Marriage and Life

[Alan469]

What are the long-term views of shemales? Do you hope to be married to a loving partner and is that partner M, F, or TS? There are states in the U.S. that have same-sex marriage and probably more will be added over time. Do you think about the future and what your possibilities might be? The questions are meant to get you to think about your future happiness. Right now, it might be all party and fuck fests, but do you think that will last forever? These questions are posed for you by a man who loves you all and cares about you. :inlove::hug::heart:

[smc]

What are the long-term views of shemales? Do you hope to be married to a loving partner and is that partner M, F, or TS? There are states in the U.S. that have same-sex marriage and probably more will be added over time. Do you think about the future and what your possibilities might be? The questions are meant to get you to think about your future happiness. Right now, it might be all party and fuck fests, but do you think that will last forever? These questions are posed for you by a man who loves you all and cares about you. :inlove::hug::heart:

There are numerous threads and posts devoted to these questions. I suggest you do some searching.

I must say that I find it a bit a bit offensive that you wrote: "Right now, it might be all party and fuck fests, but do you think that will last forever."

I am reasonably sure that it is not your intent, but to write such a statement presumes that transwomen are all inordinately sexual (compared to the rest of the population, for whom parties and fuckfests are certainly not a daily occurrence), or that they are involved in the porn industry. This is more proof of how important it is to weigh our words carefully.

Many of the transwomen who are members here have posted time and again that this kind of stereotypical view of them is disturbing and simply wrong.

[transjen]

Keep in mind every Tgirl is different and just like asking any bunch of girls these questions you'll get answers covering all areas
But a Tgirl wants love too
I would love to find Mr Right and walk down the ahile and since i'm post-op marring a man is not considered a same sex marriage
Keep in mind i'm only speaking for myself
:innocent: Santa's naughty elf Jen

[ThirdEyeGirl]

I must say that I find it a bit offensive that you wrote: "Right now, it might be all party and fuck fests, but do you think that will last forever."

I am reasonably sure that it is not your intent, but to write such a statement presumes that transwomen are all inordinately sexual (compared to the rest of the population, for whom parties and fuckfests are certainly not a daily occurrence), or that they are involved in the porn industry. This is more proof of how important it is to weigh our words carefully.

Many of the transwomen who are members here have posted time and again that this kind of stereotypical view of them is disturbing and simply wrong.

Well put SMC. Really couldn't have put it better myself. :hug:

But of course I want to find love. That's pretty much all I've wanted for a long time now. The problem is that way to many men don't view us as possible marriage material. But as Jenn has put. Trans women need love too.

As for who I'll love. I really don't know. I'm bi so that person could be a man or a woman.

[sosed]

Of course it all depends on every individual himself / herself what he / she wish and want in his / her life. But in general transwoman is human being as well as genetic man or genetic woman, so she as any human being need to love and to be loved, to be safe, to have friends, partner and family, to have someone who cares for her.

[shadows]

I truly hope that everyone who has posted in this thread finds true love and if they desire it, a long and wonderful marriage. If I can ever find the right woman, I would gladly marry her.:)

Any takers?:blush:

[fouteur]

For 3 years now I am with the same girl, first flirting, then falling in love, and now living together. In May of next year we will marry in Belgium.
A ladyboy is like a "nomal" girl, with the same dreams and expectations. At least, my partner is.
So my wishes for 2012: may you all find true love and happiness with a lovely girl!

[smc]

For 3 years now I am with the same girl, first flirting, then falling in love, and now living together. In May of next year we will marry in Belgium.
A ladyboy is like a "nomal" girl, with the same dreams and expectations. At least, my partner is.
So my wishes for 2012: may you all find true love and happiness with a lovely girl!

Congratulations to you. I wish you the same love and happiness you wish for the rest of us.

While your partner may be okay with the way you have used the word "normal" here, I know many transwomen who would not ... and I urge you not to post in that way here. :respect:

[tslust]

Right now, it might be all party and fuck fests, but do you think that will last forever?
Those days are pretty much behind me. Things like job and responsibility kinda put sex parties on the back burner.:( Also, I've kinda moved past trying to ride;) every jock I meet. I like to get to know the guy now.
But of course I want to find love. That's pretty much all I've wanted for a long time now. The problem is that way to many men don't view us as possible marriage material. But as Jenn has put. Trans women need love too.


:respect:Most guys see me not as marrage material, rather they see me as some kind of sex toy. I have learned to accept that, and I love using them to scratch that special itch:innocent::rolleyes:. However, at the same time, I want more.

[ThirdEyeGirl]

:respect:Most guys see me not as marrage material, rather they see me as some kind of sex toy. I have learned to accept that, and I love using them to scratch that special itch:innocent::rolleyes:. However, at the same time, I want more.

Yeah most guys view me the same way, but I won't accept that. I'd rather not get laid at all (witch is what happens more often than not) than be with someone who just wants to use me for sex. :/

[tslust]

Yeah most guys view me the same way, but I won't accept that. I'd rather not get laid at all (witch is what happens more often than not) than be with someone who just wants to use me for sex. :/

I know what you mean. Accepted wasn't the right word. It usually doesn't get to me. Butt if the guy is a total jerk, I'd rather just play with my toys;), at least they don't have an ego or an attitude.

[ThirdEyeGirl]

I know what you mean. Accepted wasn't the right word. It usually doesn't get to me. Butt if the guy is a total jerk, I'd rather just play with my toys;), at least they don't have an ego or an attitude.

Yep... To bad my toys don't scratch my itch to well. :/

[shadows]

I know what you mean. Accepted wasn't the right word. It usually doesn't get to me. Butt if the guy is a total jerk, I'd rather just play with my toys;), at least they don't have an ego or an attitude.

And they won't fart or scratch their privates.;):lol:

[ThirdEyeGirl]

Yep... To bad my toys don't scratch my itch to well. :/

Consider my itch scratched. Hopefully more than once. I like him. :inlove:

[JodieTs]

My man wants to marry me,
but he can do better.
(with someone whose warranty hasn't expired)

[ThirdEyeGirl]

My man wants to marry me,
but he can do better.
(with someone whose warranty hasn't expired)

Jodie, don't say that about your self. Just because the warranty has expired doesn't mean your going to break down anytime soon. That is unless you were made at Microsoft. Please tell me you weren't. Cause if you were you need to be replaced immediately. :p

[smc]

Jodie, don't say that about your self. Just because the warranty has expired doesn't mean your going to break down anytime soon. That is unless you were made at Microsoft. Please tell me you weren't. Cause if you were you need to be replaced immediately. :p

This is incorrect. There is no correlation between the warranty and a Microsoft product breaking down. In fact, a Microsoft product is more likely to break down well before the warranty expires.

Jodie, on the other hand ... well, ask her about the warranty on that man she mentions! ;)

[ThirdEyeGirl]

This is incorrect. There is no correlation between the warranty and a Microsoft product breaking down. In fact, a Microsoft product is more likely to break down well before the warranty expires.

I beg to differ. I have had three xbox 360s and all broke down after the warranty, other than the first that did break down during the warranty time. :p

Jodie. If you want to marry the guy, I say do it! :)

[smc]

I beg to differ. I have had three xbox 360s and all broke down after the warranty, other than the first that did break down during the warranty time. :p

Jodie. If you want to marry the guy, I say do it! :)

Remember the guy in the other thread who determined that because he had never met a transwoman in Scotland it must be impossible to find any there, and that they most likely don't exist.

Now, are you going to dispute the data about the crappiness of Microsoft products generally based on your inexplicable luck with three items? ;)

(Of course, your original statement only said Microsoft "products," and the evidence is that among ALL Microsoft products the Xbox has a longer shelf life than is typically associated with Microsoft crap.)

Now, back to this thread's topic.

Jodie, having chatted with you when he is in the room -- which thus makes me an expert on he whose name I shall not reveal -- I say follow the advice ThirdEyeGirl has just given you. Just make sure he moves you out of dreary England to that paradise where he usually lives. :yes:

[ThirdEyeGirl]

Remember the guy in the other thread who determined that because he had never met a transwoman in Scotland it must be impossible to find any there, and that they most likely don't exist.

Now, are you going to dispute the data about the crappiness of Microsoft products generally based on your inexplicable luck with three items? ;)

(Of course, your original statement only said Microsoft "products," and the evidence is that among ALL Microsoft products the Xbox has a longer shelf life than is typically associated with Microsoft crap.)

Yes but my personal experiences are like science. Just kidding. :p

Now, back to this thread's topic.

Jodie, having chatted with you when he is in the room -- which thus makes me an expert on he whose name I shall not reveal -- I say follow the advice ThirdEyeGirl has just given you. Just make sure he moves you out of dreary England to that paradise where he usually lives. :yes:

If he lives in paradise girl... Than what are you waiting for? Jump on that girl! That is of course if your answer to my previous question is yes. :p

[no1000]

Love exists in any way, shape and form. :respect:

[tslust]

Consider my itch scratched. Hopefully more than once. I like him. :inlove:

:hug:Congrats Is he a keeper?:hug:

[shadows]

Consider my itch scratched. Hopefully more than once. I like him. :inlove:

I sincerely hope that it works out for you.:)

[shadows]

My man wants to marry me,
but he can do better.
(with someone whose warranty hasn't expired)

You shouldn't sell yourself so short, Misha. You have many good qualities, and your warranty is far from expired.:)

[ThirdEyeGirl]

:hug:Congrats Is he a keeper?:hug:

Yes, he's a keeper. :drool:

I sincerely hope that it works out for you.:)

Thank your. :)

[shadows]

Thank your. :)

You're welcome.:)

[franalexes]

Keep in mind every Tgirl is different and just like asking any bunch of girls these questions you'll get answers covering all areas
But a Tgirl wants love too
I would love to find Mr Right and walk down the ahile and since i'm post-op marring a man is not considered a same sex marriage
Keep in mind i'm only speaking for myself
:innocent: Santa's naughty elf Jen

Do not feel that you have to make love to me, but rather that you have to make me feel loved.

Where has that guide gotten me? Well, I've kissed a lot of toads.:frown:

[zag]

smc you've got me all wrong I was making a joke nothing more,it seems you've got your knickers in a twist over it so I'll apologise.I know for a fact there are transsexuals in Scotland having met a few in the past but I have no interest in meeting any as I'm more than happy with my beautiful loving filipina partner,also I partly agree to the argument you raise on the other post but I personally don't think everything is as uniform as you suggest.

anyway back to the op,for a start I would never refer to my partner as a "shemale" I find that a derogatory term along with "tranny",It maybe just me but I wouldn't like to feel that I've been disrespectful or insulting.The partying and fuckfest line seems to indicate a certain lifestyle which is alien to my own so I can't compare.I'm not having a go at anyone who does lead that sort of life but it's not for me.As for long term relationships and marriage if you meet the right person you won't have to ask any questions.

@TirdEyeGirl agreed the xbox 360 is the best most unreliable piece of gaming hardware ever built,in my house alone we've gone through 6 and if mine red ringed tomorrow I would have have a new black one straight away.

[smc]

smc you've got me all wrong I was making a joke nothing more,it seems you've got your knickers in a twist over it so I'll apologise.

First of all, I don't have my "knickers in a twist." We have endured endless posts from people who say there are no transsexuals in this or that place. I'm weary of it. That's all.

As for an apology, well ... that's not necessary. But I feel compelled to point out that apologizing BECAUSE someone reacted is a politician's apology, not a real apology. If you want to apologize, do so for making the wrong statement, not because of how I took it.

[ThirdEyeGirl]

First of all, I don't have my "knickers in a twist." We have endured endless posts from people who say there are no transsexuals in this or that place. I'm weary of it. That's all.

As for an apology, well ... that's not necessary. But I feel compelled to point out that apologizing BECAUSE someone reacted is a politician's apology, not a real apology. If you want to apologize, do so for making the wrong statement, not because of how I took it.

Well in his defense, it is quite difficult to gauge someones intent through text. It's easy to misconstrued the writers intent. As you well know. :p

Though you are right, that is a politicians apology. :yes:

[tslust]

Well, I've kissed a lot of toads.:frown:

But not many turn into a prince.:(