I didn't warn you!!! :D

[Bionca]

Yep GRH, it's like that! Last nite a very horny friend of mine smsed me at 1am and announced she's be over... I was already sound asleep and quickly fell asleep again after her sms. None the less, she came over an hour later and started lubing me up (mind you I was half asleep). "Don't lube my buttocks but my hole and your dick, dear" I mumbled... she didn't say a word and a second later YANKED her sizable penis up my unprepared and poorly lubricated ass...

NOW, THAT HURT! And I got so f****** angry and was suddenly FULLY awake! And that was the end of any sexual encounter with me for THAT night. I didn't even wanna look at her...

POINT: Don't just walk into a guy's bedroom and stick your penis up his unprepared rectum :-)

Grrr!

:-)

:eek: Oh my.. how very unlady-like... I believe the etiquette for this would be to gently coax the partner awake with a little rimming and some digital (that's fingers) massaging of the sphincter so as not to startle a poor sleeping man. Once you get that tell-tale lifting of the bottom in the air and a winking sphincter in your face - THEN you have the green light for some kenetic anal action.

Then again, perhaps I'm just a prude who hates to get skewered to wakefulness in the middle of the night.

[Justme]

I've never had anal sex, but have been on the receiving end of anal play from a few ex-gfs. I'd say it's a bit of pleasure and pain. Hurts a little at first as you're easing into it, but then gets really good..gogo prostate :lol:

[sesame]

Wow... that sucks.... very inconsiderate :(, I think you should have words with your friend! If this behaviour persists you could perhaps lock your door or, with the motto 'be prepared', you could always lube up every night before going to sleep just incase. ;)

:lol:
Excuse my laughing, Hank!!
Anyone can enter your bedroom and rape you?
You need to have some protection man!
Also, Your friend is really some piece of work!

[SHEMALE_SEEKER]

Yep GRH, it's like that! Last nite a very horny friend of mine smsed me at 1am and announced she's be over... I was already sound asleep and quickly fell asleep again after her sms. None the less, she came over an hour later and started lubing me up (mind you I was half asleep). "Don't lube my buttocks but my hole and your dick, dear" I mumbled... she didn't say a word and a second later YANKED her sizable penis up my unprepared and poorly lubricated ass...

NOW, THAT HURT! And I got so f****** angry and was suddenly FULLY awake! And that was the end of any sexual encounter with me for THAT night. I didn't even wanna look at her...

POINT: Don't just walk into a guy's bedroom and stick your penis up his unprepared rectum :-)

Grrr! :-)
HAHAHAHA....Fucking hysterical....

Exactly... when I feel my legs tense up and my back arch I know it's only seconds until I'm quivering and holding my partner as close as I can to keep the pressure deep and on target.
Time For Yet Another Cold Shower....

:lol: Excuse my laughing, Hank!!
Anyone can enter your bedroom and rape you?
You need to have some protection man!
Also, Your friend is really some piece of work!
This is fucking insane :lol:,, stop it sesame,,,:lol:

[sesame]

My apologies to ... Damn!:p
Some people here are dying for a relationship with a Tranny!
And some lucky bulls just get it without asking!
And they are angry over it!:censored:
There is so much inequality of demand and supply in this unjust world!
I protest!:drool:

[SHEMALE_SEEKER]

My apologies to ... Damn!:p
Some people here are dying for a relationship with a Tranny!
And some lucky bulls just get it without asking!
And they are angry over it!:censored:
There is so much inequality of demand and supply in this unjust world!
I protest!:drool:

Totally agree..

[hankhavelock]

:eek: Oh my.. how very unlady-like... I believe the etiquette for this would be to gently coax the partner awake with a little rimming and some digital (that's fingers) massaging of the sphincter so as not to startle a poor sleeping man. Once you get that tell-tale lifting of the bottom in the air and a winking sphincter in your face - THEN you have the green light for some kenetic anal action.
Now THAT would have been much more to my liking... :hug:


:lol: Excuse my laughing, Hank!!
Anyone can enter your bedroom and rape you?
You need to have some protection man!
Also, Your friend is really some piece of work!
Well, I live in a secluded part of town ;-) And here we're all friends! All I asked for was a bit of generousity on the lube-side... but nooo, she was too horny for that!

It really DID hurt, and she knows totally well, that I'm tight-assed (yet open-minded :-) ) and that it takes a wee time to get my lill ass ready for her monster cock...

I don't just yank it in either... it has to be slow and erotic... now I'm getting horny here... Ms. B. where are you???

Remember that the initial name of this thread is whether or not anal sex is pleasurable. Last night it wasn't :-)

Ouch!

H

you're super hot

[raojai70]

The best rewards in life often come after a bit of pain. The same is often true of anal sex. Pain there sometimes is but this just enhances the pleasures that follow.

[nadiecomoyo]

of course, just try it , be gentle and careful.

[Miroku]

It really was uncomfortable the first few times for me, but anymore, just slip a lubed finger inside me to get me ready *blushes deeply* and I really enjoy it.

[Ogryn1313]

I don't know what it feels like to get it. I've given it to a couple girls here and there. Always good.

I'd like to know what it feels like. As close as I came is just some personal exploration so to speak. And it was enjoyable.

[hankhavelock]

I don't know what it feels like to get it. I've given it to a couple girls here and there. Always good.

I'd like to know what it feels like. As close as I came is just some personal exploration so to speak. And it was enjoyable.

It gets better over time - actually, it gets totally much better over time! Just enjoy and keep ass (and mind) open! And when she finally enters you, makes love to you and ejaculates in you, then - I kid you not - you feel a bonding of very special proportions. It's so sweet!

And remember, to quite a few transsexual women the idea of penetrating her boyfriend is an un-feminine act that may take some overcoming for her to do - not least enjoy. But once she's inside chances are she'll allow herself to be taken away by the pleasure... :yes: If she trusts you that is...

[dutchboi]

It feels uncomfortable sometimes, but the prostate thrusting is nice, only thing is the cleaning before which is a bitch if you or she is lazy

[twistedone]

I learned long ago, that if it hurts, you could be doing something wrong.

It could be anything from rushing things, to not enough lubricant.

The anus actually has quite a few nerves that do allow pleasure.

Under the direction of a Domme, I started with a butt plug and graduated up to a dildo. I can say, I love every inch of it.

If things hurt, its usually because I didn't lubricate enough.

Needless to day, I'm still looking forward to a good boning from a shemale. Mmmmmmm!!

[translover]

Sometimes it is a pleasure, sometimes it is not :innocent:

it is about your partner, i think

[gorilla]

Pleasure and Pain.

while i am yet to experience sex with a shemale, i have put things up there (small at first, like my finger or a pen, but then moved up to larger stuff, like rexona deoderant cans covered in cling wrap with a bit of vaseline on it) and even though it hurts a bit, it hurts soooo good.

the most intense orgasm i'd ever had was when i put the can up there and fucked my ass with it, then i wanked off after taking it out. because it had massaged the prostate it was a very intense load.

sorry if this was T.M.I, but hoped it helped your question, and maybe turn some ladyboys on :P
There's are hundreds of diferent dildos, vibrators and butt plugs out there in a variety of different shapes, textures and lengths and you're using a can of deodorant wrapped in cling film! Buy yourself some for Xmas you tight Aussie bastard! Strewth!:D

[tslust]

If your partner opens you up good and lubes-up anal feels really great. There's still be some pain at first, but it feels soo good.

[jimmyblaze1]

enough lube...and getting the muscles used to it...this is key...

After that you're laughing...you cum reaaal quick though if you're getting head while getting a prostate massage/fuck... ;)

[Amy]

It definitely feels good, but the pressure in certain places can hurt after a while.

[dennisGTS]

Plenty of lube! Love anal pleasure! Just with I could have the real thing in me, of course, from a hot T-girl!

[alice]

Yes very pleasurable, although the first few times it hurt like heck. Using lots of lub and learning how to relax so one can receive almost any size cock is the key. I've cum many times getting a good anal probe without touching my clitty cock. I still can't receive a thick cock, but any length is fine.:turnon::turnon::turnon:

[underthere]

It's all pleasure for me. I suck the man and get his cock all wet; thats all the lube I need. I've taken large and small cocks since the beginning and have always loved it, the gentleness of your partner or partners does help some.

[cockluva]

Absolutely, Especially if it's a huge thick long cock that's slightly too big for you, but she forces it inside you regardless of your protestations, sheer heaven!!!:yes::yes::yes::turnon::turnon::turnon:

[randolph]

Do dildos feel as good as shecocks?
How about vibrators?
Just wondering, never done any of this anal stuff myself.
My cock keeps me fully occupied. :lol::turnon:

[Bionca]

Do dildos feel as good as shecocks?
How about vibrators?
Just wondering, never done any of this anal stuff myself.
My cock keeps me fully occupied. :lol::turnon:

Latex is unyielding. Flesh is softer and easier to fit and way more comfortable. Remember, the natural reaction for the anus is to clench down and push out. So... if you are using latex start small and get used to it and remember that the real thing will be way better and more comfortable.

[orion]

I wouldn't know .. having never been fucked by anyone .. and having no desire whatsoever to be so ...

But none of the Transgendered partners I've ever had has complained .. so I guess I must be doing something right .. :lol:

To me .. I'm the Guy & she's the Girl .. therefore, I do the "business" ... ;)

Bye for now,

Orion ..

[randolph]

Most of the clips I have see of anal sex seem to show that the fucker is enjoying it and the fuckee has a pained look on her/him face. Maybe the pain is good somehow, I don't know. I guess I should try it sometime so I know what I am talking about. :coupling::eek:

[luvasianlb]

Anal sex feels great! I have been fucked numerous times and unless the cock is huge, it just takes a reasonable amount of lube and maybe a little patience, and sometimes the lube is not needed. Sometimes it takes a minute or so, but generally if an ass has been penetrated and enjoyed it, it will loosen up enough that a hard fuck feels great. Some of the best orgasms and most explosive ejaculations I have had have come from having a warm, hard cock rub my prostate. I also LOVE it when I am fucking someone else's ass and their cock stays hard and they cum while I fuck them. The sight of their cum shooting always gets me off. My experience has been that real cocks feel WAAAAAAAY better than dildos or vibrators, although those feel good too.

[Handsolo]

Love it!

My wife does me and I do her anally and we both really enjoy it. ;)

Baz.

[shyguyf55]

yes,im still virgin,i play with my toys,you have got to use plenty of lube and it will not hurt,if you feel pain you are not doing something right,if your partner has used a lot of lube it should be verrrrry pleasurableeeeee.

[dirty30]

I tryed it twice ,and both time's it hurt like a mother fucker....:no:... I'd rather suck a nice cock...:yes:

[tim4lb]

There are some reasonable posts here. Obviously some people have a lot of practice giving/receiving:coupling: I was only top for a long time - I couldn't imagine it would be anything but agony to have a big cock in my ass. The first time I tried receiving, it hurt beyond description (we had no lube, only a little spit and she wasn't gentle - basically raping me with my consent:D). All the points I read here help immeasurably - relaxing, lots of lube, massage with fingers, going slowly, and even withdrawing briefly after initial pentration - all lead to pure pleasure

[robbo971]

There's nothing better than a big, fat rock-hard cock up your ass, male or shemale it doesn't matter :turnon:

[alinacin]

I prefer

man + Tgirl
Tgirl + Tgirl


:coupling::coupling::coupling:

[pussy boy]

i hope lost my virginity by beautiful shemale like danile coxxx

[transjen]

Took me a few tries, The first time i was 19 and well lets just say he tried but it hurt some much i made him stop trying, Next two times were agianst my will so no pleasure there, After i really adjusted to being female and got the hang of things all i can say is HELL YEAH it feels so good only a little discomfert as the tip starts to enter :innocent: Jennifer

[tslust]

Took me a few tries, The first time i was 19 and well lets just say he tried but it hurt some much i made him stop trying, Next two times were agianst my will so no pleasure there, After i really adjusted to being female and got the hang of things all i can say is HELL YEAH it feels so good only a little discomfert as the tip starts to enter :innocent: Jennifer

Ya, when the head of his :drool:cock:drool: is pushing against your ring there might be some pain, especially if he's big. But once his head passes through your ring the first time, it's pure joy after that.

[luv]

Yes its pleasurable, especially when the cock rubs on your prostate, I love it when dat happens.. youl cum soo soon:yes:


ya at first it does hurt, it took some time to get used to it... but after a few sessions... its sheeeer pleasure... :-)

[nixgehtueber69]

If your partner opens you up good and lubes-up anal feels really great. There's still be some pain at first, but it feels soo good.

With the right partner and the right cock it?s pure pleasure and the best orgasm you can get. I love that feeling and can?t get enough. :coupling:

[Kim_Peach]

I like it :drool:

[alice]

It just keeps getting better and better for sure. It's not only do I enjoy it, but knowing that who I am with is also getting so much pleasure. Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought how much pleasure there is. Being a lady has it's rewards.:yes:;):turnon::turnon::turnon:

[connie]

Yes, I find it very pleasurable, so much so that a lot of the time, I find myself lusting for some huge hard cock to fill me and pump away, so wonderful to feel that flesh tempo as that dick opens me up and makes me feel so fantastic.

[smooth]

to me anal sex is not complete without poppers....that word may cause some to wonder what im talking about

[merelypink]

done right with plenty of lube it is~~~~

[Melissa Pink]

I've been enjoying receptive anal sex regularly for about four years. I diddled my tush for years with various objects and toys but was always too inhibited to attempt anal with someone until I began my transition. The first time I gave my ass to a guy it didn't hurt but I didn't cum. I think I was too nervous. The second time I tried it with the same guy later than night I was totally relaxed and had the most incredible total body orgasm. My only regret was waiting so long to give it up! LOL! In my opinion if it hurts then you are doing something wrong! For me the key to pleasurable anal sex is preparation. I make sure I am totally clean and empty "down there" and always engage in plenty of foreplay with fingers and toys before penetration. I used plenty of water based lube like Astroglide and insist my partner(s) wear a condom. I usually like to ride my partner's cock at first unless my sphincter relaxes. That way I can control how much and how quickly they fuck my tight ass. Once I'm relaxed all bets are off and I like all kinds of inovative positions.

Wendy Williams markets a "Anal Trainer" set of three butt plugs that are excellent for anyone interested in exploring this aspect of their sexuality. If you are lucky enough to meet a partner(s) with a big cock don't be intimidated by it. With patience you can train your ass to receive a big cock and enjoy it!

Have fun!

[Baby]

Yes very pleasurable, although the first few times it hurt like heck. Using lots of lub and learning how to relax so one can receive almost any size cock is the key. I've cum many times getting a good anal probe without touching my clitty cock. I still can't receive a thick cock, but any length is fine.:turnon::turnon::turnon:

Ya... sheer pleasure... lube, relaxing... the best part is when youl cum without touching yourself.. handsfree.. ;)... Ahh again i say reverse cowgirl my fav... :blush:.... guess its time to get some...;)

[pigsnizzle]

if you are well prepaired and use plenty lube, It could be super!

[Melissa Pink]

Ya... sheer pleasure... lube, relaxing... the best part is when youl cum without touching yourself.. handsfree.. ;)... Ahh again i say reverse cowgirl my fav... :blush:.... guess its time to get some...;)

Hands free is when you know you have entered a special place in your sexuality! It's incredible for me each and every time! Let the straight people have their conventional fucking! I'm an anal whore! :lol:

[dan]

I’m glad everybody seems to enjoy being on the receiving end of an anal relation! That’s personally to my liking. Some testimonies here shows how incredibly pleasurable it can be indeed. I myself have had repeated confirmations of such pleasure in being able to give it. I’m particularly fascinated by the capacity to obtain orgasms solely from anal penetration. I wish we could get more explanations from those of you who have such a potential. Please, feel free to detail what precisely triggers it, what technique, in which position, etc. (Melissa, give us more details, please! explain to us! You’re usually so articulated.)

Then again, I know many people just can’t do it. I know personally a few strictly gay men who would like to, but just can’t seem to find any pleasure in it. One of them is actually only interested in rubbing and sucking and wants nothing to do with anal.

You’re right though, most every one of you: it takes a lot of care, you need to start slowly and prepare adequately, use generously of a water based lube. You also need to be clean and absolutely have to find a way to relax appropriately. I have found that a good, very hot bath is excellent for that purpose, and long preliminaries including well given oral sex. You might also want to start preparing yourself on your own, with progressively bigger and bigger dildos, in order to accustom the anal sphincter to penetration. Even better to do this as a couple in the form of a game.

This being said, I’m still far from convinced it is something for everyone. There’s a matter of temperament first, of course, but there might just be some physical impediment for some people, an insufficiently supple anus, for instance. I think it’s important to point that out in order to reassure some of those reading these posts that have tried and just can’t seem to enjoy it. They should know there’s nothing wrong with that either. :no:

In any case, the very act of physical investigation is wonderful and there’s no limit to what we can discover from our sexuality. It’s as much a part of who we are as the intellect is, for instance, or the taste. It deserves every bit as much exploration.

[guiltydreamer]

4 days ago I arranged to see an Asian LB at a motel for 1 hour session. On arrival I was asked if I would like us to be joined by another TS - her friend.

After explaining that i did not have extra money to pay for the threesome, I was told that it was okay, no problem.

Well, the 1 hr turned into half that, (makes sense now), but it was more than worth it. I was pounded by the friend (who had a quite fat and not too long (say 5 inches) of hard cock - from behind and then missionary, whilst I smoked the other and ate her ass, wanked her etc as she sat in front and then astride my chest and on my face:turnon:.

Needless to say I had the most intense orgasm with one cock inside my ass and another in my mouth.......quite amazing and I want more, more more....:inlove:

[caminds]

lol.. to me this is like asking "do desserts taste sweet?" lol...

I think more often than not, if it hurts there isn't enough lube or the bottom is not properly prepared. getting fucked is awesome, due to the prostate. :yes:

[trendy1975]

Hi all, I am new here and ran across this thread. Great discussion and much more honest than most of the anal sex discussions in other forums.

To be honest it does hurt some when being penetrated but then the feeling is wonderful. And even the pain is good when I know I am giving my lover a lot of pleasure. After the initial pain of entry it is all good especially if the prostate gets a workout.

Next point, lube and more lube and don't rush too much.

To answer the question, yes, for me anal sex with the right partner is very pleasurable.

[bintz]

I have yet to actually cum from anal masturbation (hands free), though I've come incredibly close. I can never quite get there, though... frustrating. It feels amazing though; I love anal. The best is when it gets in past the tight ring and you can just slide all the way back on it. Mmm...

[newt72]

like everyone else says it is about enough lube and time i took my ex wifes anal cherry, and she loved anal sex cause i took my time and did it right, i love a cock in my ass as well she would fuck me with a strap-on and we did it the same way slow and right it was great, but the same time i have had guys just stick it in my as is too tight for that i need some loving back there before they shove in 8-9 inches

[Melissa Pink]

like everyone else says it is about enough lube and time i took my ex wifes anal cherry, and she loved anal sex cause i took my time and did it right, i love a cock in my ass as well she would fuck me with a strap-on and we did it the same way slow and right it was great, but the same time i have had guys just stick it in my as is too tight for that i need some loving back there before they shove in 8-9 inches

If anyone just "sticks it in my ass" it will be the last time they ever buttfuck me. I normally insist on riding my parter first when we have anal. That way I can control how much of their cock enters me and how quickly. After five or ten minutes my sphincter relaxes and we can get more creative. You might consider investing in an "anal trainer" set of dildoes like these marketed by Wendy Williams. The will help stretch your ass to accomodate nearly any size cock. In my opinion, the key to pleasurable great anal sex is preparation.

[tslust]

If anyone just "sticks it in my ass" it will be the last time they ever buttfuck me. I normally insist on riding my parter first when we have anal. That way I can control how much of their cock enters me and how quickly. After five or ten minutes my sphincter relaxes and we can get more creative. You might consider investing in an "anal trainer" set of dildoes like these marketed by Wendy Williams. The will help stretch your ass to accomodate nearly any size cock. In my opinion, the key to pleasurable great anal sex is preparation.

I totally agree, I hate it when a guy just shoves it in without opening me up first. They probably get the idea that they can just stick it in from watching too much porn.

[tsmilitia]

I LOVE anal. I love to be penetrated feels so good. But it has to be done right as others have said. Plenty of lube and take it slow. I always start off on top. :turnon:

[redrider96_nj]

I love anal sex - all anal play, rim, fingers, toys.... lots of lube, take it slow, enjoy... my favorite position to start is on my back, once we start and want to enjoy harder fucking - i find doggie to be most pleasurable for me

[Melissa Pink]

I totally agree, I hate it when a guy just shoves it in without opening me up first. They probably get the idea that they can just stick it in from watching too much porn.

I don't know why anyone would want have anal sex if it was painful! I've had to "train" a few partners. As stated when I first begin to fuck a partner I insist on riding his cock until my tush relaxes. Then as you can see "all bets are off!" Doggy and Reverse Cowgirl are my favs for maximum pentration. I recently was the recipient of an "Anal Pile Driver" wish was incredible!

To put it in American football terms I like to start off as a tight end and finish my fuck session as a wide receiver :lol:

[ra002]

I tried anal as both receiver (unfortunately only with a strap on yet) and giver, i personally loved both and still loving them. Also tried it with a quite large dildo, thats where i had my first prostate orgasm, i didnt even touch my cock. It felt way too good. I can only say if it hurts, something is really not right there.

[babyboy43]

my first time I had a orgasm now when I have sex thats all I look 4.

[sexycanadianguy]

She looks quite blissful.;)

Amen. Just look at her grinding her beautiful hips into that hard cock to earn herself a hot sticky and delicious treat.

[crosstown]

If this had been asked of me a year ago I would not have had a clue. Now I would say most decidedly yes. But interestingly - and I'd agree with some earlier posts - it's the pain that seems to make it. The initial penetration - the tension and release - the way the sphincter grabs the entering cock; the submission, the thrusting, the extraordinary sensations through the prostate and up through the cock. Even if I don't cum (which is rare) it's a blast.

[Smoothie]

Very pleasurable, but also very painful at first. After the proper training, of course it is desired.
Anal sex is the best, but isn't the pain part of the fun? It hurts sure, but that makes it interesting. The pain at first really adds to the fun.

[knewbi]

I wouldn't know the answer here. Since I am very tight and the 2 guys that tried were not really into preparing me for it they never got in. I'd think a little massaging and working it would help. I intend to find out some day... It just looks like so much fun!!!

[mmmfajitas]

As long as you prep right. Prostate = pleasure city. Nothing like it.

It's a slippery slope though. Once you start you may never want to go back. :coupling:

[georgedemesa]

yes its pleasurable my girlfriend tongue fuck me i really love it .next time i will let a shemale fuck me

[TSloverboid]

It depends on whose giving it. It's been pleasurable for me, and painful. I had anal performed on me the other day, and it was the sweetest ever. The first time hurt, as I was inexperienced and she used little lube.

[Elonar]

Of course it is. You've just got to find the right stimuli, right depth, and thickness. We've all got just the right nerve endings and pressure sensors for anal pleasure, it's just a question of taking one's time finding out, and being kind to oneself. Giving yourself up to lust immediately is a bad idea, relaxation and patience is the key. Different occasions also yield different pleasure results as well.

I tend to avoid receiving anal sex from a partner as it's extremely difficult to get across to him / her just what you need at a particular moment in time.

But help yourself, it's a whole world of sexual delight which must be explored

:yes: Oh :yes:

[curiousguy]

ive been wondering how to avoid pain with anal sex, any suggestions?

[gurllooking]

When I am being fucked in my ass I am a bedroom whore. I love the joy of love making when I am the one receiving. It never hurt the first time and its been pure pleasure for me. I only have sex with shemales.:coupling:

[rjm1971]

I have never had anal sex. Well yet, but I have played with my wife's anal plug that vibrates. I will say I have the most incredible orgasms when I use it and masturbate. it's intense. At first, it was tight, of-course, but once it's inside, wow!.

[richfun]

My GF and are going to try this, I mean she using a strap on on me !
So really big thanks for what written. We will see how it goes, but we love each other so it will be done gently and lovingly. I am very excited xx

[sweatylolly]

Lately I've really felt the urge to be passive and let someone screw me! But as a virgin (to anal sex), I might stick to practicing with a small dildo & lots of lube (gotta get some practice in for the big day:yes:).

[OyeRed]

Sometimes it can be a bit painful but it is always enjoyable for me.

[Melissa Pink]

ive been wondering how to avoid pain with anal sex, any suggestions?

This is my opinion as a t-girl that has been having anal regularly for about five years. Besides having a partner who is STD, HIV and otherwise trustworthy the most import thing regarding anal sex is preparing your tush for receiving a cock. I diddled my ass for years with various toys and objects before I attempted the real thing.

The first thing you want to do is make sure your rectum is empty before engaging in anal play by yourself or with a partner. I know this aspect isn't for the squeemish, but it's reality. I eat a high fiber diet which is a good idea for anyone but particularly anyone that wants to enjoy anal play. I don't think it's neccessary to do enemas before anal play but I usually cleanse my ass with an anal douche I bought on line. This is especially important if you become a "Size Queen" like me and develop a penchant for big black cocks! If you take a 9" cock balls deep in your ass you had better be clean "down there" of the results are pretty yucky!

Start by getting comfortable fingering your ass and exploring it gently with a lot of lube. I suggest purchasing an "anal trainer kit". It consists of a small, medium and large butt plug to train your tush for accomodating a dildo or a cock. I purchased one at the recommendation of Mandy Mitchell when I decided to date a partner with a large cock. Mandy correctly stated that it would "help stretch me out down there" I generally use the medium size to "prep" my tush for anal sex. I want to remain tight for my partner but not feel like they are going to "split me like a log" when they slide their cock inside me. If I'm feel horny before I go out for the evening I prepare my body for anal in the shower and insert a butt plug before going out for the evening. I also have an "anal jewel" which is a stainless steel butt plug that features a green rhinestone that protrudes from my puckered ass. I like to surprise new partners with it. When I'm buns up and they work there tongue between my cheeks they get quite a surprise! Yes, I know I'm kinky .

Dildoes are a lot of fun and come in a variety of sizes. My favorite is an 8" latex brown cock with a set of balls. They are fun for solo play or with a partner(s) Jelly dildoes are hot too but don't look as realistic and seem to be harder to clean. It is a must to clean your toys with hot water and soap after use. I generally use condoms on my toys and always if I am playing with partner(s). Toys are a lot of fun and can enhance anyone's sex life! The choice is up to you and your preferences.

Once you decide to let someone butt fuck you prepare your ass with a good cleansing and shower before you have sex. Don't eat anything that will give you gas either! LOL! Farting is natural sometimes when your parther is really giving it to you but there is no reason to encourage it unless that is your thing! I usually squirt a liberal amount of Astroglide in my asshole unless I know my partner is going to rim me. In that case I have some flavored water based lubes that I enjoy.

I recommend straddling your partner at first. That way you can control how much of his cock enters your asshole. When you begin anal session your partner has to take it slow and so do you! Make sure he's wearing a condom and use a plently of good lubricant like astroglide. Take his cock head in your hand and push it gently into your bum. Bare down on it like you are pooping. This action helps relax your sphincter ease down on his cock slowly and it should slide painlessly into your derriere. Just remember to take it slow! Most guy's cocks are around 6" or so I wouldn't recommend taking on some hung stud for your first anal experience. There will be time for that later!

Once your ass is accostomed to having a cock inside it you can begin to ride your partner and move up and down. The rythym of his cock sliding in and out of you is very stimulating you might get a raging hard on and or ejaculate while your fucking him. This is natural and part of the pleasure. Once you are used to the idea of a cock in your ass you can switch positions. Whenever you switch positions check his condom to make certain that it's in place and hasn't torn.

I recommend trying doggy or lying on your back. Doggy is good if you really want your partner to give you an incredible fuck and you should most assuredly get a total body orgasm. Also try "reverse cowgirl" like in the photo. It will give his cock a different angle inside you ass making for a different sensation for both of you. Once you experience your first anal orgasm you'll discover a whole new aspect of your sexuality. Good luck and let me know if this helps.

Have fun!

[Demi]

Sheer pleasure! The best part is when youl cum without touching yourself... handsfree;) Guess its time to get some:blush:

[ILoveTgirls]

I have been fucked in the ass many times. I wish I had been doing it when I was a teenager but first did it when I was in my 20s. Best experience ever. I get off more being a bottom than being a top. That's just me. But I will also please any tgirl that wishes it. But man! Receiving a nice cock in my ass is just heaven! :)

[sailove]

I will give my ass up to any girlie cock if thats what she wants, but I perfer to please her orally !

[smooth]

two words for you JUNGLE JUICE http://www.powerpoppers.com/jungle_juice_poppers.shtml

[aguy]

I think it's been answered many times before but let's give it away one more time:That depends.

Not enough lubrication,tension,clumsy partner,lack of experience,big cock and anxiety can make it hurt.

Lube your hole,relax,tell your partner to take it easy and if it still hurts just take it in slowly.

Doesn't matter if you can't take a cock all the way in,that comes naturally after a while.It takes patience at first but your hole will eventually relax.

If your partner has a big dick practice with dildos first to stretch the hole.It's THAT simple!

[nixgehtueber69]

With the right partner and the right cock its pure pleasure and the best orgasm you can get. I love that feeling and cant get enough.

[aidyen]

I've no experience with a "living" penis, but my girlfriend does me from the back with a strap-on and I use dildo from time to time. What I can tell that the length is not that important, the width (girth) is very important. But the most important thing is the prior to the whole thing, you have to be relaxed and it has to start slowly. And of course the lube. After a bit of starting thrusts, I can only feel pleasure, yet to have orgasm because of that (we've only started pegging just now), but it's great

[DownDown]

Oh yes it is, i really enjoy the feeling of being fucked by a big dildo, so intense. It's reallly a different way to feel pleasure for a guy, and its really turn me on :drool:

[Nadlong]

If adequate amount of lube is used then it shudnt be painful.. But it depends upon how tight ua anal spinc n mscls are.. As for me d nly time i felt pain ws on acc of lack of lube.. Apart fr dt.. Js cant get enuf


This is my opinion as a t-girl that has been having anal regularly for about five years. Besides having a partner who is STD, HIV and otherwise trustworthy the most import thing regarding anal sex is preparing your tush for receiving a cock. I diddled my ass for years with various toys and objects before I attempted the real thing.

The first thing you want to do is make sure your rectum is empty before engaging in anal play by yourself or with a partner. I know this aspect isn't for the squeemish, but it's reality. I eat a high fiber diet which is a good idea for anyone but particularly anyone that wants to enjoy anal play. I don't think it's neccessary to do enemas before anal play but I usually cleanse my ass with an anal douche I bought on line. This is especially important if you become a "Size Queen" like me and develop a penchant for big black cocks! If you take a 9" cock balls deep in your ass you had better be clean "down there" of the results are pretty yucky!

Start by getting comfortable fingering your ass and exploring it gently with a lot of lube. I suggest purchasing an "anal trainer kit". It consists of a small, medium and large butt plug to train your tush for accomodating a dildo or a cock. I purchased one at the recommendation of Mandy Mitchell when I decided to date a partner with a large cock. Mandy correctly stated that it would "help stretch me out down there" I generally use the medium size to "prep" my tush for anal sex. I want to remain tight for my partner but not feel like they are going to "split me like a log" when they slide their cock inside me. If I'm feel horny before I go out for the evening I prepare my body for anal in the shower and insert a butt plug before going out for the evening. I also have an "anal jewel" which is a stainless steel butt plug that features a green rhinestone that protrudes from my puckered ass. I like to surprise new partners with it. When I'm buns up and they work there tongue between my cheeks they get quite a surprise! Yes, I know I'm kinky .

Dildoes are a lot of fun and come in a variety of sizes. My favorite is an 8" latex brown cock with a set of balls. They are fun for solo play or with a partner(s) Jelly dildoes are hot too but don't look as realistic and seem to be harder to clean. It is a must to clean your toys with hot water and soap after use. I generally use condoms on my toys and always if I am playing with partner(s). Toys are a lot of fun and can enhance anyone's sex life! The choice is up to you and your preferences.

Once you decide to let someone butt fuck you prepare your ass with a good cleansing and shower before you have sex. Don't eat anything that will give you gas either! LOL! Farting is natural sometimes when your parther is really giving it to you but there is no reason to encourage it unless that is your thing! I usually squirt a liberal amount of Astroglide in my asshole unless I know my partner is going to rim me. In that case I have some flavored water based lubes that I enjoy.

I recommend straddling your partner at first. That way you can control how much of his cock enters your asshole. When you begin anal session your partner has to take it slow and so do you! Make sure he's wearing a condom and use a plently of good lubricant like astroglide. Take his cock head in your hand and push it gently into your bum. Bare down on it like you are pooping. This action helps relax your sphincter ease down on his cock slowly and it should slide painlessly into your derriere. Just remember to take it slow! Most guy's cocks are around 6" or so I wouldn't recommend taking on some hung stud for your first anal experience. There will be time for that later!

Once your ass is accostomed to having a cock inside it you can begin to ride your partner and move up and down. The rythym of his cock sliding in and out of you is very stimulating you might get a raging hard on and or ejaculate while your fucking him. This is natural and part of the pleasure. Once you are used to the idea of a cock in your ass you can switch positions. Whenever you switch positions check his condom to make certain that it's in place and hasn't torn.

I recommend trying doggy or lying on your back. Doggy is good if you really want your partner to give you an incredible fuck and you should most assuredly get a total body orgasm. Also try "reverse cowgirl" like in the photo. It will give his cock a different angle inside you ass making for a different sensation for both of you. Once you experience your first anal orgasm you'll discover a whole new aspect of your sexuality. Good luck and let me know if this helps.

Have fun!
Now dats some thrilling ideas.. Wantd to kno in ua years of experience if you found one particular type of position to be the most stimulating & which resulted in a handsfree prostate orgasm? Or if you exp orgasm faster ??

[Thundergasm]

For me....I've not been with a real one, but my wife uses a good sized strapon. I'll be honest and say I don't usually last to long. The orgasms come quick and are very intense. Easily the most intense and best I have.

[Nadlong]

jus came bk frm an anal session.. :yes:cowgirl has bcm my favorite.. He drilled me without touching my cock..:drool:.. n neither did i touch it.. I jus let it hang out n in a semi errection, i wanted the anal feel more.. ;).. Seems lk d pain side is getting lesser.. Im learning..

[Melissa Pink]

If adequate amount of lube is used then it shudnt be painful.. But it depends upon how tight ua anal spinc n mscls are.. As for me d nly time i felt pain ws on acc of lack of lube.. Apart fr dt.. Js cant get enuf



Now dats some thrilling ideas.. Wantd to kno in ua years of experience if you found one particular type of position to be the most stimulating & which resulted in a handsfree prostate orgasm? Or if you exp orgasm faster ??

As stated in my original post:

"I recommend trying doggy or lying on your back. Doggy is good if you really want your partner to give you an incredible fuck and you should most assuredly get a total body orgasm. Also try "reverse cowgirl" like in the photo. It will give his cock a different angle inside you ass making for a different sensation for both of you. Once you experience your first anal orgasm you'll discover a whole new aspect of your sexuality. Good luck and let me know if this helps."

[filbert snerd]

pain? only if a cock exceeds your capacity, then the pain hopefully turns to pleasure as the lubed penetration continues - if the cock is normal sized there is no pain or almost none - lube is important for entry and for long sessions -cheap lubes dry out quickly - if your anus is small or normal, it should be gently widened by using a butt plug previous to penetration, an 8 inch dildo inserted slowly after a 20 minute stretch should fit comfortably and assure you that adequate douching has made you totally clean - get fucked as life is short and pleasure is a release

[LuvTSLB]

This is a question that is bugging me. Does the ladyboy at the receiving end really get any pleasure from anal sex? Is it physical pleasure or mental satisfaction?:confused:

Have to say BOTH (Physical and Mental pleasure)

There is some pain at first, but turns to pleasure / Bliss after :turnon:

Puts Lots of Lube at the tunnel, then drive up the Hershey Highway :coupling: :cool:

[no1000]

I just got fucked the other day. OMG it was amazing. Smallish to medium sized and it was just perfect. I even cummed without ever touching my dick. First time ever. I'm almost considering buying a toy :)

[ila]

It is intensely pleasurable. I'd far rather be on the receiving end than the giving end. I've taken many cocks from small to quite large and I've never felt any pain or discomfort. It is important to feel comfortable with your partner and be relaxed. Contrary to some opinions expressed a great amount of lubrication is not necessary.

The most pleasurable experiences I've had have all been bareback (not recommended unless you know for sure that your partner is 100% STI/STD free).

[Athame]

Contrary to some opinions expressed a great amount of lubrication is not necessary.


Agree :yes:

[jsoze2288]

I have to agree, I enjoy anal from a medium sized cock, it's such a natural euphoric feeling that will take you to another level. I will cum without him touching my cock at all. Recommend knowing for sure he is disease/std free. I only let 1 guy fuck me who is std free I'll let him cum in me which is a whole other feeling.

[testbed]

It is incredibly pleasurable. For me there's nothing that can beat the feeling of a hard cock sliding in and out my bum. I've not wanted to quit ever since my very first time and I'll keep doing it for as long as I can.